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Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by Zeezeal7(m): 10:24pm On Aug 27, 2022
Good evening everyone. I will make this as brief as possible. There's this lady I happen to be friends with for over two years now. When we first met, I shot my shot but she turned me down. Though we still became friends after all. Mind you, she never demanded anything from me all this while both monetary and otherwise and we were just friends, Nothing more or less. Recently, I have had this feeling to go into a relationship because I have been single since 2019. I made my intensions known to her again last week Sunday and since then or rather before then. It has been one billing to another. The one that really got me annoyed is the one that came in today with her mums account details, asking me to transfer some money to her, that she needed it urgently (not even asking how I was or if I had it or not). I politely turned her down even tho I have the money and I don't have any problems giving her. I have been giving into all her demands all this while cos honestly, I can never see my lady lack when I have. I feel she's taking advantage of me. That mentality of putting all her financial burden on me is a complete turn off for me especially asking me to send money to her mom when we've not even started dating. She's crossed the line.
Right now, i don't even want to date her again, I feel her insensitivity, mentality and sense of entitlement is not the woman I need in my life. tho we have this really great connection. Please am I being reasonable enough?

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Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by iamwilliamsfx(m): 10:27pm On Aug 27, 2022
Stop wasting your time and effort on people who are always after your money.....
Who doesn't care about how you feel, delete them from your life you'll see the real you!.

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Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by Kooldon(f): 10:34pm On Aug 27, 2022
OP, You never told us if you have licked her plate yet cos those billings are the HIDDEN CHARGES for services rendered.
Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by Zeezeal7(m): 10:35pm On Aug 27, 2022
Abi, thank you.

iamwilliamsfx:
Stop wasting your time and effort on people who are always after your money.....
Who doesn't care about how you feel, delete them from your life you'll see the real you!.

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Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by Zeezeal7(m): 10:39pm On Aug 27, 2022
Lol, didn't do all that. Never touched her, even for once.

Kooldon:
OP, You never told us if you have licked her plate yet cos those billings are the HIDDEN CHARGES for services rendered.

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Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by marlow1962(m): 10:50pm On Aug 27, 2022
Can you imagine, and this same set of gals will come online to brokeshame guys ( I can’t date a broke man bla bla bla shit)

She brought her mums details to you cus she knows you will do that cus of the love you have for her ( bullshit)
Why didn’t she send it to her dad? Abi the 3 broke same time?
Nonsense

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Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by Kronikuz: 10:54pm On Aug 27, 2022
Two years and still hanging unto a hoe wow

When u decide to mumu people will always see u as mumu, no cap. Carry ur cross angry

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Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by Alapojamesy: 10:55pm On Aug 27, 2022
When most of these girls doesn't loves you they will try to wreck you...
Use your head op..
Love is overrated
Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by Kooldon(f): 10:59pm On Aug 27, 2022
Zeezeal7:
Lol, didn't do all that. Never touched her, even for once.

Its a wrong investment.
Run
Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by Slmgirldippussy: 11:08pm On Aug 27, 2022
Zeezeal7:
Good evening everyone. I will make this as brief as possible. There's this lady I happen to be friends with for over two years now. When we first met, I shot my shot but she turned me down. Though we still became friends after all. Mind you, she never demanded anything from me all this while both monetary and otherwise and we were just friends, Nothing more or less. Recently, I have had this feeling to go into a relationship because I have been single since 2019. I made my intensions known to her again last week Sunday and since then or rather before then. It has been one billing to another. The one that really got me annoyed is the one that came in today with her mums account details, asking me to transfer some money to her, that she needed it urgently (not even asking how I was or if I had it or not). I politely turned her down even tho I have the money and I don't have any problems giving her. I have been giving into all her demands all this while cos honestly, I can never see my lady lack when I have. I feel she's taking advantage of me. That mentality of putting all her financial burden on me is a complete turn off for me especially asking me to send money to her mom when we've not even started dating. She's crossed the line.
Right now, i don't even want to date her again, I feel her insensitivity, mentality and sense of entitlement is not the woman I need in my life. tho we have this really great connection. Please am I being reasonable enough?


