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Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Leemekzy: 10:25pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Prettiepearlz: Well said. |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Nabby2603(f): 10:55pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
I'm so sorry you had/ have to deal with such toxic people. My few cents 1) They can chose to move to Canada with or without your hubby 's input ,so don't say a word about them relocating 2) Express your displeasure to your hubby about the abuse you went through in their hands, and let him know you will not hesitate to take actions against them if they don't reset their brains before coming over. 3) Safe / transfer every evidence you have against them to cloud or where your hubby can't have access to it, you might need it some day to build a strong case against them. Abuse especially against children is not taken lightly here in Canada. 4) set the boundaries now ,not when they arrive Canada o, seat your hubby down and tell him you will call / report to the cops if they threaten your life when they arrive 5) Pray and draw strength from God 6) Get back into practice, make your money, get that financial security. P.s If you need a female doctor from Nigeria to talk to, kindly reach out. I'm in Saskatchewan though. Have a great weekend. quote author=DrFareedah post=116090694]Hello everyone, I've been following this thread for the past five years. But i was forced to create an account just now. My husband and I landed in Halifax three months ago. With a set a twin girls. Making us a family of four. I had a good job in nigeria, was working as a gynae with a big hospital on the island. However, i was forced to work on relocation because of very toxic inlaws. I can't explain it in words. I've got a deep story to tell. Just one of which is, after giving birth to the girls, my mother in law left the annoyance that I am maltreating her 8 days post partum. She said I didn't cook for her and all that. Bare in mind I had a caeserian session to birth the girls, I was recovering and I couldn't do much. She gossiped and said all sorts with her four girls but i was not bothered, I just decided to run far by coming to canada. My issue now is they all insist on coming to canada to live with their brother. He's the only son and as such i think he owes them so much, I dont understand yoruba tradition deeply. But I'm here asking everyone to help because once they step into this country, our marraige is over. They tried to ruin it in lagos, but i was very patient. his siblings said they hate my children. Hubby's mom said sometimes she just feels like slapping my children and they turn deaf (they are just 3), Pls what do I do next. I'm exhausted. I hate drama. Cant families just let young couple be. Why do they want to be in our business so much? My hubby isn't seeing it as an issue yet, offcourse he hasn't done the leave/cleave thing. I have some recordings of their threats towarda me. I just dont want anything to happen to my kids. I dont want them here at all. Please people should chip in their one cent. [/quote] 14 Likes |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by legionISproteus: 12:00am On Aug 27, 2022 |
signature2012:Even the ones that make it to the Canada sef, most of the unions do not last. 3 Likes |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by legionISproteus: 12:01am On Aug 27, 2022 |
Godtemi:Which airline be this? |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by legionISproteus: 12:02am On Aug 27, 2022 |
joynoy73:90 days from when you entered Canada |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by maziude: 1:12am On Aug 27, 2022 |
joynoy73: If you are coming to Ontario as a PR… it is 60days. |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by oluphilip2008(f): 3:01am On Aug 27, 2022 |
https://www.rentfaster.ca/465661 If anyone family is landing in Edmonton anytime soon, I have the above townhouse available for rent. Please click the rentfaster link above for more details 2 Likes |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by ednut1(m): 3:04am On Aug 27, 2022 |
Afolavid:you make arrangement for car. No one is providing car for you o. 1 Like |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by youngbilli(m): 3:18am On Aug 27, 2022 |
Afolavid:Oh ok, a bit surprised you need an extract to convert from BC to On. Anyways you can borrow a friends car or the driving Instructor you will teach you the road test routes. It’s between 120$ - 150$. If you’re in London, On I can recommend one. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Afolavid: 5:46am On Aug 27, 2022 |
youngbilli: Wow, that's cool, yes I'm in London. I just sent you a PM. Thanks a lot! |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by tempzi: 6:11am On Aug 27, 2022 |
Nabby2603:, |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Funky123(f): 10:49am On Aug 27, 2022 |
CountVersailles: For how long will she pamper them or dance to their tune of madness They need to be put in their place Dear poster you need the intervention of your husband because you can’t do it alone but it looks like you married a mummy’s boy. Please talk to your husband and let him know if they push you to the wall you will disrespect them and he won’t like it. 4 Likes |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Prettiepearlz(f): 11:28am On Aug 27, 2022 |
