MALIGNANTGuest:
Okkk

Alusiizizi:


Don't play word games as I will not indulge you. Read my post. Men are supposed to protect/provide for women and children and as such they are beneath men. It is impossible to have your cake and eat it to. One cannot advocate for protection and equality at the same time.

Farfalla:


I can't even begin to imagine the age-shaming and slut-shaming that would come her way. I'm 100% sure they'd label her an ashawo who wants to remain single so she can prostitute herself to different men.

Or that she's a bitter old cargo who wasted her youth on irresponsible men and is now misadvising young girls because she can't find herself a man.

They'll even claim she's had numerous abortions for different men and that she will never be able to conceive, hence her bitterness.

There's no story on earth they'll not come up with.

BRATISLAVA:


LMAO. "Don't play word games" indeed. Is that a command or a wish from your fantasy? Why would anyone indulge your 1D submissions? When you post contradictory bias things it isn't word games, but once it's brought to your notice that you posted contradictory bias things you begin to sound commanding and don't want your word games to be scrutinized.

The day you realize you are wrong will be cold day in hell. You will be too proud to admit it and prefer living a lie. Nobody was born to be beneath anyone else or for their pleasure. Nobody will stay beneath anyone else. You mistake living, thinking, breathing people—women —for animals. You think you need money so that you can own one. Protection indeed.

You don't like feminists because they've diminished your "authority" hence your hate and war against them, roping them into everything you feel is wrong in your world. Every topic leads back to your true problem: women.

What protection? What equality? Blame women, meanwhile don't be men. Keep looking for what you cannot even give God, yet you want it from women. It's amusing.

Men and the internet are truly a bad mix.

Welcome to Nairaland, 4-chans junior brother.

sukkot:
bros drop the info here lets talk about it. we all family. no secrets

sylve11:


you are not serious, are you?

BloomingDale:


You are wrong here. It’s because black women are the most loyal to their race of men. Now that black women are opening up their options, there are now more inter racial dating/marriages between other groups of men and black woman. Moreover, as a black woman the darker you are, the more Afro your hair is, the more other groups of men like you except the black man. The most successful and longest lasting marriages are between white men and black women and the least successful marriages are between black men and any race of women. You can even tell by the societies, where the least developed societies are ruled by black men.

The white man is the Alpha male race, and if not that I can’t stand their skin, I would have gone out/married those that were chasing me while I was in America then.

BloomingDale:


The white men allow them to date you guys because it’s mostly the undesirables in their community that date you guys, so they don’t mind. No decent white girl is going to leave the men with the power to date the men with the least power. Black men are at the bottom of the rung when it comes to power, authority etc.

mrdino:
Tussle over BBC. If you know, you know.

LordGuru1:
Black men are actually the Senseless ones for allowing the evil colonial Cockasian manipulate their Black Women into this Distructive State. When males don't see that Protecting, Nuturing,Grooming and Developing their children and Females is completely their vital and most important Responsibility as Males, then the Males are utterly irresponsible and Senseless! A great wise Sage once said "Character of a females in a particular Tribe is a Reflection of the Males of that specific Tribe." Look around the World, any Tribe that has high % Percentage of Females as Prostitutes reflects very Useless, Lazy and Irresponsible Males as the majority of the Tribe. QED.

shantti:


Are you aware the slavery that existed in Africa was more cruel than the trans-atlantic slave trade. Are u aware. Slaves werent considered humans in Africa, they were chained to trees and killed for fun. They had no living quarters. The slavery in Africa by africans was very evil, why do we not talk about it or make movie about it. We hide it, why?? Yet we blame oyibos for the minor ones they did. You've heard about osu, right, do the descendant of these osus put up with shitty behaviors all cos of the trans-generational humiliation and agony they faced, even though they are still not considered free born even till date.

Oyibos were even humane to African slaves, Africans sacrificed slaves to deities. So don't even go there unless u r suggesting that Africans should start behaving like AA women cos of the yeye post slavery syndrome bushit

BloomingDale:


I think it has to be women because more often they are left with the kids. The state socio-economic support is mostly for white women and was founded because of them.

