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Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by JASONjnr(m): 11:12pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: The fact that someone can easily admit that they're addicted to something makes it easy for them to disallow it. Addiction is a gradual process..... Disallowing or controlling it takes process too.... But it's all possible if a person is willing to fight it or do little or nothing to end it. Sometimes, the environment and peers makes it difficult for an addict to fight back. |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Kronikuz: 11:17pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Man go carry himself put inside trouble then come online and be crying like they were forced. Nawao ![]() |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Clementz0(m): 11:18pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
make a decision to focus more on God and cry to him In prayers to deliver you from the addiction be intentional with God and ask for a personal encounter, he will set you free bro you can be free |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Donchrister(m): 11:18pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Determination first, once you determine to stop it, pray over it and put it to work. For example- determine that you will abstain for a week, pray and work towards it. Then extend you periodity. I think this will help. |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by AngelicBeing: 11:19pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
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Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Jeffy1206(m): 11:20pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Many have died cos of virtual gaming/betting. You will have to stop it entirely or you will find ursef hanging on the rope of death ![]() |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by kevotek1000(m): 11:21pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Unyimekelvin: I can only relate with the betting aspect. It's very difficult to fully change ones act of gambling but you can reduce it to 90% by replacing it with other activities. Get yourself busy with work, get a smaller phone and deprive yourself from the internet. Stay far away from friends who always talk about betting... There's nothing you can't change, if you truly make a decision. |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by oladuro(m): 11:24pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Unyimekelvin: My friend first you need Jesus to come and have His place in your life when you come He gives you grace to overcome this temptation and urge. I tell only Jesus Christ can help you . Cry to Him desperately and passionately He will help. Titus 2:11(KJV) For the grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men, Titus 2:12(KJV) Teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly, in this present world; The good Lord will save you Amen Do the 30 days challenge overcoming each day for 30 days and these evil habits will disappear forever in Jesus Mighty name Amen |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by PstOlu: 11:25pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Always say, ' the presence and the power of the creator in me has set free from masturbation and all extreme indulgence". Say this regularly without guilt and in faith. You will be free. |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by UpperRoom: 11:28pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Take HUSTLE2FLEX Advice. Also, You need Jesus for real. This combo is the Answer. Cheers |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Choski78(m): 11:29pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
funny guy, masturbating is not your problem, Africans and there stupid mentality, before you know it someone will tell you is a spiritual problem, as for gambling, stop gambling on game who's outcome will be determined by the book owners eg, vartual reality game, the house always win, I have made so much cash on normal game, there is no spiritual acclimation to your issues, just stop vatual game and you will be good, porn and masturbating aren't a problem almost every male adult masturbates ones in a while. |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Carisayo: 11:38pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Unyimekelvin:Call this line 07035172067 |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Chizzyjr(m): 11:45pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
See for the masturbating of a thing that one no hard atall I do masturbate didn't start along time Sha but if I'm alone that's when the evil spirit leads me to masturbate but when I'm busy through out for days I barely do shit like that So my advice is just find yourself a job or something because Iit takes 21days for an habit to be developed and still 21days for you to let go of the habit... And for betting Sha na only normal football betting I dey do I play only 100 every week that's how I control myself on that aspect I no dey near virtual only if I wan dash them money On the visual aspect the best is for u to sell your phone and get a small phone like I said when you don't exhibit a particular habit for 21days it fades away you can use the small phone for two Three months and see your troubles are gone you then develop a new habit to be without a mindset of playing visual Just try it it works for |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Ken4Christ: 11:48pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Unyimekelvin: Give your life to Christ. This is the first step. Salvation is free. Only believe. Receive the baptism with the Holy Spirit. Ask a Pastor to guide you. Attend a Christ believing and tongue speaking church. Meet a Pastor for counseling. Set your affections on heavenly things. Make godly friends. Remember, evil communication corrupts good manners. Dwell on the right thoughts. Avoid lustful thoughts. Listen to messages especially from Joyce Meyer. Be committed in a local church. Talk to God about it. Avoid being alone especially at night. |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Kayclite: 11:49pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Unyimekelvin:Stay away from an addiction for forty (40) days and your mind creates a shift. Like a 40 day fast. Then from then onwards, you'll have no casual thoughts or feelings flying in to take you back to those addictions. Get off the internet for masturbation. Get into a healthy relationship. For betting, get a good skill/job that will take your mind off that. |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by texannaija: 11:51pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
This one just dey find attention… |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by olaayinkha(m): 11:53pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Addiction to gambling, masturbation and porn are all unhealthy practices that have the potential of causing significant demage to an individual's mind, finance and spirituality. You seeking for help about your condition is praiseworthy. As most people go through this detrimental end without having the courage or will to address it. Masturbating, porn watching and gambling are habits built over time. When these pattern of behaviours become registered in the brain, by default, it becomes much more easy to engage in them. Although, engaging in any of these acts could provide momentary pleasure, however, its long term detrimental impact is not a play something. Battling any form of addiction is quite challenging depending on its severity as it requires a true self commitment, consciousness and discipline to address it. Below are some of my recommendations: 1. One's spirituality is highly needed, reconnect with your creator and ask for help. 2. Be determined to follow the right path to healing. 3. Distance yourself from activities that would lead you to this act. Which may include deleting the betting app, changing what you listen to and watch as well as the company you keep. 4. Channel your energy into productive activities. 5. Help is always available to those who seek it. However, it is important you get help from the right channel. I hope you'll find this contribution useful towards your healing. If possible, attend this online workshop. I believe you'll gain something meaningful. Peace |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by BenjaminDomer: 11:53pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Unyimekelvin:go to rehab |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by BenjaminDomer: 11:55pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Onucs:You mean soap or Vaseline ? ![]() |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by olaayinkha(m): 11:55pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Kobojunkie: 11:57pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
JASONjnr:All you have stated above simply reveals your lack of exposure to what is mental illness and what addiction truly is and how devastating it can be. ![]() The statement in bold amounts to saying that a mad man can easily disallow what is madness since he admits to being mad. Or a cancer patient can stop the cancerous growth in his body since he admits to the reality of the growth. Reality does not work the way you pretend. ![]() |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by sleeknick: 11:57pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by herbert2017: 12:03am On Aug 27, 2022 |
I really want to advice you on the following steps : 1 Don't stay alone, always be in company of people. 2 Avoid pornsites 3 Block all your betting sites. 4 I honestly think you need Deliverance Pls call me let's talk about it, God has helped me by being a solution to people like you who are doing fine now 09067314685 my name is Evangelist Uzo Herbert Ekene |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by bukalis(m): 12:09am On Aug 27, 2022 |
Dm me if you are in Lagos, I can help you out Unyimekelvin: |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by grandstar(m): 12:09am On Aug 27, 2022 |
Unyimekelvin If you're close to your parents, confide in them. If it's even one you trust, confide in that one |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Drone95(m): 12:09am On Aug 27, 2022 |
My brother you better be close to God and be prayerful. |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by alyarmouk(m): 12:10am On Aug 27, 2022 |
I understand addictions. U hv to have a strong will. Expecially betting |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by stacyadams: 12:12am On Aug 27, 2022 |
Unyimekelvin:..go out more and reduce hours staying alone and idle |
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