*BRIFFAULT’S LAW*

When Melinda Gates saw no more purpose in staying with Bill Gates, she divorced him. The same thing happened to Jeff Bezos and millions of other men. This has led men to coin this expression that if you are a married man, it is only because your wife still finds you useful.

This brings us to Briffault’s law.

This law was formulated by Robert Briffault (1876-1948), an English surgeon, anthropologist, and author. In the field of sociology, many experts treat it as a scientific law.

Briffault’s law says that _”The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.”_

This law also implies the following (also called corollaries):

1. Past benefits provided by the male do not provide for continued or future association.

2. Any agreement where the male provides a current benefit in return for a promise of future association is null and void as soon as the male has provided the benefit (see corollary 1).

3. A promise of future benefit has limited influence on current/future association, with the influence inversely proportionate to the length of time until the benefit will be given and directly proportionate to the degree to which the female trusts the male.

Now, In economic terms, Briffault’s law means that the male within a relationship is subject to the law of diminishing returns. Meaning he continually has to offer something. Benefits in the past are rendered void, and his promise to do so is worthless if he fails to provide future benefits in time.

That benefit can be various things: companionship, status, money, good genes for offspring, protection and so on. Briffault’s law holds true for whatever kind of relationship: a long-lasting marriage, or one that ends in divorce (in that case the man always fails to deliver benefits (i.e. loses his jobs, gets ill, can no longer keep her satisfied)), or a one night stand, or seeing a prostitute (for the transactional relationship ends as soon as the paid for act is done).

Briffault’s law highlights both female hypergamy and the non-reciprocal nature of most relationships.

_Our fathers did not teach us this wisdom._

https://www.nairaland.com/5241432/ubunjas-miseducation-all-sex-making

ubunja:
All Sex Is For Making Babies

(Even Though Babies Are Not Made Everytime We Have Sex)

FEMALE PSYCHOLOGY VS FEMALE BIOLOGY.
The psychology of women is always changing and ever-evolving, generation to generation, but their biology stays the same. Women are getting trickier and smarter but they're stuck with a 6,000 yr old biology.

THE WOMB WHISPERER.
If you find you can't keep up with the current trend of female thought and ideas, what's in and what's out; how you're expected to act and dress and speak to attract a woman, just cut through the bullshit, and go straight to her core - her biology. That is, her womb. Her reproductive system. Speak to this ancient system because although primitive it holds sway over her more advanced psychology.

A woman's pussy is not controlled by her brain or her mind or her intellect. It's not even controlled by her heart. It's controlled by her womb, that is why ITS PHYSICALLY ATTACHED to the womb. Speaking to the womb simply means being that type of man with a proven record in Reproductive Success. Reproductive Success being your ability to reproduce your genes through babies successfully. Which is the literal definition of Survival of the Fittest.

THAT is what will bring pussy your way without you having to flash money, act rich or speak the latest catch phrases.

Let me give you an example; Ever wonder why if a guy makes one girl pregnant soon enough he'll make two, three, four girls pregnant? It's not coincidence. Wombs drive women to that man who puts wombs to work. All a womb wants to do is make babies. Not to be flushing out unused eggs every month through menstruation. The man who satisfies wombs gets the sex. That's reproductive success.

Next time you see a heavily pregnant woman check how other women look at her. It won't be with judgy looks (unless she's obviously too young) It won't be with shaming looks. But with longing looks. Their own wombs are whispering to them and asking "What about me?"

Ever noticed how, in a group of girls, if one girl gets pregnant others follow? Its the same womb whisper: "How about me?". And one by one the girls yield to the voice of temptation.

Impregnating women will have other women hanging around you. They won't come with the express intention of getting themselves pregnant too or to offer you sex. More a case of them just finding themselves subconsciously drawn to you. That's the wombs doing their thing. And one thing will lead to another, (as it always does) and the women, women who should have known better, will find themselves pregnant for a man that has impregnated half a dozen girls in the area. The psychological of these women just got overridden by the biological.

