We frequently heard males accuse women of being used or heard women cry and complain after a broken relationship. Men, it's true that you were scammed.
You gain nothing as a male in a relationship if you solely get sex as a reward; instead, you lose everything.
I was on the phone with an ex-colleague to check on her when she told me that she was with a man she had invited in order to enjoy and explore a good dick. I felt awful for the guy because he believes that by sleeping with the girl, he has accomplished something.
Men, treat a girl's relationship like an investment. Either it's a good one or the drain pipe, depending. Please put your future first throughout your twenties until your late thirties. Nothing is gained by lying around. You lose weight as well as money.
Women are cunning; they will constantly portray themselves as victims, but in reality, they benefit greatly from relationships in which they play no active role.
If you're feeling lonely, you can find enjoyment in a woman without a working brain. Enjoy it however you see fit, but never feel as like you are taking advantage of her. No, you didn't; she has gained the most.

For instance if your mum is a single mum or your sisters sleep around will you applaud them that they defeat men

eddynaira125:
For instance if your mum is a single mum or your sisters sleep around will you applaud them that they defeat men

? My mum was married. Sisters married. I am not from a dysfunctional family where ladies sleep around. It was my sister who told me one time that a woman is a gatekeeper in sex and the chances of losing it are when you give it out to any man you can't trust.
Hypothetically, I will only advise my sisters to make use of their time with any unfortunate man they found themselves.
I don't know if I answered your question, happy Sunday.

sirjamesjnr:
? My mum was married. Sisters married. I am not from a dysfunctional family where ladies sleep around. It was my sister who told me one time that a woman is a gatekeeper in sex and the chances of losing it are when you give it out to any man you can't trust.
Hypothetically, I will only advise my sisters to make use of their time with any unfortunate man they found themselves.
I don't know if I answered your question, happy Sunday.

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I’ll feel very used if I ever sleep with a man who didn’t marry me, I’ll feel very depressed for a long time, I’ll never be over it.

Rozross:
I’ll feel very used if I ever sleep with a man who didn’t marry me, I’ll feel very depressed for a long time, I’ll never be over it.

that makes u gay

oOp.

And to think that one acclaim feminist on this nairaland is the one making you to sing this boring song does amaze me.

I've come to realize that woman generally hate men that answer yes ma to them..

Whether she be lawyer,teacher ,nurse or doctor try as a man and claim your space cos nature abhor vacuum,and one of the vaccum is you abdicating your leadership position to them

I know you will claim not to understand what I mean...

OP sir...
I legit get the point you're tryna pass, but I must say that you're greatly mistaken ....

The concept of "gain" or "loss" in any relationship is defined by the individuals involved...

If a guys reason for being in a relationship with a girl is because he want to have sex with her, then he believes he has "gained" once he has achieved that. It's just a matter of what he think his "gain" in the relationship is ...

Personally, I don't think sex is a "gain" in relationships and I'm marvelled that guys think this way ... But if they feel that's their gain when they get in-between a girl's legs, then it is indeed their gain ...

Fahvvy:
OP sir...
I legit get the point you're tryna pass, but I must say that you're greatly mistaken ....

The concept of "gain" or "loss" in any relationship is defined by the individuals involved...

If a guys reason for being in a relationship with a girl is because he want to have sex with her, then he believes he has "gained" once he has achieved that. It's just a matter of what he think his "gain" in the relationship is ...

Personally, I don't think sex is a "gain" in relationships and I'm marvelled that guys think this way ... But if they feel that's their gain when they get in-between a girl's legs, then it is indeed their gain ...

My advice is for men who believe they take advantage of women. You still accomplish nothing, even if all you wanted was to have sex.

sirjamesjnr:
My advice is for men who believe they take advantage of women. You still accomplish nothing, even if all you wanted was to have sex.

OP sir...
The word "accomplishment" is a very relative term ....

This means that what is seen as an accomplishment to one may not be seen as an accomplishment for others ...

To you, a man who just have sex with his girlfriend hasn't gained anything, but to a lot of people out there, it's a different ball game altogether ...

Even the ladies aren't left out from this mindset, that's why some of them say things like "I chop him money but him no even see my pant"... It's all just relative ...

powerhouse3:
oOp.

And to think that one acclaim feminist on this nairaland is the one making you to sing this boring song does amaze me.

I've come to realize that woman generally hate men that answer yes ma to them..

Whether she be lawyer,teacher ,nurse or doctor try as a man and claim your space cos nature abhor vacuum,and one of the vaccum is you abdicating your leadership position to them

I know you will claim not to understand what I mean...

Is the op P.O.C.O s lapdog?

blinking001:

Is the op P.O.C.O s lapdog?

no oo


Na one funministic for here

powerhouse3:
no oo


Na one funministic for here

Okay. I remember now. I wonder why some men just can't avoid damaged women.