Mentholated:


I understand your point but the true is that Jada Pinkett never respected Will Smith relationship wise from day one. Jada was addicted to drugs and alcohol even before she bonded with Tupac.

Women like Jada are damaged so much that they have zero regard for whoever they are with. I tell people that even if Tupac was alive and married to her, the story would have been the same.

Avoid damaged women. Run away from women that lack empathy.

heartofcity12:
If genuine desire doesn’t matter or there is nothing like it, then we can as well start buying those pvssies because we want to fvck, we can all start to simp away. Who genuine desire epp

LifestyleTonite:


Redpill is angry that women don't find them attractive, so they hate women and device all sort of manipulative means(GAME) against them.

Game will only work if a woman already finds you attractive, a point which you might not even need game.

What I've noticed about the Redpill community is that it's an incel community - men angry that they are not getting laid.

CaveAdullam:


1. Be covert or overt with your sexual dealings with women, however, as the situation demands.

2. Women are not scared to demand commitment, so don't be scared to demand sex or sexual-related acts. In the absence of sex, make sure she works for you, by all means, be on the other side gaining or make it mutual.

3. Society doesn't clamp down on commitment because sex is deemed morally wrong outside the marriage jurisdiction. The exploitation of a man's commitment is not seen as a crime but consensual sex is deemed evil.

4. I agree promiscuity and immorality ruin a society. But not until, the essence of a sexual relationship or relationship is valued, the decay will continue.

5. If women who are the gatekeeper of sex don't maintain their value men will not help them. Ditto when men don't value their commitment - they will be exploited.

6. The reason for a sexual relationship is to create a bond that will eventually forms a family that will contribute their share to civilization. If it is misconstrued for just sex, parties, and money you don't need to blame anyone...sex is not a crime if it is consensual.

7. There's nothing abnormal if you decide to remain celibate. But don't cage yourself when you know you want women.

8. You can't be moral about sex. But in cases where you're not interested in sex, there must be a value exchange. Don't waste your time, attention, and money on women who are not interested in you. Don't allow yourself to be friendzoned. Refer to 2 above.

9. Exchange sex for sex, and value for value. How you play both cards is left to you.

10. You will not fvck all women, and neither will you fvck all the women you're interested in. Don't make a mountain out of it. Deal with women that have a genuine interest in you - you'll fvck most of them.

11. Don't get yourself depressed because of women. Let every troubles and worry that come with them vanish with each sunset and passing of the day.

12. Understand women. Love women. Have fun with women.

DAY 229, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Act like a man.

Kingsince95:
Good morning kings! Hope everyone is doing okay mentally, psychologically and physically?

... I just got a job in a firm.
I share office with 3 females and 1 at the front desk making them 4.

There's this energy I carry, that easily makes women attracted to me. I know when to be friendly and serious with them tho.
Sometimes, I sense the 3 females fighting for my attention.
But right now I'm just close with one, but I'm still keeping my options open.

Let's call her "A"...
It's clear she likes me, I wanted her so send some files to me on WhatsApp that's how I got her number. Since then she's been commenting on my status. Sometime she try to get sexual with the chat. I just play along. I know she has money and lots of guys are after her.
She's beautiful, with moderate height and kind of big ass, so it's not surprising to me when guys do drop at the office to bring lunch for her. The last lunch a guy from one of her admirers we both we both ate it. She bought lunch For me some days ago.

Sometimes during break at work I crack jokes with them, they all laugh.
Even when having discussion with them, I subtly talk about her girls like me. They'll be like "for your mind you dey form fine boy abi?"

Sometimes "A" will tell me about her weekends, how a guy took her to a place in the island, boat cruise, Friday night club etc...

We just laugh about it, she tells me alot tho. Because I always make her feel free to open up to me about her crazy life styles.

She saw some of my pictures on my phone without my clothes on... Because I work out, since then she's been touching me playfully Lol.

I know one day I'll have a taste of her honeypot, but I'm not putting efforts. I'm just enjoying the moments while it lasts.


What I have to say is women love bad guys. A guy that's not scared of being sexual with them, a guy that's OPEN MINDED (not judgemental you can fake it too), stay MASCULINE.


****DROPS PEN.

ubunja:
it's how they do it. A lot of guys here have no problem complaining about female nature day and night posting memes and articles about women's cruelty,, but the moment there's a proposal that men do something and be proactive and take concrete steps to play the game to win, for a change, suddenly you're called an agent of chaos who's endlessly immoral.

Myself I'm taking a page from the women's playbook and doing them how they do men.

