Sometimes you just try to do your all, but your all might not be enough. Had to open a new account to hide my identity.

I have this girlfriend or let me say fiancé( I’m planing to do the normal rights in December) then we get married next year. Both families have met and things are going on fine. I stay in UK just completed my masters.

My fiancé on the other hand works in a bank in Nigeria, she got the job this year. She does not lack anything and I do send her stipends from time to time .Lately anytime we talk she has been telling me most of the guys at work have been asking her out on a date bla bla bla she would just brief about it and we will talk about other things. I really didn’t take it serious.

Yesterday we where talking again and she made mention of it again, this is like the 5th time she is talking about it, and to be honest a feel a little bit sad. I have been here for 2years and never in my life have I even gone out with a girl. She told me she is already feeling like going out with this guy that he is nice.

Told me this guy threats him special and he is even the manager where she works.this is someone I call my fiancé, I told her I’m not comfortable with her going out with the man and she said it’s just a date. I’m boiling inside and I don’t want to overreact, in the past this same man have adviced her to leave me saying I’m too far away and I have warned her severally never to have anything to Do with him. The thing is it’s like she has made up her mind already, the man also drop her off everyday after work and she stays alone.
Am I overreacting by trying to call it off?

There is no day we talk and she won’t bring this particular guy up in her talks, I’m seriously fed up. Why go on a date with someone if you are in a relationship?

Let the elders come,I'm not the one that will try ruin whatever you guys have together.

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Should we tell him

These hoes ain't loyal.

If Dem no loyal for Chris Brown na wo dem go loyal for?

Guys sef have mastered the art of shifting women pant.

The bad news, as u dey fuq person own, another person dey fuq ur own. If u no fuq person own another person go still Bleep ur own.

Las Las every body go chop breakfast.

Oga that babe eh....

He, them dey knack her

Sorry
Truth is bitter


Yeah... You know it.

- why didnt you tell her exactly how you felt?
- why cant you be fully honest with the woman you wanna marry?
- if you allow her to do this BS now, do you think it will be ok to later stop her from doing it?
- no matter how she wants to look at it, going on a date while being with someone for 2 yrs is WRONG

BTW the fact that she whines about this dude every single discussion you guys have, should be a WARNING SIGN thats something is fishy here (or maybe she just wants to make you jealous somehow)

She sleeps wt the guy...
Hence she dey always mention the guy in the relationship.
And the guy no like u for anything.
And he is ready to destroy ur relationship. .
You better serve her breakfast
Before she serves u .

See ehn
If your partner wants to cheat on you nothing can stop them....
Honestly, i don't know what she's trying to prove by telling you about guys chasing her..
Her eyes still dey outside

The next time she tells you about them, quickly change the topic or tell her to do whatever suits her.
People just don't value and appreciate what they have until they lose it.

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Me I don't sugar coat words neither do I say things that will please your hearing... Because I have been in almost 7 relationships in the past and I can guarantee you one thing, all ladies are wired to have the same behaviourial pattern only few takes exception...

-You ain't in Nigeria...
-A bank manager is so nice to your lonely girlfriend in Nigeria who stays alone...
-she talks about him all the time...

Bro...You are the side-guy and you will definitely learn the truth the hard way

It's Over Bro.
You are the side boo


Soo naija girls still dey your mind upon say you dey abroad.

Willbright:
Sometimes you just try to do your all, but your all might not be enough. Had to open a new account to hide my identity.

I have this girlfriend or let me say fiancé( I’m planing to do the normal rights in December) then we get married next year. Both families have met and things are going on fine. I stay in UK just completed my masters.

My fiancé on the other hand works in a bank in Nigeria, she got the job this year. She does not lack anything and I do send her stipends from time to time .Lately anytime we talk she has been telling me most of the guys at work have been asking her out on a date bla bla bla she would just brief about it and we will talk about other things. I really didn’t take it serious.

Yesterday we where talking again and she made mention of it again, this is like the 5th time she is talking about it, and to be honest a feel a little bit sad. I have been here for 2years and never in my life have I even gone out with a girl. She told me she is already feeling like going out with this guy that he is nice.