Make hoes pregnant and hoes will come to be made pregnant. Because all sex is for making babies.
.........

the more you understand female nature the more women's actions make sense,, and the more it makes sense that they have no shame in what they do cause it's something natural for them, something deep wired into their biology.

Read the full Miseducation here: https://www.nairaland.com/5241432/ubunjas-miseducation-all-sex-making

ubunja:
https://www.nairaland.com/5241432/ubunjas-miseducation-all-sex-making


the more you understand female nature the more women's actions make sense,, and the more it makes sense that they have no shame in what they do cause it's something natural for them, something deep wired into their biology.

Read the full Miseducation here: https://www.nairaland.com/5241432/ubunjas-miseducation-all-sex-making

How do you look a young man with a promising future ahead of him in the eyes and advise him to impregnate a woman to keep her? This is very disappointing.

My only hope is that we still have young men reading these exchanges that can still reason logically and can learn to detect and discard posts that only seek to brainwash them.

As a young man, planting your seed in random women is not just irresponsible. It leads to financial ruin and kills dreams. I am not telling you what I think. I am saying what I know.

Most young men with baby mamas do not end up doing well in life with all the distractions. In life there are always exceptions. Please stop using exceptional cases to prove your point.

Any young man that realizes that there is more to life than sex sex and more sex has won 90 per cent of life’s battles. You don’t need random sex to live a fulfilled life. You can be getting all the sex in the world and still be very lonely. Sex can be bought. Fulfilling relationships cannot be bought. And having strong bonds and fulfilling relationships (with family, friends and partners) is what keeps men going during rough times in old age.

You don’t need to be married to have fulfilling relationships. You certainly do not need to plant seeds in women to have fulfilling relationships.

ubunja:
a baby will always be a bigger investment for a woman than marriage. a woman who has married you has not given you anything she can't get out of in the blink of an eye and give to another man. a woman can marry a new man every Saturday,, cause marriage is only a male investment, never a female investment...

women only become seriously invested in a man when they choose to have his baby. and that investment is biggest if it's outside wedlock.

This is false. I know many baby mamas that have babies with several men and are still on the look out for more men. They are not invested in their baby daddies at all.

ubunja:
when your rich baby mama comes through for you....

Let’s learn to reason clearly and logically. How many men in the world get to plant seeds in multi millionaire women? How many baby mamas do we know in our personal lives that are wealthy and do not need financial support from their baby daddies?

Please stop using exceptional cases to prove your point.

AnonDude2004:
Just saw this on my CL and I'm not sure whether to believe it's real or not.

this must be joke

Zabiboy:

Man.. I limited my quotes on your posts when you said you are here for "the pussy". And so as someone who cares 0% about "the pussy" (believe it or not) we are definitely not gonna align in most debates. But i wanna touch on the message above.
Let me keep it short:
A poor man would say he's unhappy because he has no money.
A rich man would say "Money no dey bring happiness".
Meaning: if you cannot find a way to be happy as an individual without external influence( women and sex here based on your post), then money wont solve your issue, it might hide it tho..
Same with loneliness. If as a guy, you cannot create/have fun with yourself without external influence, then you'll remain lonely.

Finally, w.r.t the bolded above, as far as Me, zabiboy is concerned, No human on earth(not to talk of one gender) would make my Wins and successes a miserable existence.

exactly bro

ubunja:
https://www.nairaland.com/5241432/ubunjas-miseducation-all-sex-making


the more you understand female nature the more women's actions make sense,, and the more it makes sense that they have no shame in what they do cause it's something natural for them, something deep wired into their biology.

Read the full Miseducation here: https://www.nairaland.com/5241432/ubunjas-miseducation-all-sex-making

Do you honestly want to be like that man? Only a bum goes around making babies with random women.

Any woman that finds this attractive in a man needs to have her head examined.

Babangidayaro:


Do you honestly want to be like that man? Only a bum goes around making babies with random women.

