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When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 8:43am On Sep 13, 2022 |
You see this talk of when men says I don't have enough money to settle down Na lie If you wan settle down you fit settle Just have an understanding partner And that include make use of birth control as you dey think marriage To pity innocent children The best thing that can ever happen to a man is a good marriage even when money no dey An understanding and a supportive wife People wey marry for Yankee you no the house Dem dey live make we no talk Africa You start small And then with time it will get better copyright Digital Bimpe You see when I said with time it will get better I implied Patience will be needed and endurance The best phase of an individual life is the ability to endure before you enjoy that way you can appreciate what you have more and stop bothering about what you don't have In marriage You need to understand there are days you will enjoy and there are days you will endure You have to have that mindset put in place No be everyday person dey chop chicken Some days you will eat egg and some days you will eat fish So is marriage If you end up with a materialistic partner who believe in I must live large and look large to suit societal Standards Then it's your business to deal with life situations when it get hard If you end up with a non materialistic partner who enjoy simplicity Simple lifestyle copyright Digital Bimpe The Coach 51 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Nobody: 8:49am On Sep 13, 2022 |
Men are no longer interested in marriage generally because they are already getting marriage benefits from single ladies doing wifely duties, so it has killed their zeal and interest in marriage. It’s not about money for modern men, it’s mostly about freedom and fear of commitment. The greatest fear of a promiscuous man is commitment and almost all modern young men are promiscuous hence their lack of interest in marriage 230 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Currentblog: 8:49am On Sep 13, 2022 |
Wordsfrombimpe:Have u gotten yr P.V.C 62 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Currentblog: 8:51am On Sep 13, 2022 |
Rozross:Like say she inform u say she won post this thread.. I dont no how to describe u on dis blog. Are u a feminist?. 36 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Nobody: 8:52am On Sep 13, 2022 |
Currentblog:Feminist? I don’t have their strength Biko, I’m a strong dependent woman. 31 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 8:56am On Sep 13, 2022 |
I agree with you Rozross: 22 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 8:57am On Sep 13, 2022 |
Hmmn Currentblog: |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 8:57am On Sep 13, 2022 |
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Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Nobody: 8:58am On Sep 13, 2022 |
Wordsfrombimpe: Men men men...make una leave us alone now ![]() ![]() 62 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Currentblog: 8:59am On Sep 13, 2022 |
Rozross:Where is yr dependent certificate, Go on and show me. 4 Likes |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Currentblog: 9:00am On Sep 13, 2022 |
Wordsfrombimpe:Whats hmmm, Simple yes or no. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 9:00am On Sep 13, 2022 |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 9:01am On Sep 13, 2022 |
Some one made a very good point on a forum that some men are promiscuous even as they are single and that's another factor why they haven't settle down This is fact , I agree with her So when a guy tells me I don't have money it's one factor but some of them dey knack well Wordsfrombimpe: 4 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Chaos14: 9:06am On Sep 13, 2022 |
Entitlement they think marrying us Is a blessing to us 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 9:08am On Sep 13, 2022 |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 9:13am On Sep 13, 2022 |
Normalise praying before you step out of your house. Only God can guarantee safety as you head out to find your daily bread. Pray for safety, success, money, love, happiness, peace, etc. Wishing you all success today✌️ � Wordsfrombimpe: 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Natbrowny: 10:42am On Sep 13, 2022 |
Wordsfrombimpe: U see dis part. Where u wan see am if small bar no dey.. Easier to remove a lion's tooth when alive than to find dis one. 52 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Sanjay88: 10:45am On Sep 13, 2022 |
Rozross:Confirm 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by advanceDNA: 10:58am On Sep 13, 2022 |
Wordsfrombimpe: the other day someone opened a topic here, a 40 year old woman, asking if she wont be shooting herself in the leg if she decide to marry a man earning 100k... ..and all the women on that topic made that man look unserious and lazy....told her to wait for someone more richer....that how will she buy her wig and look good on 100k.... The truth is there are no Understanding woman in 2022?? Economy is bad and greed is everywhere....if you doubt me...check around ....despite the bad economy....most women carry plots of land/shops on their head and in their bag in the name of wig and mobile phones they cant even afford with the job they have......is it these type of women that will be understanding?? 137 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 11:06am On Sep 13, 2022 |
Deep Words Natbrowny: 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 11:07am On Sep 13, 2022 |
Deep words advanceDNA: 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by ijoba22(m): 11:50am On Sep 13, 2022 |
It's purely set up line, scam of the highest order. Men don't fall for it. When they say 'we' I will manage. They will frustrate you later. 72 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 11:52am On Sep 13, 2022 |
Hmmn ijoba22: 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by JOACHINpedro: 12:02pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
Wordsfrombimpe:Opinion is like Yansh everybody has one 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 12:39pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
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Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by otis3(m): 12:49pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
settling down now is by grace, either a man is financially buoyant or not...is just by grace...must people are scared now because alot is actually happening in the so called marriage institution...trust, unselfishness, understanding and endurance is no longer the practice. 15 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by qtguru(m): 12:53pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
Wordsfrombimpe: There's a book called a Framework for Poverty it states how the strong chances of remaining in poverty , if you settle without financial backing. 29 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Exxxgeee: 1:27pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
Rozross:Wrong! Op is right... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by gforce5: 1:30pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
Good grief. Nigeria is such a conservative and myopic society. All people talk about is marriage and religion. Nothing innovative. Nothing creative. No discussions on how to enhance one's career or set up a business. Even with the present economic realities on ground, people are still killing themselves over the issue of marriage. It's so funny how Nigerian women are showing concern as to the reason why men in this country are not rushing towards marriage. You lots keep billing and broke-shaming men who are just trying to survive. Men have realized that there are no benefits to getting married except the title of "husband" and "father". The only reason why men get married these days is so that they don't father bastards. There's still a stigma of having a child outside wedlock. Otherwise, many men don't see the point. Many young men have grown up seeing the women of their dreams snubbing them for yahoo boys or Egbons (Yoruba word for seniors). These same men have now hardened themselves to make money at all cost and do what the aforementioned men were doing to them. Love doesn't exist in Nigeria anymore. A lot of women see marriage as a poverty alleviation program. Many of them get married to the men that were available to them not the men they really want. 87 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by ednut1(m): 1:33pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
Stop gaslighting men abeg. In Nigeria many women and their families see marriage as a poverty alleviation scheme . U want to deceive men into marriage meanwhile most ladies will tax you and make you borrow for a ‘decent wedding’, lets have one child till we are stable most ladies wont agree. They will say time is going bla bla bla. Tell a woman you want parlour wedding or use her fathers compound. Majority will say no. Men don wise abeg 89 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: When Men Say 'I Don't Have Enough Money To Settle Down' by Streetmovement(m): 1:38pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
Wotoporiously ![]() Mo bimpe o stop disturbing us na We are not interested again, your gender have been decieving us into doing this thing since B.C ![]() This one wey you carry come now na new format abi na wetin ![]() 22 Likes 1 Share |
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