HARDESTNIGGAINT:
MARTINÈZ39S

ACCORDING TO WHAT U WROTE ABOVE TOWARDS THE END OF YOUR POST, YOU SAID THAT

"DONT SKIP DOING PATERNITY TEST BECAUSE THE CHILD RESEMBLES YOU"

WHAT CAN ACTUALLY GO WRONG IF THE CHILD RESEMBLES THE HUSBAND BUT NOT TRULY D BIOLOGICAL CHILD OF THAT HUSBAND

WHAT COULD BE THE CAUSE OF A CHILD'S RESEMBLANCE TO THE FALSE FATHER BUT BIOLOGICALLY HE AINT THE REAL FATHER

I ONLY WANT TO KNOW WHAT CAUSES IT, MAY BE THERE IS A MIXED UP SOMEWHERE BIOLOGICALLY

dhiqson:
It's no dick riding man
Whatever ideologies or put is the way
2009-2017 year of simps
2017 ubunja happened
And that's how nairaLand turned upsidedown

Good day gentlemen
#Taliban

Martinez39s:
Long time. It has been long. Hope you are good.

Skepticus:


Way to go... I already took my male solipsism to another level. When dealing with a woman, I act like a man but think like a woman as they do when dealing with men by putting their needs first.

A lot of gents in the red pill and those heavily stuck in the blue-pill matrix miss a lot of things about female nature. They can yell "Women are Hypergamous" all day where Hypergamy means women going for what's better but same folks get confused (especially with current complex social events) where a decent number of women are going for what they (by their judgment as men) consider lower than what the women would naturally go for. To summarize it, some women are flipping HYPERGAMY on its head, the way men know it much to their confusion.

That missing link is FEMALE SOLIPSISM which a lot of men in the red pill do not deeply touch and the confusion brings up a lot of discussions that further complicate matters. For the woman, it is all about herself first, when dealing with men from mundane stuff (that men often over-look) like attention, protection to more material stuff like dick, money etc.

It's why I tune off when men try to link parameters that men use in ranking each other (male hierarchy attributes like wealth, social status and competence) and project same in dealing with women. It's a recipe for failure in understanding women. Whether low or high in any of this male hierarchies, women deal with all as she wants as long as it is to her advantage. Whether the males in whatever ranking of this hierarchies get equal benefits doesn't matter much. Where the males get benefits, the women get greater benefits.

For instance, a very wealthy guy drives a luxury automobile and parks on a street. Both men and women around checks him out. For men generally, they are like "wow, I like this guy's car, I want to earn so much to be able to afford his car and his lifestyle". Women on the other hand think same but take it a notch further: "He appears rich, I want his money, influence etc, to my benefit". This is also the reason why the most feared 60 year old general commanding a legion of men who respects and are intimidated by his presence or a 50 year old mega-rich CEO, would be getting childishly manipulated by a 17 year old girl who has been groomed in the understanding of men.

I'm all for men (regardless of their rank in male hierarchies) winning in their dealings with women whether they choose to deal with them fully or sparingly. If completely avoiding them also makes a man win, I'm all for it regardless of what society thinks.

Men can do better

emmaodet:
If we claim that many women who got married to rich guys don’t really have genuine love for them, is it the poor guys they really love?
Should we even really care about genuine desire nowadays? Does it really matter?
Because the person that genuinely loves you today may lose interest tomorrow for any reason.
Moreover, I noticed my guys like throwing jabs at rich guys or boasting how they laid their women or gfs but the truth still remains for every 1 rich man’s lady a poor guy sleeps with, a rich man has slept with 20 men’s gfs.
To rich guys, sleeping or snatching a poor man’s gf looks like norm reason why they don’t even boast about it.
It is the poor lads who celebrate such feats and boast about it. Throwing jabs at the rich.

Martinez39s:
Boss, long time. How family? I don't think that heartofcity12 was throwing jabs at rich people. Remember that someone was attributing women's promiscuity and whatever mainly to "economics." Heartofcity12 was simply saying that it really has nothing to do with economics alone because many paternity fraud victims are rich men too. This is true even in developed nations and other nations around the world; little surprise as riches can't cure cuckoldery and blue pill mentality. Also, we know for a fact that a lot of rich men's wives do sleep around, hence we ought to ask what role did poor finances play in that?

Sinces poor/unsatisfactory finances were used as the main reason for the issue discussed, heartofcity12 had point to rich people and emphasise that they face similar problems. He wasn't hating on rich people.

We don't hate on rich people here or try to diss or mock them. The day LifestyleTonite and others came from the ashewo thread and were talking down on riches, we redpillers put them in their place. We all said it would be better to be rich than poor; some even went as far as saying that it is better to be a rich simp than a broke ass redpiller.

