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Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by kolarov93(m): 4:00pm On Aug 24, 2022
fman:

You even see man wey dey make 100k
For this APC regime and u dey complain..
With the situation of things in Nigeria,
Oya leave him
U go mad as many girls go dive him!!
Even jennyclay that just commented rubbish above me
Go follow rush am!

True True
Husband scarce ooo
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 4:00pm On Aug 24, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?
he earns 100k, you earn 100k+ if you both put ur finances together, that’s over 200k+.
A man who earns 500k and a wife who earns 500k are both not millionaires separately but together, they are millionaires. What I am trying to say is, work with him. Does he have dreams he is driving towards? Is he passionate about where he wants to get to? The situation now will not always be the situation. Asides from those born into wealth, most wealthy men where once where the guy with only 100k is now. The support of a woman has propelled them to attain the wealthy status they have now.

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Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by Confirm4real(m): 4:01pm On Aug 24, 2022
MilitantAtheist:
age is already telling on the op and the evil Jennyclay is advising her to keep waiting.

That's the truth.

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Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by Nobody: 4:02pm On Aug 24, 2022
INDUSTRIALFAN:
he earns 100k, you earn 100k+ if you both put ur finances together, that’s over 200k+.
A man who earns 500k and a wife who earns 500k are both not millionaires separately but together, they are millionaires. What I am trying to say is, work with him. Does he have dreams he is driving towards? Is he passionate about where he wants to get to? The situation now will not always be the situation. Asides from those born into wealth, most wealthy men where once where the guy with only 100k is now. The support of a woman has propelled them to attain the wealthy status they have now.

Hes a civil servant though he studied law.
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by Jnrprince1(m): 4:02pm On Aug 24, 2022
Blessedmercy8:


These are exactly my fears cos once somebody enters the next thing is to start having children. With such income coupled with other expenses, I dey fear o.

stay ur papa house them go use you las las ole

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Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by kiddkash(m): 4:02pm On Aug 24, 2022
Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!
hey lady, be calming down. he earning 100,000 might just be enough if they are able to manage at least for the mean time
remember a thread a guy explained how 95,000 help enough.
besides, no one knows tomorrow. tomorrow things could become rosy or sour.
but I also get your point
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by Olayetan(m): 4:03pm On Aug 24, 2022
Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.




Okay, while you keep waiting for the better man, try to also better your life cux that better man with better earnings may not be interested in you as you're not earning enough upto his status.
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by Simonobodo(m): 4:04pm On Aug 24, 2022
[quote author=Jennyclay post=115856766]No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come. [Keep waiting for the right man until menopause locate u... Ladies and money]

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Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by Nosaghae(m): 4:04pm On Aug 24, 2022
Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!
Small time na u go begin run kiti kiti dey find prophet wen go carry u go ur husband house

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Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by brandsoncharlie: 4:05pm On Aug 24, 2022
EmahBoss:
If you also earn something similar to what he earns, yes, you can pull it through. Just limit childbearing to one or two and enjoy yourself. Look for a side hustle to meet up with the family expenses. Do a very low-key wedding. Don't try to keep up with the Joneses

Ignore jennyclay she is still a teenager and will always say the opposite just so she can get popular on nairaland. With the way she hops on every thread, she is jobless. She is a broke girl probably begging one guy to marry her so she can be free of frustration. Yeye dey smell
That Jennyclay of a girl she need serious mental orientation to stabilize her. Empty barrel of a girl.

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Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by Gabbiedee: 4:06pm On Aug 24, 2022
For those of you rejecting and rebuking a 100K job, let me borrow y
ou small sense. I married in 2008 with a monthly salary of 71K. Immediately after my traditional marriage, I landed another job of 300K per month, TAX inclusive. In fact, I went for the job interview 1 week before my traditional wedding, my wife didn’t even know about the interview. Today, I earn a few digits to 13M annually and with a 13th Month salary of 900K. Don’t wait for an already made Man rather build your Man. He who marries a good Wife obtains favour from God. I won't marry him blaa, blaa blaaa, you go soon old for your Papa house.

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Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by stevups(m): 4:06pm On Aug 24, 2022
fman:

werrin dey worry u.
From all u said
It signifies that you are a broke girl and have nothing to offer than to

depend on his 100k salary. I pray everyday never to jam your type for marriage.
check the bolded
AMEN OOO
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by Justiceleague1: 4:07pm On Aug 24, 2022
Blessedmercy8:


Hmm.. he's 40 and I'm already 41.
When are we now going to start having children if we still delay?



Exactly my point.
The person that said "don't have kids now" sounds fearful,to say it mildly.
Any farmer that's afraid of snakes and don't go to clear the bush to make farm will die of hunger.

