Nonexisting1:
Marriage is sweet, enjoy it and stop disturbing us single, non understanding, bitter and frustrated men. Is that too hard to ask bikonu?

I tire o. Marriage is sweet, Marriage is a blessing. He that findeth a wife obtaineth favor from The LORD. All these apply only to the olden days

Give her time she will come around. Call her attention to it when she's level headed.

Coinwarrior:
It is not that I am poor.I am rich ,I have build 7 houses for myself in total.I married this lady in 2020 when i met her as a nurse apprentice.I made her finish her nursing apprenticeship by bankrolling it and I made her learn patent medicine ,bankrolled her and opened a pharmacy store for her and bought 1 plot of land for her so far and made her living a very comfortable life above her peers and even her mother who had been married to her father for 40years ago.she is just checking pregnant now.And i am planning to send her to midwifery school once she gave birth.She has shop at home and at metropolis.I did everything for her.Here is a girl that would have been living an inglorious life if i had not met her because the guy that she was dating by the time I met her just want to Bleep and dump her and that guy is a serial cheat.My presence in her family has been a blessing cos I still bought a bus for her father 2.2mln to do away with the old bus the father was using to fend for his family.So what else I’m i doing wrong

This was unnecessary for you add.

It just shows both of you have more growing up to do.

[quote author=OMOJOHN001 post=116424357][/quote]which sex.is she the wife that would be complaining my sex is too much.is she the one that gave me time table for sex.is she the one that often starve me sex to the extent that I would resort to masturbation.infact I have taught her so many things yet all fell to her deaf ear.What I got to understand about her is that she has low sex drive and it was after i married her is when she put it to me that she doesn’t fancy sex so much and when I was courting her which i often come home each weekend cos of my military job then she do give me sex by weekend so I couldn’t know she was just pretending

[quote author=OMOJOHN001 post=116424357]which sex.is she the wife that would be complaining my sex is too much.is she the one that gave me time table for sex.is she the one that often starve me sex to the extent that I would resort to masturbation.infact I have taught her so many things yet all fell to her deaf ear.What I got to understand about her is that she has low sex drive and it was after i married her is when she put it to me that she doesn’t fancy sex so much and when I was courting her which i often come home each weekend cos of my military job then she do give me sex by weekend so I couldn’t know she was just pretending

Luckysbab:


This was unnecessary for you add.

It just shows both of you have more growing up to do.

i shook my head in wonder.How does telling how responsible I am turned to messing her family or boasting here.Do you know the kind of human being I am? I am a quite,low profile man

Na everything Dem dey c

Abfinest007:
So u didn't see this attitude when u both were dating

Coinwarrior:
i shook my head in wonder.How does telling how responsible I am turned to messing her family or boasting here.Do you know the kind of human being I am? I am a quite,low profile man

Just letting you know you are going about it the wrong way, if your go-to is bringing up all you've done for her and her family.

virginprincess:
coinwarrior,it obvious you just open this tread to boast because i don't see the need of you explaining what you did for your wife's family.

Just look at your direction of thought. It is a parabola of disgrace. A trajectory of calamity.

So you came here to insult your wife. A real man would not do this.

Coinwarrior:
On this date August 6 2022.A day I can’t ever forget in my life about immatured nasty Attitude of my wife put up with me. I left my phone at the bedroom while i went to her shop to sell her goods to customers.on coming back inside the room I heard my phone beeping since and I quickly rushed to pick it up and I have seen about 6 missed calls of hers.As a matured man I dialed her number back and immediately she picked it up instead of asking me in a polite manner as a well cultured and manner wife .she responded arrogantly and disrespectfully to me her husband and I was totally disappointed and let down that a woman I was dieing for couldn’t appreciate my input but yet was about hurling insult at me and I responded I was inside your shop selling for you since and I expected that courtesy will tell you to atleast ask me in a warm and respectful manner where were you since.And I told her I am coming to pick you now as i said.Then i hurried into my car and drove straight to her shop and on getting to her shop .I met her shop closed and totally off her shop.I was totally disappointed and hugely disrespected.when I called her she said I cut off her call was the reason for the chidish and mannerless attitude she put up.I just drove back home and just decided to be looking at her cos I can see her disdain brainless attitude.I just left her to her detested mannerism.

