The simple reason is, she doesn't love you bro. She married you only because she had no other option at the time. Know this that a woman will break all rules, raise hell if she has to, to have sex with a man she likes. If she's constantly giving you excuses for an extended period of time, or making demands before she allows you in, it means you're sexually unattractive to her bro, she settled for you.

Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc but for how long can one be consistently tired that she only has sex with her husband once in 3 months?

Why are you men just so blind to reality? Damn! You'll jus rush into marriage because of love without making sure the person you're marrying isn't settling for you. You'll give her a comfortable live in the marriage, she'll deny you sex and you'll come to Nairaland to ask for advice.

Women will tell you to continue treating her right, talk things out with her etc. But it never works, trust me. If your wife settled for you, she'll deny you sex and use it to control you. When she needs a new handbag that is very expensive, she'll deny you sex and wait for you to buy it for her first before she allows you in.

Then she repeats the process for another demand and so on and so forth. Is that how you want to live the rest of your life as a man? Begging and paying your WIFE for sex. I'm tired of you men really, y'all lack balls and that is why women use Sex to control you.

Blessedmercy8:
Not true. A woman can love you and not be in the mood. The problem with you men is that you are so highly insensitive and all you care about is you yourself and you especially when it comes to sex. It's like a woman should not have a say over her own body just to please you.

If a woman is not in the mood and you keep complaining and forcing yourself on her, she'll begin to dislike you. Me I will just hate you. Let me not even mince words here.

Men should learn to exert their energy in more productive things than always whining about sex all the time.

Love has nothing to do with mood. You can love and not be in the mood. Besides, the woman's body is flesh, not iron that you'll be pounding all the time and she won't get tired. Abeg, make una carry that una iron bender body park well. Biko!

Everytime sex sex.

You didn't see where i mentioned CONSISTENT on my post?
If a woman consistently tells you that she isn't in the mood every time you ask,doesn't common sense tell you that the woman isn't sexually attracted to you?
But I expected a reply like this though, women and flimsy excuses
So you'll deny your husband of sex for months because you're not in the mood? How can you not be in the mood even once a month?

And Don't try to shame men for Wanting to have sex with the woman THEY LEGALLY MARRIED AND PROVIDE FOR.
You're being deceptive here like women don't like sex just as much as men. When there are hoes on the streets with hundreds of body counts. When a woman gets married to a man she doesn't like,it means she settled for him,and him she settled for him, he'll disgust her Sexually. So she denies the man sex every damn time and comes up with flimsy excuses like not in the mood,tired,period etc
Bull****! Nothing can excuse denying your husband sex CONSISTENTLY For months.

Before you argue, keyword is CONSISTENTLY.

Not in all cases though. In some cases, that might be true. In others, it might not be true.

Another reason can be that the man is not doing a good job on her. Trust me women love good sex. If oga is a 2 minutes man that don't know where to touch at the right time and how to do the work. After sometimes, the wife will not see any enjoyment in the sex with him.

I heard a woman saying e not dey sweet again, na money she dey find.
So a poor man have no reason to have erection

It all starts when men starts begging for love, attention, visit, hug, kiss etc. Or buying it with money.

Should this not be obvious to anyone?

here is some simple clues why a woman could refuse to have sex with a man she loves:
- she is on her period
- she is not feeling well
- she isnt in the mood
- she has some worries/stress etc in her life at that moment
- you aint approaching her right (sexually)
- you stink/smell etc

...but most importantly, why would a man force his loving wife to have sex is she isnt in the mood?!?!? shouldnt you 1st figure out whats going by communicating with your partner?!

This is why it’s good to marry two wives. Both wives cannot be acting like witch at the same time. They will always be at competition to kill you with sex.

Helpout12345:
Not in all cases though. In some cases, that might be true. In others, it might not be true.

Another reason can be that the man is not doing a good job on her. Trust me women love good sex. If oga is a 2 minutes man that don't know where to touch at the right time and how to do the work. After sometimes, the wife will not see any enjoyment in the sex with him.

This is another excuse,if a woman likes you, she'll always want to have sex with you. If you aren't good in the game, she'll teach you.
Women break rules for men they like,and Make rules for men they don't like.
Don't let the lies women say get in your head bro

MrBrownJay1:
here is some simple clued why a woman could refuse to have sex with a man she loves clue:
- she is on her period
- she is not feeling well
- she isnt in the mood
- she has some worries/stress etc in her life at that moment
- you aint approaching her right (sexually)
- you stink/smell etc

...but most importantly, why would a man force his loving wife to have sex is she isnt in the mood?!?!? shouldnt you 1st figure out whats going by communicating with your partner?!

