I’m glad men are enlightened these days, everyone is almost woke at the same time... can’t wait to see what the society looks like in like 5yrs time

Nasri100:
Women getting played by their own game and complaining

I’ll guess by saying this “I honestly feel very sorry for anyone that listens to this kind of self destructing advice” you’re referring to your own advice ...

Babangidayaro:


These men are not lonely because they are not getting sex. Sex is so easy to get when you are a man with a decent job and some disposable cash. Worst case you go to a prostitute.

The truth is that these men are lonely because they do not have soulmates, spouses, wives, girlfriends and meaningful relationships. Please let’s get our facts right.

And I cannot believe you will advise men to just go and make babies with random women. That makes no sense. Do you know this is the beginning of financial ruin for many men? Do you know what this does to the children? Just imagine men going out and making babies all over the place in an already overpopulated world with very limited resources. And then tomorrow we complain about high crime rates, and increase in the number of armed robbers, kidnappers, hired killers, yahoo boys and prostitutes.

I honestly feel very sorry for anyone that listens to this kind of self destructing advice.

chikasnight:
I’ll guess by saying this “I honestly feel very sorry for anyone that listens to this kind of self destructing advice” you’re referring to your own advice ...

What advice have I given?? You must be retarded…

Babangidayaro:


These men are not lonely because they are not getting sex. Sex is so easy to get when you are a man with a decent job and some disposable cash. Worst case you go to a prostitute.

The truth is that these men are lonely because they do not have soulmates, spouses, wives, girlfriends and meaningful relationships. Please let’s get our facts right.

And I cannot believe you will advise men to just go and make babies with random women. That makes no sense. Do you know this is the beginning of financial ruin for many men? Do you know what this does to the children? Just imagine men going out and making babies all over the place in an already overpopulated world with very limited resources. And then tomorrow we complain about high crime rates, and increase in the number of armed robbers, kidnappers, hired killers, yahoo boys and prostitutes.

I honestly feel very sorry for anyone that listens to this kind of self destructing advice.

I actually know one or two guys with multiple babymamas and I don't see them self-destructing... Even the bums with multiple babymamas are not exactly self-destructing, they're what they've always been: bums. Don't mistake Africa for America.

The few guys I know with babymamas are not even suffering,, on the contrary they're the guys who always have someone to call when they need the most and have women who'll drop anything to come to their aid in their hour of need. But let me tell you I know good upstanding gentlemen living their life by the book who don't even have anyone who'll sacrifice for them when they need it the most.
And there's only so much even a true friend can do for you before he cut you off as a liability and face his own problems. How many friends will consistently visit you by your hospital bed till you recover? How many friends will consistently visit you in jail till you get out? Not very many.
You can talk about your own family,, but truth is a lot of guys are not maintaining good family relations and there's plenty of grudges and sibling rivalry between them and their brothers and sisters, and few can count on their own blood in their hour of need. I've seen that shít play out and seen the babymama come through harder for a man than his own family and friends.
If you think I'm talking trash, Here's a sobering fact that a lot of guys will not want to admit: Your own sister, your own blood sister, will be more loyal and do more for her baby's father (married or not) than she'll ever be or do for you. Am I lying?

Now am I promoting immorality and irresponsible behaviour? Maybe. But I'm thinking in terms of self-preservation. I wouldn't want to be a 90 year old man who has no one checking upon him just cause I never had any kids cause I didn't want to overpopulate the world or I didn't want to have kids out of wedlock. Let me tell you, At a certain age it won't matter how you got your children, what will matter will be DO YOU HAVE ANY CHILDREN AT ALL?
A lot of us have uncles etc who have good relationships with their children who they got under suspect circumstances, and at that stage no one is talking about where that kid came from but that the kid is here and they're a blessing.

We can talk about getting married but we know the divorce rate. And honestly speaking if we as the red pill discourage marriage then the more a man needs to have children with different women cause tomorrow is not promised and all the money in the world won't matter in your old age as much as having your own kids (regardless how you got them) be around you.
It may seem like I'm talking a lot of bullshit,,, but men don't have a lot of people to count on. And it will actually be irresponsible of us to let men go into the future without Plan B , especially since we're talking down on marriage.

I don't know man,, but that's the way I see it. It would be nice to hear what other guys think though.

ubunja:
I actually know one or two guys with multiple babymamas and I don't see them self-destructing... Even the bums with multiple babymamas are not exactly self-destructing, they're what they've always been: bums. Don't mistake Africa for America.

The few guys I know with babymamas are not even suffering,, on the contrary they're the guys who always have someone to call when they need the most and have women who'll drop anything to come to their aid in their hour of need. But let me tell you I know good upstanding gentlemen living their life by the book who don't even have anyone who'll sacrifice for them when they need it the most.
And there's only so much even a true friend can do for you before he cut you off as a liability and face his own problems. How many friends will consistently visit you by your hospital bed till you recover? How many friends will consistently visit you in jail till you get out? Not very many.
You can talk about your own family,, but truth is a lot of guys are not maintaining good family relations and there's plenty of grudges and sibling rivalry between them and their brothers and sisters, and few can count on their own blood in their hour of need. I've seen that shít play out and seen the babymama come through harder for a man than his own family and friends.
If you think I'm talking trash, Here's a sobering fact that a lot of guys will not want to admit: Your own sister, your own blood sister, will be more loyal and do more for her baby's father (married or not) than she'll ever be or do for you. Am I lying?