Told me this guy threats him special and he is even the manager where she works.this is someone I call my fiancé, I told her I’m not comfortable with her going out with the man and she said it’s just a date. I’m boiling inside and I don’t want to overreact, in the past this same man have adviced her to leave me saying I’m too far away and I have warned her severally never to have anything to Do with him. The thing is it’s like she has made up her mind already, the man also drop her off everyday after work and she stays alone.
Am I overreacting by trying to call it off?

There is no day we talk and she won’t bring this particular guy up in her talks, I’m seriously fed up. Why go on a date with someone if you are in a relationship?

take this from me, they are banging your girl. She is just telling you this ones for formality sake. I am hundred percent sure. If you doubt, Dnt tell her when you coming back to Nigeria, surprise her and immediately request for her phone. You will get all your answers. If you announce your arrival, it will gv her time to erase and block them

Willbright:
Sometimes you just try to do your all, but your all might not be enough. Had to open a new account to hide my identity.

I have this girlfriend or let me say fiancé( I’m planing to do the normal rights in December) then we get married next year. Both families have met and things are going on fine. I stay in UK just completed my masters.

My fiancé on the other hand works in a bank in Nigeria, she got the job this year. She does not lack anything and I do send her stipends from time to time .Lately anytime we talk she has been telling me most of the guys at work have been asking her out on a date bla bla bla she would just brief about it and we will talk about other things. I really didn’t take it serious.

Yesterday we where talking again and she made mention of it again, this is like the 5th time she is talking about it, and to be honest a feel a little bit sad. I have been here for 2years and never in my life have I even gone out with a girl. She told me she is already feeling like going out with this guy that he is nice.

Told me this guy threats him special and he is even the manager where she works.this is someone I call my fiancé, I told her I’m not comfortable with her going out with the man and she said it’s just a date. I’m boiling inside and I don’t want to overreact, in the past this same man have adviced her to leave me saying I’m too far away and I have warned her severally never to have anything to Do with him. The thing is it’s like she has made up her mind already, the man also drop her off everyday after work and she stays alone.
Am I overreacting by trying to call it off?

There is no day we talk and she won’t bring this particular guy up in her talks, I’m seriously fed up. Why go on a date with someone if you are in a relationship?

Woman you plan to marry, "praise singing" another guy for you, she even went out with him for a date. If u are patient enough, she would soon tell u how his rod nourishing her body. Oga u are back up tyre o.

Willbright:
Sometimes you just try to do your all, but your all might not be enough. Had to open a new account to hide my identity.

I have this girlfriend or let me say fiancé( I’m planing to do the normal rights in December) then we get married next year. Both families have met and things are going on fine. I stay in UK just completed my masters.

My fiancé on the other hand works in a bank in Nigeria, she got the job this year. She does not lack anything and I do send her stipends from time to time .Lately anytime we talk she has been telling me most of the guys at work have been asking her out on a date bla bla bla she would just brief about it and we will talk about other things. I really didn’t take it serious.

Yesterday we where talking again and she made mention of it again, this is like the 5th time she is talking about it, and to be honest a feel a little bit sad. I have been here for 2years and never in my life have I even gone out with a girl. She told me she is already feeling like going out with this guy that he is nice.

Told me this guy threats him special and he is even the manager where she works.this is someone I call my fiancé, I told her I’m not comfortable with her going out with the man and she said it’s just a date. I’m boiling inside and I don’t want to overreact, in the past this same man have adviced her to leave me saying I’m too far away and I have warned her severally never to have anything to Do with him. The thing is it’s like she has made up her mind already, the man also drop her off everyday after work and she stays alone.
Am I overreacting by trying to call it off?