#100k job is hard even for graduates now in naija and is not that much but is not small money at all and it can still do a lot and by God's grace,things will always improve.
All you guys need is plan and do be a good girl and have your baby, nothing do Una. Good luck



Ok


Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by millionboi(m): 4:07pm On Aug 24, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?
are you marrying money or human being?
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by blingxx(m): 4:08pm On Aug 24, 2022
Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

Good I love your mentality .. it is your type guys dey purposely impregnate grin and let you do your worse (men are scum gang) Shiloh is waiting for you

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Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by stevups(m): 4:08pm On Aug 24, 2022
Gabbiedee:
For those of you rejecting and rebuking a 100K job, let me borrow y
ou small sense. I married in 2008 with a monthly salary of 71K. Immediately after my traditional marriage, I landed another job of 300K per month, TAX inclusive. In fact, I went for the job interview 1 week before my traditional wedding, my wife didn’t even know about the interview. Today, I earn a few digits to 13M annually and with a 13th Month salary of 900K. Don’t wait for an already made Man rather build your Man. He who marries a good Wife obtains favour from God. I won't marry him blaa, blaa blaaa, you go soon old for your Papa house.
Abi.
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by Akanoaaa(m): 4:08pm On Aug 24, 2022
Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.


A girl with high taste with nothing to offer except your smelly toto. Only fooli sh men marry someone like you. You want someone else son to do what your papa or you yourself couldn't do for yourself, depend all your on your life on a man's earning. Tomorrow now, you will come here to talk about gender equality. Usel ess girl.
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by DAENNINGA(m): 4:08pm On Aug 24, 2022
Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

Unmask your face please.
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by simplesearch: 4:09pm On Aug 24, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

Do you think it's because you're exceptional that you're earning what you're earning or above him? look around and you'll see there are people who are truly far better than you; academically, physically and otherwise, possessing even more quality than you could ever imagine but are struggling with life. Be grateful to God and stop being ungrateful. May God who lifted you up not let you down, it doesn't take time to happen if you continue to arrogate your success to your ingenuity. Pray to God and be convinced he's leading you to the one you want to settle down with, once this is done be rest assured he'll come through for you always. Moreso even if the man is earning 50k when you both met his fortune can so change that even you will be ashamed of what you're earning, and if you've shamed him in the past it will be hard for you to convince him on genuineness of your love for him, since you've acted out negatively when things were down for him. Moreover if you're a child of God, don't undermine faith in all you do, for the Just shall live by faith and not by bread alone.

Luke 12:15 (KJV) And he said unto them, Take heed, and beware of covetousness: for a man's life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesseth.
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by jimmychang: 4:09pm On Aug 24, 2022
Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.


This one marry the first thing wey enter her mind my make up and hair. grin grin grin grin cheesy.This one even if I person earn 2 million e no go look her side.

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Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by Nobody: 4:10pm On Aug 24, 2022
[quote author=Justiceleague1 post=116019456][/quote]

Thanks.

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Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by vikaosi: 4:11pm On Aug 24, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

You are not immune from working, are you?

Even if you can make half of the 100k, your combined income will be 150k. It depends on location, you can survive on it.

And don't forget, there is room for growth.
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by bjnice(m): 4:11pm On Aug 24, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

If you one marry, marry abeg. Are you marrying him because of the present or do you see a bright future with him.
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by socialmediaman: 4:12pm On Aug 24, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

What I'm hearing is that the couple earns a little above 200K if they get married, or is this not the case? Why isn't your money in the picture? He wants to get married to a lady who can support his hustle with her money. If you're not that lady, please don't marry him.

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Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by goodnexlite(m): 4:14pm On Aug 24, 2022
The lady that made this Post is very very crazy, honestly, she doesn't even earn up to 50% of whaT he earns, and you open your gutter to talk, turn the tables around, would a guy that earns 100k be willing to marry a lady that earns way far below 50k? If she doesn't she should getat. Nonsense, is marriage based on what a man earns or on what they both can build together. Empty brainz
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by hkunle71(m): 4:15pm On Aug 24, 2022
My Sister's husband is earning 5k and he's progressing. What's the BD
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by funl1te: 4:16pm On Aug 24, 2022
Well that's where the two has to become one, 100k might not be much but if the 2 of u puts hands on deck together u will live on the comfort of ur earning. Mind u, some , marriages don't get that much yet they know how to survive. And in a situation like this, THE woman has to bring something to the table not expecting fromthe man always try to help out after all you are man and wife. But the ladies we have today most of them are finger nails and eye lash girl.
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by hkunle71(m): 4:16pm On Aug 24, 2022
goodnexlite:
The lady that made this Post is very very crazy, honestly, she doesn't even earn up to 50% of whaT he earns, and you open your gutter to talk, turn the tables around, would a guy that earns 100k be willing to marry a lady that earns way far below 50k? If she doesn't she should getat. Nonsense, is marriage based on what a man earns or on what they both can build together. Empty brainz

Gbayii... Nice one
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by Subonbon(m): 4:16pm On Aug 24, 2022
fman:

You!!
How much u dey make?
leave werey... I dey earn 20k I still lap tight....
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by Berankis: 4:16pm On Aug 24, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?
Not all ladies are worthy of marriage! I was earning less when I got married and my wife knew how much I was earning and still went ahead. Today, we thank God for how far we have gone together.

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Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by marion4lig: 4:17pm On Aug 24, 2022
No its not advisable. just gimmme his number make i my sister marry am. grin grin grin lolz just kidding. But if he earn a 100k and you have a good managerial brain combine with the one you are bringing to the marriage, you'll be suprise how much your family will be worth after 5yrs dear.
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by DOM7: 4:17pm On Aug 24, 2022
Stop insulting people please! Till they kingdom come there people that will still be collecting less than 30k and they will be doing well for themselves.

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