CovenHighPriest:



Who remembers Putit? I don't recall him calling it redpill then but his threads were beautiful, I don't know why he chose to deactivate his account.

His threads focused more on
masculine excellence and how men should act and not simp. I don't remember names or have links to those threads (anyone that remember any of them should please post the link to those threads) but I'll always remember this one not just for what he preached there but how women didn't want such message to get to guys; they shamed men endlessly in that thread even tho Putit was holding men accountable smh, it was their selfish nature playing out and not wanting men to think for a second and realize that they were actually acting stupid in the name of trying to get laid.


Here's the thread https://www.nairaland.com/3757217/men-getting-weaker-women-getting
I would call this guy's thread my glitch in the matrix.

Then from his threads I discovered similar ones like Harddon, respect to that guy. Game is an important aspect of this game and he was an expertise in that department, but to me it was like being given expo in the exam hall, you'll pass but what happens when you get called in by the panel for defense?

Now that's where Ubunja comes in, he was the hero that most of us needed and not only did he connect the dots he showed us why things are not the way we taught they were. That thread explaining why guys are like that and girls are like this was monumental to the understanding of male and female sexual dynamics; his awareness of female nature was unmatched and it gave many maybe not a solid win but a least a fighting chance!.

I remember one time he was asked what motivated him to write the miseducations and he replied; "I am tired of men that was meant to conquer and dominate the world being conquered by something as small as pussy". Now gentleman that's a noble and enough reason for me. #Respect!

Pukkalolo:



I get sexual opportunities being thrown at me by ladies because I understand that attraction and getting sex is primitively simple---but the society and media complicate things for guys by saying you must cure cancer, build space ship and become a man of greatness that a stadium full of people are dying to touch before you can finally get the girl.

But that's total bullshit

Likeplaylikepla:



So how do you get lots of sexual opportunities thrown at you by ladies

Martinez39s:
People were plagiarising Ubunja's miseducations and selling them as books on amazon and other websites.

Pukkalolo:

If a girl was Interested in you initially but then days later or weeks later she starts losing Interest in you, then it's because you were exhibiting behavior that submit to her "female entitlement side"

CaveAdullam:

Sex is a woman's highest investment in a relationship.

Zabiboy:

If the "Then" here means 80%-100%, the quoted above IN MY OPINION is wrong..
I really dont want to go in a long details, But Humans change.. There are some things you cant control/ have less control over and such things you shouldn't give 2 fvcks about..
I'll end with one simple example..
I personally dont ask girls for number, but on many occasions, my guys tell me how they met a chick, vibed well, collected number and then when they got home, they just weren't feeling it anymore. It had nothing to do with the girl.

Once again, Humans and their minds are constantly changing.

Intelligentguy5:

Why dont you ask girls for number?

Zabiboy:

It's of no use to me bro

Intelligentguy5:
Yup. People need to realise that the following are top derailers of destiny:

1. Women
2. Alchoholism
3. Masturbation and sex addiction
4. Gambling

Etc.

The part of the brain that controls these things is same place where creative energy comes from and it’s such that you can’t be addicted to them and function optimally. Something has to give.

Martinez39s:
Drug addiction is another big destiny derailer.

Intelligentguy5:


Yup. People need to realise that the following are top derailers of destiny:

1. Women
2. Alchoholism
3. Masturbation and sex addiction
4. Gambling

Etc.

The part of the brain that controls these things is same place where creative energy comes from and it’s such that you can’t be addicted to them and function optimally. Something has to give.

Intelligentguy5:


Yup. People need to realise that the following are top derailers of destiny:

1.Women
Addiction.
2.Alchoholism
Addiction.
3.Masturbation Addiction.
4.Sex Addiction.
5.Gambling Addiction.
6.Drug Addiction.

Etc.

The part of the brain that controls these things is same place where creative energy comes from and it’s such that you can’t be addicted to them and function optimally. Something has to give.

Zabiboy:

You said alot of things i'd love to touch on. Most would eventually come up in future discussions and then we can talk about them..
But the quoted above caught my attention .
If the "relationship" you mean is dating and all those stuff, then I have nothing to say cos I don't do "relationships".
But if the "relationship" means any kind of dealings with women, then For me it's not even an investment not to talk of "highest".

I also think the term "investment" is relative especially when it involves human-to-human dealings and not Business.

CaveAdullam:


1. I get where you are coming from. You are looking at men and women from an egalitarian point of view. But to understand thee genders you must first consider them from their evolutionary background and biological imperatives. When it comes to sexual mating which of course is why men need women and vice versa, what they want differs.

2. Humans are rational beings, they don't sit down all day thinking of how to fulfill their basal primal instincts, however, regardless of their course of actions, they are being led subconsciously by these instincts.

Like it or not, your self-development is to fulfill your biological imperatives; you may deny it consciously and be outspoken about it, however, genetics is what it is. It all boils down to survival and reproduction.

3. Women can benefit men aside from sex in a relationship but sex and offspring are her first point of concern for both her and her husband or the man she's in a relationship with. These other benefits they provide are because of their evolved thinking above primal instincts; give or take, hypergamy is still the reason. She buys a house for you, hypergamy. She gives you money, hypergamy. She's invested in you, hypergamy.