There is no day we talk and she won’t bring this particular guy up in her talks, I’m seriously fed up. Why go on a date with someone if you are in a relationship?

she already likes him..and I feel they are already fucking..since she brings him up everytime you talk.Obviously she is not matured enof and still behaves like a teenager who doesnt know what she wants.Op if you like yourself just break up with her..the signs are already there.you just choose not to see it and move on.How my woman go dey bring up anoda guy issue when we are discussing.na bye bye be dat

Going out on a date when you are dating is disrespect to your partner, I don’t think your girlfriend is loyal her manager is fucking her

YourMrBoo:
Should we tell him

Off mic abeg....

Willbright:
Sometimes you just try to do your all, but your all might not be enough. Had to open a new account to hide my identity.

I have this girlfriend or let me say fiancé( I’m planing to do the normal rights in December) then we get married next year. Both families have met and things are going on fine. I stay in UK just completed my masters.

My fiancé on the other hand works in a bank in Nigeria, she got the job this year. She does not lack anything and I do send her stipends from time to time .Lately anytime we talk she has been telling me most of the guys at work have been asking her out on a date bla bla bla she would just brief about it and we will talk about other things. I really didn’t take it serious.

Yesterday we where talking again and she made mention of it again, this is like the 5th time she is talking about it, and to be honest a feel a little bit sad. I have been here for 2years and never in my life have I even gone out with a girl. She told me she is already feeling like going out with this guy that he is nice.

Told me this guy threats him special and he is even the manager where she works.this is someone I call my fiancé, I told her I’m not comfortable with her going out with the man and she said it’s just a date. I’m boiling inside and I don’t want to overreact, in the past this same man have adviced her to leave me saying I’m too far away and I have warned her severally never to have anything to Do with him. The thing is it’s like she has made up her mind already, the man also drop her off everyday after work and she stays alone.
Am I overreacting by trying to call it off?

There is no day we talk and she won’t bring this particular guy up in her talks, I’m seriously fed up. Why go on a date with someone if you are in a relationship?

She dey manipulate you...there's no point telling you about any guy...u can't know naaa if them fvck am....so all those her talks na just classic baiting strategy...

thing is she don taste another gbola and her heart is elsewhere..she has already left you but doesn't want to be the one to officially end things because family dey involved ...she wants to annoy u enough so you can get the memo and break off......

because ask urself..why will a lady be shooting herself in the leg by painting a picture she wants to cheat that she's always with another man...... Use seff bait am ..tell her u are no longer interested to see her reaction....

Bro, that guy she always mentions in her conversation with you, is already fuccking her.
She's still probably communicating with you because u still supply her financial needs, but trust me, the girl is lost & has no respect for you.
This is what u should do:
Hack her WhatsApp account to confirm what I'm saying.
If possible, use a third-party in her place of work & in her neighborhood to investigate privately & codedly about her & u will still confirm that the guy is drilling her puccy to his full satisfaction.
Finally, stop spending on her & look for other girls. U will soon get over her because there are surely many other girls far better than her in every positive aspect.
If u come back to Nigeria, link up with her only for fuccking ( use protection o ).
While at it, drill her puccy very hard & at multiple times with no emotions, then disappear.
If she asks u about your relationship with her, tell her you have gotten someone else to marry.

Stop spending your money on what another guy is fuccking probably for free

that comment alone is enough for me to call off anything I have with a woman, that is a massive red flag

I have learnt that distance relationships does not always work. Instead of you to look for a young Briton to marry, you are stressing yourself over a distant lover

2 good years? Alaye, you're wicked ooo? She be virgin? I'm 100% sure she's already gone to bed with the said guy, and you're over there hugging and sexing your pillows. Typical Nigerian how's ain't loyal bro, and that's where your loyalty lies?

Even if you're in Nigeria, she will cheat on you. Of you're in the same vicinity, she will cheat on you. Under the same roof bro, she will cheat. One of them is presently by my side. She called her main guy beside me last night, I immediately ask her to get out of my room for calling a guy beside me. That's the way it is here. Don't kill yourself or dey loyal to a Nigerian hoe. Oluwa awa pelu e

U dey Yankee dey hope say Dem never burst ur babe yarnsh.
Truth is as the guy dey drop am for house, em go enter house together and fucck nicely.
She might be having guilt in her mind hence why she is telling you indirectly.
Do this am about to tell you and see her real color comes out.
Don't initiate call again, see if she will call knowing fully it's expensive calling Yankee, but a lady that's so love you won't care bout the cost just to hear your voice.
Don't text nor chat her, if she drops u message ignore and be playing busy cards. If she truly don dey Bleep the guy believe me she won't have ur time.
Ire ooooohhhh.

