My friend as been victim of a toxic relationship, despite the fact both him and the gal in question have been together for long and he cares and love the gal.

The both stay together in an apartment my guy rented, he wanted to go see the gal's parents for proper introduction but the gal's attitude spoilt everything, so he had to pause the process. My guy loves this gal so much despite all her flaws , they barely stay a week without issues.

The gal is saucy, insults my guy at every provocation, no respect at all. Often times he has asked the gal out of his house but d gal will always refuse, I had to step in but no avail. The gal said she can't leave him to anyway or for anybody after all she had passed through with him, spending many years with him, that she will kill my friend if he tries any attempt to push her out of the house or by any chance end the relationship , she doesn't mind going to jail, and she meant it. I felt for the poor guy, bad relationship could lead to death this gal could starve my guy of sex for weeks, most times the gal will bully him, hitting him on the face just because he wants to have sex with her, she lacks respect, she's abusive though hard working.

Guys what's your take on this, your advise could safe a soul. He has learnt his lesson, currently he vowed not to allow any woman stay with him again unless they're married. Cos right now he can't bring in another gal in, cos it will be disastrous. And the current gal wouldn't want to leave either. I can't image myself stay with such a gal who doesn't respect me, at every provocation will be abusing me , tufiakwa . very stubborn and doesn't want to leave as well, advise pls.

Oga, your friend is a weakling and he does not have the courage most men have when with it comes handling rude and abusive women . But the way I see it, he has to tell the girl that their relationship is over. There is no two-way about it.

Now you may be worried that the girl will exact revenge on him by assaulting him or even wounding him. But let me tell you that it is better for him to get assaulted while her anger is still fresh , than to marry her and live a life of frustration and regret.

Lastly, he should know that living with a contentious woman is something that can lead him to having murderous thoughts , and that is something that should be avoided at all cost. Just remember that the word abeg after murder will not change the punishment that would follow

Sometimes we use our hands to create unnecessary stress and headache for ourselves sha.

Tell your friend to stop simping.

the best way to deal with women is to use another woman,

i have nothing to say to your friend because all I see in him is just a SIMple guy being bullied and blinded by love.

if he knows what's best for him, he should leave the relationship with his life.

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Them do blood convenant?,..abi na do or die affair?
tell ur guy to call it quit with dat liability of a gf...

Your friend na big time simp.......


Tell him to go to police station and write statement, of her threatening him.



And he should inform both parents.......he should break up with her ..... simple thank me later.

He isn't ready for her to leave!! Let him continue to be what he is!! Na him Sabi and na him go suffer am!!

Your friend has jammed the devil gangan . This is a very sensitive matter and your friend needs to be very wise in approaching the situation. Since the lady is threatening to kill the guy if he makes an attempt to end the relationship or evict her from his apartment, he should involve the operations of the cop.
He shouldn't have brought her in the first place, that was his mistake.
Some girls wicked sha!

Zeal0000007:
My friend as been victim of a toxic relationship, despite the fact both him and the gal in question have been together for long and he cares and love the gal.

The both stay together in an apartment my guy rented, he wanted to go see the gal's parents for proper introduction but the gal's attitude spoilt everything, so he had to pause the process. My guy loves this gal so much despite all her flaws , they barely stay a week without issues.

The gal is saucy, insults my guy at every provocation, no respect at all. Often times he has asked the gal out of his house but d gal will always refuse, I had to step in but no avail. The gal said she can't leave him to anyway or for anybody after all she had passed through with him, spending many years with him, that she will kill my friend if he tries any attempt to push her out of the house or by any chance end the relationship , she doesn't mind going to jail, and she meant it. I felt for the poor guy, bad relationship could lead to death this gal could starve my guy of sex for weeks, most times the gal will bully him, hitting him on the face just because he wants to have sex with her, she lacks respect, she's abusive though hard working.

Guys what's your take on this, your advise could safe a soul. He has learnt his lesson, currently he vowed not to allow any woman stay with him again unless they're married. Cos right now he can't bring in another gal in, cos it will be disastrous. And the current gal wouldn't want to leave either. I can't image myself stay with such a gal who doesn't respect me, at every provocation will be abusing me , tufiakwa . very stubborn and doesn't want to leave as well, advise pls.

Well i have not experienced this, but one of the best way to end such is to become the problem. The girl will start looking solution for.

If she mess up, beat her.
Insult her
Lock her outside
Insult the family
Insult the father
Lock her outside.

Become the problem and she will leave.
Only Negative can cancel out negative in this case

He deserves every ounce of disrespect he gets.
He's probably one the guys that defend women without questions.
Perhaps this abuse will re-configure his brain.

Ur friend is a gonna. Slowly but surely

By the way, how long is "a long time"

AyobamiIsaac12:
Your friend has jammed the devil gangan . This is a very sensitive matter and your friend needs to be very wise in approaching the situation. Since the lady is threatening to kill the guy if he makes an attempt to end the relationship or evict her from his apartment, he should involve the operations of the cop.
He shouldn't have brought her in the first place, that was his mistake.
Some girls wicked sha!

@Zeal0000007 follow the above advise, involve police and watch how she'll be humbled. Next Time your guy should not entertain nonsense, let him take time to evaluate how he selects ladies and even seek counseling on relationship matters from a real Coach or someone with a working marriage. As far as I'm concerned let him end this one, the police self will advise him.

Jashub:
Oga, your friend is a weakling and he does not have the courage most men have when with it comes handling rude and abusive women . But the way I see it, he has to tell the girl that their relationship is over. There is no two-way about it.

Now you may be worried that the girl will exact revenge on him by assaulting him or even wounding him. But let me tell you that it is better for him to get assaulted while her anger is still fresh , than to marry her and live a life of frustration and regret.

Lastly, he should know that living with a contentious woman is something that can lead him to having murderous thoughts , and that is something that should be avoided at all cost. Just remember that the word abeg after murder will not change the punishment that would follow

let your friend travel. Simple as A, B, C, D. I mean for a long time, change location. An she go tire.

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kingscare1:
let your friend travel. Simple as A, B, C, D. I mean for a long time, change location. An she go tire.

bro thanks I think this is the best advice I guess for him, this was what I was considering .

Since it's like this...The best way is to leave town for sometime to another location, not because he's a coward, but because he shouldn't commit murder...!!!

First thing first,your friend is a Big Simp.These type of girls are devil incarnate.They are the types that can strip themselves naked in a shrine if you leave them,if that will make your life miserable.They are the type that can come to your wedding and pour both you and your wife acid for leaving her.
The biggest mistake he made was not addressing the issue at the early stages because i know no be today this matter start but since he has decided to think with his penis.These are the only thing he can do now.
1)Breakup with the girl(that's if the SIMP spirit can leave him)
2)Meet the police and they will make her to sign an agreement to leave you and ensure she brings no form of harm to you.
3)He needs to pray and ask his creator for help because girls like this can wreck you for life.
It's hard to believe a chewing gum girl will be insulting and beaten me under my own roof.Someone that calls himself a MAN.That girl have put juju on his food.Nothing you wan tell me.He needs Deliverance.
Let him do anything possible to stop this because if he marries her.One day,out of anger,she will burn the house with your guy inside

Involved the police or pack out from the house to a far place

Such A weakling.




I know your friend will doing hard man for niggaz in the hood while he is actually a pússy

Na superstory be this joor, how person go bully you with killings and you go find solution to tackle your problem.

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