Any woman that finds this attractive in a man needs to have her head examined.

you think women think like you and me? You've not been following this thread. All the sense in the world doesn't mean anything to women. Cause sexuality is not about logic and common sense and right or wrong. It's about what turns women on.

Only a bum goes around making babies? Are you sure? Cause statistics are showing A LOT of men are sex starved while women are handing over their puccy to the so-called "bums".

Babangidayaro:


Let’s learn to reason clearly and logically. How many men in the world get to plant seeds in multi millionaire women? How many baby mamas do we know in our personal lives that are wealthy and do not need financial support from their baby daddies?

Please stop using exceptional cases to prove your point.

there's no case to make. Cause reality has struck a lot of guys here already. Have I not been telling you gents that men are not the prize? And many here have been shouting "men are the prize",, then BOOM! that article on the rise of single lonely men hit everybody and now the thread has slowed down cause people are surprised at this and it's not making sense given what they've been thinking?

Women have the womb and it's up to them who they'll give it to,, all the reasoning and logicking on our part can't change who they wanna give it to.
The game is dirty, you can choose to play it or you can choose not to. But one thing you can't choose is who women want. No man has that power. Women lose their virginity to thugs. Yes? Yes.
Women love baby daddies. Yes? Yes.
Can you change that? Never.
Can you play that game? If you want. Or you can refuse.
But does your refusal change anything? Nope.

The moment you wanna reason and be logical in this game is the moment you've veered off the road. It's not that type of a game. It's not a thinking man's game. It's emotions and lust out here. And biology. Culture, custom etc is becoming increasingly weaker as female nature expresses itself stronger and stronger.

I must not use exceptional cases? But if you guys can use the likes of Jada Pinkett etc to illustrate your points why can't I use another celebrity for the same? Oh cause she's rich. And I can never get her. Okay, but we've agreed female nature is universal right? Right.
a babymama doesn't have to be wealthy to bail you out of a tough situation and i doubt you'll ever find yourself in a situation where you need a million point five dollars. But bail you out with the little she has she will.

Don't get moral with this. This is the Truth about female nature. They love baby daddies.

Babangidayaro:


This is false. I know many baby mamas that have babies with several men and are still on the look out for more men. They are not invested in their baby daddies at all.

maybe so,, but it's the same with married women. Since we've discovered that Nigeria has the highest rate of partenity fraud in Africa. So what now.

By the way I'm guessing you're in Nigeria. If not. pardon me.

Growing up, I tried to concentrate in school even while at the university, to avoid distractions.

I had just few girls around.

I have since the past 3 years--- after relative success in my field--- had few flings, wooed and slept with a few girls too from all tribes; had like 3 living with me for weeks at some point.

Now in early 30s I feel like I should seek something serious.
I find myself picking phone numbers from girls but then I come home, initiate a chat introducing myself but I have no zeal to take it further than that.

I just get tired of the whole thing.

Again, some of them seem uninterested.

You notice this lack of interest from the way they respond with monosyllables, respond after several hours or days or even abandoning the chats outright.


This is more pronounced if you come off too as gentle, without bragging, showing off etc.

I have no difficulty giving girls things occasionally but I hate to feel used or feel a woman is interested in only what she can gain in the short term- immediate gratification.


Going on dates would have been a good option as many girls would hardly reject free food, drinks etc but I don't have the time or energy hence deem it otiose, that's beyond the financial implications as many of the girls are coming to the dates to access you, not necessarily to know you.

And I hate showing off.


How do you guys navigate around this conundrum please especially if you are looking for something serious and not just sex?

ubunja:
maybe so,, but it's the same with married women. Since we've discovered that Nigeria has the highest rate of paternity fraud in Africa. So what now.
By the way I'm guessing you're in Nigeria. If not. pardon me.

Assuming this is true, what in your opinion is the reason?