Now am I promoting immorality and irresponsible behaviour? Maybe. But I'm thinking in terms of self-preservation. I wouldn't want to be a 90 year old man who has no one checking upon him just cause I never had any kids cause I didn't want to overpopulate the world or I didn't want to have kids out of wedlock. Let me tell you, At a certain age it won't matter how you got your children, what will matter will be DO YOU HAVE ANY CHILDREN AT ALL?
A lot of us have uncles etc who have good relationships with their children who they got under suspect circumstances, and at that stage no one is talking about where that kid came from but that the kid is here and they're a blessing.

We can talk about getting married but we know the divorce rate. And honestly speaking if we as the red pill discourage marriage then the more a man needs to have children with different women cause tomorrow is not promised and all the money in the world won't matter in your old age as much as having your own kids (regardless how you got them) be around you.
It may seem like I'm talking a lot of bullshit,,, but men don't have a lot of people to count on. And it will actually be irresponsible of us to let men go into the future without Plan B , especially since we're talking down on marriage.

I don't know man,, but that's the way I see it. It would be nice to hear what other guys think though.

well said I learn from you everyday but this essay is deep

Brokeloser:

No they're not the same.Would you rather buy a rickety vehicle made in the 90s or a brand new 2022 suv assuming both are the same price and money is no problem for you.

A virgin is like that new suv.And like all vehicles needs regular maintenance(maintaining frame). Assuming you went for old rickety(retired olosho) you'll have to deal with the fact that those who came before you have damaged several parts,it'll be like literally shooting yourself in the foot.

Remember the fact that you got it brand new doesn't mean you are immune from accidents or theft.But as all things in life it's a risk.For those who intend to marry virginity should be non negotiable.

I fully agree

With a virgin, there are things you don't really worry about

They bond very well
And rearly misbehave sexually unlike all those ones with plenty body count

Talking from experience
Though

RedpillAnalyst:


You said it better People make this mistake and complain later in life. It is not even about virginity or hymen. Men care about this not because they care about bloody intercourse or hymen. It is about self-preservation and trust. A marriage with a virgin has about 80% chance of success and marriage with a [b]female more than 5 bodies has a high failure rate of more than 70%.

People lie, statistics don't lie.
31 percent who lost their virginity as teens divorced within five years, and 47 percent divorced within 10 years. = published in the Journal of Marriage and Family.

It's not even debatable

The difference is too much

With way loseness dey now

Any man wey marry virgin no know wetin he get

Do people even realize the level of whoredom wey dey now

Like one of my married friends said after realizing the kind life chicks live now:
" abi na my fellow men will later marry these ones"

Abeg you can't compare tear rubber to tokunbo
Lai Lai

ashewoboy:



Ubunja says go for a virgin. Na penis dey damage woman. Why does she call out her previous boyfriend's name while you are phvcking her? he performs better than you.

This is no brainier

See
When you be with a woman no Man has ever touched before

The experience is something else
Is it the innocence

There is this peace you get
Abeg leave matter

ubunja:
nice one man,,

actually over population is a hoax used to push different agendas. Numerous studies have showed the world population is infact declining. What's tricking People is that they live in cities and see how everywhere you look it's just people people and more people,, truth is we're not overpopulated, we're just crowded in cities. A trip to the countryside/villages will show you just how empty vast lands are. In certain European countries they're even trying to incentivize people to make babies,, cause everyone's just aborting and aborting. Google "Demographic Winter" for a more indepth look at the world population problem.

It's not coincide that even in the US of A , the land of women's rights, women are actually starting to be denied the right to abort. Cause you can only abort so much until the population and future of a country starts to be in danger. Elon Musk is maybe the most high profile individual who's been speaking on the world population problem so far. In many countries (US included) population is no longer at replacement rates,, the rate of people dying is actually more than the rate of people being born. More people are dying than are being born. And the most obvious problem with this is that in 40/50/60 years there's going to be a very large old age population which can't work and relies on government hand-outs and pensions while everything rests on the shoulders of a very small young working population. That burden they won't be able to carry and the system will crush.

To avert this disaster, many governments in the West, started importing people to boost populations via immigration programs. Previously racist countries that wanted nothing to do with Africans started allowing African immigrants arriving by boats to settle in their lands. It's one of the biggest reasons even America is allowing people to enter via the Mexican border. Its a matter of national survival. Some countries like Japan are already facing extinction in the long term. No Country can long survive if there's more people dying than being born.

I concur

All these over population is a hoax

One report I came across sometime ago that all the humans in the world cannot even fill up the grand canyon

The world is still under populated

And to think women were adept at this before the redpill revolution. These women have been using these dark psychology tricks on men since the late 80s. But the redpill is here to make these ladies subservient to men. And yes, women were created to serve the needs of men.

Nasri100:
Haha just cause men now understand women and choose to deal from a their own stand point = Problem for women

ubunja:
I actually know one or two guys with multiple babymamas and I don't see them self-destructing... Even the bums with multiple babymamas are not exactly self-destructing, they're what they've always been: bums. Don't mistake Africa for America.