When she constantly refuses your advances for months,you will tell me if it's because she's not in the mood or has been in her period for 3 months. My guy, don't listen to the lies women tell,they give those excuses to their husbands because their husbands are "Good men" who will Rather Starve of sex for months than send the wife back to her parents.
And I didn't say men should force sex,if she refused you multiple times in weeks,then you disgust her. Women don't have sex with men who aren't sexually attractive to them(unless he's paying of course)

Carcholce:
This is why it’s good to marry two wives. Both wives cannot be acting like witch at the same time. They will always be at competition to kill you with sex.

I saw your comment on that guy's thread. The guy who was complaining that his lazy wife was denying him sex. I went through the thread and saw women Giving him advice and i shook my head.
He will continue being the good man that he is,and the wife will continue to starve him of sex.

odinson1:
When she constantly refuses your advances for months,you will tell me if it's because she's not in the mood or has been in her period for 3 months. My guy, don't listen to the lies women tell,they give those excuses to their husbands because their husbands are "Good men" who will Rather Starve of sex for months than send the wife back to her parents.
And I didn't say men should force sex,if she refused you multiple times in weeks,then you disgust her. Women don't have sex with men who aren't sexually attractive to them(unless he's paying of course)

bro, there is something called COMMUNICATION, and if a wife doesnt want to get close to her husband during 3 months, then she should have a VALID REASON for it. the husband should simply ask her for an explanation, and if she aint got one then get rid of her.

MrBrownJay1:


bro, there is something called COMMUNICATION, and if a wife doesnt want to get close to her husband during 3 months, then she should have a VALID REASON for it. the husband should simply ask her for an explanation, and if she aint got one then get rid of her.

Why didn't the wife give her reason for not wanting to have sex with the husband? Why must the burden of communication always fall on men?
The only reason a woman would starve her husband of sex CONSISTENTLY is Either she isn't sexually attracted to him and just married him for his money,or she wants to weaponise The sex and make the man answer to her demands.
If she Denies you ONCE and tells you she's on her period or something,and then gives you the next time you asks when she's not on her period,then that is A valid Reason
Key word is CONSISTENTLY.

odinson1:
Why didn't the wife give her reason for not wanting to have sex with the husband? Why must the burden of communication always fall on men?

come on bro, women can stay off sex for years and be cool with it, while for us men its a different ball game, if we aint got sex after 3 days.

The only reason a woman would starve her husband of sex CONSISTENTLY is Either she isn't sexually attracted to him and just married him for his money,or she wants to weaponise The sex and make the man answer to her demands.
If she Denies you ONCE and tells you she's on her period or something,and then gives you the next time you asks when she's not on her period,then that is A valid Reason
Key word is CONSISTENTLY.

you are partly right on the above....some women aint into sex like that, some women are different and only communication can bring this to the light. you have to give her the benefit of the doubt and confirm whats going on. some women would pretend to be who they are not in order to desperately be married, and as soon as they get married they turn right back to their natural self... you do know that:
A) some damaged married women out there dont even like sex;
B) some married (undercover lesbian) women out there aint even attracted to men but married to men;
C) some women out there cant handle being raped having sex every night with their uncaring sexually brutal husbands etc

MrBrownJay1:
here is some simple clued why a woman could refuse to have sex with a man she loves clue:
- she is on her period
- she is not feeling well
- she isnt in the mood
- she has some worries/stress etc in her life at that moment
- you aint approaching her right (sexually)
- you stink/smell etc

...but most importantly, why would a man force his loving wife to have sex is she isnt in the mood?!?!? shouldnt you 1st figure out whats going by communicating with your partner?!

This is night bro, and I pray u will face what the OP said.
Exactly the way he said it is the way u will face it in ur marriage.
Ur wife will always find excuses to give u sex once in 3months
By the power of universe that is how it will be.
But u will also have the fortitude to persuade her all the tym.




Let see if u will stick to Ur words

2Radii:
This is night bro, and I pray u will face what the OP said.
Exactly the way he said it is the way u will face it in ur marriage.
Ur wife will always find excuses to give u sex once in 3months
By the power of universe that is how it will be.
But u will also have the fortitude to persuade her all the tym.