Tonnyray:
Assuming this is true, what in your opinion is the reason?

it's true Tony,
although not a scientific paper you can glean something from this source:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/01/nigeria-ranks-2nd-highest-in-paternity-fraud-in-the-world/

as for the why,, im of the opinion that the fact that Nigeria is a partriarchy with strong family values and emphasis on marriage and doing things right it forces women to play around inside marriage. as opposed to outside. i don't know if it makes sense, but if a culture is very strict on women ,it doesn't really eradicate the whorism of women but drives it deeper and deeper where it's going to be hard to see, but it will always be there.
in a permitting environment where women can hoe freely they'll freely sleep around and get pregnant all in broad daylight with no fear of consequences (Western countries, South Africa etc). but in a strict and controlled environment (I guess a place like Nigeria), where wh0ring is still limited, women will behave until wedding day, then play their games behind the husband's back once marriage has been attained.

this is only my opinion, and it may only apply to Nigeria.
they say Jamaica is number 1 for paternity fraud worldwide,, I don't think my theory can apply over there.

what do you think yourself, assuming Nigeria leads Africa in paternity fraud?

Hrhdujdb:
I see some silently shading and shit. Come on folks. Don't forget we could share different perspectives and both be right.

I think some of the problems of men is their EGO, RELIGIOUS BELIVES, MORAL BELIEVES among many.

It's why a man would meet a new woman and not want to fvck her shitless while a woman would meet a man and want all possible benefit from him

It's why a man would see a problem and want to SAVE his fellow humans but a woman would see a problem and think of saving self.

Why should I have a power I can't use? Why should I be redpill aware if I can't play the game to win? Why can't I follow the path of someone like Tommy Shelby, Harvey Specter, Michael Scofield(even though they're fictional) and be fucking successful while also being successful with women at the same time?

No problem with being mgtow but it's really high time men started watching out for themselves. We'd be lying if we say men don't want to fvck every woman their heart desire. Why then should we tell them not to do it when they can? Isn't that just wasting all the power the redpill knowledge comes with?

I fw y'all though. Let's all just do what we want at this point

ubunja:
it's true Tony,
although not a scientific paper you can glean something from this source:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/01/nigeria-ranks-2nd-highest-in-paternity-fraud-in-the-world/

All I saw there were stories and I actually expected sound research findings before a categorical conclusion that it's true. Not that I really care whether it's true or not but I'd only opt for far more credible findings before denigrating a people with such scathing declarations.

ubunja:
as for the why,, im of the opinion that the fact that Nigeria is a patriarchy with strong family values and emphasis on marriage and doing things right it forces women to play around inside marriage. as opposed to outside. i don't know if it makes sense, but if a culture is very strict on women ,it doesn't really eradicate the whorism of women but drives it deeper and deeper where it's going to be hard to see, but it will always be there....

The number 1 cause of promiscuity among females in Nigeria is economic. Regardless of whatever ideology is being peddled anywhere, Nigerian women mainly sleep around not because of any stupid itch down there or some orgasmic cravings as we are being deceived with our porn infested mindsets, she sleeps around to make ends meet and for some to keep up with the Joneses. Yorubas largely call it the "Oko kan o kun komboodu" syndrome which literally means resources from one man cannot fill your wardrobe with trendy clothes. The malady begins from the late teen years of course when she comes into full consciousness of the power her body yields over men and men begin appreciating it with their resources. Unfortunately, at least 85% of women are likely to settle in marriage with a man who cannot match the multiple streams of income of her earlier years or that she knows her sexuality is capable of generating. Men won't give without taking. The rest is clear as clear gets. Of course mistakes are bound to occur. Abortions are just as common among married women as among unmarried. There are also cases of infertility which carry heavy stigma in the Nigerian sociocultural context and may coerce the woman to try outside (away) match just to erase the doubts within (and if successful) vindicate herself as the odium of barrenness in our social clime rests mainly on the woman. While I can never deny that women have sexual cravings, attributing paternity fraud largely to this is just laughable. I recommend people actually get to volunteer for community health programs and get real life views. I recommend Igbo ora community health programs and programs by Association for Reproductive and Family Health.