The few guys I know with babymamas are not even suffering,, on the contrary they're the guys who always have someone to call when they need the most and have women who'll drop anything to come to their aid in their hour of need. But let me tell you I know good upstanding gentlemen living their life by the book who don't even have anyone who'll sacrifice for them when they need it the most.
And there's only so much even a true friend can do for you before he cut you off as a liability and face his own problems. How many friends will consistently visit you by your hospital bed till you recover? How many friends will consistently visit you in jail till you get out? Not very many.
You can talk about your own family,, but truth is a lot of guys are not maintaining good family relations and there's plenty of grudges and sibling rivalry between them and their brothers and sisters, and few can count on their own blood in their hour of need. I've seen that shít play out and seen the babymama come through harder for a man than his own family and friends.
If you think I'm talking trash, Here's a sobering fact that a lot of guys will not want to admit: Your own sister, your own blood sister, will be more loyal and do more for her baby's father (married or not) than she'll ever be or do for you. Am I lying?

Now am I promoting immorality and irresponsible behaviour? Maybe. But I'm thinking in terms of self-preservation. I wouldn't want to be a 90 year old man who has no one checking upon him just cause I never had any kids cause I didn't want to overpopulate the world or I didn't want to have kids out of wedlock. Let me tell you, At a certain age it won't matter how you got your children, what will matter will be DO YOU HAVE ANY CHILDREN AT ALL?
A lot of us have uncles etc who have good relationships with their children who they got under suspect circumstances, and at that stage no one is talking about where that kid came from but that the kid is here and they're a blessing.

We can talk about getting married but we know the divorce rate. And honestly speaking if we as the red pill discourage marriage then the more a man needs to have children with different women cause tomorrow is not promised and all the money in the world won't matter in your old age as much as having your own kids (regardless how you got them) be around you.
It may seem like I'm talking a lot of bullshit,,, but men don't have a lot of people to count on. And it will actually be irresponsible of us to let men go into the future without Plan B , especially since we're talking down on marriage.

I don't know man,, but that's the way I see it. It would be nice to hear what other guys think though.

1. Most baby mamas will give you hell on earth. It’s not as easy as you make it seem. I know a lot of men that are going through baby mama hell. Trust me they are suffering and regretting.

2. Most baby mamas don’t give a fukk about how you feel or your health. They just want your support money. If they cared so much about you, they will not be your baby mama. This is a fact.

3. Sleeping with your baby mama is as good as sleeping with a prostitute. Lots of diseases.

4. Baby mamas come with lots of baggages especially when they have kids with other men and/or are married/in relationships with other men. You don’t want to be watching your back all the time especially if the man is a bum as you put it.

5. Baby mama children most times are raised by their mothers. Why will they care about you when you are sick or dying in the hospital? Elon Musk, Kanye West, etc have children that they rarely see. Elon’s kids really don’t give two shits about him. You think they will be there when he’s dying in the hospital?

6. Having children does not guarantee that you will not be lonely in old age. Same way not having children does not mean that a man will be lonely in old age. Good health is the key here. A man that ages well and grows old with good health has so many adventures to keep him busy. This could even involve dating women.

7. I maintain that children raised by baby mamas generally don’t turn out right. A lot of negative influences around them. Most children need a father figure who’s consistently in their lives. Fact!

8. A man doesn’t have to be married to be fulfilled in life. Same way a man does not need to have children if he doesn’t want to.

The worst thing a man can do to himself is to go the baby mama way to have children just to avoid being lonely in old age. Recipe for a very stressful life. Know this and know peace.

Babangidayaro:


1. Most baby mamas will give you hell on earth. It’s not as easy as you make it seem. I know a lot of men that are going through baby mama hell. Trust me they are suffering and regretting.

2. Most baby mamas don’t give a fukk about how you feel or your health. They just want your support money. This is a fact.

3. Baby mama children most times are raised by their mothers. Why will they care about you when you are sick or dying in the hospital? Elon Musk, Kanye West, etc have children that they rarely see. Elon’s kids really don’t give two shits about him. You think they will be there when he’s dying in the hospital?

4. Having children does not guarantee that you will not be lonely in old age. Same way not having children does not mean that a man will be lonely in old age. Good health is the key here. A man that ages well and grows old with good health has so many adventures to keep him busy. This could even involve dating women.

5. A man doesn’t have to be married to be fulfilled in life. Same way a man does not need to have children if he doesn’t want to.

The worst thing a man can do to himself is to go the baby mama way to have children just to avoid being lonely in old age. Know this and know peace.

well I can only speak on the babymamas I know, eg my own babymama.

And I'd say it's better to have children who may or may not love you than to have zero children, cause then you definitely know there's no love coming.

No one said you need marriage or children to be fulfilled in life. Go back to my post and you'll see I made no mention of fulfillment. Cause I was talking about those hard times that are inevitably part of life, like illness jail and old age.

ubunja:
I actually know one or two guys with multiple babymamas and I don't see them self-destructing... Even the bums with multiple babymamas are not exactly self-destructing, they're what they've always been: bums. Don't mistake Africa for America.

The few guys I know with babymamas are not even suffering,, on the contrary they're the guys who always have someone to call when they need the most and have women who'll drop anything to come to their aid in their hour of need. But let me tell you I know good upstanding gentlemen living their life by the book who don't even have anyone who'll sacrifice for them when they need it the most.
And there's only so much even a true friend can do for you before he cut you off as a liability and face his own problems. How many friends will consistently visit you by your hospital bed till you recover? How many friends will consistently visit you in jail till you get out? Not very many.
You can talk about your own family,, but truth is a lot of guys are not maintaining good family relations and there's plenty of grudges and sibling rivalry between them and their brothers and sisters, and few can count on their blood in their hour of need. I've seen that shít play out and seen the baby mama come through harder for a man than his own family and friends.
If you think I'm talking trash, Here's a sobering fact that a lot of guys will not want to admit: Your sister, your blood sister, will be more loyal and do more for her baby's father (married or not) than she'll ever be or do for you. Am I lying?

