Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

My brother, sincerely speaking what you need now is JESUS CHRIST. He is the only one that can save you.

Unyimekelvin:
I need someone to say something about this before I commit suicide please

Commit suicide ke..? Omo just go Yaba psychiatric hospital and talk to someone.

Every temptation is atmosphere dependent tackle the atmosphere and the temptation will cease to exist.

Hustle2flex:
Believe me bro,that is what am currently doing and I am getting better everyday.most importantly, visit a mental health physician.that was what really turned my situation around.

I imagine you must have spent a fortune on the private mental health thing.
It's cheaper in a general hospital like Yaba if you lived in Lagos State. Don't know where you live tho.

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

I think you're cursed and you're beyond redemption.

Injera:
Masturbation will give you dandruff , shrink your penis , make you go bald and older than your age. All these happened yo me but I finally slayed it. 140 days of no porn and masturbation. My life took s turn for the better. Slay the demon

Are you on nofap?

You a have the diseases of the mind and they are controlling you.
Physically, I will advise you get rid of any Android and iPhone devices. Get a touch light for text and phone calls . Your access to online contents is the reason for the gambling and the pornography that leads you to masturbation.
Spiritually, go for deliverance. You will need that spirituality for will power. Because it’s not easy to get off a bad habit.
In addition try stay away from things that lure you to both habit.

Good luck to you.

jaxxy:



The best advice I can give u is to go celibate or di fasting.

U can only repel a bad attitude with a stronger or equal and opposite force/attitude.

That's not just a spiritual law bt a universal law of physics and change.

You are totally right

hector:
You will be fine. Jusy masturbate and sleep. Thays whatii am doing now.

hahahaha

Unyimekelvin:
okay, someone once said this; I tried it but it's didn't works out for me... this two things really caught me deeply

Your grammar worse pass masturbation and betting joined together

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

Op, the only thing you have control of is your mind. If you can't control that, you're in deep waters. Being practical with yourself, you'll realise that unless you want to get a baby or get married, you're more likely to be given STDs like Chlamydia from ladies than getting any benefit of any sort. Once you realise this, your job is to focus on the money.
Op, let your entire focus be on your hustle. Stop listening to afrobeats songs about women waist or watching any music video that shows half- nude women. These kind of music will only cause you to think more of masturbation. Be a real nigga - Start listening to songs by guys like Young Dolph and key glock. .Those guys only rap about making cash and the importance of it - check out their project Dum and Dummer. Listen to those songs everyday - your entire mind will be primed on hustling for cash.
If you listen to these guys' music everyday and focus on your job or business in addition to the tip I gave on what women can bring to the table- your thinking on masturbation will go down naturally.

Op, your issue is not the porn but something deeper than that. The porn is the coping mechanism. Whatever emotional problem you are having at any point in time, there is no point in thinking about it - your job is to condition yourself to work efficiently for the cash. You need to learn state management. Read the chapter in Jordan Belfort's book 'straight Line persuasion' on managing your state of mind. Link to download the book is :http://libgen.rs/book/index.php?md5=C232CB7ED59C8B714DD43BDF2CE69399. Scroll down the webpage to mirrors, click on this mirror or libgen.gs then click on get to download the book. If you follow the template I gave you on porn and masturbation, I guarantee you that your masturbation level will reduce by 80 percent. Once you stop thinking of sex so much and you are focused on making money - how can you possibly be continually masturbating?

On the issue of gambling, it still boils down to state management, you know it's bad for you but you can't manage your mind to be in a state where you reject the temptation to play it. You need to have high levels of certainty about your principles to cut out masturbation, porn and gambling. Be honest with yourself but be rational . You enjoy doing these things but they are not good for you. Why are they not good for you? Because they do not generate money or help you make stronger business connections.. Anything that fails this litmus test of usefulness is bad for you. Once you admit this to yourself, then follow the lesson on state management in Belfort's book.

If you apply all these steps, your problem will reduce by at least 80 percent, I look forward to hearing your success story in a month's time.

Always put atarodo! Hot pepper in your hand! That has been helping me!!

You need Jesus Sir.

guy I beg dey giv thanks to god oh cos your matter small for where my matter dey infact dis your matter no each anywhere cos only me dey drink,smoke both cigarettes and weed when I say weed am talking of loud and Colorado,am drug addicted,gambling,doing(Yahoo)fraud,womanizing and still dey masturbate the only thing wey dey surprise me be say I no know how I escaped from being a cultist.

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

. Been there? Do u really wanna stop all those ?

Get married bros.
A good wife will support you abandon these destructive habits. She is a batter alternative to masturbation and having a family responsibility on your shoulders will discourage you from addictive gambling. Or you see a psychologist to guide you on this.
You know what your problem is and the solution is within your reach..
Addictive gambling will surely destroy your economy in addition to the psychological torture and wastage of valuable time.
On the other hand, excessive masturbation is is a one way ticket to premature ejaculation and impotency.
Be wise.

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...