Ketapu:


To :

Bro how do you post like this.

ubunja:
you think women think like you and me? You've not been following this thread. All the sense in the world doesn't mean anything to women. Cause sexuality is not about logic and common sense and right or wrong. It's about what turns women on.

Only a bum goes around making babies? Are you sure? Cause statistics are showing A LOT of men are sex starved while women are handing over their puccy to the so-called "bums".

Ubunja is making sense but the thing is your post about making babies works better for celebrities, men that already has their foot on the ground and men that are in control of their feelings and not their feelings controlling them. In Nigeria we engage in sex for the fun of it, this is why I myself have always been preaching against sex because we are too senseless with it. Most ladies we have sex with in Nigeria, when She comes up to you and tell you she’s pregnant, you’d want to pull out a gun and shoot her in the head to kill her and the baby she’s carrying because she’s not worth it.

It took me a while to understand the lifestyle of of celebrities/musicians that knows their game. They have thousands of women at their call but they do not use it as an advantage to engage in sex senselessly. This is why they always have lots of baby mama’s because whenever they engage in sex, it likely produces something. But an average Joe like me would engage in sex for the fun of it, not for benefits. This is the norm in Nigeria. That’s why the poster you are quoting is against your post.

Most guys following this thread do not really understand your post into-to. Their understanding of the redpill is to bed as much women as possible and not for the benefits you always talk about.

What the poster you are quoting doesn’t understand is, if you are actually following the redpill practices and tenets, you’ll attract lots of women but you will be wise to pick out the ones that will be beneficial to your existence. You know what to do next. Plant your seed and it will be fruitful.

Just like biggie’s daughter that put up her property on sale to help her baby daddy. If I get to meet her type, I don’t see why I will not empty my sperm in her to produce triplet. Women have been selfish with picking a man that is beneficial to them. Men should do same provided you know the game and how to put the game to use.

mama and sister fit dey find am hard to collect money from the guy o ,may we never have sons like this

Tonnyray:
All I saw there were stories and I actually expected sound research findings before a categorical conclusion that it's true. Not that I really care whether it's true or not but I'd only opt for far more credible findings before denigrating a people with such scathing declarations.

The number 1 cause of promiscuity among females in Nigeria is economic. Regardless of whatever ideology is being peddled anywhere, Nigerian women mainly sleep around not because of any stupid itch down there or some orgasmic cravings as we are being deceived with our porn infested mindsets, she sleeps around to make ends meet and for some to keep up with the Joneses. Yorubas largely call it the "Oko kan o kun komboodu" syndrome which literally means resources from one man cannot fill your wardrobe with trendy clothes. The malady begins from the late teen years of course when she comes into full consciousness of the power her body yields over men and men begin appreciating it with their resources. Unfortunately, at least 85% of women are likely to settle in marriage with a man who cannot match the multiple streams of income of her earlier years or that she knows her sexuality is capable of generating. Men won't give without taking. The rest is clear as clear gets. Of course mistakes are bound to occur. Abortions are just as common among married women as among unmarried. There are also cases of infertility which carry heavy stigma in the Nigerian sociocultural context and may coerce the woman to try outside (away) match just to erase the doubts within (and if successful) vindicate herself as the odium of barrenness in our social clime rests mainly on the woman. While I can never deny that women have sexual cravings, attributing paternity fraud largely to this is just laughable. I recommend people actually get to volunteer for community health programs and get real life views. I recommend Igbo ora community health programs and programs by Association for Reproductive and Family Health.

well that supposed 30% Paternity Fraud rate is supported by a legitimate DNA expert , as the Wikipedia snapshot below shows. I wouldn't call it a total fabrication but still I wouldn't call it the absolute truth but there's some truth to it to some extent.

Nigerian women love money but that doesn't explain why they'd allow themselves to get pregnant by men they seek financial help from unless those men are specifically asking for babies, the norm in such instances is that the wife of a well-off husband will get pregnant for a poor but more sexually appealing man. it's rare for a poor man's wife to cheat with a rich man and carry the rich man's baby usually because rich men tend to be not very attractive sexually speaking. atleast the rich men in African countries.

