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Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by gaspology(m): 5:36pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozross:Such cheeky reply. You ladies forget that marriage was contemplated originally to help the female. Now, most of you sit back and expect a man to work his ass off. Very soon na to just show seed and go. Then una eyes go clear |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by babyfaceafrica: 5:36pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozross: Are you a kid, why should he break it down for you? |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Raychee(f): 5:36pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Nobody's going to give you a breakdown because the wants, needs and unknown factors for every family is different. A family can survive on 100k or less monthly. Their standard of living might not be ideal to you but it doesn't mean it's not possible. 4 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Dapson73(m): 5:36pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozross: Peace is never an option either. |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by babyfaceafrica: 5:36pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozross: You are here for trouble, stop capping 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:36pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
PlayMaker14: Stop being unrealistic, your 92K can't do anything. For example, I tell you I want to make my hair and I need 10-15k, would you count that as "ridiculous demands"? |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Ogunleti01: 5:37pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozross:Toor till the dude work his ass out to early grave. God forbid that one woman would constitute herself to be a liability to me. I give , you supplement. Nibo losi ti n bo 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by TheDemola: 5:37pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozross: I have read through this thread and all I see is that you're just trying to be smart and maybe, spring up unnecessary arguments. Do you buy clothes or pay rent every month? Most things that should be of concern are transportation, feeding and utility and someone who is a realist will not live above his means. I was earning 22k when I married in 2010. Today, I earn more. Imagine if I had waited till now, I would probably be training my children in school even after retirement. So it's all about cutting your clothes according to your coat. People who are earning more or less will not come in here and be telling you how they do it. It is you who will give yourself brain and know if you can do it or not. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by bigiyaro(m): 5:37pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Marriage is not a poverty rescue program, it's a 50-50 thing. You are here calculating someone's else's salary.....what stops you from calculating your own? |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by hedonido: 5:38pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozross: You're obviously stupid or deluded. There's no objective reality. Let's say you earn N2m a month and that's why you think you've arrived and then you're wondering how guys who earn N100k do it. But you are probably not aware that lots of guys spend that 2m weekly on frivolities alone. The objective truth is that the majority of Nigerians don't earn up to N100, 000 a month, including the parents of the girls you're foolishly 'empathising' with. Enjoy your narrow realm quietly and don't ask stupid 'general' questions on a public forum, based on very myopic assumptions. If I spend averagely N500k a week on jaiye jaiye - drinks, chops, women, etc. It doesn't mean I don't know that I'm actually not the average Nigerian. I wouldn't come here to ask stupid questions that only provoke, irritate and demean the vast majority of regular people. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by jclassiq(m): 5:38pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Ebubu9: This is unnecessary comrade. |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Jflex07(m): 5:38pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
NigeriaB:I thought as much. That's terrible! 1 Like |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Bmaster(m): 5:38pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
VeryWickedMan:u are very wicked indeed Chaii,chineke eeee |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by ab1x: 5:38pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Mjshexy: Someone suggested that they can cope if they stay in a bush or forest |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by jojothaiv(m): 5:38pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Tallesty1:I know her next response... |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by BoboKush(m): 5:39pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozross: because u r nt making sense Ntn to break down to u Its abt relationship Union of two people Why should the resource be judged on one person income?? Exactly How can they cope on 100k make them break m down for u The breakdown is the other gender offers her own support to the 100k and its enough to survive 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Nasri100(m): 5:39pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
boom99: In tears reading comments. Surely Nigeria has gone to the dogs. Plus the N100k and N300k that is less Than ONE THOUSAND FREAKING $/£ Omo! People are really trying sha. Especially with the mad inflation rocking Buhari’s lab project. I wish everyone success in their life endeavors. If you want to setttle in Nigeria, Please try to earn a lot of money before you start having kids and etc so you can enjoy your life and make good choices. Also be with a woman that is ambitious and also working. Very important! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by DPlanB1(m): 5:39pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
I paid a brother of mine a visit this afternoon and I must confess the young man is doing well despite having 6 soldiers to feed (kids) funny enough his salary is slightly above 100k Your mindset as a man and the understanding of the woman plays an important role in rising ur family 100m monthly may not sustain a family if wisdom is not applied May God see us thru 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by sageer1706(m): 5:39pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Well I don't know which state u reside but down here north (Sokoto especially) 100k is more than enough to settle down (marry), coz of the less expensive cost of leaving 1 Like |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by brain247(m): 5:39pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozross:Now listen,there are so many men out there that are earning way below 100k and they are happily married. You just have to live and plan with your income,first you live in an affordable house,that you can afford to pay the rent,and also put your kids in a school that you can afford. It's simple as that 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by CaptMarvel(m): 5:40pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozross:Any woman that solely thinks on what the man brings does not go far in life. The world has changed! Wake up. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Xedmark: 5:40pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
This is really crazy. Exactly why I hardly will come to this section for any reason. Money is important we all know that but once the basis for a relationship or marriage is money, trust me that marriage is heading towards destruction. When two come together and honestly open up about their finance without forming or expressing ego of any kind, the last thing will be who is bringing what to the table. We will spend whatever we both have. Ladies should be able to take care of themselves even before marriage so that both parties atleast have something to contribute after marriage. Yes a man should provide for his home, but in a home where there's love, the last thing u will think about is the amount a man is bringing to the table. He's bringing something not necessarily how much he's bringing to the table or who's bringing more to the table. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Ungodly: 5:40pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Would I even be surprise if the Op post this with her last 50mb? Nah 1 Like |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by MyParadise(m): 5:40pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozross: Can you at least give us a break down or template of how you want the expense to be listed out? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by shantti(m): 5:41pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozross:But women that bring nothing to the table go far in life bah 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by BoboKush(m): 5:41pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Tallesty1: Bless u |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:41pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozrozz, to answer your question, I think earning 100k and sustaining it within a family boils down to their "standard of living". Your ideal standard of living might be too tasty to another and theirs, too lowly for you. I would also oblige you to stop trying to act surprised. How many citizens in present-day Nigeria earn above 100k? We have more under-earners than high-earners. So, quit pretending like it's something alien. |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Papasmal(m): 5:41pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
The trust is what you earn is not what you spend, Its a mystery because by the time you break down your expenses you'll discovered that what you spent is not what earn. |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by TheDemola: 5:41pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: This is why marriage is difficult. Let's be sincere, were you not making your hair before you married? Why then do you your hubby should give you money for your hairdo? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Viraltrends123: 5:42pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
boom99:Abi naa, anyone that is earning less than 300k per month is trying oooooooo 1 Like |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by ORLAHOLUWA(m): 5:43pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Na this kind trend and fake comments here go person pikin go do Wetin per am Cos y’all living fake live here Bleep Fuk Bleep Fuk Bleep |
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