Wittyglam:
Good evening everyone. (6mins read)

The last time I brought a true life story here I got a lot of amazing answers. Thank you.

Here is another one, people reach out to me for my opinion regarding their situation, since I’m into counseling and sometimes I need the opinions of others. That is why I share this stories here.

A man named Emeka is married to a woman called Sade and they’re blessed with 4 beautiful kids, two boys and a girl.

Emeka, has been an amazing husband for the past 16years of their marriage and Sade too. I’m narrating this the way I was being told.

They both work and their family has been one with few issues just like other marriages. Something strange happened last month and this is about to change their lives forever.

Sade, make a confession to her husband. You’re guessing what it is hmmmmm.

Emeka is not the father of their first child, Emeka found this hard to believe and went out to do a DNA test but it came out to be true and he never suspected her for ones.

Sade is begging and asking forgiveness and everyone is asking Emeka to forgive and not break the marriage but Emeka is in a state of confusion.

He came to me and you can see the level of pain on is face. I asked him a simple, Have you forgiven her and he said Yes. I ask another one, do you see yourself trusting her or wanting your marriage to work? And he went numb asking me what he should do. There is so much to write and I don’t want it to be lengthy.

What will you advise?

Wittyglam:
they’re blessed with 4 beautiful kids, two boys and a girl.

fman:

That was where I stopped reading.

Wittyglam:
Good evening everyone. (6mins read)

The last time I brought a true life story here I got a lot of amazing answers. Thank you.

Here is another one, people reach out to me for my opinion regarding their situation, since I’m into counseling and sometimes I need the opinions of others. That is why I share this stories here.

A man named Emeka is married to a woman called Sade and they’re blessed with 4 beautiful kids, two boys and two girls.

Emeka, has been an amazing husband for the past 16years of their marriage and Sade too. I’m narrating this the way I was being told.

They both work and their family has been one with few issues just like other marriages. Something strange happened last month and this is about to change their lives forever.

Sade, make a confession to her husband. You’re guessing what it is hmmmmm.

Emeka is not the father of their first child, Emeka found this hard to believe and went out to do a DNA test but it came out to be true and he never suspected her for ones.

Sade is begging and asking forgiveness and everyone is asking Emeka to forgive and not break the marriage but Emeka is in a state of confusion.

He came to me and you can see the level of pain on is face. I asked him a simple, Have you forgiven her and he said Yes. I ask another one, do you see yourself trusting her or wanting your marriage to work? And he went numb asking me what he should do. There is so much to write and I don’t want it to be lengthy.

What will you advise?

Wittyglam:
that was an error.

Baronthecelebri:
he should divorce that bastard

advanceDNA:
I dont understand people...how una dey straff multiple partners together...some people are just very dirty...and u will do so to point of marriage ....


Anyway.....
Its been 16 years emeka should lock up...
If he cant lockup... he should divorce sade..
Sade should carry pikin to the real father if emeka doesnt want again

again... its been 16years... the bond is already dia...emeka should lockup

GboyegaD:
No one can advice him. He should make a decision/advice himself based on:
Can he still love the child in question as he has always?
Does Shade know the real father and has there been communication during the marriage?
Why did Shade choose to open up now?

Fahvvy:


This are very valid questions you're asking here sir...

In my opinion the reason why she choose to open up is probably because the real father of the child has come knocking...

I mean, she has successfully hid this for 16years, so why should she open up now, if not that there's a huge chance her hubby would find out? She prolly just wants to soften things up by confessing...

If I were in his shoes, I would stay only because I don't want history to repeat itself (he came from a broken home), but I would NEVER trust or be committed to her ...

On a side note: Paternity fraud will only be reduced drastically if there is a prison sentence attached to the perpetuators of this wicked act...

Wittyglam:
Good evening everyone. (6mins read)

The last time I brought a true life story here I got a lot of amazing answers. Thank you.

Here is another one, people reach out to me for my opinion regarding their situation, since I’m into counseling and sometimes I need the opinions of others. That is why I share this stories here.

A man named Emeka is married to a woman called Sade and they’re blessed with 4 beautiful kids, two boys and a girl.

Emeka, has been an amazing husband for the past 16years of their marriage and Sade too. I’m narrating this the way I was being told.

They both work and their family has been one with few issues just like other marriages. Something strange happened last month and this is about to change their lives forever.

