[quote author=Blessedmercy8 post=116678835]Not true. A woman can love you and not be in the mood. The problem with you men is that you are so highly insensitive and all you care about is you yourself and you especially when it comes to sex. It's like a woman should not have a say over her own body just to please you.

If a woman is not in the mood and you keep complaining and forcing yourself on her, she'll begin to dislike you. Me I will just hate you. Let me not even mince words here.

Men should learn to exert their energy in more productive things than always whining about sex all the time.

Love has nothing to do with mood. You can love and not be in the mood. Besides, the woman's body is flesh, not iron that you'll be pounding all the time and she won't get tired. Abeg, make una carry that una iron bender body park well. Biko!

Everytime sex sex. So you nor know how to read and understand? It's like you nor dey even give your husband sex at all self......at the end na worms under the earth go chop am... My sister Bleep your husband well oo

Carcholce:
This is why it’s good to marry two wives. Both wives cannot be acting like witch at the same time. They will always be at competition to kill you with sex.

May God bless you…. I tell people, a man who has just one woman in his life - must be ready to substitute sex with his wife masturbating

so why should a man masturbate as a kid and masturbate as an adult and masturbate as a full grown man with means to live comfortably ?


It is insane!!!

We have Just one life to live and no sane man must live it masturbating because his wife is not or never in the mood

fserpent:
Oh... Well I said you are foolish because saying you are foolish is a better way to stop you from spreading you simp poison on other men. Your comment alone is more dangerous than the fool I called you, you know why? Because your comment could lead good men to their grave. So fool, try to understand that a man's life is already hard from childhood, anyman that takes a woman under is care should not be tied down with useless drama and baggages that could lead him into depression and thus unfit for his role as a caretaker and caregiver. Calling you a fool is the smallest thing I could do to stop your simp poison.

Go and treat your mental issue or you will soon enter the market. You can continue your show of shame, you're not worth my time. Keep ranting alone, that's what mad men do after all.

Shalommy:
Chaii.. So, men don't have anything to offer in a relationship than SEX? Look at them!.. Tueeeeehhh

Coming from?

Sex na small thing!

opeyy:


Lol...so you won't forgive her cheating but you will cheat. I laugh in broken englaise. Why do you have to go through all these trouble instead of just walking away, since you're not willing to address the main issue and bring harmony back to your home?! As you will no longer see her as your wife and just as a friend so what are you staying for? both of you cheating on each other then killing each other afterwards?! God save the king

I will rip her clothes and Bleep her good.

What nonsense, me that cannot do more than 2 days without fvck if I leave with a woman.

You can't be my woman living with me and I will not fucck you every two days. Daaaaamn!

I never been in a relationship that a lady will say no to my advance...

Back then waked up and see my woman crying, I was like what happened she said I don't find her attractive, why would you say such, her reason been that I told her that we need to slow down in our sex life.

If she weaponizes sex, please get a side chick shikena or any other alternative

the reason women do all these nonesense is becuase some men can't stay without sex from their wife

By the time she discovers that you self is not asking for it, she will calm down.

unclejb2:
how old are you?

MonsieurX:


Go and treat your mental issue or you will soon enter the market. You can continue your show of shame, you're not worth my time. Keep ranting alone, that's what mad men do after all.

Here is a real man's comment. Not the shadow of a man that you have become.

dmg1:
I've seen the cries of some men about their wives denying them their conjugal right, I just laughed and marveled at the same time.. how can a man being the head of the family belittle himself by begging his own wife for sex ... This can never happen in my house, the moment I notice your defective behavior towards me, I'll immediately activate my 'I don't mode'. And at this point whatever you wear/do cannot attract attention...

I'll now be seeing you as a friend (just friends without feelings attached), if kids are involved I'll give you money to prepare meals and other things that will make life comfortable for my kids, and you'll not enter my room stay on your own while I stay on my own,,

And as for sex, I'm not really a fan of much sex but if I need sex, being a man always with plan b, there are so many young beautiful damsels available to do justice to that....

If I notice you're cheating, that's the day you return back to your parents house (no forgiveness), remember I didn't deny you sex, you have to finish what you ignited...
Brothers/men never be at the mercy of your spouse, else you're finished....

This is what a real man have to say... You are encouraging a hardworking man to become a jelly beans before his family where he should be leading because of sex.
About my being mad, yes I am mad, it takes a mad man to do things I do daily, I go out there and I do business, I sell to people I do not know with the hope that they will not owe, I live a life I do not own and I am to spend the rest of my life with a woman that I had not known... The world is a market my friend and I am already a mad man in that market.

