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My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Baztardmods: 4:36pm On Sep 07, 2022
Hello Guys,

Please am writing to inquire if anyone knows the process to follow a selfish & disloyal spouse (hubby) who wants to immigrate to Canada without carrying the 3 kids and wife along.. what can the wife do in this situation to at least fight for her kids rights and make sure he provides for them before leaving and even after he leaves, the wife doesn’t want to suffer alone for the kids upkeep.. is there any option for her to fight this?? cry cry

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Corridon: 4:38pm On Sep 07, 2022
Why don't you report to the authorities?

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Nobody: 4:41pm On Sep 07, 2022
This is why I’m still afraid to start dating, I don’t want to end up with a mistake of a man, the dangerous part is that these men will so disguise and pretend till you fall into their trap. Imagine a man trying to run from his wife and kids to Canada , very heartbreaking. Madam please try everything possible to stop him from running and make sure you involve the authorities and his family, he must be responsible by force.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by slimjohn2k5: 4:42pm On Sep 07, 2022
If u are not in support of his ambition, he may feel u are dragging him back.
Discuss with him as I believe he wants the good life just like u

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by VKN23: 4:44pm On Sep 07, 2022
Baztardmods:
Hello Guys,

Please am writing to inquire if anyone knows the process to follow a cheating, selfish & disloyal spouse (hubby) who wants to immigrate to Canada without carrying the 3 kids and wife along.. what can the wife do in this situation to at least fight for her kids rights and make sure he provides for them before leaving and even after he leaves, the wife doesn’t want to suffer alone for the kids upkeep.. is there any option for her to fight this?? cry cry

Cc Lalasticlala justwise, seun, Obinoscopy, Oa4mj Mynd44

Apply for a Visa along with him
And what proves do you have he is planning on abandoning you.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Nobody: 4:44pm On Sep 07, 2022
slimjohn2k5:
If u are not in support of his ambition, he may feel u are dragging him back.
Discuss with him as I believe he wants the good life just like u
Go back and read, he’s a chronic and irresponsible cheat who has chosen lust over that of his family. If it’s a woman now you’ll quickly rush to condemn her

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by VKN23: 4:47pm On Sep 07, 2022
Rozross:
Go back and read, he’s a chronic and irresponsible cheat who has chosen lust over that of his family. If it’s a woman now you’ll quickly rush to condemn her
It states there that he is a cheat but no written evidence was provided, And the post is clouded with hateful sentiment, you can't truly judge this case without knowing fully well what transpired

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Nobody: 4:49pm On Sep 07, 2022
O deep grin grin grin

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Nobody: 4:49pm On Sep 07, 2022
VKN23:

It states there that he is a cheat but no written evidence was provided, And the post is clouded with hateful sentiment, you can't truly judge this case without knowing fully well what transpired
Any justifiable reasons for a man to abandon his kids? If yes please I’ll like you to tell me.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Baztardmods: 4:50pm On Sep 07, 2022
VKN23:

It states there that he is a cheat but no written evidence was provided, And the post is clouded with hateful sentiment, you can't truly judge this case without knowing fully well what transpired
There is no hate in the post, he cheats, very selfish and wants to run leaving the kids alone for the wife upkeep

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Baztardmods: 4:50pm On Sep 07, 2022
Persephone1:
O deep grin grin grin
angry angry
Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Baztardmods: 4:51pm On Sep 07, 2022
slimjohn2k5:
If u are not in support of his ambition, he may feel u are dragging him back.
Discuss with him as I believe he wants the good life just like u
This is not the case, the two families have discussed severally, he just doesn't want to change or include them in applications and am sure he already applied cry just need what to do and fight for the kids

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Nobody: 4:52pm On Sep 07, 2022
Baztardmods:

There is no hate in the post, he cheats, very selfish and wants to run leaving the kids alone for the wife upkeep
Don’t mind him, make sure you hold that man down to be responsible and care for his kids. Don’t let him succeed with his plans.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Baztardmods: 4:52pm On Sep 07, 2022
Corridon:
Why don't you report to the authorities?
Nigerian police? how can they help here?

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Baztardmods: 4:53pm On Sep 07, 2022
Rozross:
Don’t mind him, make sure you hold that man down to be responsible and care for his kids. Don’t let him succeed with his plans.
Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Baztardmods: 4:54pm On Sep 07, 2022
Rozross:
This is why I’m still afraid to start dating, I don’t want to end up with a mistake of a man, the dangerous part is that these men will so disguise and pretend till you fall into their trap. Imagine a man trying to run from his wife and kids to Canada , very heartbreaking. Madam please try everything possible to stop him from running and make sure you involve the authorities and his family, he must be responsible by force.
It was all good and fun all these years until he changed and now wants to japa alone cry

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Nobody: 4:57pm On Sep 07, 2022
Baztardmods:

It was all good and fun all these years until he changed and now wants to japa alone cry
Well Do What you have to do to stop him

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by VKN23: 4:57pm On Sep 07, 2022
Baztardmods:

There is no hate in the post, he cheats, very selfish and wants to run leaving the kids alone for the wife upkeep
Do you know the man personally
don't get me wrong its not really sensible for a father of 3 to abandon his kids for no good reason and flee to canada
Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Baztardmods: 4:58pm On Sep 07, 2022
VKN23:

Do you know the man personally
don't get me wrong its not really sensible for a father of 3 to abandon his kids for no good reason and flee to canada
Yes, he is family to me.. things were fun until recently

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by uthlaw: 5:21pm On Sep 07, 2022
Rozross:
Go back and read, he’s a chronic and irresponsible cheat who has chosen lust over that of his family. If it’s a woman now you’ll quickly rush to condemn her
how come going to Canada is a lust or he choose success over marriage!
Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Nobody: 5:23pm On Sep 07, 2022
uthlaw:
how come going to Canada is a lust or he choose success over marriage!
She said he wants to run away and abandon his kids, he’s not ready to take them along, didn’t you read it?

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by uthlaw: 5:24pm On Sep 07, 2022
Rozross:
She said he wants to run away and abandon his kids, he’s not ready to take them along, didn’t you read it?
big lie...when he get there,he support them with everything... No time for love in this country!
Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Nobody: 5:26pm On Sep 07, 2022
uthlaw:
big lie...when he get there,he support them with everything... No time for love in this country!
Can you hear yourself? Make sure you don’t get married

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by ibechris(m): 5:27pm On Sep 07, 2022
Rozross:
This is why I’m still afraid to start dating, I don’t want to end up with a mistake of a man, the dangerous part is that these men will so disguise and pretend till you fall into their trap. Imagine a man trying to run from his wife and kids to Canada , very heartbreaking. Madam please try everything possible to stop him from running and make sure you involve the authorities and his family, he must be responsible by force.


If u continue with this mentality,u will stay long honestly.

It's just like men thinking all women are bad yet refused to marry.
Until u start thinking good about humanity generally,then u will start seeing good things come your way or let me put it subtlely,u will starts attracting the right kind of men as such negative thinking will only imprisoned your mind.

Men and women are good just that life is what happened to them all,hence their individual experience.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by uthlaw: 5:28pm On Sep 07, 2022
Rozross:
Can you hear yourself? Make sure you don’t get married
even d ones may don marry wan run commot,d husband here is an example!
Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by ImaIma1(f): 5:33pm On Sep 07, 2022
The kind of things we hear these days. How does a man abandon his family and relocate?

I think you should start from his family...parents, and let them know the situation.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Acidosis(m): 5:33pm On Sep 07, 2022
Let's start by discussing the motivation behind your username (baztardmods).

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Shokoloko(f): 5:37pm On Sep 07, 2022
Baztardmods:
Hello Guys,

Please am writing to inquire if anyone knows the process to follow a selfish & disloyal spouse (hubby) who wants to immigrate to Canada without carrying the 3 kids and wife along.. what can the wife do in this situation to at least fight for her kids rights and make sure he provides for them before leaving and even after he leaves, the wife doesn’t want to suffer alone for the kids upkeep.. is there any option for her to fight this?? cry cry

Cc Lalasticlala justwise, seun, Obinoscopy, Oa4mj Mynd44

I feel for her. Unfortunately, its somewhat late. Totally impossible to stop a person who is committed to a path.
There are several ways to move to Canada: some require applying with your family and some do not. If he is blocked one way, he will surely find the other way.

The spouse's selfishness and disloyalty did not start today. It was noticed even during courtship period. The wife should have started fighting for her kids rights and gathering "provisions" for her children years ago.
This fire brigade approach will not work.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Foodqueen(f): 5:38pm On Sep 07, 2022
How has the marriage been
Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Magnoliaa(f): 5:41pm On Sep 07, 2022
Persephone1:
O deep grin grin grin

This one you're just in cruise mode laidis. Is awa latest Boyfriend doing something special? Money, segz, dates...? Which one? grin

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Magnoliaa(f): 5:45pm On Sep 07, 2022
Acidosis:
Let's start by discussing the motivation behind your username (baztardmods).

The chances of it being a troll are very high, LMAO.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Immigrate To Canada And Abandon Us by Kobojunkie: 5:55pm On Sep 07, 2022
Shokoloko:
I feel for her. Unfortunately, its somewhat late. Totally impossible to stop a person who is committed to a path. There are several ways to move to Canada: some require applying with your family and some do not. If he is blocked one way, he will surely find the other way.
Is there some way to at least ensure he remits support back to his family at home even after he has left for Canada though? undecided
If she can at least get something like that working, that will be better than having the man completely abandon them with nothing. undecided

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