Some of you guys are not strong when it comes to women at all. The moment you made her your fiancee, the commitment level should be topnotch. She is giving you a huge sign that she will cheat on you with any one she fancy even if she marries you. Just cut it off immediately. The moment you don't have trust or peace of mind towards any woman you want to marry, just know that she is not for you. Cut your loses and move on. This is my advice for you. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

Something is really happening

She's interested in that Man

Ladies who keeps too much male friends doesn't concentrate in their relationship

Op Better change plans because this your wife to be is seeing someone else don't be surprised that she's already banging that same man

Becareful ooo

Willbright:
Sometimes you just try to do your all, but your all might not be enough. Had to open a new account to hide my identity.

I have this girlfriend or let me say fiancé( I’m planing to do the normal rights in December) then we get married next year. Both families have met and things are going on fine. I stay in UK just completed my masters.

My fiancé on the other hand works in a bank in Nigeria, she got the job this year. She does not lack anything and I do send her stipends from time to time .Lately anytime we talk she has been telling me most of the guys at work have been asking her out on a date bla bla bla she would just brief about it and we will talk about other things. I really didn’t take it serious.

Yesterday we where talking again and she made mention of it again, this is like the 5th time she is talking about it, and to be honest a feel a little bit sad. I have been here for 2years and never in my life have I even gone out with a girl. She told me she is already feeling like going out with this guy that he is nice.

Told me this guy threats him special and he is even the manager where she works.this is someone I call my fiancé, I told her I’m not comfortable with her going out with the man and she said it’s just a date. I’m boiling inside and I don’t want to overreact, in the past this same man have adviced her to leave me saying I’m too far away and I have warned her severally never to have anything to Do with him. The thing is it’s like she has made up her mind already, the man also drop her off everyday after work and she stays alone.
Am I overreacting by trying to call it off?

There is no day we talk and she won’t bring this particular guy up in her talks, I’m seriously fed up. Why go on a date with someone if you are in a relationship?

Alaye, Don't try to be politically correct.
SimplyTell her in strong terms, "Stop hiding behind ordinary date or what's not! Just go all out and shag the man already! I think I should reconsider my stand on our relationship!"
What ladies mean when they make that statement is, "Though I am committed to you, I have found someone better. Do you mind...?!
If you insist on keeping her, she will misbehave and blame you for keeping her against her will!

Temmylee01:
U dey Yankee dey hope say Dem never burst ur babe yarnsh.
Truth is as the guy dey drop am for house, em go enter house together and fucck nicely.
She might be having guilt in her mind hence why she is telling you indirectly.
Do this am about to tell you and see her real color comes out.
Don't initiate call again, see if she will call knowing fully it's expensive calling Yankee, but a lady that's so love you won't care bout the cost just to hear your voice.
Don't text nor chat her, if she drops u message ignore and be playing busy cards. If she truly don dey Bleep the guy believe me she won't have ur time.
Ire ooooohhhh.

you be correct guy

See handwriting all over the wall and you are asking question......

8 out of 10 times you are on call with her, that Manager guy is lying beside her pressing or sukcing her boobies........If u know u know be dat

Bro just find your self another girl.....she is gone for real!!!! Make a wise decision

Now you have your chance to state your thoughts straight with her.

If I were you, I would reassure her of my intentions to marry, and also tell her in clear terms that I would be monitoring her, and that if i confirm that there is anything between them, then it would be the end of our relationship.

Let her choose between you and the guy. Its quite obvious she isnt even telling you the full gist!

To test if the guy is sweeter bloke..then monkey branch