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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Hrhdujdb: 1:37am On Aug 24, 2022 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Hrhdujdb: 1:50am On Aug 24, 2022 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Hrhdujdb: 1:54am On Aug 24, 2022 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Hrhdujdb: 2:03am On Aug 24, 2022 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by AkuOlisa: 5:25am On Aug 24, 2022 |
*BRIFFAULT’S LAW* When Melinda Gates saw no more purpose in staying with Bill Gates, she divorced him. The same thing happened to Jeff Bezos and millions of other men. This has led men to coin this expression that if you are a married man, it is only because your wife still finds you useful. This brings us to Briffault’s law. This law was formulated by Robert Briffault (1876-1948), an English surgeon, anthropologist, and author. In the field of sociology, many experts treat it as a scientific law. Briffault’s law says that _”The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.”_ This law also implies the following (also called corollaries): 1. Past benefits provided by the male do not provide for continued or future association. 2. Any agreement where the male provides a current benefit in return for a promise of future association is null and void as soon as the male has provided the benefit (see corollary 1). 3. A promise of future benefit has limited influence on current/future association, with the influence inversely proportionate to the length of time until the benefit will be given and directly proportionate to the degree to which the female trusts the male. Now, In economic terms, Briffault’s law means that the male within a relationship is subject to the law of diminishing returns. Meaning he continually has to offer something. Benefits in the past are rendered void, and his promise to do so is worthless if he fails to provide future benefits in time. That benefit can be various things: companionship, status, money, good genes for offspring, protection and so on. Briffault’s law holds true for whatever kind of relationship: a long-lasting marriage, or one that ends in divorce (in that case the man always fails to deliver benefits (i.e. loses his jobs, gets ill, can no longer keep her satisfied)), or a one night stand, or seeing a prostitute (for the transactional relationship ends as soon as the paid for act is done). Briffault’s law highlights both female hypergamy and the non-reciprocal nature of most relationships. _Our fathers did not teach us this wisdom._ 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 6:13am On Aug 24, 2022 |
https://www.nairaland.com/5241432/ubunjas-miseducation-all-sex-making ubunja:the more you understand female nature the more women's actions make sense,, and the more it makes sense that they have no shame in what they do cause it's something natural for them, something deep wired into their biology. Read the full Miseducation here: https://www.nairaland.com/5241432/ubunjas-miseducation-all-sex-making 10 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Babangidayaro: 7:45am On Aug 24, 2022 |
ubunja: How do you look a young man with a promising future ahead of him in the eyes and advise him to impregnate a woman to keep her? This is very disappointing. My only hope is that we still have young men reading these exchanges that can still reason logically and can learn to detect and discard posts that only seek to brainwash them. As a young man, planting your seed in random women is not just irresponsible. It leads to financial ruin and kills dreams. I am not telling you what I think. I am saying what I know. Most young men with baby mamas do not end up doing well in life with all the distractions. In life there are always exceptions. Please stop using exceptional cases to prove your point. Any young man that realizes that there is more to life than sex sex and more sex has won 90 per cent of life’s battles. You don’t need random sex to live a fulfilled life. You can be getting all the sex in the world and still be very lonely. Sex can be bought. Fulfilling relationships cannot be bought. And having strong bonds and fulfilling relationships (with family, friends and partners) is what keeps men going during rough times in old age. You don’t need to be married to have fulfilling relationships. You certainly do not need to plant seeds in women to have fulfilling relationships. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Babangidayaro: 7:54am On Aug 24, 2022 |
ubunja: This is false. I know many baby mamas that have babies with several men and are still on the look out for more men. They are not invested in their baby daddies at all. 11 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Babangidayaro: 7:58am On Aug 24, 2022 |
ubunja: Let’s learn to reason clearly and logically. How many men in the world get to plant seeds in multi millionaire women? How many baby mamas do we know in our personal lives that are wealthy and do not need financial support from their baby daddies? Please stop using exceptional cases to prove your point. 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tosaino95(m): 8:02am On Aug 24, 2022 |
AnonDude2004:this must be joke 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tosaino95(m): 8:04am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Zabiboy:exactly bro 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Babangidayaro: 8:06am On Aug 24, 2022 |
ubunja: Do you honestly want to be like that man? Only a bum goes around making babies with random women. Any woman that finds this attractive in a man needs to have her head examined. 14 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 8:18am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Babangidayaro:you think women think like you and me? You've not been following this thread. All the sense in the world doesn't mean anything to women. Cause sexuality is not about logic and common sense and right or wrong. It's about what turns women on. Only a bum goes around making babies? Are you sure? Cause statistics are showing A LOT of men are sex starved while women are handing over their puccy to the so-called "bums". 