Dear friend pls avoid such ladies with all your might. They are never useful for anything whatsoever.
I met one online after chatting for two days she told me if I will surport her bag biz with 400k. I agreed at once. I told you I have already applied for a loan and that she is my guarantor. She refused to be a guarantor. I asked her why , she said I no get strength. I said but u will refund this money she said yes. Okay I use my younger bro as guarantor. She got excited. The loan will take 7 working days to be made available. I have been fuckin her well well since five days now. I didn't apply for any loan. She is sleeping in my vrib as a type this shit. I will fukk her till Monday morning. Omo I will tell her loan denied end of story. Chai I will miss the massive ass. The ass big well well. How I wish I can go 100 rounds
So back to ur own predicament.
Leave that oyoyo baby ok

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Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by Zeezeal7(m): 11:20pm On Aug 27, 2022
�....not like that. She wasn't even in the picture all these time. Relationships ain't even my priority right now. Thought of her because she's being the only female friend I have and never gotten tired of all these years (not in any bad way please) cos i Ioose interest in friendships real quick hence I don't even make friends at all.
Kronikuz:
Two years and still hanging unto a hoe wow

When u decide to mumu people will always see u as mumu, no cap. Carry ur cross angry
Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by Kronikuz: 11:24pm On Aug 27, 2022
Slmgirldippussy:



Dear friend pls avoid such ladies with all your might. They are never useful for anything whatsoever.
I met one online after chatting for two days she told me if I will surport her bag biz with 400k. I agreed at once. I told you I have already applied for a loan and that she is my guarantor. She refused to be a guarantor. I asked her why , she said I no get strength. I said but u will refund this money she said yes. Okay I use my younger bro as guarantor. She got excited. The loan will take 7 working days to be made available. I have been fuckin her well well since five days now. I didn't apply for any loan. She is sleeping in my vrib as a type this shit. I will fukk her till Monday morning. Omo I will tell her loan denied end of story. Chai I will miss the massive ass. The ass big well well. How I wish I can go 100 rounds
So back to ur own predicament.
Leave that oyoyo baby ok
This comrade will choketh u with vawulence grin grin

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Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by Kronikuz: 11:26pm On Aug 27, 2022
Zeezeal7:
�....not like that. She wasn't even in the picture all these time. Relationships ain't even my priority right now. Thought of her because she's being the only female friend I have and never gotten tired of all these years (not in any bad way please) cos i Ioose interest in friendships real quick hence I don't even make friends at all.
Defend her bro. Cos Las Las na wetin dey your mind you go do. As for me send her the money. Who knows she might change her mind and love you cheesy
Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by iTearHerToto: 11:28pm On Aug 27, 2022
So soon and you tired of bankrolling the hoe already?

Simps everywhere you pass like mtn



Pukes angry
Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by Nobody: 11:55pm On Aug 27, 2022
No
Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by fman(m): 3:04am On Aug 28, 2022
Kooldon:
OP, You never told us if you have licked her plate yet cos those billings are the HIDDEN CHARGES for services rendered.
Him don chop.
He is just looking for an excuse to japa

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Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by fman(m): 3:08am On Aug 28, 2022
Slmgirldippussy:



Dear friend pls avoid such ladies with all your might. They are never useful for anything whatsoever.
I met one online after chatting for two days she told me if I will surport her bag biz with 400k. I agreed at once. I told you I have already applied for a loan and that she is my guarantor. She refused to be a guarantor. I asked her why , she said I no get strength. I said but u will refund this money she said yes. Okay I use my younger bro as guarantor. She got excited. The loan will take 7 working days to be made available. I have been fuckin her well well since five days now. I didn't apply for any loan. She is sleeping in my vrib as a type this shit. I will fukk her till Monday morning. Omo I will tell her loan denied end of story. Chai I will miss the massive ass. The ass big well well. How I wish I can go 100 rounds
So back to ur own predicament.
Leave that oyoyo baby ok
Back to back.
Flex on!!!!
Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by Slynation(m): 4:46am On Aug 28, 2022
A girl rejected your advances and you still kept her as friend for two whole years, that was where you opened the doors for you to be manipulated because all those while you sticked around, you were prolly busy doing things to impressed her for her to see what she's missing, only for you to simpingly asked for the second time in a row...Una matter dey tire me sometimes

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Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by Jflex07(m): 5:30am On Aug 28, 2022
A simp and more.. Pukes!!