Women are submissive to dominant men, which signifies good genes and resources, so they invest in that man to satisfy hypergamy.

4. Men date low, women date high. That behavior took millions of years to become biologically wired in the human psyche. Society may not be going the way it ought to, notwithstanding, nature will always prevail.

What men want in women: beauty, fertility, modesty, grace, kindness, submissiveness, smartness, coachable, young, and elegance.

What women want in men: dominance, confidence, strength, intelligence, strong-willed, leadership, and resources.

Ying and yang will always come into place here: there is always a dot of femininity in men and dot of masculinity in women. The dot is to maintain balance and to help understand each other better. If there is a disorder in their makeup or how they ought to behave there will be abnormalities like what our contemporary world is experiencing today.

Expecting a woman to act and project what belongs to the masculine domain is abnormal. This always gives birth to caricatured males - feminists. Ditto for men - soy men and simps. Alias Mr. Nice guy.

5. A woman can support and help a man in their journey but that doesn't make her a captain and a man must not expect it from her. Demonstrating masculine qualities doesn't mean inheritance. Two captains can't lead same time.

But if you start viewing things from an egalitarian point: she must own a house, a car, a career, you are only settling for a masculine woman. (This hurts but that's the truth). You are calling for a share in power.

It is not bad if she owns these things per se, but most times they sacrifice their femininity on the altar to achieve them. Men and women will never come out with the same result if they pass through hell concurrently. Men most times are always refined and shaped, and women most times end up damaged. Why do you think career women and feminists are not alluring to men?

There will always be outliers: women who retained their femininity despite the hurdles and struggles. But they are the exceptions that prove the rule.

6. A man's highest investment in a relationship is his money/commitment because it is what women want. A woman's highest investment in a relationship is her body/sex because it is what men want. Any other thing they are benefiting from each other emanates from these basic roots. Women are the gatekeeper of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment.

After heartbreak is how you can also see this properly: women will always cry and repeat "after all that I have done for him...he used and dumped me". Sex is what makes her bitter. At this moment, sex can no longer be used to get his commitment. The woman that you didn't fvck will never complain bitterly after a breakup.

For men, you will hear him say " after all the money I have spent on her, paid for her expensive trips, paid her tuition fees, bought her gifts, and showed her a lot of surprises". What he is bitter about is his money and that his money will no longer be used to get sex. A man that did not spend much on a woman will never weep bitterly after a breakup. This now takes us back again to the concept: of genuine desire.

7. Genuine desire will make her sacrifice her highest investment which is her body/sex on the altar of your body/d!ck. Subconsciously this is hypergamy in display but consciously she is not placing a great demand on your shoulders. She has entered your frame and you can direct and lead her as you please and effectively. Other things will always fall in place because she wants to please you. Now, she has placed herself on the losing side for the betterment of the relationship. It is then left for you to maintain the frame and act accordingly. If you fail, you awaken her subconsciousness, the game changes and you become the one on the losing side.

8. The family and divorce laws hinge on a man's accomplishments. Because on a norm, even if a woman becomes uninterested in the relationship you still have her home, car, and money. She came with nothing and must leave with nothing. (Children benefit you and their genetic lineage).

Based on the biased family and divorce laws, at this junction, "sex seems not to be a woman's highest investment" because she is taking part of your resources she didn't work for. Here, egalitarianism seems reasonable, because in the advent of breakup you don't lose much.

Egalitarianism or not, women will still demand leadership from their man, and a man, followership from his woman. What then needs to be done is a proper understanding of their behaviors, characters, actions, and the societal structures that can ensure the efficiency of those actions and behaviors. Chaos looms when this is not done or followed appropriately.

Thanks.

DAY 240, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Positive masculinity. Positive femininity.

Cc. Heartofcity12.

Pukkalolo:


God bless you for writing this...You just said what's typically on my mind.

Getting girls and sex is originally simple; Or how else do you explain how there are billions of people in the world. Peope didn't come from the moon: People sex each other behind close doors to produce people.

Most men are struggling to get sex. And our today's society contribute greatly to this.

They make something as easy as getting sex very complicated. The society create unrealistic yardstick for guys to get ordinary sex, and these yardstick is almost quite impossible to live up to.

Society says you must first become a high value, high status, inspirational, badass and successful motherfu*ker before you can get girls and sex.

The movies is a huge contributor to this. The movies is one of the biggest factors that have messed up men's sex life. In most movies, there's always a good guy, a beautiful girl and the bad guy. The bad guy is there to terrorize the people and the beautiful girl.

As anticipated, the good guy goes to fight the bad guy disturbing the peace of the people. The beautiful girl is probably held hostage by the bad guy. The good guy goes ahead to rescue her. The good guy eventually rescue the people, and the land is safe again. At the end of the movie, the beautiful girl rewards the good guy with a kiss. And that's the end of the movie.

Almost all movies have their story line similar to this in one way or the other. Now, isn't that ridiculous.