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 8:45am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Babangidayaro:there's no case to make. Cause reality has struck a lot of guys here already. Have I not been telling you gents that men are not the prize? And many here have been shouting "men are the prize",, then BOOM! that article on the rise of single lonely men hit everybody and now the thread has slowed down cause people are surprised at this and it's not making sense given what they've been thinking? Women have the womb and it's up to them who they'll give it to,, all the reasoning and logicking on our part can't change who they wanna give it to. The game is dirty, you can choose to play it or you can choose not to. But one thing you can't choose is who women want. No man has that power. Women lose their virginity to thugs. Yes? Yes. Women love baby daddies. Yes? Yes. Can you change that? Never. Can you play that game? If you want. Or you can refuse. But does your refusal change anything? Nope. The moment you wanna reason and be logical in this game is the moment you've veered off the road. It's not that type of a game. It's not a thinking man's game. It's emotions and lust out here. And biology. Culture, custom etc is becoming increasingly weaker as female nature expresses itself stronger and stronger. I must not use exceptional cases? But if you guys can use the likes of Jada Pinkett etc to illustrate your points why can't I use another celebrity for the same? Oh cause she's rich. And I can never get her. Okay, but we've agreed female nature is universal right? Right. a babymama doesn't have to be wealthy to bail you out of a tough situation and i doubt you'll ever find yourself in a situation where you need a million point five dollars. But bail you out with the little she has she will. Don't get moral with this. This is the Truth about female nature. They love baby daddies. 36 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 9:14am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Babangidayaro:maybe so,, but it's the same with married women. Since we've discovered that Nigeria has the highest rate of partenity fraud in Africa. So what now. By the way I'm guessing you're in Nigeria. If not. pardon me. 8 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lagosanambra: 9:36am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Growing up, I tried to concentrate in school even while at the university, to avoid distractions. I had just few girls around. I have since the past 3 years--- after relative success in my field--- had few flings, wooed and slept with a few girls too from all tribes; had like 3 living with me for weeks at some point. Now in early 30s I feel like I should seek something serious. I find myself picking phone numbers from girls but then I come home, initiate a chat introducing myself but I have no zeal to take it further than that. I just get tired of the whole thing. Again, some of them seem uninterested. You notice this lack of interest from the way they respond with monosyllables, respond after several hours or days or even abandoning the chats outright. This is more pronounced if you come off too as gentle, without bragging, showing off etc. I have no difficulty giving girls things occasionally but I hate to feel used or feel a woman is interested in only what she can gain in the short term- immediate gratification. Going on dates would have been a good option as many girls would hardly reject free food, drinks etc but I don't have the time or energy hence deem it otiose, that's beyond the financial implications as many of the girls are coming to the dates to access you, not necessarily to know you. And I hate showing off. How do you guys navigate around this conundrum please especially if you are looking for something serious and not just sex? 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 10:15am On Aug 24, 2022 |
ubunja:Assuming this is true, what in your opinion is the reason? 4 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 11:07am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Tonnyray:it's true Tony, although not a scientific paper you can glean something from this source: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/01/nigeria-ranks-2nd-highest-in-paternity-fraud-in-the-world/ as for the why,, im of the opinion that the fact that Nigeria is a partriarchy with strong family values and emphasis on marriage and doing things right it forces women to play around inside marriage. as opposed to outside. i don't know if it makes sense, but if a culture is very strict on women ,it doesn't really eradicate the whorism of women but drives it deeper and deeper where it's going to be hard to see, but it will always be there. in a permitting environment where women can hoe freely they'll freely sleep around and get pregnant all in broad daylight with no fear of consequences (Western countries, South Africa etc). but in a strict and controlled environment (I guess a place like Nigeria), where wh0ring is still limited, women will behave until wedding day, then play their games behind the husband's back once marriage has been attained. this is only my opinion, and it may only apply to Nigeria. they say Jamaica is number 1 for paternity fraud worldwide,, I don't think my theory can apply over there. what do you think yourself, assuming Nigeria leads Africa in paternity fraud? 10 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Adonisteve: 11:28am On Aug 24, 2022 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 12:50pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
ubunja:All I saw there were stories and I actually expected sound research findings before a categorical conclusion that it's true. Not that I really care whether it's true or not but I'd only opt for far more credible findings before denigrating a people with such scathing declarations. ubunja:The number 1 cause of promiscuity among females in Nigeria is economic. Regardless of whatever ideology is being peddled anywhere, Nigerian women mainly sleep around not because of any stupid itch down there or some orgasmic cravings as we are being deceived with our porn infested mindsets, she sleeps around to make ends meet and for some to keep up with the Joneses. Yorubas largely call it the "Oko kan o kun komboodu" syndrome which literally means resources from one man cannot fill your wardrobe with trendy clothes. The malady begins from the late teen years of course when she comes into full consciousness of the power her body yields over men and men begin appreciating it with their resources. Unfortunately, at least 85% of women are likely to settle in marriage with a man who cannot match the multiple streams of income of her earlier years or that she knows her sexuality is capable of generating. Men won't give without taking. The rest is clear as clear gets. Of course mistakes are bound to occur. Abortions are just as common among married women as among unmarried. There are also cases of infertility which carry heavy stigma in the Nigerian sociocultural context and may coerce the woman to try outside (away) match just to erase the doubts within (and if successful) vindicate herself as the odium of barrenness in our social clime rests mainly on the woman. While I can never deny that women have sexual cravings, attributing paternity fraud largely to this is just laughable. I recommend people actually get to volunteer for community health programs and get real life views. I recommend Igbo ora community health programs and programs by Association for Reproductive and Family Health. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Hrhdujdb: 1:00pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Hrhdujdb: 1:05pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Brokeloser: 2:21pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Ketapu:Bro how do you post like this. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Carcholce: 2:34pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