TarOrfeeek:



Are you a Naval Officer?

Or na your brother be that?

My Junior bro

ubunja:
there has always been this tendency in the red pill to put oneself above your own family and act in a way like one's better off without them, I've never been in favour of that, and I see we are on the same page as your closing statement shows.

But as far as Society VS Individual goes I'll always stand with the individual. And this is not me saying "let the world burn" but I'd be damned if I put the needs of the collective above my own. I'm all about survival,, case in point: Even during the Covid lockdowns I didn't stop working (although this is mostly due to the fact that the industry I'm in is considered essential and no matter what we're always working), still if I had a choice to stay at home and starve all in the name of "slowing the spread" of Covid I'd never in a million years comply. Especially since that command was made by politicians who themselves didn't stop working and stayed able to provide for their own families.

I'm even in South Africa where foreigners are hated and killed but I'd be damned if I go back home and sit and starve,, all in the name of lightening the burden South African society is going through,, They can shout all they want, I'm not going anywhere.

Now does having kids outside wedlock improve Society or not? It doesn't improve Society.
But does having kids out of wedlock improve a man's security in this society?it does increase his security.

So will I imperil myself to see Society succeed? Am I sacrificial lamb?

And I hate how having kids outside wedlock is seen as automatically not taking care of them.

99% Nigerians think like this

Carcholce:



Ubunja is making sense but the thing is your post about making babies works better for celebrities, men that already has their foot on the ground and men that are in control of their feelings and not their feelings controlling them. In Nigeria we engage in sex for the fun of it, this is why I myself have always been preaching against sex because we are too senseless with it. Most ladies we have sex with in Nigeria, when She comes up to you and tell you she’s pregnant, you’d want to pull out a gun and shoot her in the head to kill her and the baby she’s carrying because she’s not worth it.

It took me a while to understand the lifestyle of of celebrities/musicians that knows their game. They have thousands of women at their call but they do not use it as an advantage to engage in sex senselessly. This is why they always have lots of baby mama’s because whenever they engage in sex, it likely produces something. But an average Joe like me would engage in sex for the fun of it, not for benefits. This is the norm in Nigeria. That’s why the poster you are quoting is against your post.

Most guys following this thread do not really understand your post into-to. Their understanding of the redpill is to bed as much women as possible and not for the benefits you always talk about.

What the poster you are quoting doesn’t understand is, if you are actually following the redpill practices and tenets, you’ll attract lots of women but you will be wise to pick out the ones that will be beneficial to your existence. You know what to do next. Plant your seed and it will be fruitful.

Just like biggie’s daughter that put up her property on sale to help her baby daddy. If I get to meet her type, I don’t see why I will not empty my sperm in her to produce triplet. Women have been selfish with picking a man that is beneficial to them. Men should do same provided you know the game and how to put the game to use.

nice input and clarifications. Much appreciated.

You brought an interesting point,, a lot of the times as men we don't adequately benefit from this babymama thing cause we make low tier women pregnant who are not in strong positions to make realistic changes in our lives.
I don't know about you guys over there, but I remember even growing up joking with friends about how much fun (and beneficial)it would be to impregnate some rich man's daughter. It was mostly wishful thinking but we did realise the point you're making about creating situations beneficial to yourself using babies the same way selfish women have been making since forever.

ubunja:
well that supposed 30% Paternity Fraud rate is supported by a legitimate DNA expert , as the Wikipedia snapshot below shows. I wouldn't call it a total fabrication but still I wouldn't call it the absolute truth but there's some truth to it to some extent.