I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

Get this message of APOSTLE Joshua Selman, THE POWER OF GENUINE BROKENESS... and follow his weekly teachings, you will be strengthened to resist the urge when it comes

Just get yourself busy. Do away with android for 6months. Buy Nokia torch. Read books, listen to messages like apostle Selma, Arome, orokpo, play Christian worship songs. These things will leave you

Guy I feel your pain.. when you know you're caged by a habit and don't know how to break free... it all starts gradually
FOR GAMBLING
Sign up on cowrywise or piggyvest to save ur cash, anytime u feel like betting just deposit the money ASAP... ( it worked for me ) don't always leave too much cash lying around. Or deposit to another account u don't have the debit card


FOR MASTURBATION
Many people masturbate, I did but like twice a month... and I must say it is not a good habit, I made a conscious effort to change...
1. I deleted all the porn on my phone
2. I had to find a girlfriend to date
3. I gave my life to christ
4. Anytime I think of masturbation I will do 50 pushups.. immediately I do the pushups the urge for sex dies immediately because those blood flowing to the penis now flows to the muscles.
5. I started learning tech & fell in love with it...
6. I started exercising & jogging & also eating enough proteins

Bro.. I am speaking from my own experience, apply these steps and your life will change for Good...
You will have extra funds in your account & you will also be healthy.

God bless everyone trying to break away from any bad habit. You can do it... take gradual steps.

GeneralBuhari:


I think you're cursed and you're beyond redemption.

Why should you say such a thing?

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

It is well bro

God is still the answer, you need to persist at it and pray about it until you begin to see changes. It will not go away over night but you must be determined. Give your life to Christ as he is the only one that can bring a sting solution to your problem. There is a spirit behind every addiction as the Bible says that we are a slave of whom we choose to obey. Only a life in Christ can set you free from that spirit. It will have to be a battle I must warn you. A very fierce one. First the devil will make you think you can never win but know that the devil Cam never be stronger than God and so God can help you. You will fail if you don't involve God and the only way to do that is to give your life to Christ.
After you have done the above, you have taken care of the spiritual aspect, then the physical. Read "habit". It's a book that will help you alot. I read it to when I was working on one of my past addictions. One of the things the book will teach you is how to study the pattern of that addiction, what is the cue,
the mechanism and how to replace it as you can not overcome what you don't understand. You need to avoid movies, musics that talk about sexual immorality. Alot of people are winning against masturbation and sexual sin. Don't let anyone deceive you, if you don't tackle this problem you will perish in hell oh, that's why you must make it a matter of life and death.
I know that God will help you as the Bible says that who ever ask him for help shall be saved.
Do these two things.

Unyimekelvin:
okay, someone once said this; I tried it but it's didn't works out for me... this two things really caught me deeply

ComeToJesus:




And you are the same guy suffering from this stuff posted on an earlier thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7296444/what-could-cause-chest


Gambling, masturbation, porn, skin ailments and suicidal..

Please find a way and come to Living Faith Church at Otta this Sunday if you are in Lagos/Ogun. The service is tagged 'enough is enough'.

Come beleiving and from this moment, make a conscious decision to subject your body to the authority of the Almighty.


You shall testify. Those bondages shall be destroyed by the anointing.

Ooooook yeah

Hello bro, I understand how you feel because I want involved in same addiction of betting and Masterbating but let me share how I got out of betting and working now to stop masterbating. For betting, just consider what ever you have lost as lost, the moment you keep thinking if you can recover, you will loose more, then delete or permanently close your betting account . For masterbution try to remove your thought from it, avoid touching your private part and also avoid staying alone as much as possible, that really help me to overcome the addiction. Above all commit everything to God to give you the strength to overcome, i wish your the best..apologies for my typos, I did this in a hurry

egunna:
haba,some said it's killing him ND u are telling him to co0ntinue

lol

Doctortest:
If you are seeing this...
Always remember you are a fooola....
But all hope ain’t lost..I been cashing out almost 12 years now whenever I see a broke run down nigga I feel pity ‘ I will help u baba.
It’s been some 10years since I caressed my dick ‘ I grown past that shit Omo iya mi.See... your solution far .but with mental strength and understanding u must conquer.
First of all tell yourself ‘ I mustn’t carry last. I must be a Gee.
Now masturbation comes cos u ain’t getting no pussy change your swag my guy....go alone ...home alone....fuxk it all....reason deeep .....go solo....look deep within what have u got . What talent do u have ‘ apparently u got none. Change your mentality free your dick ...buy lapi ...there are tins to learn the road fxking far. Wish u well even me no get solution for u

i will try that

Okusak7:
Go to your pastor and confess to him, he will help you. Is a spiritual sickness. You decide what you tolerate. Makeup your mind to desist from such practice. Pray and avoid touching your "cock" like a tail of a snake at all time. As for gambling, stop recharging your account and don't visit betting center. Ask someone to lock you out with a new passwords. May God help you. Amen.

i can't do that now

frozen70:


Get a sensible and responsive reasonable girl friend

Tell her about all this and she will reform you

Just be ready because she is going to work on your bad habits and you will be alright with time

hope you are not kidding,cos girlfriend of nowadays hmmm

Shadestar:
My brother, sincerely speaking what you need now is JESUS CHRIST. He is the only one that can save you.

Jesus Christ did not come to help those who are struggling with addiction problems. Stop using His name to sell ideas that are contrary to His Gospel.

He clearly told you He came to call the weary and the heavy laden, those who are tired of the world, to Himself - Matthew 11 vs 28 - 30. OP does not sound like one who is tired of the world so of what good is Jesus Christ to Him in this situation? What OP needs is addiction treatment and that can be found in clinical where Ibogaine is an option.