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How Long Should A Visitor (friend) Stay Before They Start Contributing by jolak5(m): 9:22pm On Sep 10, 2022 |
There’s this guy at my place. He doesn’t ask what we will eat nor has he ever entered the kitchen to cook for us. He stayed at my place for a month without ever making a meal for us. Now he’s back. Is it right for me to stop giving him food? |
Re: How Long Should A Visitor (friend) Stay Before They Start Contributing by blazingblender(m): 9:22pm On Sep 10, 2022 |
This story no complete... Who brings money for food??... Abi na only cook you want him to be cooking?? |
Re: How Long Should A Visitor (friend) Stay Before They Start Contributing by frozen70(f): 9:46pm On Sep 10, 2022 |
jolak5: What's he doing in your house and is he lazy, idle and just want the comfort you are providing If the above is your answer, let him know that feeding is a challenge for you guys He may tell you to cook and eat and don't bother about him Well that's a trick, just tell him to get another place to stay so that you can manage yourself If you can't tell him that, just stop cooking and let him know that you are finding it difficult to cook Then you eat out |
Re: How Long Should A Visitor (friend) Stay Before They Start Contributing by tolufase: 9:59pm On Sep 10, 2022 |
Is he an invited or unlimited guest? If it's the latter, then you must be ready to bear the brunt of your action but if it is the former you have to let him know that you can not carry the burden alone. |
Re: How Long Should A Visitor (friend) Stay Before They Start Contributing by jolak5(m): 10:41pm On Sep 10, 2022 |
blazingblender: It’s my place and my food |
Re: How Long Should A Visitor (friend) Stay Before They Start Contributing by Originalsly: 4:28am On Sep 12, 2022 |
Bro... the problem is not the cooking .... the problem is him staying at your place indefinitely. What if he says he will cook and wash the dishes? Do you realize the message you will he sending is it's OK for him to stay as long as he likes?... and he will grab that opportunity to be living with you? ... for free? ... like a wife? ... and in these times your sexual orientation will be on everyone's lips? Bro... tell the guy he needs to leave by Friday.... your house... no explanation needed. |
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