Now am I promoting immorality and irresponsible behavior? Maybe. But I'm thinking in terms of self-preservation. I wouldn't want to be a 90-year-old man who has no one checking upon him just cause I never had any kids cause I didn't want to overpopulate the world or I didn't want to have kids out of wedlock. Let me tell you, At a certain age it won't matter how you got your children, what will matter will be DO YOU HAVE ANY CHILDREN AT ALL?
A lot of us have uncles etc who have good relationships with their children who they got under suspect circumstances, and at that stage, no one is talking about where that kid came from but that the kid is here and they're a blessing.

We can talk about getting married but we know the divorce rate. And honestly speaking if we as the red pill discourage marriage then the more a man needs to have children with different women cause tomorrow is not promised and all the money in the world won't matter in your old age as much as having your kids (regardless how you got them) be around you.
It may seem like I'm talking a lot of bullshit, but men don't have a lot of people to count on. And it will be irresponsible of us to let men go into the future without Plan B, especially since we're talking down on marriage.

I don't know man, but that's the way I see it. It would be nice to hear what other guys think though.

1. It is never a crime to have a harem of women and a battalion of children. At least from a primal basal animalistic instinct, all that matters to species are survival and reproduction.

2. What I'm interested in you have all it takes to maintain that family. Because if you don't, they will turn out to become a problem on your jugulars and those of society.

Genes don't only care about survival and reproduction, their environment must be safe too, else, reproduction and survival will not happen.

3. Redpillers say "make yourself your mental point of origin...put yourself first". Of course, this is right. But life is not black and white, it is full of compromises. It is too complex that you can play by just one rule.

" I don't give an fvck about what society says..."
"I will do as I like..."
"Everything can burn down, I don't care..."

The above statements are words of an ignorant dumb juvenile. Because he or she thinks he alone is free and has the monopoly to act recklessly without concern for society.

Will you feel sad when others hurt you? Will you feel sad when sociopaths and psychopaths decide to take a turn on your flesh? These are where things need to be analyzed when dealing with ourselves and society.

4. And this doesn't mean you must abandon yourself. Putting yourself first means you are aware of the game and how things go and fortify yourself against the negative side of it. Not acting like an unbridled infantile.

5. Whatever your position in life, it has a ripple effect, either good or bad. And you dare not complain when you have never brought anything good to society, or when you have only contributed to its decay.

6. One woman and maybe 3 or 4 kids is already a problem and I wonder why you want many. This of course is not wrong in any way, provided you can cater, control and call the shots and make sure they become reasonable adults. Because if they don't turn out well, they will never even be on your 90th birthday.

7. We are humans. We have higher intelligence than other lower animals, hence, we don't act as brutish as them. Our civilization and theirs differ which is a major common difference that we can't act like them except we want to become like them.

8. The earth and universe are big enough for any man to pursue and achieve his mating rights. I for once have never believed in overpopulation bullish!t. By the way, the billions of humans that are existing today, are like a speck of dust when compared to those that have died. There is overcrowding which is true.
But there are other empty spaces life can start from. However, from an evolutionary point of view, species always gravitate toward the resources center rather than stay in a scarce environment. Except when things become worse, they adapt.

9. Sex seems cheap today because we are living in a sexual world. Hook-up culture has blown away the roof. But is sex cheap? The price of reproduction has never been cheap if we are to look at the essence of sex which is reproduction.

Let's go down the hole a little:

A. In the global north, the government makes sure that its citizens' basic needs are met. But from the latest statistics, sex and fertility are declining. Why?

I. Sexual market deregulation.

II. The claws of feminism in the family law.

III. Woke culture that has emasculated men. And most women are only interested in fvcking masculine men. Promiscuity amongst women is towards 20% of men.

IV. Woke culture which makes women act masculine.

V. Masculinity goes unrewarded.

VI. Sexual relations can now be termed rape, sexual assault, or harassment.

B. In the global South where the economic and political situation is worst, many women will have sex but with fewer men.

So, is sex cheap in Africa, and Nigeria? No. Why?

I. Because the employment rate among men is low. You think of eating before fvcking.

II. They are in an atmosphere where the average citizen lives below $3 daily.

III. Poor nation. They can't pay prostitutes because they have not provided for their basic needs.

IV. Black tax: young men are always taxed by their families to help them in one way or the other.

V. Majority of women are after employed men or men with a good amount of cash.

10. Sex is a basic instinct and the ultimate aim is to reproduce. But an organism will first pursue survival before reproduction.

So, the question is how many men who can't afford their basic needs can afford prostitutes?

I'm using prostitutes because they are the easiest way to have sex than maintaining a short or long-term relationship.

You can now see that the statistics that sex is declining among men in the global North are also true in the global South as a result of different peculiar factors.

11. Until there is a rise of great men and women who will challenge the status quo to ensure that the family law becomes convenient for men to marry, raise a family and have authority; and also to ensure economic prosperity among every citizen, the mess will linger as every one of us takes a bow to our respective graves.

12. And for those who think family doesn't matter or they have traded quality friendship for cheap gains...you are foolish. Family is key, no matter how things turn worst in life, they are the only ones that can still stretch out their hands for help. Try building a good relationship with them. Settle all scores.

Thanks.

DAY 234, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Be brave. Be strong.