PDJT:


-All eligible people gets state support, and most are women irrespective of skin colour. In the US, "black" women are more likely to be on state support than not, and having kids outside wedlock seem to be the incentive. In the UK, I know many Nigerian born people who are in receipt of one UK state benefit or the other.

-With regards to western population gender ratio, according to StatisticTimes:
Uk demographics 2021 shows 33.72 million males to 34.49 million females; whilst US sex ratio 2020 shows 162.83 million males to 166.24 million females, which is 97.95 males per 100 females, not minding that many adult males are in prison. The US has over 2 million of them.

goslowgoslow:

That your sentence on statistics of successful marriage is a lie! And if you love something so much you should be able to accept everything that comes with it. So you could have married a white irrespective of their skin

InvertedHammer:

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Don't forget that as important as the article also is the author, source and sponsor of the article.

Do a little research on the author of "Manosphere" and you will understand. Anyone can write an article and post online.

The Psychology Article she referenced was from a militant Feminists group. Go figure! The reality is: How are you doing?

What killed relationships is men staying away from women and not the other way round. The "Woke" and "Me Too" movement killed men/women love relationship as both have turned everything to battle, blackmail, extortion. A consensual sex can be flipped to rape and the loser is the man. Ever heard of MGTOW: Men Going Their Own Way?
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shantti:


Are you aware the slavery that existed in Africa was more cruel than the trans-atlantic slave trade. Are u aware. Slaves werent considered humans in Africa, they were chained to trees and killed for fun. They had no living quarters. The slavery in Africa by africans was very evil, why do we not talk about it or make movie about it. We hide it, why?? Yet we blame oyibos for the minor ones they did. You've heard about osu, right, do the descendant of these osus put up with shitty behaviors all cos of the trans-generational humiliation and agony they faced, even though they are still not considered free born even till date.

Oyibos were even humane to African slaves, Africans sacrificed slaves to deities. So don't even go there unless u r suggesting that Africans should start behaving like AA women cos of the yeye post slavery syndrome bushit

PoliteActivist:


Nonsense. KIng Jaja was a slave. African slaves didn't continue their descendants as slaves clearly identifiable by skin color

shantti:


Are you aware the slavery that existed in Africa was more cruel than the trans-atlantic slave trade. Are u aware. Slaves werent considered humans in Africa, they were chained to trees and killed for fun. They had no living quarters. The slavery in Africa by africans was very evil, why do we not talk about it or make movie about it. We hide it, why?? Yet we blame oyibos for the minor ones they did. You've heard about osu, right, do the descendant of these osus put up with shitty behaviors all cos of the trans-generational humiliation and agony they faced, even though they are still not considered free born even till date.

Oyibos were even humane to African slaves, Africans sacrificed slaves to deities. So don't even go there unless u r suggesting that Africans should start behaving like AA women cos of the yeye post slavery syndrome bushit

ecolime:
I disagree.

The Asians took their destiny in their hands and have started competing with the colonizers.

Our grandfathers complained, our fathers complained, we are complaining and our children might complain in future.

We Africans should stop this victim mentality. It's irritating.

1stGenAmerican:



They’ll make up a false narrative about everything associated with a Black woman without realizing that it’ll only make them look even worse to the outside world. I’m half Nigerian, half Black American and the Nigerian women here in America aren’t bitter, they’re just avoiding Nigerian men because they realize how toxic, negative, abusive, and bitter some of them can be. I don’t know any lonely Nigerian women, they’re busy dating and getting married while the bitter men write epistles online for the world to see.

BloomingDale:


Women cope better with loneliness then men and most oftentimes don’t mind staying on their own. Statistics show that the happiest and longest lived women are single and childless, while it is the opposite for men, meaning that men are a source of stress for women. Also there are more men than women. The least vulnerable women are those that are better educated with good jobs and earning more financially etc.

PDJT:


-Yes, the data you presented shows the total percentage of welfare recipients. And do you expect non-whites to be the highest in a white-man country? Compare those total percentage of welfare recipients to the population of each group and you will see the point am making...

-What did you study in the University, if you don't mind me asking?

sylve11:


you are not serious, are you?

sukkot:
drop your email let me email you

1stGenAmerican:


As an American, I’ll tell you that this is a complete lie, especially in Washington, DC. Another lie is that Whites immediately associate Nigerians with prestige. If that was true, they wouldn’t work so hard to keep Nigerians out of the country and deny visas at incredibly high rates.
Black Americans get educations, they even built Black Universities and have been attending White universities before a Nigerian even put foot on American soil. Automatic doors don’t need anyone to open them. So many lies told here.

