Hello nairalanders my body is hot right now.my dad use to criticize and yells if he wants to pass his opinion across.and my mum advice me to b watching him lyk movie even if he attacks me emotionally but m not d type that took insult lightly,am sensitive.today i gave him back o i speak my mind out i cant keep mute and watch you talk down on me. There was a time we going to church and i dressed well with this fancy circle earring.he said that earring is not gud for church rather i wear a small earing or not wearing earing like deeper lyf and i spoke outj that dressing coporate ls different from church dress and so on then he called me a fool he will throw the earing away.why are parents like this and u xpect me to b close to you.

Religious parents mostly. Most lack self control and coordination. They just hide it behind religion.

Most relgious people don't have good relationship with dia fellow humans, they just don't know how.

They want their kids to be holy, moral, decent, etc. As if na wetin dia kids go chop...

Nothing suppose concern ya dad with your ear rings or dressing?



Sorry!

Just hustle make it money..


The most important thing in this life is money any oda tin is not important.

Yemialade:
Hello nairalanders my body is hot right now.my dad use to criticize and yells if he wants to pass his opinion across.and my mum advice me to b watching him lyk movie even if he attacks me emotionally but m not d type that took insult lightly,am sensitive.today i gave him back o i speak my mind out i cant keep mute and watch you talk down on me. There was a time we going to church and i dressed well with this fancy circle earring.he said that earring is not gud for church rather i wear a small earing or not wearing earing like deeper lyf and i spoke outj that dressing coporate ls different from church dress and so on then he called me a fool he will throw the earing away.why are parents like this and u xpect me to b close to you.

You dad knows that he has a Mumu
Daughter.
No too reason am
Just amend your ways

that "state of mind" raised you to who you are today... as much as its great to voice your mind (and show that you are an adult), do so with respect for your parents

fman:

You dad knows that he has a Mumu
Daughter.
No too reason am
Just amend your ways

Hey if u cant talk nicely.i will appreciate u not comenting.

fman:

You dad knows that he has a Mumu
Daughter.
No too reason am
Just amend your ways

U Sabi d OP?

No dey cap dust..

Na your type make govt dey ruin dis nation.


Your don't know dis so called discipline thing is another form of oppression, slavery, wickedness, etc.

Who discipline don elp?

Will d discipline turn d kids into the world's richest or world successful?

Wise up.

Just know say some day.. your pikin will strongly argue with you on what he believe is right..

Na time ..

You will old school and wish best for your kids and they will never understand till..

No take anything personal.

LikeAking:


U Sabi d OP?

No dey cap dust..

Na your type make govt dey ruin dis nation.


Your don't know dis so called discipline thing is another form of oppression, slavery, wickedness, etc.

Who discipline don elp?

Will d discipline turn d kids into the world's richest or world successful?

Wise up.

At least discipline will crave a niche in the society for them.
An indisciplined youth is a menace to the society.
You r the one that needs to wise up.
Mind you I no dey cap dust.
I dey talk the reality of life.

fman:

At least discipline will crave a niche in the society for them.
An indisciplined youth is a menace to the society.
You r the one that needs to wise up.
Mind you I no dey cap dust.
I dey talk the reality of life.

A poor youth Isa menace to the Society.

This usless discipline formart d white man brought upon us.

Hw disciplined are the whites, yet the world can do without them.

Life is bigga Dan this so-called discipline.

I ask again, will discipline make a child become the world richest?

Hw will discipline elp someone carve a niche for themselves?

Yemialade:
Hey if u cant talk nicely.i will appreciate u not comenting.

Am not your average kind of "hey guy"
U initially indicated that you where a mumu.
Let me quote u
"(my mumu don do)"
Perhaps dad knows too!!
That was y
He insists on instigating discipline into u.
Like I said previously.
Amend ur ways.
Cheers

LikeAking:


A poor youth Isa menace to the Society.

This usless discipline formart d white man brought upon us.

Hw disciplined are the whites, yet the world can do without them.

Life is bigga Dan this so-called discipline.

I ask again, will discipline make a child become the world richest?

Hw will discipline elp someone carve a niche for themselves?

When u grow up, u will find out

fman:

When u grow up, u will find out

I think when u grow u you will find out.

See, I don see dis life finish....

I am not a small boy.

LikeAking:


I think when u grow u you will find out.

See, I don see dis life finish....

I am not a small boy.

I know say u no be small boy
And I never called u one.
But believe me: u never even see life
Not to talk of see finish!!

fman:

I know say u no be small boy
And I never called u one.
But believe me: u never even see life
Not to talk of see finish!!

Lolz

Guy, I don see dis life finish.

Most of what we were taught are wrong. They don't work in the real world.

In life we have the real world and the world we have made up in our hearts.

The kids from disciplined home acheive less in real life...