CaveAdullam:


1. It is never a crime to have a harem of women and a battalion of children. At least from a primal basal animalistic instinct, all that matters to species are survival and reproduction.

2. What I'm interested in you have all it takes to maintain that family. Because if you don't, they will turn out to become a problem on your jugulars and those of society.

Genes don't only care about survival and reproduction, their environment must be safe too, else, reproduction and survival will not happen.

3. Redpillers say "make yourself your mental point of origin...put yourself first". Of course, this is right. But life is not black and white, it is full of compromises. It is too complex that you can play by just one rule.

" I don't give an fvck about what society says..."
"I will do as I like..."
"Everything can burn down, I don't care..."

The above statements are words of an ignorant dumb juvenile. Because he or she thinks he alone is free and has the monopoly to act recklessly without concern for society.

Will you feel sad when others hurt you? Will you feel sad when sociopaths and psychopaths decide to take a turn on your flesh? These are where things need to be analyzed when dealing with ourselves and society.

4. And this doesn't mean you must abandon yourself. Putting yourself first means you are aware of the game and how things go and fortify yourself against the negative side of it. Not acting like an unbridled infantile.

5. Whatever your position in life, it has a ripple effect, either good or bad. And you dare not complain when you have never brought anything good to society, or when you have only contributed to its decay.

6. One woman and maybe 3 or 4 kids is already a problem and I wonder why you want many. This of course is not wrong in any way, provided you can cater, control and call the shots and make sure they become reasonable adults. Because if they don't turn out well, they will never even be on your 90th birthday.

7. We are humans. We have higher intelligence than other lower animals, hence, we don't act as brutish as them. Our civilization and theirs differ which is a major common difference that we can't act like them except we want to become like them.

8. The earth and universe are big enough for any man to pursue and achieve his mating rights. I for once have never believed in overpopulation bullish!t. By the way, the billions of humans that are existing today, are like a speck of dust when compared to those that have died. There is overcrowding which is true.
But there are other empty spaces life can start from. However, from an evolutionary point of view, species always gravitate toward the resources center rather than stay in a scarce environment. Except when things become worse, they adapt.

9. Sex seems cheap today because we are living in a sexual world. Hook-up culture has blown away the roof. But is sex cheap? The price of reproduction has never been cheap if we are to look at the essence of sex which is reproduction.

Let's go down the hole a little:

A. In the global north, the government makes sure that its citizens' basic needs are met. But from the latest statistics, sex and fertility are declining. Why?

I. Sexual market deregulation.

II. The claws of feminism in the family law.

III. Woke culture that has emasculated men. And most women are only interested in fvcking masculine men. Promiscuity amongst women is towards 20% of men.

IV. Woke culture which makes women act masculine.

V. Masculinity goes unrewarded.

VI. Sexual relations can now be termed rape, sexual assault, or harassment.

B. In the global South where the economic and political situation is worst, many women will have sex but with fewer men.

So, is sex cheap in Africa, and Nigeria? No. Why?

I. Because the employment rate among men is low. You think of eating before fvcking.

II. They are in an atmosphere where the average citizen lives below $3 daily.

III. Poor nation. They can't pay prostitutes because they have not provided for their basic needs.

IV. Black tax: young men are always taxed by their families to help them in one way or the other.

V. Majority of women are after employed men or men with a good amount of cash.

10. Sex is a basic instinct and the ultimate aim is to reproduce. But an organism will first pursue survival before reproduction.

So, the question is how many men who can't afford their basic needs can afford prostitutes?

I'm using prostitutes because they are the easiest way to have sex than maintaining a short or long-term relationship.

You can now see that the statistics that sex is declining among men in the global North are also true in the global South as a result of different peculiar factors.

11. Until there is a rise of great men and women who will challenge the status quo to ensure that the family law becomes convenient for men to marry, raise a family and have authority; and also to ensure economic prosperity among every citizen, the mess will linger as every one of us takes a bow to our respective graves.

12. And for those who think family doesn't matter or they have traded quality friendship for cheap gains...you are foolish. Family is key, no matter how things turn worst in life, they are the only ones that can still stretch out their hands for help. Try building a good relationship with them. Settle all scores.

Thanks.

DAY 234, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Be brave. Be strong.

there has always been this tendency in the red pill to put oneself above your own family and act in a way like one's better off without them, I've never been in favour of that, and I see we are on the same page as your closing statement shows.

But as far as Society VS Individual goes I'll always stand with the individual. And this is not me saying "let the world burn" but I'd be damned if I put the needs of the collective above my own. I'm all about survival,, case in point: Even during the Covid lockdowns I didn't stop working (although this is mostly due to the fact that the industry I'm in is considered essential and no matter what we're always working), still if I had a choice to stay at home and starve all in the name of "slowing the spread" of Covid I'd never in a million years comply. Especially since that command was made by politicians who themselves didn't stop working and stayed able to provide for their own families.

I'm even in South Africa where foreigners are hated and killed but I'd be damned if I go back home and sit and starve,, all in the name of lightening the burden South African society is going through,, They can shout all they want, I'm not going anywhere.

Now does having kids outside wedlock improve Society or not? It doesn't improve Society.
But does having kids out of wedlock improve a man's security in this society?it does increase his security.

So will I imperil myself to see Society succeed? Am I sacrificial lamb?

And I hate how having kids outside wedlock is seen as automatically not taking care of them.