Missionaire:


Nope. But they continued based on class and tribe.
The ones who were buried alive with monarchs were most times sons of slaves.
Virgin ladies used for sacrifices were never children Of monarchs.
African tribes enslaved other Africa tribes and descendants of these slaves were still slave.
Look at the Osu.

Should the descendants of these caste system begin to misbehave like their foreign counterparts just to show how much PTSD they have cos of what happened to them ancestors and not even them directly.

The blacks who experienced both physical and mental trauma still struggled to be successful in life. They struggled to go to school, educate their children, fought, protested and died in the process of getting equal rights and yet many of them still went on to own Real Estates businesses and other businesses.

Ironically, their offsprings (the present BA) who never experienced the physical slavery and the associated pains and degradation are the ones who are feeling more victimized and are least successful compared to their ancestors who worked in plantations dusk till dawn despite the numerous present opportunities that are available for them to get educated, become responsible and stop being bitter.

Moreso, the racism they claim they are victims of is what they show 10x to their African brethren who are of the same skin color but different continents.
They call us nigg*rs.
You can imagine!

Why then do the Africans in Africa especially Nigerians succeed in the USA where the BA have consistently failed few years of getting there?
We have learnt to channel the horrors of our past to the drive for a better and greater future for ourselves and off springs.

Like @shantti said below, slavery in Africa by Africans was worse than the slavery of Africans in the West by the Whites.
But we don't sit down organizing pity parties for ourselves while we watch great opportunities pass us by.



Here is another post even though this was directed to Nigerians. But same can be directed to this present crop of lazy and pity party organizers the BA have become.

Don27tiky:
were you counted? I wasn’t
Like I said earlier and all those are just to make the woman feel good. I know many ladies around me who are currently in depression because of lack of a man. My own sister is one of them and I do recommend things like this for her to read just to brighten up her mood.
The Bible can never lie. What is written there will sure come to pass . And smart people are preparing such feel good stats and theories to keep those in that category happy. And I happy it is making you happy too

BloomingDale:


You are wrong here. It’s because black women are the most loyal to their race of men. Now that black women are opening up their options, there are now more inter racial dating/marriages between other groups of men and black woman. Moreover, as a black woman the darker you are, the more Afro your hair is, the more other groups of men like you except the black man. The most successful and longest lasting marriages are between white men and black women and the least successful marriages are between black men and any race of women. You can even tell by the societies, where the least developed societies are ruled by black men.

The white man is the Alpha male race, and if not that I can’t stand their skin, I would have gone out/married those that were chasing me while I was in America then.

AlphaTaikun:

An insightful convo 1stGenAmerican... I have a vast knowledge of American history, genealogy and immigration.


A Quick Reminder: Did you know that a lot of African-Americans who have taken their maternal and paternal ancestry DNA tests from AfricanAncestry(.com), 23andMe, and AncestryDNA actually have Nigerian roots in addition to mixed ancestral lineages to other African countries such as Benin/Togo, Congo, Angola, Ghana, Senegal, Cameroon, Europe, etc, with a slew of identifiable 3rd to 5th cousins or relatives currently living on the African Continent? So, those Black Americans who you said went to White and African-American Universities were from distinct ethnic groups such as the Yorubas, Nupes, Efiks, Akans, Krus, Fons, Ewes, Mandingos,
Mbundus, Kongos, Tikars, etc., meaning they are Nigerians, Ghanaians, Beninois, Senegalese, Gambians, etc. Make no mistakes about these historical facts!


I was blown away when I saw several ancestry DNA test videos on YouTube and other platforms.


Professor Orishatukeh Faduma (formerly William James Davis), who was born in 1857 in British Guiana (now Guyana) was the first black man in the whole world to
graduate from Yale Divinity School in 1894. His parents were Yorubas [from Egbaland] in Nigeria who were rescued from a slave ship by the British Naval Squadron and resettled in Guyana where he was born in 1857. He dumped his foreign name after studying in the UK and adopted his Yoruba name Orishatukeh Faduma in the late 1800s due to a resurgence in the adoption of African culture and consciousness among the African elite in the Creole community in Sierra
Leone (where his parents had moved to from Guyana).