My have never denied me sex before, even when we are quarreling

odinson1:
The simple reason is, she doesn't love you bro. She married you only because she had no other option at the time. Know this that a woman will break all rules, raise hell if she has to, to have sex with a man she likes. If she's constantly giving you excuses for an extended period of time, or making demands before she allows you in, it means you're sexually unattractive to her bro, she settled for you.

Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc but for how long can one be consistently tired that she only has sex with her husband once in 3 months?

Why are you men just so blind to reality? Damn! You'll jus rush into marriage because of love without making sure the person you're marrying isn't settling for you. You'll give her a comfortable live in the marriage, she'll deny you sex and you'll come to Nairaland to ask for advice.

Women will tell you to continue treating her right, talk things out with her etc. But it never works, trust me. If your wife settled for you, she'll deny you sex and use it to control you. When she needs a new handbag that is very expensive, she'll deny you sex and wait for you to buy it for her first before she allows you in.

Then she repeats the process for another demand and so on and so forth. Is that how you want to live the rest of your life as a man? Begging and paying your WIFE for sex. I'm tired of you men really, y'all lack balls and that is why women use Sex to control you.

You cant pay ur wife for sex but but can pay Oloso for much sex! Were ni e. Don't you knw ur wife is ur Oloso? And are u not tired of her c**t already? To spice it up, pay her regularly! Honestly u will appreciate it wen u invest much money into it! And u will not be tired! This is what I do to mine. I am simply her Simp!

Carcholce:
This is why it’s good to marry two wives. Both wives cannot be acting like witch at the same time. They will always be at competition to kill you with sex.

Many may not like this submission but its the most potent solution to the accesses & attitude of any woman.

I believe op doesnt realise that problem with marriage varies. It is only when you are in it you know what the problem is and a solution you can proffer.
Yes, you are right about your assertion but wrong for thinking every marriage have the same problem if a woman refuses to give in to sex . The problem of sex maybe beyond your assertion.

The answer is combination of some of your responses.
- How outwardly is the wife or husband. A couple who don't watch porn or exposed to adult content. Ignorance is bliss. They are content with what they get and when they get it.
The Issue is that we have a lot of mix and match.
Virgin men marrying sexually active ladies.
Virgin ladies marrying sexually active men.
There was a period when you got married that you'd have sex everyday 5 times a week. As your body changes , hormones and outside influences ( work, events ) . This will decrease.
When she sees sex as a weapon - Oh he didn't take out the trash so no sex , he shouted at me, so no sex. ( Begs the question can a man legally rape his wife )
Ladies - as they age are controlled with mood swings. Do not go by the porn you watch ( All women love sex - na lie ) The mood has to be right. For men, we get an erection at 4/5am and you turn around and say " Are u awake" . The phallus at times has a mind of its own.

The answer for me would be each couple work your sh!T out. Discuss the frequency of your sex life and commit to it, be content with it.

odinson1:
The simple reason is, she doesn't love you bro. She married you only because she had no other option at the time. Know this that a woman will break all rules, raise hell if she has to, to have sex with a man she likes. If she's constantly giving you excuses for an extended period of time, or making demands before she allows you in, it means you're sexually unattractive to her bro, she settled for you.

Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc but for how long can one be consistently tired that she only has sex with her husband once in 3 months?

Why are you men just so blind to reality? Damn! You'll jus rush into marriage because of love without making sure the person you're marrying isn't settling for you. You'll give her a comfortable live in the marriage, she'll deny you sex and you'll come to Nairaland to ask for advice.

Women will tell you to continue treating her right, talk things out with her etc. But it never works, trust me. If your wife settled for you, she'll deny you sex and use it to control you. When she needs a new handbag that is very expensive, she'll deny you sex and wait for you to buy it for her first before she allows you in.

Then she repeats the process for another demand and so on and so forth. Is that how you want to live the rest of your life as a man? Begging and paying your WIFE for sex. I'm tired of you men really, y'all lack balls and that is why women use Sex to control you.

You still a child and talk like a stupid boy. When you matured and reach of age come back to this your post and read it again. You will be so ashamed of your self

odinson1:
The simple reason is, she doesn't love you bro. She married you only because she had no other option at the time. Know this that a woman will break all rules, raise hell if she has to, to have sex with a man she likes. If she's constantly giving you excuses for an extended period of time, or making demands before she allows you in, it means you're sexually unattractive to her bro, she settled for you.

Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc but for how long can one be consistently tired that she only has sex with her husband once in 3 months?

Why are you men just so blind to reality? Damn! You'll jus rush into marriage because of love without making sure the person you're marrying isn't settling for you. You'll give her a comfortable live in the marriage, she'll deny you sex and you'll come to Nairaland to ask for advice.

Women will tell you to continue treating her right, talk things out with her etc. But it never works, trust me. If your wife settled for you, she'll deny you sex and use it to control you. When she needs a new handbag that is very expensive, she'll deny you sex and wait for you to buy it for her first before she allows you in.

Then she repeats the process for another demand and so on and so forth. Is that how you want to live the rest of your life as a man? Begging and paying your WIFE for sex. I'm tired of you men really, y'all lack balls and that is why women use Sex to control you.

Women don't know that they are wired differently from Men. Sex is far more spiritually, psychologically and emotionally fulfilling for men than for women. I understand that sex can sometimes be a lot of burden for women especially the missionary style but this is what makes a man function properly. If a man is not getting adequate sex, is just a matter of time he cheats or asks for divorce. Lack of sex can even make you sleepless, can even lead to depression and suicide. Is not a feeling I wish for my worst enemy. I don't judge men who cheat on their spouse, you wouldn't know the torture they went through. The same logic goes for sex starved women.

odinson1:
The simple reason is, she doesn't love you bro. She married you only because she had no other option at the time. Know this that a woman will break all rules, raise hell if she has to, to have sex with a man she likes. If she's constantly giving you excuses for an extended period of time, or making demands before she allows you in, it means you're sexually unattractive to her bro, she settled for you.

Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc but for how long can one be consistently tired that she only has sex with her husband once in 3 months?

Why are you men just so blind to reality? Damn! You'll jus rush into marriage because of love without making sure the person you're marrying isn't settling for you. You'll give her a comfortable live in the marriage, she'll deny you sex and you'll come to Nairaland to ask for advice.

Women will tell you to continue treating her right, talk things out with her etc. But it never works, trust me. If your wife settled for you, she'll deny you sex and use it to control you. When she needs a new handbag that is very expensive, she'll deny you sex and wait for you to buy it for her first before she allows you in.

Then she repeats the process for another demand and so on and so forth. Is that how you want to live the rest of your life as a man? Begging and paying your WIFE for sex. I'm tired of you men really, y'all lack balls and that is why women use Sex to control you.

Are You Married ?

BabaAgba79:


You cant pay ur wife for sex but but can pay Oloso for much sex! Were ni e. Don't you knw ur wife is ur Oloso? And are u not tired of her c**t already? To spice it up, pay her regularly! Honestly u will appreciate it wen u invest much money into it! And u will not be tired! This is what I do to mine. I am simply her Simp!

Doesn't work like that bro. Olosho would do what your spouse would not do. There is no emotional connection to her. You are paying for a service. Paying your wife like olosho, doesn't work long time and she will consider it an insult.

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MrBrownJay1:


come on bro, women can stay off sex for years and be cool with it, while for us men its a different ball game, if we aint got sex after 3 days.



you are partly right on the above....some women aint into sex like that, some women are different and only communication can bring this to the light. you have to give her the benefit of the doubt and confirm whats going on. some women would pretend to be who they are not in order to desperately be married, and as soon as they get married they turn right back to their natural self... you do know that:
A) some damaged married women out there dont even like sex;
B) some married (undercover lesbian) women out there aint even attracted to men but married to men;
C) some women out there cant handle being raped having sex every night with their uncaring sexually brutal husbands etc

In the process of trying to sound WOKE you just end up showing us how mentally and emotionally weak you are as a man and how easy you can be manipulated by women.....

People like you are one of the reasons why so many women believe they can get away with so many Nonsensical Nonsense because you're too emotionally And mentally weak to Authoritatively take charge of your relationships and call women out of their misgivings.

The moment I saw she doesn’t love you bro I knew the op knew what he was posting and he’s spot on Any Woman that denies you sex outside of her period days doesn’t like you like that Some women like you so much they will want to even bang on their period women love sex that much

odinson1:


Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc

Here is my comment to this part

odinson1:
The simple reason is, she doesn't love you bro. She married you only because she had no other option at the time. Know this that a woman will break all rules, raise hell if she has to, to have sex with a man she likes. If she's constantly giving you excuses for an extended period of time, or making demands before she allows you in, it means you're sexually unattractive to her bro, she settled for you.

Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc but for how long can one be consistently tired that she only has sex with her husband once in 3 months?

Why are you men just so blind to reality? Damn! You'll jus rush into marriage because of love without making sure the person you're marrying isn't settling for you. You'll give her a comfortable live in the marriage, she'll deny you sex and you'll come to Nairaland to ask for advice.

Women will tell you to continue treating her right, talk things out with her etc. But it never works, trust me. If your wife settled for you, she'll deny you sex and use it to control you. When she needs a new handbag that is very expensive, she'll deny you sex and wait for you to buy it for her first before she allows you in.

Then she repeats the process for another demand and so on and so forth. Is that how you want to live the rest of your life as a man? Begging and paying your WIFE for sex. I'm tired of you men really, y'all lack balls and that is why women use Sex to control you.

Do wives really deny their husbands sex? Like husband will have to pay to have sex with his wife? Is this playing? What kinda playing is this?

A woman will only weaponize against a man because of one of these. Viz;

* She may not be sexually attracted to you.

* You cheated on her and she caught you, hence the feelings died. Some women don't forgive cheating.

* You have terrible oral and bodily hygiene. Some men can be so nonchalant when it comes to their hygiene.

* She has a low libido or suffers from vaginal dryness, and hormonal imbalance which usually happens after childbirth, or she could even be circumcised.

* She is stressed. If you care about being sexually satisfied and her well-being, take the stress off her. A happy woman will gladly go to the ends of the earth to satisfy you - the man.

* Your sex game isn't just on point. You aren't hitting her centre of gravity. Some men are just a no-go area in bed (2 mins men and co). Look, sex is beyond just humping and jumping on a woman. If your sex game is lit and you satisfy her in other areas, she can never weaponize sex against you. Take it from me.

A woman who loves and is sexually attracted to you will bend her rules for you as long as the aforementioned issues aren't the causative factors.

Women, to avoid issues like this, endeavour to marry men you are SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO. It is very sacrosanct. Never settle.

Matters arising

odinson1:
The simple reason is, she doesn't love you bro. She married you only because she had no other option at the time. Know this that a woman will break all rules, raise hell if she has to, to have sex with a man she likes. If she's constantly giving you excuses for an extended period of time, or making demands before she allows you in, it means you're sexually unattractive to her bro, she settled for you.

Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc but for how long can one be consistently tired that she only has sex with her husband once in 3 months?

Why are you men just so blind to reality? Damn! You'll jus rush into marriage because of love without making sure the person you're marrying isn't settling for you. You'll give her a comfortable live in the marriage, she'll deny you sex and you'll come to Nairaland to ask for advice.

Women will tell you to continue treating her right, talk things out with her etc. But it never works, trust me. If your wife settled for you, she'll deny you sex and use it to control you. When she needs a new handbag that is very expensive, she'll deny you sex and wait for you to buy it for her first before she allows you in.

Then she repeats the process for another demand and so on and so forth. Is that how you want to live the rest of your life as a man? Begging and paying your WIFE for sex. I'm tired of you men really, y'all lack balls and that is why women use Sex to control you.

God bless Islam more, if one madafaka is denying you sex constantly, whim marry another and a competition is set up already. She will use am clean your hands eventually. Omo that's plan B

emerged01:
I believe op doesnt realise that problem with marriage varies. It is only when you are in it you know what the problem is and a solution you can proffer.
Yes, you are right about your assertion but wrong for thinking every marriage have the same problem if woman refuses to give in to sex . The problem of sex maybe beyond your assertion.

It baffles me when single people give advice on marriage. If you ask them now they will say " I know many who isn't happy with their wives" so why should I marry.

Marriage is not boyfriend girlfriend thing. In marriage things changes, babies get involved, responsibilities kicks in and many more.

The problem is that most men are stupid when it comes to a woman's body. Take my friend for example, nigga love puci like crazy and worse part he don't know how to romance a woman ( been with him several having sex with a woman)

All he knows is " baby open for me" even when a woman isn't yet in that stage in bed. That's a total turn off even for me as a man. Now that's same thing his wife complains off through a mutual female friend.

Whenever a wife start denying you sex look into your self, the fault is from you. All women are not as men paint them. Men simply look beyond them to point to problem.

Carcholce:
This is why it’s good to marry two wives. Both wives cannot be acting like witch at the same time. They will always be at competition to kill you with sex.

African man, original . They will kill themselves with competition over your matter.

Barman give this man a bottle of chilled orijin