CaveAdullam:


1. It is never a crime to have a harem of women and a battalion of children. At least from a primal basal animalistic instinct, all that matters to species are survival and reproduction.

2. What I'm interested in you have all it takes to maintain that family. Because if you don't, they will turn out to become a problem on your jugulars and those of society.

Genes don't only care about survival and reproduction, their environment must be safe too, else, reproduction and survival will not happen.

3. Redpillers say "make yourself your mental point of origin...put yourself first". Of course, this is right. But life is not black and white, it is full of compromises. It is too complex that you can play by just one rule.

" I don't give an fvck about what society says..."
"I will do as I like..."
"Everything can burn down, I don't care..."

The above statements are words of an ignorant dumb juvenile. Because he or she thinks he alone is free and has the monopoly to act recklessly without concern for society.

Will you feel sad when others hurt you? Will you feel sad when sociopaths and psychopaths decide to take a turn on your flesh? These are where things need to be analyzed when dealing with ourselves and society.

4. And this doesn't mean you must abandon yourself. Putting yourself first means you are aware of the game and how things go and fortify yourself against the negative side of it. Not acting like an unbridled infantile.

5. Whatever your position in life, it has a ripple effect, either good or bad. And you dare not complain when you have never brought anything good to society, or when you have only contributed to its decay.

6. One woman and maybe 3 or 4 kids is already a problem and I wonder why you want many. This of course is not wrong in any way, provided you can cater, control and call the shots and make sure they become reasonable adults. Because if they don't turn out well, they will never even be on your 90th birthday.

7. We are humans. We have higher intelligence than other lower animals, hence, we don't act as brutish as them. Our civilization and theirs differ which is a major common difference that we can't act like them except we want to become like them.

8. The earth and universe are big enough for any man to pursue and achieve his mating rights. I for once have never believed in overpopulation bullish!t. By the way, the billions of humans that are existing today, are like a speck of dust when compared to those that have died. There is overcrowding which is true.
But there are other empty spaces life can start from. However, from an evolutionary point of view, species always gravitate toward the resources center rather than stay in a scarce environment. Except when things become worse, they adapt.

9. Sex seems cheap today because we are living in a sexual world. Hook-up culture has blown away the roof. But is sex cheap? The price of reproduction has never been cheap if we are to look at the essence of sex which is reproduction.

Let's go down the hole a little:

A. In the global north, the government makes sure that its citizens' basic needs are met. But from the latest statistics, sex and fertility are declining. Why?

I. Sexual market deregulation.

II. The claws of feminism in the family law.

III. Woke culture that has emasculated men. And most women are only interested in fvcking masculine men. Promiscuity amongst women is towards 20% of men.

IV. Woke culture which makes women act masculine.

V. Masculinity goes unrewarded.

VI. Sexual relations can now be termed rape, sexual assault, or harassment.

B. In the global South where the economic and political situation is worst, many women will have sex but with fewer men.

So, is sex cheap in Africa, and Nigeria? No. Why?

I. Because the employment rate among men is low. You think of eating before fvcking.

II. They are in an atmosphere where the average citizen lives below $3 daily.

III. Poor nation. They can't pay prostitutes because they have not provided for their basic needs.

IV. Black tax: young men are always taxed by their families to help them in one way or the other.

V. Majority of women are after employed men or men with a good amount of cash.

10. Sex is a basic instinct and the ultimate aim is to reproduce. But an organism will first pursue survival before reproduction.

So, the question is how many men who can't afford their basic needs can afford prostitutes?

I'm using prostitutes because they are the easiest way to have sex than maintaining a short or long-term relationship.

You can now see that the statistics that sex is declining among men in the global North are also true in the global South as a result of different peculiar factors.

11. Until there is a rise of great men and women who will challenge the status quo to ensure that the family law becomes convenient for men to marry, raise a family and have authority; and also to ensure economic prosperity among every citizen, the mess will linger as every one of us takes a bow to our respective graves.

12. And for those who think family doesn't matter or they have traded quality friendship for cheap gains...you are foolish. Family is key, no matter how things turn worst in life, they are the only ones that can still stretch out their hands for help. Try building a good relationship with them. Settle all scores.

Thanks.

DAY 234, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Be brave. Be strong.

well said in the end
We either go the ubunja way or the cave addullam way
Comprising is all that matters
But @cave addullam you are speaking in terms of the greater good

CaveAdullam did you write all this from your head? Wow!

Black tax. So true. Even the little we earn we still gat to give some back to family.

You friend, girlfriend and even your baby mama might run away in you darkest moment but family won't.

CaveAdullam:


1. It is never a crime to have a harem of women and a battalion of children. At least from a primal basal animalistic instinct, all that matters to species are survival and reproduction.

2. What I'm interested in you have all it takes to maintain that family. Because if you don't, they will turn out to become a problem on your jugulars and those of society.

Genes don't only care about survival and reproduction, their environment must be safe too, else, reproduction and survival will not happen.

3. Redpillers say "make yourself your mental point of origin...put yourself first". Of course, this is right. But life is not black and white, it is full of compromises. It is too complex that you can play by just one rule.

" I don't give an fvck about what society says..."
"I will do as I like..."
"Everything can burn down, I don't care..."

The above statements are words of an ignorant dumb juvenile. Because he or she thinks he alone is free and has the monopoly to act recklessly without concern for society.

Will you feel sad when others hurt you? Will you feel sad when sociopaths and psychopaths decide to take a turn on your flesh? These are where things need to be analyzed when dealing with ourselves and society.

