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Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by andyblinks05: 8:57pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
Back then when I was young immediately a guy reaches 30 years his main aim was to find a wife and settle. I know that the financial situation in the country is harsh but that alone is not the main reason why young men lose interest in marriage now. We were having a discussion with my friends recently, then the discussion took us to marriage issue and he said '' me I don't think I will ever get married I have more things to focus on than to get myself committed to a marriage. He said it jokenly but he was serious. Most of my friends now don't have serious relationship with Lady's not to even talk of marriage. Now my question is what causes the sudden interest lost in marriage that most young men now don't talk about marriage now , they only prefer babymamas than to get married. This has kept me wondering so please I need more light to this. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by Nobody: 8:59pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
The way people carry marriage for head dey suprise me. Marriage is mostly one side so wetin una dey talk about.? Leave financial problem face reality, marriage is just like modern day slavery,bondage in another form, business,abeg. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by Nobody: 8:59pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
Bunch of ....... |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by Aboks(m): 9:08pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
Kwatinu na |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by detectivejones: 9:21pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
People still take marriage serious. Most men that don't are under 35 |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by Mryacks: 9:23pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
andyblinks05: Those your dudes, what age range are they @? |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by PerfectStranger(m): 9:34pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
Coz men benefit nothing from marriage 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by VeryWickedMan: 9:43pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
Because the bride has slept with half of Lagos. 12 Likes |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by Nobody: 9:48pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
Marriage isn't a big deal. |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by Natbrowny: 10:09pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
Nigg*s dont wanna be competing with sugar daddies. |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by tensazangetsu20(m): 10:14pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
With the current economic situation getting married as a man in Nigeria from a middle class or poor home is equivalent to committing suicide . 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by andyblinks05: 10:26pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
Mryacks:under 40years |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by PerfectStranger(m): 10:28pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
tensazangetsu20:Real talk bruh, real suicidal. Imagine getting married to a full time house wife as a middle or poor class man in this hard economy. Mehn you’re on a death row. |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by Cinema4d: 10:29pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
Life happens. But then, marriage isn't a bed of roses It's not something you can just dive into. |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by tensazangetsu20(m): 10:38pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
PerfectStranger: The kind of suffering I see from people who have married recently. God and they will be telling you when you go marry. Misery loves company o . Someone that could eat chicken 3 times a day before marriage now eats meat once in two weeks. What kind of punishment is that. Can never be me 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by PerfectStranger(m): 10:43pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
tensazangetsu20:One of my married OG who was looking all tushed up before marriage, nigga now looking like what i don’t know. Baba no send him wife he dey knack outside. He dey even follow me drag olosho Marriage na big scam government should look into |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by Savedday: 10:48pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
because all our girls have turned farm tool, hook-up giant and liabilities. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by tensazangetsu20(m): 10:50pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
PerfectStranger: Married man nacking olosho what a big disgrace and he will still be dropping money at home o. He can't even have savings again. Terrible situation. |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by efficiencie(m): 10:50pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
andyblinks05: 1. Why would a man fancy marriage when he can get what married men get without getting married. Many ladies spread their legs at the slightest provocation and would even go a step further to cook, wash, clean and perform other duties even though they are not yet married to the man. 2. There are fewer men these days and a whole lot of boys. It takes a man to build a family. It takes a man to see the purpose of marriage. It takes a man to understand the benefits of responsibility. It takes a man to bridle his desires, emotions and proclivities. It takes a man to seek out and wed a wife...but today there are a lot of overgrown babies masquerading as men. 3. As societies worldwide become more decadent more men and women become so badly deformed psychologically and spiritually that they become marital misfits. So it becomes convenient to get ladies pregnant and raise children into the rotteness that nurtured them in the first place. |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by PerfectStranger(m): 10:51pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
tensazangetsu20:Extremely terrible. I tell you man is finished |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by techWriter3: 12:11am On Sep 18, 2022 |
Because the bride been stayed with half of Lagos |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by Robertgreene1(m): 12:22am On Sep 18, 2022 |
efficiencie:Interesting.... Bros no vex o...But how u made so little sense with so much confidence should be taught in schools under the title..."confidence is the key"... Honestly... 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by ednut1(m): 12:23am On Sep 18, 2022 |
What is your business with people’s choices 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by Mryacks: 1:12am On Sep 18, 2022 |
andyblinks05: Okay....it's only fair considering the points u make for lots of guys to think that way..besides, men by virture of nature, have the liberty of time to still marry very well even in their 40's |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by Allison012: 1:21am On Sep 18, 2022 |
Most men believe that girls are now into olosholism. And you know you can't wife a heo.it's not easy to find a virgin. |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by Johnchrix(m): 6:47am On Sep 18, 2022 |
tensazangetsu20:You be anti marriage oo |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by efficiencie(m): 10:38am On Sep 18, 2022 |
Robertgreene1: Oh no I am not angry at all. I recognize you are too stupid to understand a line in what I typed. I didn't type it for misfits like you. You cannot learn by reflection rather you will learn by stripes because the back of fools like you is reserved for stripes. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by Robertgreene1(m): 1:08pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
efficiencie:Whatever.... |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by Raalsalghul: 1:59pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
tensazangetsu20: Especially if there's an issue with your finances while in the marriage. The man from a rich family can still depend on his family business, inheritance and other rich relatives. Whom does a man from a poor/middle class family fepend on? And contrary to Op's writeup, men are more desperate for marriage than women, at least that's what I see around me. Ordinary 150 k salary and 1 room self contain, them go rush carry woman put for house. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by tensazangetsu20(m): 2:30pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
Raalsalghul: As in they never even chop one good meal or enjoy anything they go be like I want my children to grow old with me �. It's even women trying to grow their careers and wealth and postpone marriage but guys are the ones pressuring them into it. It's crazy whereas it should be the other way around 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by Nobody: 3:32pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
efficiencie:@bolded Did you say "benefits of responsibility"? LMAO Wahala for who wan be MEN. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by Gerrard59(m): 4:32pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
Say "within my circles, young people aren't getting married or are marrying later in their lives". The aspect of marrying late is even a global phenomenon across many countries esp in the developed world. Just recently, stats from the Japanese government showed that the rate of young Japanese who intend to marry has further dwindled. The same phenomenon plays out in South Korea, the US, Singapore etc. So, it's not a Nigerian thing, get over it. About the circle of a thing, mine is different as both genders are marrying every Saturday. Every time I login into Facebook and Instagram, I am swarmed with pre-wedding, wedding, baby-shower, childbearing, children dedication and naming ceremonies photos. So, because of those photos, should I say "marriage rates are rising amongst young Nigerians"? No. BTW, Nigerians will always marry or aspire to marry. The average Nigerian is a conservative person, and when small change enters a man's hands, he begins to find a wife. 1 Like |
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