He had migrated to the U.S. in 1890 for further studies after graduating with Honours from a UK University. Orishatukeh got married in the 1890s to Henrietta an African-American, and he became an American citizen (Nigerian-American) in the 1890s. He died on January 25, 1946 in High Point, North Carolina, where he lived with his wife of close to 50 years, and worked as an academic.



There is also a family in the U.S. that is directly descended from a Yoruba Prince (or Omooba in Yoruba) of Egba Owu descent who was taken as a captive in Nigeria and he was deported on a slave ship in 1805 to forcibly work as as a slave and an ironmonger in Camden, South Carolina. He was given the first name Scipio and the surname called Vaughan. He got married to a woman of Native-American origin and they had several children... 9 to be precise.

2 of his only sons (Burrell Vaughan and James Churchill Vaughan) left Camden and returned to their ancestral home in Yorubaland in Nigeria in 1854, 2 years after arriving in Liberia in 1852 via the "American Colonization Society" route based on the 1840 instructions of their father who was on his deathbed.


This is the reason why there is an American branch and a Nigerian (Yoruba) branch of the very successful Vaughan family, and they still make contact with one another over 200 years after the Vaughan patriach first arrived in America on that infamous slave ship from the West Coast of Africa. A direct female descendant of Pa. Scipio Vaughan in the U.S.-branch, Jewel Lafontant-Mankarious [1922-1997] achieved a first in the legal profession and was the first woman to earn a J.D. degree from the University of Chicago Law School.

She also served in 1973 in the President Richard Nixon administration as the first woman to hold the post of Deputy Solicitor General in the Justice Department. She was married to one of the famous Tuskegee air men.



The immigrant drive in the U.S. actually pushed immigrants of African descent from the Caribbean nations of Jamaica, Barbados, Trinidad, Haiti, etc, and the African Continent to go to the Uni and succeed in their chosen careers.

I have several copies of the popular
"Black Enterprise" Magazine which was founded decades ago by an immigrant from Barbados
[a Barbadian-American]. One of my top best 10 rappers, Heavy D, and the 1990 "Operation Desert Storm"
Military commander, Collin Powell are Jamaican-Americans.

Business savvy Nigerian-Americans such as the technocrat, 'Bayo
Ogunlesi (who served in the Trump administration), and the Ibadan-born, Texas-based Kase Lawal (who is an oil and gas business mogul and founder of CAMAC) have been featured in "Ebony Magazine" and "Black Enterprise."

I'm aware that many male and female African-Americans are rising and doing well in the enterprises to form the emerging Black Economy. Other's have learned how
to trade in the global stock markets and make sustainable ROI. But there's more work to be done to teach folks how to fish, and not be given fish. This is true financial education.


Like you earlier stated, African-Americans set up Black Universities and many went to school but the color-bar and racial segregation in the Deep South prevented many from getting good jobs and decent housing. They had to fight in order to desegregate. Innocent Blacks and even some poor Whites and Italian immigrants where publicly lynched, set ablaze or hung to death by some ignorant White dudes (as we can see from widely circulated printed picture post cards).



"We all have to come correct" and de-escalate the ignorance and biases being display or spewed by both sides on Twitter and the Social Media. Based on genealogical studies and autosomal DNA testings, I regard African-Americans as blood with Nigerian roots as well. These young folks on Twitter have to be told the full story or history of the trans-Atlantic deportation of Africans on slave ships because they obviously don't read historical events which have always been in the public domain. This should not be an African-American and African verbal warfare because we are blood cousins! DNA tests, oral history and geneological data prove that.

"Knowledge is King" ~ Kool Moe Dee (LL Cool J's friend and rap rival).


The moving story of the extended Vaughan family branches of the United States of America and the Western part of Nigeria is very apt here.

The Vaughan family story entitled:
"The Vaughan Family: A Tale of Two Continents, African and American Descendants of Former Slave Have Kept in Touch for More Than a Century" was featured in 1974 in the Vol. 30 of Ebony Magazine. Pages 53-64.


=> https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scipio_Vaughan



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