Life is all about your ability to conquer.

Parents don't even teach dat one or even our schools. Every body want you to be disciplined so they can trample on you.

When last did d world celebrate any man cos he is disciplined. They only celebrate Laurel's.

Wake up.

I don see dis life finish. Na d good dey die, the bad dey live long.

Who discipline ep?

Nobody is talking about getting want you want, and he to..

The people you will vote for next year, how disciplined are they... Are dey d msot disciplined and con3?

LikeAking:


Lolz

Guy, I don see dis life finish.

Most of what we were taught are wrong. They don't work.

The kids from disciplined home acheive less in real life...

Life is all about your ability to conquer.

Parents don't even teach dat one or even our schools. Every body want you to be disciplined so they can trample on you.

When last did d world celebrate any man cos he is disciplined. They only celebrate Laurel's.

Wake up.

I don see dis life finish. Na d good dey die, the bad dey live long.

Who discipline ep?

Nobody is talking about getting want you want, and he to..

U r right from your own point of view.

Yemialade:
Hello nairalanders my body is hot right now.my dad use to criticize and yells if he wants to pass his opinion across.and my mum advice me to b watching him lyk movie even if he attacks me emotionally but m not d type that took insult lightly,am sensitive.today i gave him back o i speak my mind out i cant keep mute and watch you talk down on me. There was a time we going to church and i dressed well with this fancy circle earring.he said that earring is not gud for church rather i wear a small earing or not wearing earing like deeper lyf and i spoke outj that dressing coporate ls different from church dress and so on then he called me a fool he will throw the earing away.why are parents like this and u xpect me to b close to you.

Why u self go wear Bango for ear?

LikeAking:
Religious parents mostly. Most lack self control and coordination. They just hide it behind religion.

Most relgious people don't have good relationship with dia fellow humans, they just don't know how.

They want their kids to be holy, moral, decent, etc. As if na wetin dia kids go chop...

Nothing suppose concern ya dad with your ear rings or dressing?



Sorry!

Just hustle make it money..


The most important thing in this life is money any oda tin is not important.

OP, please whatever you do on this thread don't listen to this guy. If you do your tomorrow will be filled with pain and regret.

There is a way that seems right to a man but the end is destruction.

Be very careful with your father o,do not let him have bad mind for you,o and don't do anything that will make him say bad word to your life o.
Some father's are simply like that.
As long as you are still under his roof,"behave yourself".
Get your acts right educationally and when the time comes,you will surely move away but for now,be matured and behave o.

What is "lyf"? "lyk"? "am sensitive"? What is "i"? "xpect"?


You need to grow up.

Yemialade:
Hello nairalanders my body is hot right now.my dad use to criticize and yells if he wants to pass his opinion across.and my mum advice me to b watching him lyk movie even if he attacks me emotionally but m not d type that took insult lightly,am sensitive.today i gave him back o i speak my mind out i cant keep mute and watch you talk down on me. There was a time we going to church and i dressed well with this fancy circle earring.he said that earring is not gud for church rather i wear a small earing or not wearing earing like deeper lyf and i spoke outj that dressing coporate ls different from church dress and so on then he called me a fool he will throw the earing away.why are parents like this and u xpect me to b close to you.

I will advise you to calm down, prepare your mind to apologize to him and endure whatever he does to you by words or actions till you leave that house for good

It's not good to challenge your parents in any way because it's assume it's an insult and taboos on them

If you want freedom from your parents, get an accommodation for yourself if you are working already

If you can't afford to get an accommodation, so far you are under their roof, you must obey and respect them

As for your dad, you can't charge him rather you avoid him

LikeAking:


U Sabi d OP?

No dey cap dust..

Na your type make govt dey ruin dis nation.


Your don't know dis so called discipline thing is another form of oppression, slavery, wickedness, etc.

Who discipline don elp?

Will d discipline turn d kids into the world's richest or world successful?

Wise up.

Na the lack of discipline come spoil everywhere today,e.g hookup ups and runs.. Yahoo ,aka stealing, but people now calls it "work" ... hard drugs addiction e.t.c

Let her daxxi train her the way she will grow,so that when she is old,she will not depart from it.
Children ,abi child ,obey your parents ..

And what your daxxi sees while sitting, you might climb the highest ladder and not see it.

I can go on and on,but experience they say is the best teacher.

Until you experience some kind things,you won't understand why ur daxxi is acting that way.. Daxxi doesn't hate you,he just wants you to be the best. Daxxi wants you to be a deciplined child out there too. He doesn't want you to bring shame or disgrace to his family ..

So baby girl,na you never understand your papa.

BigYash:
Na the lack of discipline come spoil everywhere today,e.g hookup ups and runs.. Yahoo ,aka stealing, but people now calls it "work" ... hard drugs addiction e.t.c

Let her day train her the way she will grow,so that when she is old,she will not depart from it.
Children ,abi child ,obey your parents ..

