H0didon:
Seems you don't even know women . They can hide, pretend do anything as long as it makes them do what they wanna do without notice.
[/b]Once you find a Nigerian woman that is transparent, gives you peace of mind, respect and gives you her time, she supports and make you her priority and she come get fear of God. Nobody needs to tell you to keep her.[b]

Sex, Cooking skills and other minor things can be easily learnt but you see those virtues i mentioned up, that's the key gee.


As our Ancestors would say "A virtues woman is transparent in nature".

illuminutty:
As a man, you have no business with relationship or dating if you are below 26 yrs. You should be building yourself/chasing your dreams and not chasing relationships and women.

Athemisia:

You are just basically placing your judgements on the poor Nigeria economy. At 22, I was already done with schooling, working and earning a living. I could have gotten married if I wanted to at 26 but I choose not to.

Anuoluwa12345:
If everyone reason this way, believe me when good thing will pass them by they won't know. Most of you have not come to the full understanding that, there is certainly no law to some things in life sha. So what happens when he/she achieve the dream? They will now start another journey by looking for a life partner..thereby going from one blog to another to announce for relationship hookups. From there ppl they meet will come to understand you are in desperate need of it there by making them believe they are doing them a favour by marrying them... You know what, just do what works for you.. no advice us.

illuminutty:


For a high-value man, there is nothing good in a relationship with a woman apart from sex. Nothing will pass you if you are not in a relationship. It is a pure distraction. Only weak men are desperate for a relationship. A strong, developed, mature, established and independent man does not chase women and relationships, they come to him.

Anuoluwa12345:
Lol... That's cuz you see women as a sex tools. That's all you can see in them, sex and nothing more.all the best for you as you begin you drown in the gully of your blindness, thank you. Ppl like you are those who abuse their wives, maltreat them and treat them like shit... All the best for you once again.

LadysLuvSlyfoxx:


That’s how women think. They believe once you are dating them, they should be the center of your existence on this earth as if you don’t have work or anything else going on in your life. Once you don’t call them for a day like this; “you are cheating abi”? That’s all you will hear lol.

B!tch I’m busy. And even if I’m not, the fact I’m in a relationship with you doesn’t mean I shouldn't have my private time or I must always be in the mood for lovey-dovey stuff. I might shoot you a text just to check you’re okay. But expecting me to call you everyday and chat shit for hours won’t happen.

Demigod22:


Hahaha, she has used kpekus to confuse you.

illuminutty:


You are with a leech who sees you as a means to her ends. She will leave you once you can't do all that sh1t for her.

Blessedmercy8:
I wonder at the people that go about engaging someone in a relationship when they know theyre not interested in that person. Isn't that madness?

I never see that person that will try it with me.

If I'm courting you and you blank me more than three hours a day, even if it's for genuine reason, I'll send you a painful and unbelievable text and end it. No time to waste.

youngstrow:

was your mother a virgin before getting married to your pap?

illuminutty:


How would you build a family when you have not built yourself? In my own culture, most young men of 26yo are just finishing school or at NYSC scheme. No job. Those in business are still probably learning the ropes of their business at 26yo. The age bracket I mentioned is 26 years below, so I don't know what "40s" is doing under the context of my initial post. A 26yo woman can start building her family at that age with an older man but a 26yo man can't build sh1t with a younger woman or a woman of the same age. Meanwhile, marriage is rigged against men(Discussion for another day).

Bennoni:
Hmmmm......
I tried it and it was the best feeling.
Dating yourself

omooba969:


Read through the lines I can see how myopic you are with how you reason.

Bye

Blessedmercy8:
I wonder at the people that go about engaging someone in a relationship when they know theyre not interested in that person. Isn't that madness?

I never see that person that will try it with me.

If I'm courting you and you blank me more than three hours a day, even if it's for genuine reason, I'll send you a painful and unbelievable text and end it. No time to waste.

ifihearam:


But you cant be in a relationship with someone you love and loves you back and dont speak in a whole day na..its impossible.

Anuoluwa12345:
Lmao , if only you understand that beign a virgin is not a criteria to good and happy home! If only you understand that a devil reincarnate can also be a virgin! If only you understand that beign a virgin is synonymous to nothing just some peices of hymen covering the virginal way.

So how does a peice of hymen determines the quality of a good woman and also guarantees the happiness, sanity, and longevity of one's marriage?

Hope your mum was a virgin when your dad married her? And hope you sisters are? Or will be? Hope later in future when you marry, your daughter will be a virgin to her husband too? And if they are not, does that mean they are bad for marriage?

When you understand fully all I typed there, then you will understand.. happiness and goodness of things comes naturally.. it's not most times attached to things.

You are free to call me whatever you like, infact call me a LovePeddler, it's a faceless forum you don't even know me in person, talk more of knowing my sexual status. You must have been some small boy graced with internet availability. Grow up boy.

Edusouls:
Continue deceiving yourself Blackman, ask ur sister if she is still a virgin? You would marry overused pussies just as u guys Bleep and dump other girls, then when time comes u would start looking for a virgin, u think una pass God get sense..

Enumerator:
Everythinf you said make sense except for the virgin part, virgin or no virgin doesn't matter, infact not in this present age and time, you can hardly find virgin,
buttom line is pray to meet a good woman is all thar matters

Uchesis:

The way you carry this virgin matter for head, i dey suspect you oh. Make you no go rape one small girl wey never reach 14 yrs.

Any man that is waiting to marry a virgin go get white bear bear, because the percentage of virgins in Nigeria above 20yrs is less than 5%

Brunicekid:
Bad advice. If you advise guys should do anything they want to girls, then why will you still say that they should marry a virgin? It's unclear.

harmony75:
So sorry for person wer born this mumu here smh �‍♂️

H0didon:
Seems you don't even know women . They can hide, pretend do anything as long as it makes them do what they wanna do without notice.
Once you find a Nigerian woman that is transparent, gives you peace of mind, respect and gives you her time, she supports and make you her priority and she come get fear of God. Nobody needs to tell you to keep her.

Sex, Cooking skills and other minor things can be easily learnt but you see those virtues i mentioned up, that's the key gee.


As our Ancestors would say "A virtues woman is transparent in nature".

jeromestarks:

If a woman is so good then she won't sleep around.
If virginity means nothing, then God wouldn't have covered the vaginal way.
If virginity has nothing to do with a woman's character then a woman in marriage should sleep with men she's not married to.
If virginity is not important as you have said, then the hymen shouldn't have been there in the first place or it should be replaceable or it should even be unbreakable (maybe it should have been like a valve then).
My mom and sisters married as a virgin and my dad and in-laws are very proud till date.

jeromestarks:


No.
Everything good must be tested. Sleeping with girls before marrying them is a test for them. Whoever failed or has failed this test should not end up in a noble man's house.