These movies plants a seed in a boy's head that he's not really worthy of the companionship and affection of a beautiful girl unless he’s does something epical, mind blowing and legendary.

And when the boy sees that he can never be Superman or Spider Man, which means he can never do something mind-blowing and legendary in order to win the affection of a beautiful girl, he’ll try to achieve this by making attempts to impress her with his designers, champagne, Rolex watch or fancy car OR he act like a well-mannered nice guy and showers her with financial and materialistic gifts so she’ll think good things about him.

I get sexual opportunities being thrown at me by ladies because I understand that attraction and getting sex is primitively simple---but the society and media complicate things for guys by saying you must cure cancer, build space ship and become a man of greatness that a stadium full of people are dying to touch before you can finally get the girl.

But that's total bullshit.

Anyways, my point is, you don't necessarily have to become the next Elon, Amazon, Mark, Gate /Mandela, before you can get common sex.

Pukkalolo:


...If you actually want to get more female sexual opportunities thrown at you, first of all, you have to believe that woman actually love sex...

The society and media have fooled men into believing that men are the hornier gender. But that's a big lie...

Adeja:
@Ubunja, Ubunja, @Caveadullam, Caveadullam, and others who have been doing wonders on this thread, I thank you .

There's something bothering my mind that I want y'all to help me with. I don't wish to put my details out here but I'm someone who's scared of commitment coming from the fact that I'm someone women would naturally gravitate towards because of the life they feel I can offer them. More reasons I tried to keep my profile low when I was in search of a traditional woman to marry. It happen that I found one (through referral). Very beautiful, feminine, young and high value too. She's also a virgin. Never been touched by anyone before

But here's the catch. ; I've grown attached to her within the little time I know her. She doesn't know who I was when she decided to give me a Chance to talk to her (I had to hide all of myself). Fine. But one thing is I understand the more I gravitate towards her, the more I'll likely chase her away.

Well, I'd need to ask, @ Ubunja, how do you make a virgin woman grow attachment for u and start gravitating towards u all over

Note: we can't have sex because of religion issues and. All that

Thank

tosaino95:
Can You Teach Me Along With Them.

Hrhdujdb:


Reopened this account cuz of the urge to share some insight in the thread even though I try to watch on the sidelines

1) This is generally when a woman ties a man down with pregnancy. What Ubunja has always urged is the reverse and that is tying a woman down with pregnancy. It goes as: a woman has feelings for you(and we all know that don't generally last), you can get the maximum from that feeling she has for you by making her committed to you(without actually giving her your full commitment - marriage). Exactly what women do when a man likes em, they don't fully commit to that man while getting the maximum benefits from him

2) That's because you fell for the babymama's game which is tying you down with pregnancy. That way, you become the pawn. If you do (1), that won't be the case because you would be dealing with a woman that wants you. My little knowledge of TRP has shown me that a woman would always loosen up with a man she truly desires.

3) That is sleeping with a babymama that gamed you. In that case, she has people she wants(for different reasons and you're just one of em). I don't think anybody here preaches for being the victim. We preach against that here.

4) Once again, if you're a solid redpiller, you have no business with alpha widows(other niggas babymamas). If she goes on to give birth to kids for another man, you simply let the other man handle the baggages

5) Being a baby daddy doesn't stop you from having something to do in your kid's life

6) It does not but it plays a major part on loneliness

7) Once again, being a baby daddy doesn't stop you from being in your kid's life

TRP preaches for enhancing oneself and one of such ways is by making sure another version of you continue life which is your kids

Basically, operate with a woman that wants you but just like girls play the game of minimum input and maximum output, you shouldn't commit to her(cuz that's the major thing you're bringing to the table) but get every gains you can from her and one of the best ways to do that is planting your seed in her. Personally I believe the best way to play this is impregnating a virgin that has genuine interest in you without still committing to her. The sunk cost fallacy would always work for your sake that way

One of the demonstration of the last paragraph above is in the movie "Mongol" where the first wife of Termudgin(he hadn't married her by then) killed her first husband to be with him cuz he's her first love and throughout the movie, she always stressed about how she CHOSE him. Termudgin later became Genghis Khan btw

RikudoSennin:
There is an alarming rate of single mothers in this country. It is getting extremely ubiquitous. The nuclear family has been destroyed at least from my own lenses and from my research here in the US.

A kid was celebrating her birthday today. This kid has divorced parents cos i see her dad drop her off weekly at her mom who lives in my block. Today, all her friends came over with their parents and i kid you not when i say i did not see a man at the gathering. I am talking about 6-10 kids. All i could see were single mothers with their kids. Not one single man and today is Saturday not a work day. Not even the father of the celebrant.

I know the powers that be are hell bent on destroying the family but gentlemen what the actual Bleep is going on? There is a massive war against men.

Stay Taliban and keep popping them pills.

CaveAdullam:


Have you ever considered the reason behind male's high libido.

Who is the liar now?

PS: On the game aspect you got a good approach, and it is beautiful. Pardon me for erasing it. Just wanted to address the issue @bolded because you always hear men announcing it everywhere.