4. And this doesn't mean you must abandon yourself. Putting yourself first means you are aware of the game and how things go and fortify yourself against the negative side of it. Not acting like an unbridled infantile.

5. Whatever your position in life, it has a ripple effect, either good or bad. And you dare not complain when you have never brought anything good to society, or when you have only contributed to its decay.

6. One woman and maybe 3 or 4 kids is already a problem and I wonder why you want many. This of course is not wrong in any way, provided you can cater, control and call the shots and make sure they become reasonable adults. Because if they don't turn out well, they will never even be on your 90th birthday.

7. We are humans. We have higher intelligence than other lower animals, hence, we don't act as brutish as them. Our civilization and theirs differ which is a major common difference that we can't act like them except we want to become like them.

8. The earth and universe are big enough for any man to pursue and achieve his mating rights. I for once have never believed in overpopulation bullish!t. By the way, the billions of humans that are existing today, are like a speck of dust when compared to those that have died. There is overcrowding which is true.
But there are other empty spaces life can start from. However, from an evolutionary point of view, species always gravitate toward the resources center rather than stay in a scarce environment. Except when things become worse, they adapt.

9. Sex seems cheap today because we are living in a sexual world. Hook-up culture has blown away the roof. But is sex cheap? The price of reproduction has never been cheap if we are to look at the essence of sex which is reproduction.

Let's go down the hole a little:

A. In the global north, the government makes sure that its citizens' basic needs are met. But from the latest statistics, sex and fertility are declining. Why?

I. Sexual market deregulation.

II. The claws of feminism in the family law.

III. Woke culture that has emasculated men. And most women are only interested in fvcking masculine men. Promiscuity amongst women is towards 20% of men.

IV. Woke culture which makes women act masculine.

V. Masculinity goes unrewarded.

VI. Sexual relations can now be termed rape, sexual assault, or harassment.

B. In the global South where the economic and political situation is worst, many women will have sex but with fewer men.

So, is sex cheap in Africa, and Nigeria? No. Why?

I. Because the employment rate among men is low. You think of eating before fvcking.

II. They are in an atmosphere where the average citizen lives below $3 daily.

III. Poor nation. They can't pay prostitutes because they have not provided for their basic needs.

IV. Black tax: young men are always taxed by their families to help them in one way or the other.

V. Majority of women are after employed men or men with a good amount of cash.

10. Sex is a basic instinct and the ultimate aim is to reproduce. But an organism will first pursue survival before reproduction.

So, the question is how many men who can't afford their basic needs can afford prostitutes?

I'm using prostitutes because they are the easiest way to have sex than maintaining a short or long-term relationship.

You can now see that the statistics that sex is declining among men in the global North are also true in the global South as a result of different peculiar factors.

11. Until there is a rise of great men and women who will challenge the status quo to ensure that the family law becomes convenient for men to marry, raise a family and have authority; and also to ensure economic prosperity among every citizen, the mess will linger as every one of us takes a bow to our respective graves.

12. And for those who think family doesn't matter or they have traded quality friendship for cheap gains...you are foolish. Family is key, no matter how things turn worst in life, they are the only ones that can still stretch out their hands for help. Try building a good relationship with them. Settle all scores.

Thanks.

DAY 234, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Be brave. Be strong.

na the main Koko be this

monerozi5590:
CaveAdullam did you write all this from your head? Wow!

Black tax. So true. Even the little we earn we still gat to give some back to family.

You friend, girlfriend and even your baby mama might run away in you darkest moment but family won't.

the guy dey use juju

As a redpill aware man your ability to walk away is your greatest asset when dealing with women, don't force yourself on women, if she has geniune desire for you, she will comply with your authority and submit, a woman that doesn't respect you will want to control the dynamics of the relationship and force her frame on you.

JESHAL:
As a redpill aware man your ability to walk away is your greatest asset when dealing with women, don't force yourself on women, if she has geniune desire for you, she will comply with your authority and submit, a woman that doesn't respect you will want to control the dynamics of the relationship and force her frame on you.

Yes! The underestimated power that all men must have is the readiness and ability to walk away without it being detrimental to them.

CaveAdullam Ubunja u guys dey Burst my brain.....

I understand both of u........

As for me, I think will go fory own survival

Nasri100:
Haha what is funny about her take is what if that is really reality? What if he is really wanted by other women? What if he doesn’t see much value in you
What if that Nigga just wants his peace. This is coming from women abroad and not in Nigeria.

So in reality Women want men that chase them and simp for them. Once you decide to take the red pill, you become a challenge.

They’re calling it psychological manipulation cos it’s working. It’s scaring them cos it’s mirroring their own psychological manipulations , women Chip in bits of manipulation in every interaction they have with men but they’re scared because they keep falling for the dark triad guys who beat them at their own games LOL

Babangidayaro:


These men are not lonely because they are not getting sex. Sex is so easy to get when you are a man with a decent job and some disposable cash. Worst case you go to a prostitute.

The truth is that these men are lonely because they do not have soulmates, spouses, wives, girlfriends and meaningful relationships. Please let’s get our facts right.

And I cannot believe you will advise men to just go and make babies with random women. That makes no sense. Do you know this is the beginning of financial ruin for many men? Do you know what this does to the children? Just imagine men going out and making babies all over the place in an already overpopulated world with very limited resources. And then tomorrow we complain about high crime rates, and increase in the number of armed robbers, kidnappers, hired killers, yahoo boys and prostitutes.

