Midas01:
This is true. Nothing to add.

But men also are at fault here. You left the girlfriend of your youth that probably loved you to wife another and even enticed her with money.

Well, can't eat your cake and have it.

Towma:
This is why Africa is underdeveloped.
African men are too obsessed with sex, look at the anger and hatred in their posts just because of the idea of wives denying them sex.
Saying all sorts of emotional outbursts ;
Oh, if she denies me sex two times I will send her packing, If she denies me sex I must start sleeping around, if she denies me sex I will ignore her and marry second wife, nyen nyen nyen nyen nyen.
Noise makers.

Continue making noise, your wives will continue denying you sex, do your worst naa.

taleetah:


The big mistake men make

They leave the lady that adored them when they were young. Then when they are ready, they settle down with a woman they love but does not love them. That one will show him shege because she doesn't love him, he was just an alternative.

It is best to always settle down with someone you love and loves you too.

Sammy101111:
Hmm you are very right my sister
But a woman can adore you and still cheat on you

Kobojunkie:
No be the same thing men dey claim dem dey do be that...they love their wives even though they cheat on them?

richie240:


When last did anyone have d 'mood'to wake up and go to work? We don't have the mood to wake up from our cosy bed and go to work yet we still do. You know why? It's bcus there are dire consequences for such actions:
It's either:
(1) you receive no pay
2) you are laid off.
So what do you and I do, we tuck-in dt 'mood' under our mattress and off we go to work contrary to how we feel.

Why don't we say, "ah-ahn, my boss shd understand that I am not in the mood to come to work 4 days in a week"? Yet we expect our spouses to understand that we are not in d mood for our conjugal duties for months, yet in those weeks/months, the 'wife's still expects d husband to do his own part of d deal as husband (putting food on d table, dropping money for her expenses etc).

The thunder dt will fire dt 'mood' is already doing pressup.



But she can be in d mood to collect demand money from d man shey?


You forgot that 'sex' is one of the terms of engagement in d contract (aka marriage) shey?
It's like a cleaner complaining that his employer shd give him a break from cleaning and that he shd stop whining about asking her to do d exact duty upon which d need to employ her arose in d first place. If she doesn't do d exact job she was employed for, who will? The maiguard?
It's obvious most females don't really understand what marriage is all about. They think it's all about d ring and d 'Mrs.' title.


See small pikin talk. Anyways over to the Simps who still think marriage na accomplishment.

E nor consyn me.

freshkpomo:


yet African women are not all over dating sites like the white women who get scammed on dating sites by our little kids... I really wish African men can start acting like white men, so many of you will suffer depression like the white women.. You have the best breed of men,but you feel life is a movie and want to replicate what you see in movies... If you know how many white women get scammed daily,you won't type that sh*t up there.

BabaAgba79:


Na your pussy? Pay on top of ur wife NOT girl friend! Na igbo I smoke.

Munzy14:

When I saw your post, I perfectly understand not everyone Will connect.

These things are not the usual gra gra..If you don't give her that opportunity to centre her comfort around you as the man, you will find it difficult to enjoy the real her. It is not a case of money or looking handsome...It is purely emotional bonding/connection you come out plain and wide open just for her and her alone.

When you succeed, you will understand the saying of their is an Ashawo in everyone..She will be wild for you and you alone..sex go dey happen every Where and anytime.

You guys could be seeing a movie, she go deep hands inside your boxers and begin work .
She could be at the kitchen giving you a BJ while putting the meal prep on hold.

She may decide to give it to you hot hot bleep before leaving for work in the morning.

The beauty of it is, you both won't judge eachother...Women enjoy being appreciated in that area..If she do you well, let her know...Just n know next time, you are getting a more.

Just teach and explore eachother..Life no hard like that.

wunmi590:


Nah man wey dey force him wife split bill or no dey take care of him house responsibility him wife go dey deny se everytime

Paramount01:



Are u married?

Amumaigwe:


That doesn't entirely make it untrue.

Klass99:

Towma:


Best breed of men bawo

Is that the lie you people tell yourselves? Yes, even me I wish African men can behave like Western men so that if your wife divorces you for flimsy reasons she gets to keep half your life's savings and the kids too and throw you out of the house, we will stop hearing foolish talk about how men are naturally polygamous and how women need to submit and pray and be forgiving of husbands infidelity.

Best breed of men kor, no be only.
Cannot even advance their continent to be on par with white nations but think they are better than whites.