Let see if u will stick to Ur words

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odinson1:


This is another excuse,if a woman likes you, she'll always want to have sex with you. If you aren't good in the game, she'll teach you.
Women break rules for men they like,and Make rules for men they don't like.
Don't let the lies women say get in your head bro

It's not an excuse. I agree a woman can teach a man she loves how and where to touch her if the man is not the "I holy pass you" type that will later use it against her. But the woman cannot turn a 2 minutes man into a 30 minutes man. She cannot also solve the problem of an impotent man.

And God helps the man that the wife had been with men good in the room in her past life as ex's. That's more trouble for the man.

Even if the woman don't deny the man consistently, she will not be enjoying it and she will see it as a chore.

My point is that good sex can make a woman not into you initially to love or like you more. And bad sex can reduce the attraction your woman has for you.

From bad sex to impotency, at impotency level, no matter how your woman is attracted to you, she will end up hating you around her in bed.

MrBrownJay1:


- she has some worries/stress etc in her life at that moment

This is also true. Example if you are a source of the stress or worries, like you serially cheat and she catches you. She can deny you sex for months even though she still loves you.

I've always said it and I will say it again...

"If your wife denies you sex consistently for a period of time without a very valid reason, go outside asap"...

There's absolutely no need staying faithful to a woman who weaponizes a man's primary need (sex) as a weapon against him ...

Not true. A woman can love you and not be in the mood. The problem with you men is that you are so highly insensitive and all you care about is you yourself and you especially when it comes to sex. It's like a woman should not have a say over her own body just to please you.

If a woman is not in the mood and you keep complaining and forcing yourself on her, she'll begin to dislike you. Me I will just hate you. Let me not even mince words here.

Men should learn to exert their energy in more productive things than always whining about sex all the time.

Love has nothing to do with mood. You can love and not be in the mood. Besides, the woman's body is flesh, not iron that you'll be pounding all the time and she won't get tired. Abeg, make una carry that una iron bender body park well. Biko!

Everytime sex sex.

I've seen the cries of some men about their wives denying them their conjugal right, I just laughed and marveled at the same time.. how can a man being the head of the family belittle himself by begging his own wife for sex ... This can never happen in my house, the moment I notice your defective behavior towards me, I'll immediately activate my 'I don't mode'. And at this point whatever you wear/do cannot attract attention...

I'll now be seeing you as a friend (just friends without feelings attached), if kids are involved I'll give you money to prepare meals and other things that will make life comfortable for my kids, and you'll not enter my room stay on your own while I stay on my own,,

And as for sex, I'm not really a fan of much sex but if I need sex, being a man always with plan b, there are so many young beautiful damsels available to do justice to that....

If I notice you're cheating, that's the day you return back to your parents house (no forgiveness), remember I didn't deny you sex, you have to finish what you ignited...
Brothers/men never be at the mercy of your spouse, else you're finished....

Men are moved by sight, while most women are moved by tangible things

Blessedmercy8:
Not true. A woman can love you and not be in the mood. The problem with you men is that you are so highly insensitive and all you care about is you yourself and you especially when it comes to sex. It's like a woman should not have a say over her own body just to please you.

If a woman is not in the mood and you keep complaining and forcing yourself on her, she'll begin to dislike you. Me I will just hate you. Let me not even mince words here.

Men should learn to exert their energy in more productive things than always whining about sex all the time.

Love has nothing to do with mood. You can love and not be in the mood. Besides, the woman's body is flesh, not iron that you'll be pounding all the time and she won't get tired. Abeg, make una carry that una iron bender body park well. Biko!

Everytime sex sex.

Hahahahah which one be iron bender body

dmg1:
I've seen the cries of some men about their wives denying them their conjugal right, I just laughed and marveled at the same time.. how can a man being the head of the family belittle himself by begging his own wife for sex ... This can never happen in my house, the moment I notice your defective behavior towards me, I'll immediately activate my 'I don't mode'. And at this point whatever you wear/do cannot attract attention...

I'll now be seeing you as a friend (just friends without feelings attached), if kids are involved I'll give you money to prepare meals and other things that will make life comfortable for my kids, and you'll not enter my room stay on your own while I stay on my own,,

And as for sex, I'm not really a fan of much sex but if I need sex, being a man always with plan b, there are so many young beautiful damsels available to do justice to that....