Sade, make a confession to her husband. You’re guessing what it is hmmmmm.

Emeka is not the father of their first child, Emeka found this hard to believe and went out to do a DNA test but it came out to be true and he never suspected her for ones.

Sade is begging and asking forgiveness and everyone is asking Emeka to forgive and not break the marriage but Emeka is in a state of confusion.

He came to me and you can see the level of pain on is face. I asked him a simple, Have you forgiven her and he said Yes. I ask another one, do you see yourself trusting her or wanting your marriage to work? And he went numb asking me what he should do. There is so much to write and I don’t want it to be lengthy.

What will you advise?

GboyegaD:
No one can advice him. He should make a decision/advice himself based on:
Can he still love the child in question as he has always?
Does Shade know the real father and has there been communication during the marriage?
Why did Shade choose to open up now?

fman:

That was where I stopped reading.

Wittyglam:
Good evening everyone. (6mins read)



A man named Emeka is married to a woman called Sade and they’re blessed with 4 beautiful kids, two boys and a girl.

efficiencie:


First, Emeka should work with the wife and family of the wife to find the true father of the first child and ensure that he accepts responsibility for his actions.

Second, Emeka should conduct DNA tests for all the children and confirm whether all the other kids are his or not.

Third, Emeka should conduct a family meeting involving the parents of Sade and his own parents to explain the situation to them and ensure that both families are aware of the situation.

Fourth, Emeke needs to go on a retreat to pray, to release pent up emotions and to heal.

Fifth, Emeka should return to wife but be careful with trusting her like he used to. If she could do such an abomination and keep it to herself for 16 years she can do a lot more damage.

tauhedsuleiman:
good evening sir I requested for ur help about two weeks now I don't know if you get to see it cuz the mods somehow deleted all my post cuz I was criticizing them. However I know things are difficult I can testify to that as I sold my phone to pay my school fees, I have to beg my neighbors phone to see if you can help me Abeg I have nothing at home only God knows how I have been surviving. Sir even its #1000 it will go along way as nothing is too small God bless you sir

GoldSantana:
All that avails is a divorce. The marriage is definitely not going to remain the same.

GboyegaD:
No one can advice him. He should make a decision/advice himself based on:
Can he still love the child in question as he has always?
Does Shade know the real father and has there been communication during the marriage?
Why did Shade choose to open up now?

Fahvvy:


This are very valid questions you're asking here sir...

In my opinion the reason why she choose to open up is probably because the real father of the child has come knocking...

I mean, she has successfully hid this for 16years, so why should she open up now, if not that there's a huge chance her hubby would find out? She prolly just wants to soften things up by confessing...

If I were in his shoes, I would stay only because I don't want history to repeat itself (he came from a broken home), but I would NEVER trust or be committed to her ...

On a side note: Paternity fraud will only be reduced drastically if there is a prison sentence attached to the perpetuators of this wicked act...

onumadu:


I was forced to stop reading at this point because the Maths was wrong; didn't add up.

GboyegaD:


Your girlfriend should be able to sustain you na.

efficiencie:


First, Emeka should work with the wife and family of the wife to find the true father of the first child and ensure that he accepts responsibility for his actions.

Second, Emeka should conduct DNA tests for all the children and confirm whether all the other kids are his or not.

Third, Emeka should conduct a family meeting involving the parents of Sade and his own parents to explain the situation to them and ensure that both families are aware of the situation.

Fourth, Emeke needs to go on a retreat to pray, to release pent up emotions and to heal.

Fifth, Emeka should return to wife but be careful with trusting her like he used to. If she could do such an abomination and keep it to herself for 16 years she can do a lot more damage.

tauhedsuleiman:
sir I don't have girlfriend o, my neighbors have been sustaining me sha. Begging is not something am use to nor proud of ever since I lost my grandma when I was in jss3 I have been sponsoring myself doing manual work, now am in my final year things have not been difficult for me the frustration is getting to me Abeg reason the boy matter God bless you

GboyegaD:


Your stories are not consistent.

GboyegaD:


Your stories are not consistent.

GboyegaD:


Your stories are not consistent.

GboyegaD:


Your stories are not consistent.

tauhedsuleiman:
good evening sir its me again, I know I'm disturbing you, pls help me 5h na something ejorr