Jonathan273:
Surrender all to Jesus. He is the solution to all problems.

surrendering to jesus is not easy oo

Eleyigidgan:
funny enough the person who introduced me into masturbation and taught me how to masturbate, his name is Unyime

Is it that the Unyimes are chronic masturbators?

sylve11:


Is it that the Unyimes are chronic masturbators?

M,y dear young man I am almost 55 years pls listen to me
1 Life is very complex and dont make it more complex and harder , through masturbation and gambling
The solution is to give your life to God and seek His knowledge through the Bible , Please Read Romans the whole chapter 6 chapter 7 and 8 also first Corinthians chapter 6 also , Then pray for supernatural power to set you free both are the weapon of satan to destroy the life our young people , I have scientific secret you may contact me for more help.

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

You need new habits. These ones you've got are depending and complementing each other. Psychologically, you want to make money through betting, virtual betting is rigged for the house to win not you. When you lose, you feel worthless and you find succour in getting a nut (ejaculation) which will also make you feel ashamed of yourself again. You need to learn a trade, something that will take most of your time and start talking to girls and going out more to build your confidence. Block website for betting from your phone or laptop as well.

olaodun:
M,y dear young man I am almost 55 years pls listen to me
1 Life is very complex and dont make it more complex and harder , through masturbation and gambling
The solution is to give your life to God and seek His knowledge through the Bible , Please Read Romans the whole chapter 6 chapter 7 and 8 also first Corinthians chapter 6 also , Then pray for supernatural power to set you free both are the weapon of satan to destroy the life our young people , I have scientific secret you may contact me for more help.

Alright sir!!
Thank you!!

wheelchairboy:


You need new habits. These ones you've got are depending and complementing each other. Psychologically, you want to make money through betting, virtual betting is rigged for the house to win not you. When you lose, you feel worthless and you find succour in getting a nut (ejaculation) which will also make you feel ashamed of yourself again. You need to learn a trade, something that will take most of your time and start talking to girls and going out more to build your confidence. Block website for betting from your phone or laptop as well.

just blocked thats now

NewSoul:


This is evil advice. Your foundation and his foundation are not the same. Maybe your ability to get money/wealth is genetic and he doesn't have that "bloodline". The fact that you masturbate and are balling doesn't mean every other person can try it and still get your result. Grace differs, you don't know the grace upon your life. What if Your eyes were opened and if you had never masturbated or stopped it 10 years ago, you and Dangote would be dragging for the richest man in Africa

Lmfao. Nigerians are so weird. See logic

hector:
You will be fine. Jusy masturbate and sleep. Thays whatii am doing now.

madness

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

+++

friend... the Lord JESUS, the CHRIST can truly free you from all bondage to sin! "For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord." - Romans 6:23

Won't you cry out to HIM continuously in prayer today and from now on?

GOD Who made the ear... hears (Psalm 34:18, Psalm 51:17! Read the Holy Bible continuously... the living word of GOD gives strength (Hebrews 4:12-13, Philippians 4:6-7 & 13)

"So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God." - Romans 10:17

"Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak." - Matthew 26:41

"And you hath he quickened, who were dead in trespasses and sins" - Ephesians 2:1

" If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed." - John 8:36

Pray and read the Holy Bible whenever you are tempted.

Unyimekelvin:
i have sworn before omor nothing works out...i will just die..
Just finished My doings now

U need serious one on one tutor!!!
Before then, read about masterbation and see the effects!!! Sincerely, that is evil, will affect u physically and spiritually!!! Ok??
One of the effects, u won't enjoy normal sex again, u become a 1 minute man!!!

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

so all this Nigeria girls with boreholes in between the legs you no see to the burry your dike na soap u still use?

Don't worry them plenty for nairaland.

Betting companies in Nigeria are Scam. They designed their bookies against you. My advise for u is to stop gambling totally and stop chasing after your losses. See the losses as your school fees.
Delete all betting account on your phone unfollow gamblers on social media, go into seven days fasting and prayers. Stop Friendship with gamblers they may lure you back into the act.

As for masturbation, try to make up your mind to stop, delete all porn from your phone, get a girlfriend or an olosho to have real sex with once in a week, whenever you are thinking towards masturbation look for something else to do or find someone to talk to.
Peace

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

. Just look for any Bible believing church around you, enter there ask for their counsellors and report this to them. Whenever the urge for masturbating comes rebuke it and discard any device you use in doing it

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

First step - since your andriod phone is likely that bait, if you're serious to stop the dirty habit, you'll take away the bait. Meaning - you'll stop using Android phone for a while, and switch to small touchlight phone. As with this, you cannot watch porn or play your bet online. You wont Be able to browse Or do other online stuff - buh that's the price you'll have to pay to giveup the habit.

Secondly - you have to filter your set of frnds and neighbors. Those that liur you into betting, you'll have to cut them off. Avoid long discussion of football games, as this might encourage you to go back to play as they'll tend to see "a sure game".

Thirdly - practice the act of reading. Read things that are very educative. Newspaper, inspirational books, audio books, (apostle Selmans msg can be of great help to you)

Fourthly - engage in excersice. It help you mind to be distracted. Only wicked people commit suicide, leaving your family in tears and pain...

If this is helpful, I'll drop few more nuggets for you.