If I notice you're cheating, that's the day you return back to your parents house (no forgiveness), remember I didn't deny you sex, you have to finish what you ignited...
Brothers/men never be at the mercy of your spouse, else you're finished....

Lol...so you won't forgive her cheating but you will cheat. I laugh in broken englaise. Why do you have to go through all these trouble instead of just walking away, since you're not willing to address the main issue and bring harmony back to your home?! As you will no longer see her as your wife and just as a friend so what are you staying for? both of you cheating on each other then killing each other afterwards?! God save the king

odinson1:
The simple reason is,she doesn't love you bro. She married you only because she had no other option at the time. Know this that a woman will break all rules,raise hell if she has to,to have sex with a man she likes. If she's constantly giving you excuses for an extended period of time,or making demands before she allows you in,it means You're sexually unattractive to her bro,she settled for you.

Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc but for how long can one be consistently tired that she only has sex with her husband once in 3 months?
Why are you men just so blind to reality? Damn! You'll jus rush into marriage because of love without making sure the person you're marrying isn't settling for you. You'll give her a comfortable live in the marriage, she'll deny you sex and you'll come to Nairaland to ask for advice.
Women will tell you to continue treating her right,talk things out with her etc. But it never works, trust me. If your wife settled for you, she'll deny you sex and use it to control you. When she needs a new handbag that is very expensive, she'll deny you sex and wait for you to buy it for her first before she allows you in. Then she repeats the process for another demand and so on and so forth. Is that how you want to live the rest of your life as a man? Begging and paying your WIFE for sex. I'm tired of you men really, y'all lack balls and that is why women use Sex to control you.

This discussion go sweet for Twitter.
Increase the vawulence to 75 commotion degrees.

Damnnn niggar
Nice one from op

Now to my real niggarz....women don't play hard to get......it depends on the number you are on thier list

The day you approach a woman that is the day she actually knows if she can date you or not

If a woman is undecided and trying to play hard to get just know you are not in her plans or probably your not even her plan A...

If a woman loves you and you are in her plans...within two weeks from the day you approached them they will come to your apartment and do a wifey thing with you like cooking or sexing you

Nah man wey dey force him wife split bill or no dey take care of him house responsibility him wife go dey deny se everytime

hhg

Hh

You don't need to whine over sex, if she says no its OK.

When she also needs you, just tell her your tired and your pocket is also tired. Shikena

2:2 draw.

Nobody has a monopoly of tiredness or denial.

Meanwhile find a way of making yourself happy

While there are elements of truth in what the OP wrote, I disagree with the idea that lack of sex in a marriage means that your wife doesn't love you.

A man must understand his woman well enough, such that sex isn't forced, it just happens. If you pay attention to your wife's emotional needs, talk to her & establish mutual understanding, romance wouldn't be lacking in the home. You have to know how to turn each other on.

Some men believe that working and getting home to tell their wives "honey, spread your legs" is what marriage is about, no! A woman will go the extra mile to please her husband if both of them have a good emotional bond, after all, sexual urge isn't limited to men alone.

Let's stop passing our limited views to others please. It's too much on social media nowadays.

odinson1:
The simple reason is, she doesn't love you bro. She married you only because she had no other option at the time. Know this that a woman will break all rules, raise hell if she has to, to have sex with a man she likes. If she's constantly giving you excuses for an extended period of time, or making demands before she allows you in, it means you're sexually unattractive to her bro, she settled for you.

Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc but for how long can one be consistently tired that she only has sex with her husband once in 3 months?

Why are you men just so blind to reality? Damn! You'll jus rush into marriage because of love without making sure the person you're marrying isn't settling for you. You'll give her a comfortable live in the marriage, she'll deny you sex and you'll come to Nairaland to ask for advice.

Women will tell you to continue treating her right, talk things out with her etc. But it never works, trust me. If your wife settled for you, she'll deny you sex and use it to control you. When she needs a new handbag that is very expensive, she'll deny you sex and wait for you to buy it for her first before she allows you in.

Then she repeats the process for another demand and so on and so forth. Is that how you want to live the rest of your life as a man? Begging and paying your WIFE for sex. I'm tired of you men really, y'all lack balls and that is why women use Sex to control you.

how old are you?