I honestly feel very sorry for anyone that listens to this kind of self destructing advice.

Ubunja dey tell you something, you dey argue. Go and sit down.

I’m bleeding

Hrhdujdb:


Reopened this account cuz of the urge to share some insight in the thread even though I try to watch on the sidelines

1) This is generally when a woman ties a man down with pregnancy. What Ubunja has always urged is the reverse and that is tying a woman down with pregnancy. It goes as: a woman has feelings for you(and we all know that don't generally last), you can get the maximum from that feeling she has for you by making her committed to you(without actually giving her your full commitment - marriage). Exactly what women do when a man likes em, they don't fully commit to that man while getting the maximum benefits from him

2) That's because you fell for the babymama's game which is tying you down with pregnancy. That way, you become the pawn. If you do (1), that won't be the case because you would be dealing with a woman that wants you. My little knowledge of TRP has shown me that a woman would always loosen up with a man she truly desires.

3) That is sleeping with a babymama that gamed you. In that case, she has people she wants(for different reasons and you're just one of em). I don't think anybody here preaches for being the victim. We preach against that here.

4) Once again, if you're a solid redpiller, you have no business with alpha widows(other niggas babymamas). If she goes on to give birth to kids for another man, you simply let the other man handle the baggages

5) Being a baby daddy doesn't stop you from having something to do in your kid's life

6) It does not but it plays a major part on loneliness

7) Once again, being a baby daddy doesn't stop you from being in your kid's life

TRP preaches for enhancing oneself and one of such ways is by making sure another version of you continue life which is your kids

Basically, operate with a woman that wants you but just like girls play the game of minimum input and maximum output, you shouldn't commit to her(cuz that's the major thing you're bringing to the table) but get every gains you can from her and one of the best ways to do that is planting your seed in her. Personally I believe the best way to play this is impregnating a virgin that has genuine interest in you. The sink cost fallacy would always work for your sake that way

true,, a baby will always be a far bigger commitment for a woman than an actual marriage.

if Sarah agrees to marry me while Cynthia agrees to have my baby, Cynthia is the one who has invested in me more than Sarah. and the fact that every baby Sarah has inside of marriage is assumed to be my baby as her husband, it makes it easy for her to trick me by getting pregnant for another man and passing off that pregnancy as mine.

it's funny how red pill dating coaches in the US are coming out against the Passport bros....
could it be they're protecting their financial interests, since the more men go to Brazil, Colombia etc for women, the less the men will need the coaching sessions of these experts?

Hrhdujdb:


Basically, operate with a woman that wants you but just like girls play the game of minimum input and maximum output, you shouldn't commit to her(cuz that's the major thing you're bringing to the table) but get every gains you can from her and one of the best ways to do that is planting your seed in her. Personally I believe the best way to play this is impregnating a virgin that has genuine interest in you without still committing to her. The sunk cost fallacy would always work for your sake that way

Once you have planted your seed in a woman, 9 out of 10 times you as the man will be responsible for caring for the mother and child. Regardless of if the woman wants you or not. How is that minimum input and maximum output? You are at the losing end of the bargain, whether you like it or not.

You must defer you life goals as a young man and continue to provide financial support to her and mind you, she can choose not to sleep with you if she doesn’t want to. Are you willing to add unnecessary stress to your life just because you want to tie a woman down with a baby? When there are millions of women in the world? This is very senseless in my opinion.

Nobody in their right senses ties a random woman down by planting a seed in them. Most times, it happens by mistake and the men must deal with the consequences with their full chest. A few are lucky that they impregnated well to do women but most must live with the huge financial burden of catering for the women and children. Or become dead beat dads.

CaveAdullam:


The manuscript is set. But I always end up sending 99.99% of the contents here. Y'all are reading a complete book. Lol.

But sales and marketing are not guaranteed. And this is why the contents do end up as freebies. I don't want to write a book for the abyss and the demons that inhabit it. It ought to be for men!

If sales and marketing are 60% sure, I will pen down a paperback. There are more gold shits to write about, the rabbit hole is eternal.

Until then, let's enjoy the free ride.

You can engage someone to organise the manuscripts into a book.

ubunja:
it's funny how red pill dating coaches in the US are coming out against the Passport bros....
could it be they're protecting their financial interests, since the more men go to Brazil, Colombia etc for women, the less the men will need the coaching sessions of these experts?

Yeah I see that but women are women no matter where they are, and the woman you have to game the most is your wife.

CovenHighPriest:


Yeah I see that but women are women no matter where they are, and the woman you have to game the most is your wife.

female nature is universal yes,, American black women have , however, become the worst of the worst.

CaveAdullam:




12. And for those who think family doesn't matter or they have traded quality friendship for cheap gains...you are foolish. Family is key, no matter how things turn worst in life, they are the only ones that can still stretch out their hands for help. Try building a good relationship with them. Settle all scores.

Thanks.

DAY 234, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Be brave. Be strong.

Like cave said

Family is very important
So maintain a very good relationship with them where necessary.

Also maintaining a very good relationship with not just family, even your baby mama if you have one, and also wife if you are married

The key is Maintaining good relationship.

I have seen married men with kids and wife but later abandoned in later years

While I have seen men with baby mama and children that still had a robust relationship in later years

The key is Maintaining a good relationship. Although other factors can be in play, like the attitude of the said woman in question either wife or baby mama.

Life is all about balance simple

I don't believe in judging people like is done in our culture. Which ever lane you are just play your role well simple