And what your daxxi sees while sitting, you might climb the highest ladder and not see it.

I can go on and on,but experience they say is the best teacher.

No b lack of discipline....

Na lack of good reasoning, peer pressure, lack of information, poverty, govt looting, self control, zero mindfulness etc.

No let Dem decive u.

Is obeying parents d only achievement of children?

Children most b trained for the world not dia parents... Those kids trained to respect and listen to dia parents usually have hard time in life.

How about d world respecting a child. No body d teach that one.


Befor I go, poverty fit make a child depart from good up bringing, cos he she has to survive.

Yemialade:
Hello nairalanders my body is hot right now.my dad use to criticize and yells if he wants to pass his opinion across.and my mum advice me to b watching him lyk movie even if he attacks me emotionally but m not d type that took insult lightly,am sensitive.today i gave him back o i speak my mind out i cant keep mute and watch you talk down on me. There was a time we going to church and i dressed well with this fancy circle earring.he said that earring is not gud for church rather i wear a small earing or not wearing earing like deeper lyf and i spoke outj that dressing coporate ls different from church dress and so on then he called me a fool he will throw the earing away.why are parents like this and u xpect me to b close to you.

If you fail to stand up to your dad, even u hubby will bully u. All these none sense respect tin 9 spoil dis con3. Respect no one, instead they shud respect u... No dey too soft, good for this life.

Who respect ep?

LikeAking:


No b lack of discipline....

Na lack of good reasoning, peer pressure, lack of information, poverty, govt looting, self control, zero mindfulness etc.

No let Dem decive u.

Is obeying parents d only achievement of children?

Children most b trained for the world not dia parents... Those kids trained to respect and listen to dia parents usually have hard time in life.

How about d world respecting a child. No body d teach that one.


Befor I go, poverty fit make a child depart from good up bringing, cos he she has to survive.

Even with your points,good upbringing can't be overestimated.
Nobody will wants to bring up a child that will turn armed robber or tout tomorrow. You might choose to give birth and not discipline them,that's you.

When they start fighting and disrespect you at young age,you will understand better why its good to discipline a child.
As a wise parent ,you're supposed to guide them against peer pressure, give them access to the right information, provide their needs. So that even if they go outside, they can differentiate between wrong and right or good and evil.

One shot his mom weeks ago. That's the result you get,when a child lacks discipline my gee.

BigYash:
Even with your points,good upbringing can't be overestimated.
Nobody will wants to bring up a child that will turn armed robber or tout tomorrow. You might choose to give birth and not discipline them,that's you.

When they start fighting and disrespect you at young age,you will understand better why its good to discipline a child.
As a wise parent ,you're supposed to guide them against peer pressure, give them access to the right information, provide their needs. So that even if they go outside, they can differentiate between wrong and right or good and evil.

One shot his mom weeks ago. That's the result you get,when a child lacks discipline my gee.

Dream!

Parents just want to control and intmidate their kids.

The so-called disciplinarian parents will suffer d above fate u mentioned.

Because dey are just a bunch of control Greeks with nothing meaningful to offer to dia kids in real life apart from beatings, torture and insults, etc.

Of course, you can talk back like an adult when you're nolonger under their roof and having your bills footed by them. Until then, their house, their rules. It is that simple.

LikeAking:


If you fail to stand up to your dad, even u hubby will bully u. All these none sense respect tin 9 spoil dis con3. Respect no one, instead they shud respect u... No dey too soft, good for this life.

Who respect ep?

You're misleading her.

A person who does not respect and listen to their father, will hardly respect and listen to anyone.

mariahAngel:


You're misleading her.

A person who does not respect and listen to their father, will hardly respect and listen to anyone.

Respecting people is big scam. The truth is people shud respect u and also listen to u, bf u respect Dem.

Respect wo respect you, disrespect wo disrespect u.


Life no balance. Respectful people end up as lossers.

Wen u re respectful in life people take u for granted.

Truth

mariahAngel:


You're misleading her.

A person who does not respect and listen to their father, will hardly respect and listen to anyone.

God will bless you

U're still staying under his roof u should have no problem adhering to his rules better still get ur apartment and be free to do what u like

See this one bringing disrespect of her father to the public.

So, we should clap for you ba ?

There are ways to dress for different occasions/ functions, earrings /outfits you wear to a party/wedding / club might not be appropriate for a solemn gathering or even church.

These are things that are taught from little, Infact there's a way you will laugh as a lady that the much older generation will say you are laughing like ashawo.

There's a level of comportment expected at some peculiar locations, you can't just be doing anyhow.


So basically your dad is right, you too wear a normal earring when going to church.
I just wonder how young people now find it hard to listen to their parents.