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Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by Lonestar124: 6:21am On Aug 28, 2022
Slmgirldippussy:



Dear friend pls avoid such ladies with all your might. They are never useful for anything whatsoever.
I met one online after chatting for two days she told me if I will surport her bag biz with 400k. I agreed at once. I told you I have already applied for a loan and that she is my guarantor. She refused to be a guarantor. I asked her why , she said I no get strength. I said but u will refund this money she said yes. Okay I use my younger bro as guarantor. She got excited. The loan will take 7 working days to be made available. I have been fuckin her well well since five days now. I didn't apply for any loan. She is sleeping in my vrib as a type this shit. I will fukk her till Monday morning. Omo I will tell her loan denied end of story. Chai I will miss the massive ass. The ass big well well. How I wish I can go 100 rounds
So back to ur own predicament.
Leave that oyoyo baby ok
Bad guy wink
Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by Blue86(m): 6:52am On Aug 28, 2022
With all the threads on how not to simp, you are still simping.


Man, don't be desperate for a relationship.

Go back to all those threads that addresses simphood and take am advise yourself.
Zeezeal7:
Good evening everyone. I will make this as brief as possible. There's this lady I happen to be friends with for over two years now. When we first met, I shot my shot but she turned me down. Though we still became friends after all. Mind you, she never demanded anything from me all this while both monetary and otherwise and we were just friends, Nothing more or less. Recently, I have had this feeling to go into a relationship because I have been single since 2019. I made my intensions known to her again last week Sunday and since then or rather before then. It has been one billing to another. The one that really got me annoyed is the one that came in today with her mums account details, asking me to transfer some money to her, that she needed it urgently (not even asking how I was or if I had it or not). I politely turned her down even tho I have the money and I don't have any problems giving her. I have been giving into all her demands all this while cos honestly, I can never see my lady lack when I have. I feel she's taking advantage of me. That mentality of putting all her financial burden on me is a complete turn off for me especially asking me to send money to her mom when we've not even started dating. She's crossed the line.
Right now, i don't even want to date her again, I feel her insensitivity, mentality and sense of entitlement is not the woman I need in my life. tho we have this really great connection. Please am I being reasonable enough?
Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by luizpippo(m): 8:13am On Aug 28, 2022
Slmgirldippussy:



Dear friend pls avoid such ladies with all your might. They are never useful for anything whatsoever.
I met one online after chatting for two days she told me if I will surport her bag biz with 400k. I agreed at once. I told you I have already applied for a loan and that she is my guarantor. She refused to be a guarantor. I asked her why , she said I no get strength. I said but u will refund this money she said yes. Okay I use my younger bro as guarantor. She got excited. The loan will take 7 working days to be made available. I have been fuckin her well well since five days now. I didn't apply for any loan. She is sleeping in my vrib as a type this shit. I will fukk her till Monday morning. Omo I will tell her loan denied end of story. Chai I will miss the massive ass. The ass big well well. How I wish I can go 100 rounds
So back to ur own predicament.
Leave that oyoyo baby ok



You are brutal grin
Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by Demigod22: 8:27am On Aug 28, 2022
I don't know what OP will be looking for in a friendship with the lady that turned down his advances for two years.


OP, you have to understand that when you are not good for a boyfriend, don't accept friendship. Don't settle for less. A girl you asked out and want to be just friend, have nothing to offer.

Either you date or you move on. Go and have female friends that you didn't ask out, they will respect and benefits you.

Don't give her the money, ghost her, she doesn't deserve you. And never go and ask her out again. After two years, as if you didn't any girl since those years.
Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by TMTR: 8:32am On Aug 28, 2022
You were being irrational for asking her out the second time, being friends with her after she turned you down, and giving in into her demands before now cause that's what give her the temerity to send you her mother's details for you to send her money.

You have been irrational and have been a simp all along, just cut her off and block her on your socials , you deserve better my man
Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by TMTR: 8:35am On Aug 28, 2022
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Re: Please Am I Been Rational Enough? by abioyeayanfeolu(m): 8:45am On Aug 28, 2022
OP,u better be careful she is trying to use you like a P***y.
Don't let her manipulate your ways ,make sure you cut all ties with her immediately




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