Rozross:
You are insecure, learn to have a strong grip on your woman and she’ll never misbehave even at her most vulnerable state. I’ll always prefer an alpha man for personal reasons, I have no business with a weak and insecure man

Unzerious:
Just talk say you dey find excuse take dump the babe

Zonefree:

Iyaebe, stop typing nonsense!

She refused taking his calls cos she's doing something bad. No girl should be trusted.

Smith414:
she don do am before, I warn her and I nor dey find excuse, affliction cannot and will never rise a second time

Zonefree:

Cheating is in her gene. Your first mistake is to forgive a cheating partner.

Rozross:
You still don’t get it. If a man is firm with a strong grip on his woman, he wouldn’t have to bother about what she does in his absence, she will never try any bad things even at her most vulnerable state. I know what I’m talking about, see ehn when a lady start misbehaving and doing nonsense in a relationship, just respect yourself and take your L as a man because it’s see finish. Learn to be firm and upright as a man and your woman will never give misbehaviour a second thought. If he had a grip on her girlfriend she’ll not even make that trip with the so-called pastor in the first place . Hope you get my points now.

Rozross:
You can now see that he’s a sissy man, I’m just been truthful and neutral

Smith414:
Hey beautiful people of Nairaland, judge me if I’m being wicked

Zonefree:

You're saying he's a weak man that's why the girlfriend is cheating on him? Why is it hard for women to accept responsibility for their actions? Someone's girlfriend is cheating on him with her Pastor and you're blaming the innocent boyfriend.

DanieleLorenzo:


Please, don't break up with her directly.

When she comes back, act indifferently towards her. If possible, go clubbing with your guys, smoke, fûck olosho and don't give a fûck.

No be person go tell her make she continue her land survey.


Someone above said something about being insecure. Try working on that to prevent future reoccurrence.

Rozross:
When you grow up you’ll understand my points better, you can keep policing your girlfriend and give yourself hbp for all I care. You still haven’t understand how the heart of women operates. A woman that truly loves and respect you will avoid things that can get you provoked and no woman will respect you if you have no strong grip on her. Your blood still fresh so you can act as a monitoring spirit to your girlfriend

DanieleLorenzo:


Please, don't break up with her directly.

When she comes back, act indifferently towards her. If possible, go clubbing with your guys, smoke, fûck olosho and don't give a fûck.

No be person go tell her make she continue her land survey.


Someone above said something about being insecure. Try working on that to prevent future reoccurrence.

Connected1:
If I were you.

I am so done, the economy is harsh and I don't need stress.

On a second thought, if you can go through the stress, then run an investigative analysis using her church members as the apparatus, bribe your way in and they would let the cat out of the bag, only then can you satisfy your doubts.

But on a third thought, Let her go, because I am 100% sure she can't leave that church because of you, so.... What are we saying....

Rozross:
You are insecure, learn to have a strong grip on your woman and she’ll never misbehave even at her most vulnerable state. I’ll always prefer an alpha man for personal reasons, I have no business with a weak and insecure man

Smith414:
Hey beautiful people of Nairaland, judge me if I’m being wicked
I’ve been dating this girl for a year plus now, she’s nice, cool and understanding ,it’s been 2 months now since I traveled to Abuja for a business and will be back in a few weeks time, what I’m about saying happened past Sunday, I called my so-called gf after church severally she didn’t pick up, called with a friends phone, same thing happened sent a text no reply, I just felt she would be busy cooking. Later I got a message from her that her phone was silent and inside her bag, I replied no issues, only for her to send another message via WhatsApp that she’s on her way to Lagos with her sister and her pastor to go and buy land for church , someone well known to be chronic womanizer to the core before he( pastor) he said God called him, I did not hid my anger from her because we’ve had little issues in the past due to my open dislike for this so-called pastor because I’ve worked with him both at work and in his house when I was still waiting to get admission, so when I say I know him very well, I really do. My so-called gf, her sister and this pastor went alone to buy land for church..
And she’s been uploading pictures like she went on a date vacation, from shopping to boat cruise to chilling in hotels every minute,
I’ve broken up in my mind I swear, because you nor go tell me say your pastor go buy land but through out the land he go buy na you and your sister he dey with and church suppose get committee about such things??my mind have been made to breakup officially when I get back

My people hope I’m not being to harsh on her??

Screenshot of when she told me about it below

advanceDNA:


Somehow...its his fault..??...sigh!!!

Zonefree:

Firstly, I'm way older than you in all ramifications.

I doubt OP is policing the girl. He called severally without a response hence he started suspecting a foul play. He knows the girl more than me and you, so, chill.

Besides, a Nigerian girl can love you with all her heart and still lash your best friend. It's nothing to them.

Zonefree:

You're saying he's a weak man that's why the girlfriend is cheating on him? Why is it hard for women to accept responsibility for their actions? Someone's girlfriend is cheating on him with her Pastor and you're blaming the innocent boyfriend.