You knew this before u married her.

I know her type of personality, wen what she expecting not forthcoming, she overreacts but come down to her senses after overreacting.

I will indulge u to carry ur cross and show more endurance for ur marriage to last long.

Coinwarrior:
i shook my head in wonder.How does telling how responsible I am turned to messing her family or boasting here.Do you know the kind of human being I am? I am a quite,low profile man

More reasons you shouldn't bring ur family issues to social media, den go help u scatter it finally.

This issues still manageable in marriages..... reasons they called u "responsible man"

Wotoporiously speaking

Same vicious cycle

Women matter ehn he no get ending

Bros if you already have Children with her,find a way to tolerate her, as you pray and hope she doesn't turn the children 's hearts against you.

But if you don't have a child with her yet, KICK HER OUT OF YOUR LIFE.

Coinwarrior:
I have been a very tough man as a once upon a time a soldier stationed at ikeja cantoment but I left the job cos of her and my life safety because of issue of boko haram.But I choose to be a nice and gentle man with her cos I see her as my baby I loved her and she proclaimed she loved me but she has no iota of respect for me upon just trivial things

u cant be a tough man and still be disrespecting u like this. In fact u are a simp to her. If u show her film one or two time, she will have ur fears in her heart. In this case u have to earn ur respect from her by force! To be simple damage a lot of things sometimes! Act up now and take charge of ur home

Coinwarrior:
I have been a very tough man as a once upon a time a soldier stationed at ikeja cantoment but I left the job cos of her and my life safety because of issue of boko haram.But I choose to be a nice and gentle man with her cos I see her as my baby I loved her and she proclaimed she loved me but she has no iota of respect for me upon just trivial things

Talk to her in a calm voice. I am sure she will listen.

What a disjointed report from a supposed simp.

Bro we can’t help you pls,I don’t even understand why you’re crying sef

Coinwarrior:
I have been a very tough man as a once upon a time a soldier stationed at ikeja cantoment but I left the job cos of her and my life safety because of issue of boko haram.But I choose to be a nice and gentle man with her cos I see her as my baby I loved her and she proclaimed she loved me but she has no iota of respect for me upon just trivial things

You left your job and you think the next thing to do is by getting married to a rude woman.. From the way put up your story upthere shows you still a young man...

Brother man
Would advise you to save up and travel out of the country
Women are not to be trusted
It's degrading as a man to go your wife shop and start selling her goods for her

Nah where see finishing they start be that
Be vigilant
She fit shock you one day
Be prepared at all times
Descendants of Eve aren't to be trusted
Safe guard your future now comrade.

virginprincess:
coinwarrior,it obvious you just open this tread to boast because i don't see the need of you explaining what you did for your wife's family.

u wont see the need crazy bitch

Abfinest007:
So u didn't see this attitude when u both were dating

no reason am like that,gals can pretend to get what they fuqin want

boss as a single,i will say.. please endure

OwnMyself:


You left your job and you think the next thing to do is by getting married to a rude woman.. From the way put up your story upthere shows you still a young man...

Brother man
Would advise you to save up and travel out of the country
Women are not to be trusted
It's degrading as a man to go your wife shop and start selling her goods for her

Nah where see finishing they start be that
Be vigilant
She fit shock you one day
Be prepared at all times
Descendants of Eve aren't to be trusted
Safe guard your future now comrade.

very true.That is my mistake

OwnMyself:


You left your job and you think the next thing to do is by getting married to a rude woman.. From the way put up your story upthere shows you still a young man...

Brother man
Would advise you to save up and travel out of the country
Women are not to be trusted
It's degrading as a man to go your wife shop and start selling her goods for her

Nah where see finishing they start be that
Be vigilant
She fit shock you one day
Be prepared at all times
Descendants of Eve aren't to be trusted
Safe guard your future now comrade.

yes I am very still young.I am planning on doing my masters and my PhD and move to lecturing and move into other agricultural businesses.

