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Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Unrated900(m): 1:41pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by malvisguy212: 1:41pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Candidlady:You are full of hate...don't die like this. |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by GboyegaD(m): 1:41pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Let her be. As for the women, they will sort themselves. |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by baralatie(m): 1:41pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
RPG2020:First come does not work with moms! You marry everything,everybody together |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by clems88(m): 1:41pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Candidlady:you are soo sick . You sound dumb. |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Water9430(m): 1:42pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
The story is not just complete from what I can see here, why was the mother who leaves streets away from her daughter not available after the daughter gave birth, what is the relationship between the godmother and the wife's mother, what is the relationship between the godmother and the daughter, who trained the daughter, how did the husband know the godmother. But despite of all this and myriads of questions, the mother should be made aware of the plan on grand of the godmother leaving ( preferably by the wife) in few days time so as to her coming to take over. The wife is not being understanding and appreatiative of what the godmother has done for her, which to me is the angle you as a husband is coming from. How do you tell someone who has stayed with your wife and child to leave in a rude manner, when the person is about leaving and the mother is supposedly leave streets away. You are not asking for too much left to me shaa, but if you can find a way to crash with any of your friends, if the financial means is not there to get a hotel base on what you have spent and will likely spend to avoid the hole incident that my ensured from you taking action will be better. Sometimes, avoiding issues is better than solving issues even when you are on the right |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by lawrenzooo: 1:42pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Tokskob2008:Exactly my thought. Why would the God mother travel down when the girls Mom and mother in-law are very much alive and in close proximity. Something is not adding up here |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Crownhome(m): 1:42pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
What am seeing is that It's as if you guys are not in happy mood. Because if you are all happy; thing's will flow on smoothly |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by baralatie(m): 1:43pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Unrated900:Once again If the man apartment was only one room who will stay and who will leave |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by baralatie(m): 1:43pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Crownhome:Logically |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by lawrenzooo: 1:44pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
07kjb:Wetin carry Godmother come when the Godmother know say the girl mama dey town |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by ZUBY77(m): 1:45pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
UncleDaddy2017:I didn't ready anywhere you mentioned where you work and the time you go to work You can easily tell your mother in law that the godmother leaves on Wednesday. What type of godmother are we even talking about? |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by baralatie(m): 1:45pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
lawrenzooo:They come and go God mother stayed from child birth to present |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by echomanji: 1:45pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Leave d house fr them na. Go crash 4 any of ya fwend huz till the godmother go. Then u decide weda to come back or not |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by forerunner022(m): 1:46pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
My brother it is obvious you and your wife failed to take proactive steps in making early preparation for who will take postnatal care of her before hand. If not why this confusion of godmother and mother in-law getting settlement/accommodation wahala? Obviously, there's a big communication gap between you and your wife. So tay one idiot nairalander called candidlady come dey open her gutter mouth to say baby wen God bring into this world, make dem troway am for gutter simply because he's a male child. I pity her ignorance. |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Paulianfa(m): 1:46pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Calm down bro just be humble and let's live. God will bless ur godmother for suspending everything just to assist you. U are not wrong in anyway when explaining things to ur wife, n dia ways no reason am. Just be a man and manage the way it is until that Wednesday wen ur godmother will say goodbye... God will give you the strength, as things are hard on guys this period no be childs. Take courage |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by AZControversial(m): 1:46pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
OP is handling something far far greater than rocket science!!! If he can overcome this 'without a scratch', he can overcome anything! |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by baralatie(m): 1:47pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
lawrenzooo:Because the girl mama dey come and go She no dey stay until now the mama con realize say she do mistake |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by DenreleDave(m): 1:47pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
senseless and gibberish confused girl Candidlady: |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by ImpactBooks: 1:47pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Some men just like to give themselves unnecessary headache. From the storyline, neither the wife, godmother nor mother-in-law is complaining of staying together in the one bedroom apartment. Na the Op dey complain! And what's the Op even complaining of to be spefic: Space, food or what? Op, na u suppose dey patient till Wednesday. You better thank your star that you have mother around you to help your wife in babysitting. There are couples that live in 3 or 4 bedroom apartment yet to mother-in-law or godwhatever to come assist them in babysitting! At this point, conveniency shouldn't be the priority but love, affection, and care that your family requires. Be patient till Wednesday Op abeg. Neither your wife, mother-in-law or wife's godmother is complaining. Except if there is something you're not telling us. P.s: Congratulations on your first fruit. May his/her brith open immeasurable blessing, mercy and favour unto your family. 1 Like |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by emonis88: 1:47pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
If I were u I go to a friend's house or a family member house n stay there for a week, just see the baby when u come home from work n go, let ur wife complain, then u ask her where does she want u to stay , since her mother n godmother ve taken over ur house. |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Ruke1989: 1:48pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
LadyRosa: This is the first time I have liked a woman for her very sensible reasoning. I fall in love already with you not for beauty but for sense Firstly, the woman mother didn't want inconvenience of sleeping in the hospital with her daughter and didn't show up to share the night with the godmother despite living near. Secondly, the woman mother came because she is probably under pressure from other women. Since she didn't show up on day one or two after her discharge Three, some women like wahala without common sense. She believes her body language will send the stranger/godmother packing. Or she can make the place I conducive for the stranger Four, the new mum is probably overjoyed to have everyone she loves around. This emotional situation didn't make her factor the inconveniences and cost to her husband. That's where she became unreasonable Five, the godmother could be shocked or probably wasn't prepared to leave immediately because she thought the mother inlaw living near may return since she wasn't preinformed. Marry someone with a good IQ don't marry big yansh, big breast. Most of the big yansh big breast in real life has zero IQ and make irrational decisions 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by RPG2020(m): 1:48pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
baralatie: No that don't work in my house i didn't marry my in-laws stop thinking backward Prince Harry wife didn't invite her dad to her marriage |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by rajiedreez: 1:48pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
You've just showed her that she's the man 1 Like |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by bonnyhope: 1:50pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
UncleDaddy2017: May God bless all men See wetin men the pass through Well, your wife can reason with you by discharging the God mother because I see that even your mother in law is not the understanding tyoe |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by TheFacelessMan: 1:50pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Just start dressing infront of them. By the time they see glimpses of nudity, they will get the gist. So they want you to share the couch with one of them ? . On a serious note... the women can stuff themselves in the room if comfortable for them. You will find your corner. Don't worry, they will definitely get on each others nerves shortly and let you be. |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Acidosis(m): 1:50pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Tokskob2008: godmother fit be OP's ex sef. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by baralatie(m): 1:51pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
echomanji:O boy the tin no hard o! Me I don marry all of them put for house go crash outside Women dem.e go shock person how Dem go balance the equation.not one quarrel go happen! Just make sure say you Sabi play ball with them |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Lastborn0074: 1:51pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
I'm wondering why the godmom should arrive from another state before your mom and wifys mom. You even said they live streets away. Well, this shouldn't have been the case. Since you have this situation now, don't send anyone away. Let the godmom use her head and do the needful. You cannot send ur mother inlaw away, it's not done in Africa. As for you, simply adapt to the situation. You cannot have your usual comfort at this time bc the situation is not usual. Good luck. |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by bonnyhope: 1:51pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
gfon: They are very good at that Is very unfortunate that the society even believe them more than the men |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by asahnwaKC: 1:52pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Lucky you 2 women willing to help out... you need to hustle hard because if you are staying in more spacious apartment they will all stay in visitors room taking care of baby turn by turn while your wife recovers faster. They both mean good so make all of una manage. 2 Likes |
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