ubunja: Ubunja is making sense but the thing is your post about making babies works better for celebrities, men that already has their foot on the ground and men that are in control of their feelings and not their feelings controlling them. In Nigeria we engage in sex for the fun of it, this is why I myself have always been preaching against sex because we are too senseless with it. Most ladies we have sex with in Nigeria, when She comes up to you and tell you she’s pregnant, you’d want to pull out a gun and shoot her in the head to kill her and the baby she’s carrying because she’s not worth it. It took me a while to understand the lifestyle of of celebrities/musicians that knows their game. They have thousands of women at their call but they do not use it as an advantage to engage in sex senselessly. This is why they always have lots of baby mama’s because whenever they engage in sex, it likely produces something. But an average Joe like me would engage in sex for the fun of it, not for benefits. This is the norm in Nigeria. That’s why the poster you are quoting is against your post. Most guys following this thread do not really understand your post into-to. Their understanding of the redpill is to bed as much women as possible and not for the benefits you always talk about. What the poster you are quoting doesn’t understand is, if you are actually following the redpill practices and tenets, you’ll attract lots of women but you will be wise to pick out the ones that will be beneficial to your existence. You know what to do next. Plant your seed and it will be fruitful. Just like biggie’s daughter that put up her property on sale to help her baby daddy. If I get to meet her type, I don’t see why I will not empty my sperm in her to produce triplet. Women have been selfish with picking a man that is beneficial to them. Men should do same provided you know the game and how to put the game to use. 33 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ballzproblem2: 3:10pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
mama and sister fit dey find am hard to collect money from the guy o ,may we never have sons like this 7 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 3:27pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Tonnyray:well that supposed 30% Paternity Fraud rate is supported by a legitimate DNA expert , as the Wikipedia snapshot below shows. I wouldn't call it a total fabrication but still I wouldn't call it the absolute truth but there's some truth to it to some extent. Nigerian women love money but that doesn't explain why they'd allow themselves to get pregnant by men they seek financial help from unless those men are specifically asking for babies, the norm in such instances is that the wife of a well-off husband will get pregnant for a poor but more sexually appealing man. it's rare for a poor man's wife to cheat with a rich man and carry the rich man's baby usually because rich men tend to be not very attractive sexually speaking. atleast the rich men in African countries. 13 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Herbworks: 3:41pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
TarOrfeeek: My Junior bro 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 3:58pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
ubunja:99% Nigerians think like this 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 4:03pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Carcholce:nice input and clarifications. Much appreciated. You brought an interesting point,, a lot of the times as men we don't adequately benefit from this babymama thing cause we make low tier women pregnant who are not in strong positions to make realistic changes in our lives. I don't know about you guys over there, but I remember even growing up joking with friends about how much fun (and beneficial)it would be to impregnate some rich man's daughter. It was mostly wishful thinking but we did realise the point you're making about creating situations beneficial to yourself using babies the same way selfish women have been making since forever. 15 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 4:12pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
ubunja:What you have pulled out hasn't in any way touched my initial posit. I have not argued on the 30% paternity fraud stats cos I really do not care. It's mediocre pulling out such a "source" as authority as well. Nobody reckons with nameless "experts" by the way. If I'd seen something like "according to Professor Oladapo Ladipo in his research article titled ............. of June 2018" that would have piqued my interest. ubunja:I'll break it down. Mistakes happen. She's not deliberately trying to get pregnant in most cases. Protracted sexual dealings naturally lead to carelessness. It's a given. Around here a lot of phobia still exists as it relates to abortion strengthened by the relatively high incidence of complications. This is not to mention the possibility of information leaking to the husband. How sure is she one of the nurses is not wife or sister to one of his colleagues at work... blah blah blah.. These are potent worries for philandering women. Ultimately when the chips are down it's just easier to go home after a risky sexual misconduct and give the hubby too some mind-blowing sex so as to minimize suspicions. ubunja:Dead this narrative my guy. I live here. In Nigeria the reverse is the case or in most cases there really is no difference between hubby and villain in terms of sexual appeal. Woman is just maintaining multiple streams of income + or - the boredom of marital monotony sets in. Yes a few thrills here and there are guaranteed. , . ubunja:Another testament you don't live in Nigeria. 9 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 4:25pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Tonnyray:if as you say women are not into abortion cause "culture"and environment, then it means a lot of women would actually be getting pregnant since most women lose their virginity outside marriage anyways and sleep around a lot before marriage. But whatever. Don't hide behind "you're not in Nigeria". That's a cope. I've even told you something as a Nigerian you were not aware of, the partenity rate in your own country. You'll have to bring bigger points. 9 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by crystalmoon(m): 4:31pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Babangidayaro:do you go to MTV base and ask them why they play music 24/7 after all there is more to life than music Use your eye you are in romance section 10 Likes |
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