CountVersailles:Says the individual with all round useless suggestions and observations who goes around bullying people for their choices. Please advise her since you know it all. Perhaps you are one of those who butts head with their brother’s wife. Oh that’s true, I remembered you once made a post about your own brother’s wife. Just so you know, not all women are like your SIL, judging from the character you exhibit here, it’s not far fetched to know why you aren’t her favourite. If you can’t read how toxic the SILs and MIL are from the post to the point of OP running to a different continent, then you can do me the honors of just ignoring my post like I do with majority of the nonsense you spill on here. As far as we are concerned, she is the one who brought the post here and she is asking for advise based on what she has posted, you do not expect me to start doubting an already mentally stressed woman by telling her she is the problem. But how do I expect a toxic bully like you to understand? My bad! You are really insufferable and your friends must be going through a lot by just knowing you. You and the minions who applaud your unreasonable utterances all the time can have a nice day! 20 Likes |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Prettiepearlz(f): 11:34am On Aug 27, 2022 |
Funky123:Just leave the madam know it all who thinks she has the best advise for everything. Her way or nothing. 1 Like |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Yemlizzy(f): 11:53am On Aug 27, 2022 |
DrFareedah:This is so sad, kindly stay strong and talk to your husband. What you have experienced is so much for one person alone. God be with you and the twins always. How about your own family too? One of them should also be with you too, cos there is nothing like one’s family in times like this. 1 Like |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by rawe45: 12:34pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
For people living in Milton, where's the place to shop for furnitures? |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Nabby2603(f): 12:46pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Please send me an email. drgails@yahoo.com Pls are you already practicing now? I would need your assistance on few steps. Am kinda here for a month now. Thanks [/quote] |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by CountVersailles(f): 1:44pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Prettiepearlz:Doesn’t change any of the words I said. Meanwhile, you don’t qualify for an argument with me. Enjoy your day! 1 Like |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by tempzi: 6:41pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Nabby2603: Good pm, I just sent u an email. Thanks |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Prettiepearlz(f): 7:12pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
CountVersailles:Neither do you miss know it all. So buzz off and never mention me if you have no reasonable thing (which of course you aren’t capable of) to say! 6 Likes |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by ProblemChild1: 10:11pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
ednut1:Who wan even get time with Nigerian girls there. Whitie girls straight. Who Nigerian girls epp! 2 Likes |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by ednut1(m): 10:14pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
ProblemChild1:majority of Nigerian men in Canada are not going for white women. Unless you dey here you can’t understand. Stop this white women fantasy, you likely can’t handle them lol 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by ProblemChild1: 10:16pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
ednut1:Maybe canadian women are not good in Nacking |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Prettiepearlz(f): 10:40pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
CountVersailles:Lmao at fat ass, ![]() 14 Likes |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Aimajoyce: 5:12am On Aug 28, 2022 |
Admin @justwise, it may be time to open part 3 of this thread; we have now gone past 600 pages and maybe we can get back to the purpose of this thread on a clean slate. 3 Likes |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Afolavid: 5:35am On Aug 28, 2022 |
Aimajoyce: Justwise |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Amandacanny: 9:21am On Aug 28, 2022 |
Good day my people. House hunting has shown me pepper. I got an offer in Hamilton. Kai, one of those tall buildings (call me a Bush girl but I'm scared of it) . How is Hamilton. Are there jobs there? It's a one year lease so I'm worried about taking what might not work for me eventually. I need advise. I actually like Mississauga but can't meet their conditions for now |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Nadingo: 9:33am On Aug 28, 2022 |
Aimajoyce:Supported |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by jjohndoe83: 11:42am On Aug 28, 2022 |
ProblemChild1:Baba easy o. People underestimate the cultural differences between most people born and raised here and people migrating as adults. It is not a joke and it is not an easy feat to come to the point where you are in sync with a person enough to marry them. Most interracial marriages that look proper to me usually involve people both born and raised here with difference just being skin colour. So you'll find most Nigerian men naturally default to people that they're familiar with (Nigerians) or share some affinity with (other Africans) 12 Likes |
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