Landmack:
What a disjointed report from a supposed simp.

Bro we can’t help you pls,I don’t even understand why you’re crying sef

I am not a simp my brother. Someone that once my head spark I would tell her she dare not go to any shop and she dares not make a move.

Ola5TP:
u cant be a tough man and still be disrespecting u like this. In fact u are a simp to her. If u show her film one or two time, she will have ur fears in her heart. In this case u have to earn ur respect from her by force! To be simple damage a lot of things sometimes! Act up now and take charge of ur home

Thanks

Coinwarrior:
On this date August 6 2022.A day I can’t ever forget in my life about immatured nasty Attitude of my wife put up with me. I left my phone at the bedroom while i went to her shop to sell her goods to customers.on coming back inside the room I heard my phone beeping since and I quickly rushed to pick it up and I have seen about 6 missed calls of hers.As a matured man I dialed her number back and immediately she picked it up instead of asking me in a polite manner as a well cultured and manner wife .she responded arrogantly and disrespectfully to me her husband and I was totally disappointed and let down that a woman I was dieing for couldn’t appreciate my input but yet was about hurling insult at me and I responded I was inside your shop selling for you since and I expected that courtesy will tell you to atleast ask me in a warm and respectful manner where were you since.And I told her I am coming to pick you now as i said.Then i hurried into my car and drove straight to her shop and on getting to her shop .I met her shop closed and totally off her shop.I was totally disappointed and hugely disrespected.when I called her she said I cut off her call was the reason for the chidish and mannerless attitude she put up.I just drove back home and just decided to be looking at her cos I can see her disdain brainless attitude.I just left her to her detested mannerism.

Op calm down, your wife is good oh, unless you decide not to stay with any woman again. Mine is more dissrespective but I I dey show her pepper but still stay with her for over 12years now. The last time I tried another woman, na run I run back come dey see my wife like Angel

It is people like this that will now come nd be oppressing single men that ar not married to go and marry.

All women behave like that, there's nothing you can do about it.

It's their weakness



Console yourself by playing with your kids



Beautiful pains

abokikhalifa:
It is people like this that will now come nd be oppressing single men that ar not married to go and marry.

Hope you are celibate

OwnMyself:


You left your job and you think the next thing to do is by getting married to a rude woman.. From the way put up your story upthere shows you still a young man...

Brother man
Would advise you to save up and travel out of the country
Women are not to be trusted
It's degrading as a man to go your wife shop and start selling her goods for her

Nah where see finishing they start be that
Be vigilant
She fit shock you one day
Be prepared at all times
Descendants of Eve aren't to be trusted
Safe guard your future now comrade.

This is d best advice,

A 24 year old girl I sponsored to school laspotech poly isolo for 3 years dumped me in her last semester and got married to a club boy. Turned out she was a narcissist. I opened a hair salon shop stocked it for her she left with my 900K (last card) that I deposited in her account for her dowry. I had 1350 left on God is my witness I bought rat poison and posted my story on Facebook which made people to start disturbing me with calls. This was 2 years back. She married 3 months to the guy dat did ntn for her and her family. Gave birth to a son. Named him d same name we promised. Within a month she got married I traveled to Turkey twice. Changed my shop location and house. Bought clothes for myself, worked on my career, made mad network. See ehh I value my privacy and I am a schizoid as a result of the Ptsd I got from my narcissistic ex. Turns out she smokes heavaily in mushin, tricked her best friend to be raped by 3 guys and recorded the whole thing, had a scandal in her school, slept with lecturers and many more. I just keep evidences of all I did and did a police report. Very soon at the right time we will pick her up but really I don’t have the energy to pursue the matter just my family that is bugging me as my family has connections to the assistant inspector general of police in Lagos. See the matter long. I am far far better than I was before. And now my ex keeps stalking me on Facebook, WhatsApp and calling me with funny numbers.

Women aren’t worth it trust me. Make dem just born for you nurse your child give you simple. You and your pikin gobday for house. I don’t hate women. I just don’t get emotional with them