Iré ó

JASONjnr:
Your own hard oh....

Two tedious addiction....

You never see anything. Some people even join drugs, womanising and alcholism to OP's addiction and na them go advice OP pass for this thread

Why do we constantly see this kind of post on Nairaland? If you count, there over a 100 posts on this same topic. Abeg let us rest!

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

My advice for you bro, all these acts are because you own a smart phone. Sell off the phone and use a small phone, you will gradually forget the addictions. Also, detach yourself from friends with similar or same addictions. It works.

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

I think the problem is that you have a lot of free time to allow yourself think of masturbation and betting. Get yourself busy and when such thoughts come to do try and step away from that place, find something to engage in or someone to talk about other stuff. The thought will leave you. Then as for betting, always remember the kind of hardship in Nigeria and you can not be rich through betting.. if you win 1 million Naira; you lost 7 million Naira to win that. Try and get hold of yourself because that betting can/will ruin you forever if you do not stop it.

Only Jesus can help you.

The way you squander money if I ask you for a favor you go reject me

Bro move closer to God but get busy look for work things that will make you busy stay away from things that can distract you or draw your attention to porn try this in a month

Be praying for it as your prayer request

The fact that you shared via this platform to seek help implies that you know it is not good and that's indeed the first step because Self awareness is highly pertinent to change from an ill-attitude.

1. Speak to your maker about how wrong you know the addictions are, your desire to quit and that you need God's help to overcome.
2. Abstain from all appearances of these addictions, i.e. pornographies, films, books/romantic novels, burn such in your possession, delete platforms where you view it online and avoid sites where you bet.
3. Be concious of your company, and people who will advice you about how these addictions are good.
(Avoid Association And Companies That Empower Your Addiction)
4. Realize that your future is too precious to be wasted by sexual impropriety and betting.
5. Control your thoughts because your thoughts affect your reality. Learn how to control your thoughts and be the person who can actively, consciously master your mind.
(Whenever you feel the urge to do it again, pick your Quran and study if you are a muslim or you pick the Bible and study if you are a Christian)

Above all, you need to take control of your life because you alone are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life.

This will be helpful as well �
https://guardian.ng/saturday-magazine/eight-reasons-you-must-not-enter-2020-with-pornography-and-masturbation/

Why do you want to stop? There's nothing bad in masturbating

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

Consciously strive to reduce/stop watching porn.It an addiction. Look for things to elevate your mood.Stop it little by little you should overcome.

Unyimekelvin:
the one in the y Bank, online betting nkor?

Bruh mine was online, Msport Virtual football to be precise, thing is once you lose even if it's #100, you won't stop all your focus will be on how to recover.
Once I lose, I don't stop till either I've recovered and made gain or my account is cleared. Find someone you trust to hold your money for you or open a fixed deposit account so your funds are always locked.

Am addicted gambler what I did to stop my own addiction.
1. Bet9ja
2. Merrybet
3. 1xbet
4. Nairabet
5. Betking
6. Sportybet
7. Msport
8. Betpawa
9. Bonanzawin
10. Naijabet
I have loss close to 4 million keep accumulating.
Now I emailed bet9ja to delete my betting account permanent it took Ages. Before I got it done. I did it to remain nine betting account and I left one Betpawa behind.
For the past 4 month. I did not bet on any sports events. One day feeling of winning big with 1000 came to my mind, I try to login to bet9ja and others betting account I got the same message your betting account is permanent ban, he pain me,. I say manutd, Chelsea, Arsenal man city must win their first match. Now I remember I have Betpawa account I try to login it enter and fund my betting account with 1000, before I knew anything 30000 went to sambisa forest. I emailed to Betpawa sharply to delete my betting account permanent it was done. Up till now I never bet.
@OP just delete your betting account.
Betking I emailed them to get my account deleted but they refused for like two weeks. I wasted like 80000 until I bumber them with plenty messages they now agreed to get my betting account deleted permanent.

You have conditioned your mind to masturbate to please your self, you have to find others hobbies that are not emotionally damaging even if it’s less satisfying with time your mind will be conditioned to it. Just tell your self that this habit will eventually leave you more broken If you don’t stop early. You will have a hard time if you decide to get married and and career wise you will gamble with every penny that comes your way. That’s more debt for you and eventually you will have to steal. When you decide to masturbate or gamble again, think about this and choose wisely.

Unyimekelvin:
lolssss can't just laugh at this...

Bros I was really looking forward to see how he stopped it because everything he described was exactly what I was facing. In fact, it was as if someone was writing my story. I have never been disappointed in a nairaland thread as his.

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

Sorry about your current problem. Gambling will never give you success or happiness, so it's really a no go area for you.

I will advise that you learn something new like Data sciences or a computer language like Python etc. Search on sites like : Udemy to get cheap training on the above.
After getting any of the above certification, search for online jobs as they are in high demand.
After getting the job, get a girlfriend, if you can not kick the masturbation habit, as this will take your mind off it.

Search for a mentor, maybe a close friend who is already into the above training as this will help keep you on track and motivated.

Lastly, seek spiritual advise and prayers.

Good luck.

You need to move closer to God
Accept Jesus as your personal Lord and savior pray to God to direct you to church where truth word of God is been preach and work in the way of God you we be free