As for the genuine desire stuff heartofcity12 was talking about and how he related it to paternity fraud, I might speak on that later if the opportunity presents itself. I thought I would write a lot today, but a lot of things are on my table and I will always prioritise my offline life over commenting on nairaland. Cheers.

Zabiboy:


You wan dey serious with people wey neva wan dey serious ...
Even if you see one to settle down with, dont you think its because of your "resources" and nothing else.. Which leaves the door open to frivolous cheating , divorce, partenity fraud etc etc ..

How someone who went to a nigerian university and did NYSC can be so fired up about marriage is my 8th Wonder of the world

Omor i don type too much this night

heartofcity12:
Thank you for the clarification bro, I couldn’t have said it better. I’ll be delighted to see your contribution on this. Cheers.

Nezzjnr:
Wow

Martinez39s:
Red pill will never fail.

Martinez39s:
I know you were not dissing rich folk. I agree with some other things emmaodet said, but if I am ever chanced, I will give my contribution asap. Later.

Nezzjnr:
Wow

Martinez39s:
Boss, long time. How family? I don't think that heartofcity12 was throwing jabs at rich people. Remember that someone was attributing women's promiscuity and whatever mainly to "economics." Heartofcity12 was simply saying that it really has nothing to do with economics alone because many paternity fraud victims are rich men too. This is true even in developed nations and other nations around the world; little surprise as riches can't cure cuckoldery and blue pill mentality. Also, we know for a fact that a lot of rich men's wives do sleep around, hence we ought to ask what role did poor finances play in that?

Sinces poor/unsatisfactory finances were used as the main reason for the issue discussed, heartofcity12 had point to rich people and emphasise that they face similar problems. He wasn't hating on rich people.

We don't hate on rich people here or try to diss or mock them. The day LifestyleTonite and others came from the ashewo thread and were talking down on riches, we redpillers put them in their place. We all said it would be better to be rich than poor; some even went as far as saying that it is better to be a rich simp than a broke ass redpiller.

As for the genuine desire stuff heartofcity12 was talking about and how he related it to paternity fraud, I might speak on that later if the opportunity presents itself. I thought I would write a lot today, but a lot of things are on my table and I will always prioritise my offline life over commenting on nairaland. Cheers.

Hrhdujdb:
This might sound like dick riding but imma give a nigga his flowers while he's alive.

Following you since 2017 has had an immense benefit on my life Ubunja. I first was an ardent follower of HARDDON even while reading your threads and even though he explained game, he didn't touch on the intricacies as well as you've done. He told us what to do but not really why we did it. He did try to explain why some of the things he advised works and would work but once again, it's not as much as you did and truth be told, HARDDON was more relatable at the beginning cuz I couldn't wrap my head around the things you taught. I followed his teachings and I got success to some extent but I always felt that I didn't know enough about what I was doin(I still don't). For instance, I could meet a girl now and fvck her brains out because I've unlocked that part of my brain that kept holding me back because of my morals but with HARDDON, even though I could make the girls interested in me. I couldn't explain why I can't make some decisions like getting sexual with her. I just knew I couldn't do it. Now I know why and that part of me has been unlocked

Your ideologies was just too much to take in. I remember days I read your thread and take some days break to wrap my head around it. For instance, realising that the motherly love I've always thought was pure wasn't all that pure or that the break up she initiated for no reason would most likely have a reason behind it and many more. You gave TOO MUCH knowledge and that's why I somehow understand how some people feel regarding some of these truths. It's too much to take in. Telling us everything we've known all our life is a lie is not so easy to digest.

Thumbs up man, you set me up for life with these knowledge nbs. I'm eternally grateful

Focused massively on self since then though. I have a gym membership. I spend a premium on my skin now. I eat healthy. I'm focusing on the bag the more. I don't want to imagine how much I'd have squandered on women in order to recreate the *motherly love* I had as a kid if I didn't stumble upon you

Martinez39s:
Ubunja really tried a lot and he earned all the respect he has. At a time, and for a long while, Ubunja was the face of the red pill on nairaland. Even the creator of this thread, GLYCOLYSISS, was once somewhat of a blue pill fellow on nairaland some years back; he slowly became redpilled around the time of Ubunja's miseducations and the time of others, myself included.

The time I really gained hoped that anyone can be saved was when a certain nwaezeemannuel (the former Ozo of nairaland) became a redpiller and started sympathising with us. Good old days for those that can remember.

heartofcity12:
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CaveAdullam:


Alright man. Send a DM

Cc. Kennethlbe59