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My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by LoveUdie: 4:37pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
My wife and I have been married for 6 years and have a son who is 4 years old. She confessed to me that she has been having an affair for “about a year” with a guy from church and is around 6 weeks pregnant based off when she had her last period. The last time we had sex was yesterday, before that the last time was maybe 4 months ago. She told me that she pretty much only had sex with me because she thought maybe she could make it seem like the baby is mine. From what I understand, she hasn’t told her affair partner that she is pregnant. She showed me the last texts between them (it looked like there were some that were deleted). He asked her to call him when she could, and he replied with she needed some space from him and to not contact her anymore. She told me she will end it officially with him and was crying begging me to forgive her. I told her that I needed space and went into our bedroom and locked the door (which is where I am now). I could hear her sobbing a little while ago but it sounds like she’s stopped. I posted on relationship_advice and a lot of the replies were validating but not helpful for the kind of advice I need right now. I’m going to have to face her tomorrow morning and our son will be there. I don’t know what to say to her. I know he’s only 4 and I don’t know how much of this he will remember but I never want him to see me speak to his mother with anything except respect. I grew up with divorced parents who hated each other and I don’t want that for him. I don’t know how I feel about her right now, I’m too angry but I’m pretty sure things aren’t salvageable. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by VeryWickedMan: 4:41pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Take your son for DNA test. If positive, kill the mother. If negative, kill both. Use poison. Modus operandi: Smile a lot in the days leading up to this act. Forgive her. Act like you've come to terms with the situation. If abortion is decided, support her. If successful, act relieved and happy. Behave well. Buy goodies for the family. Defend her furiously if attacked by nosy friends/family. Allow sufficient time to pass so you won't be suspected (months). Strike. 35 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by TinubuThief: 4:41pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
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Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by Promosaver: 4:42pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
VeryWickedMan: Indeed a wicked man ![]() 22 Likes |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by TinubuThief: 4:43pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
VeryWickedMan:Thunder fire your left nyash goat ![]() Very wicked person indeed 13 Likes |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by Promosaver: 4:44pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
My friend take the normal procedure joor 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by Typicool8(m): 4:45pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
VeryWickedMan: Ahhh on top wetin na 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by tnerro1(m): 4:48pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Uncle , dash her to that guy and find a brand new one case closed, next please. 51 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by Profmetoo: 4:49pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
I'm not saying that you're lying ooo. I just don't believe your story. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by tnerro1(m): 4:50pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
VeryWickedMan: I Dey fear una for here ooooo ![]() 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by slan87(m): 4:56pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
VeryWickedMan: Your advice is inhumane, things like this ain't a joke for the man @ this period. @OP, my advice for you is just relax yourself. Don't get too upset, cause it might lead you to destruction. As I man, I know it's going to be hard to forgive her but find a way to solve this amicably 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by Foodqueen(f): 4:56pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Forget her tears, let her go. 25 Likes |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by Fmghewzy(m): 4:58pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
VeryWickedMan: Mad fool. Never have you ever dropped any sensible comment. ![]() As for op, As much as I would have liked you to forgive her, mainly for the sake of your son. I would also want to consider your happiness and peace of mind. If you can find a way to forgive her and move on good. Do so and try to work on your marriage.(let bygones be bygones) Try to build a better home. But if you can't forgive her,or somehow you feel you would resent her and hold it against her . There is no point staying in the marriage, your son would have to accept his fate. You happiness matters as well. |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by God1000(m): 4:59pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Please send her away immediately 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by 2dice01: 5:00pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Crocodile tears works like magic ![]() ![]() Forgive and Forget Be a real man ![]() Safe your marriage No need for DNA your women loves you so don't do anything that will make her no trust you Enjoy your marriage ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by Qatar2022: 5:01pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
LoveUdie:You will contract HIV and die if you don't leave that woman , a cheating partner can never change but will change pattern 19 Likes |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by Tegabadguy(m): 5:02pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
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Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by Qatar2022: 5:02pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
LoveUdie:Before you call that boy your son go and conduct a DNA test on him 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by Qatar2022: 5:03pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Profmetoo:Nigeria woman like you can never be trusted 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by Manson1(m): 5:05pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Women are over taking men in the game of cheating... I always urge every single guy to be very careful of the kind of woman they marry... I don't subscribe to cheating from any gender but truth remains that a man cheating and a woman cheating is never thesame thing.. BTW... This is a four bedroom residential accommodation designed by asomarchitectng.. It's has an ante room, living room, dinning area with bar ,laundry and all rooms ensuite. Contact us for the complete architectural drawings/construction.. See my signature for contact details/portfolio... 13 Likes |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by Sweetvie: 5:08pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Seriously? You're still asking for advise on what is crystal clear like this? And about the boy there's nothing u can hide las las he will still know so it better for him to know now than later when he's big n maybe hear another story entirely different from what happened and then he will hate you thinking you leave him and his mom. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by 2moroshine(f): 5:13pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Crazy. The kind of marriages going these days. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by detectivejones: 5:24pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Do not talk to her tomorrow because you might be angrier. Leave the house for some days to calm your emotions and gather your thoughts before your next line of action. My 2kobo. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by Itohanmiwa: 5:28pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Op follow that very wicked man advice. Before calling that boy your son, go for a dna test. Your wife is a very wicked woman. She almost pinned this pregnancy on you. Some women have no regard for marriage at all. 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by my3name(m): 5:39pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
VeryWickedMan: ![]() ![]() Hey!! God Done people done kolo for this life ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by LonelyLucifer(m): 5:49pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Yeye...... Nonsense storyteller. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by Bamrems: 5:57pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
LoveUdie: You may need some time, please don't be in haste to decide. I know you hurt and the act is painful and despicable but you need some help now. Call a close friend or speak to someone with a better sense of reasoning, you can get a professional to help you with your emotions and pain or a clergy man who can offer some emotional healing. After that make your decision without heavy sentiment or pain. Look at the pros and cons and see if she's truly repentant. You can ask for separation for a while to work on each other then come back and work out the relationship. PLEASE DON'T DIVORCE HER IN HASTE! I feel her conscience is eating her up, so she's hurting too. I feel she wants the marriage to work, you can both sit down and find ways to move forward. Please remember this too shall pass. |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by penultimatee(m): 6:03pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Hmm,I don't really understand marriage of this days,I think social media and this phone era contribute alot to this madness going on among married couples.you hardly see a married lady loyal to their marriage,they did not see anything bad fucking outside there matrimonial home.if catched some don't even feel remorse about it.They feel like "did I kill person ". 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by sshyne(m): 6:07pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
She's not sorry. She only told you because she got pregnant and sooner or later you will find out. Assuming the date adds up from the last time you both had sex then she won't tell you anything. Send her packing or pack your things out. Forgive her but don't take her back and also make sure you carry out a DNA test on your son. Marriage of this days ehn. Why will you be married and not have sex with your wife for 4 months wetin happen. She's emotionally detached from you since, you just didn't pick up the clue. Once your wife starts refusing sex then just know the marriage is over. 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by SarutobiEky(m): 6:14pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
VeryWickedMan:I second this, OP. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by Ginaz(f): 6:24pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
were you not the one who wrote a thread that got to front page about "your husband starving you of sex"? how come you are now a husband with a cheating wife? in this thread? ![]() o.p is a fake story teller . save your advise people! this story is fake. |
Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by Ginaz(f): 6:25pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
sshyne: the story is fake. save your energy biko 2 Likes |
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