What you have pulled out hasn't in any way touched my initial posit. I have not argued on the 30% paternity fraud stats cos I really do not care. It's mediocre pulling out such a "source" as authority as well. Nobody reckons with nameless "experts" by the way. If I'd seen something like "according to Professor Oladapo Ladipo in his research article titled ............. of June 2018" that would have piqued my interest.

ubunja:
Nigerian women love money but that doesn't explain why they'd allow themselves to get pregnant by men they seek financial help from unless those men are specifically asking for babies

I'll break it down. Mistakes happen. She's not deliberately trying to get pregnant in most cases. Protracted sexual dealings naturally lead to carelessness. It's a given. Around here a lot of phobia still exists as it relates to abortion strengthened by the relatively high incidence of complications. This is not to mention the possibility of information leaking to the husband. How sure is she one of the nurses is not wife or sister to one of his colleagues at work... blah blah blah.. These are potent worries for philandering women. Ultimately when the chips are down it's just easier to go home after a risky sexual misconduct and give the hubby too some mind-blowing sex so as to minimize suspicions.

ubunja:
the norm in such instances is that the wife of a well-off husband will get pregnant for a poor but more sexually appealing man

Dead this narrative my guy. I live here. In Nigeria the reverse is the case or in most cases there really is no difference between hubby and villain in terms of sexual appeal. Woman is just maintaining multiple streams of income + or - the boredom of marital monotony sets in. Yes a few thrills here and there are guaranteed. , .

ubunja:
it's rare for a poor man's wife to cheat with a rich man and carry the rich man's baby usually because rich men tend to be not very attractive sexually speaking. at least the rich men in African countries.

Another testament you don't live in Nigeria.

Tonnyray:
What you have pulled out hasn't in any way touched my initial posit. I have not argued on the 30% paternity fraud stats cos I really do not care. It's mediocre pulling out such a "source" as authority as well. Nobody reckons with nameless "experts" by the way. If I'd seen something like "according to Professor Oladapo Ladipo in his research article titled ............. of June 2018" that would have piqued my interest. I'll break it down. Mistakes happen. She's not deliberately trying to get pregnant in most cases. Protracted sexual dealings naturally lead to carelessness. It's a given. Around here a lot of phobia still exists as it relates to abortion strengthened by the relatively high incidence of complications. This is not to mention the possibility of information leaking to the husband. How sure is she one of the nurses is not wife to one of his colleagues at work... blah blah blah.. many times it's just easier to go home after a risky sexual misconduct and give the hubby too some mind-blowing sex so as to minimize suspicions. Dead this narrative my guy. I live here. In Nigeria the reverse is the case or in most cases there really is no difference between hubby and villain in terms of sexual appeal. Woman is just maintaining multiple streams of income + or - the boredom of marital monotony sets in. Yes a few thrills here and there are guaranteed. , . Another testament you don't live in Nigeria.

if as you say women are not into abortion cause "culture"and environment, then it means a lot of women would actually be getting pregnant since most women lose their virginity outside marriage anyways and sleep around a lot before marriage. But whatever.

Don't hide behind "you're not in Nigeria". That's a cope. I've even told you something as a Nigerian you were not aware of, the partenity rate in your own country.
You'll have to bring bigger points.

Babangidayaro:


How do you look a young man with a promising future ahead of him in the eyes and advise him to impregnate a woman to keep her? This is very disappointing.

My only hope is that we still have young men reading these exchanges that can still reason logically and can learn to detect and discard posts that only seek to brainwash them.

As a young man, planting your seed in random women is not just irresponsible. It leads to financial ruin and kills dreams. I am not telling you what I think. I am saying what I know.

Most young men with baby mamas do not end up doing well in life with all the distractions. In life there are always exceptions. Please stop using exceptional cases to prove your point.

Any young man that realizes that there is more to life than sex sex and more sex has won 90 per cent of life’s battles. You don’t need random sex to live a fulfilled life. You can be getting all the sex in the world and still be very lonely. Sex can be bought. Fulfilling relationships cannot be bought. And having strong bonds and fulfilling relationships (with family, friends and partners) is what keeps men going during rough times in old age.

You don’t need to be married to have fulfilling relationships. You certainly do not need to plant seeds in women to have fulfilling relationships.

do you go to MTV base and ask them why they play music 24/7 after all there is more to life than music
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