StilmaVsBorn2w:
This is so embarrassing to say, I would never advise a man to be so sluggish in life. It pains my heart having to experience this several times but since he is an elderly bro that senior me very far I can't put my mouth in his family affair because of this.
I went to visit my brother yesterday was surprised while we were sitted in the parlour... the wife told his husband to go check if the woman selling provision is back. This wasn't the first time, my brother stood up and went..I was looking at her the whole time, she was looking at me..the anger was so deep but theys nothing I can do.
They are different instances I can give but no need for that...All I just want to say it's not good to be that calm type of guy.

Nlfpmod

Romanoff:


Stay out of their business. If your brother ever complains to you that his wife treats him badly and he's not happy, then you can give him advice.

If not, stay out of married people's business.

As long as she's not disrespectful to the man, stay out of their business.


Them go soon settle their issue turn am for your head.

madridguy:
As if you will be cool seeing your son roaming about for a woman.

Romanoff:


Stay out of their business. If your brother ever complains to you that his wife treats him badly and he's not happy, then you can give him advice.

If not, stay out of married people's business.

As long as she's not disrespectful to the man, stay out of their business.


Them go soon settle their issue turn am for your head.

Nemesis0147:
will you be comfortable seeing your elder brother in such situation?
Let’s be logical and unsentimental when contributing to issues like this please.

Have a nice day XX

StilmaVsBorn2w:
This is so embarrassing to say, I would never advise a man to be so sluggish in life. It pains my heart having to experience this several times but since he is an elderly bro that senior me very far I can't put my mouth in his family affair because of this.
I went to visit my brother yesterday was surprised while we were sitted in the parlour... the wife told his husband to go check if the woman selling provision is back. This wasn't the first time, my brother stood up and went..I was looking at her the whole time, she was looking at me.the anger was so deep but theys nothing I can do.
They are different instances I can give but no need for that...All I just want to say it's not good to be that calm type of guy.
This is not about being the bread winner of the house, my elder brother is doing very well for himself so his is wife.
As a man it's just not good to be quite always or be quiet all the time.. gentlemanly.I just don't know how to say it.
Guys what do you think?

Nlfpmod
Mynd44

StilmaVsBorn2w:
This is so embarrassing to say, I would never advise a man to be so sluggish in life. It pains my heart having to experience this several times but since he is an elderly bro that senior me very far I can't put my mouth in his family affair because of this.
I went to visit my brother yesterday was surprised while we were sitted in the parlour... the wife told his husband to go check if the woman selling provision is back. This wasn't the first time, my brother stood up and went..I was looking at her the whole time, she was looking at me.the anger was so deep but theys nothing I can do.
They are different instances I can give but no need for that...All I just want to say it's not good to be that calm type of guy.
This is not about being the bread winner of the house, my elder brother is doing very well for himself so his is wife.
As a man it's just not good to be quite always or be quiet all the time.. gentlemanly.I just don't know how to say it.
Guys what do you think?

Nlfpmod
Mynd44

StilmaVsBorn2w:
This is so embarrassing to say, I would never advise a man to be so sluggish in life. It pains my heart having to experience this several times but since he is an elderly bro that senior me very far I can't put my mouth in his family affair because of this.
I went to visit my brother yesterday was surprised while we were sitted in the parlour... the wife told his husband to go check if the woman selling provision is back. This wasn't the first time, my brother stood up and went..I was looking at her the whole time, she was looking at me.the anger was so deep but theys nothing I can do.
They are different instances I can give but no need for that...All I just want to say it's not good to be that calm type of guy.
This is not about being the bread winner of the house, my elder brother is doing very well for himself so his is wife.
As a man it's just not good to be quite always or be quiet all the time.. gentlemanly.I just don't know how to say it.
Guys what do you think?

Nlfpmod
Mynd44

etrange:
OP, you can't just use your own idea of what is ideal to judge other people's happiness. You don't know the couple's love language. You don't know what tickles the woman's fancy or what turns the man on. You don't know the specific situation that led to the man being the person to go down that specific street to that specific shop at that specific time. All you saw was that your brother was sent on an errand..

seanwilliam:
If I were you , I will talk. Doesn’t matter wether my brother is ok with it or not , but I will register my opinion instantly and she must tell me the reason she had to do that. If it’s reasonable enough , I’ll let it slide… and tbh, I doubt if any of my brothers’ wives can do this in my presence . I’m not bragging .

I get bad mouth and I don’t think any of them will try to tackle me, I rarely visit anyone , but if I visit them once , respect too much ( dem fit Dey fake am, I no care ).

All these signs are always there but your brother is blinded by love ..
Most of these girls possess that character , na u no go gree,
I remembered the day I went out with my girl to super market, we just started dating, we bought stuff and I paid, was pressing my phone and she wanted to hand over one of the bags to me to hold , I told her to put it on my head. Everyone was laughing and she felt embarrassed. I was praying she would bring up the matter again when we reach house, wetin she Fõr hear that day . If you no fit carry am drop am for ground! When no be something wey heavy.. even if it’s heavy, na me supposed tell you to bring am no be you go tell me.. Rubbish!

NemoDatQuod:
I wish I were female in this instance and your sister in-law. You will talk?
I will put strong pepper in your mouth and you will explain to me what you are doing in my house, let alone asking me to explain myself to you. I am not married to you. I am married to your brother. Because I tolerated your presence in my house, you then have the audacity to ask me questions about my family affair.

Most of you need to have your heads examined. Really!

You don't understand the concept of boundaries and privacy. She owes you nada! and your own brother also owes you no explanation with regards to his relationship with his wife.

It seems most people in that Nigeria are mad in one form or the other. You wake up, dust your seat pants, go to someone else's home and start questioning her on how she relates with her husband. Come and try it here and see where you will spend the night.

It is men like you who will subject a widow to all sorts of indignities on the death of her husband, instead of having fellow feeling for her and comforting her on the loss of her closest companion. Mtchew!

Nigeria is backward, but it shouldn't be this backward.

Richy4:


In as much as I wanted to agree with you but her attitude is inexcusable.. she was wrong.. her husband can do chores around the house but that kind of errand is just downgrading him to a junk status in the presence of his siblings. I don't care about their financial status..

She will not die if she does honey can I speak with you privately kind of thing ..I believe that OP did not just drop inside their household unannounced... She can always hide the fact that she was wearing the bigger trouser instead of doing it Infront of his siblings..

As far as I am concern, that errand was not an emergency... She can always do that herself since the husband was with his siblings or she can wait for them to go.. Opening her mouth and even saying the reason why the man must get up while he was with his siblings was just a no no...I believe the husband will never send her for an errand if she was with her siblings..

mariahAngel:


Thank you.

What was she trying to prove, using her husband to shine?
She could've beckoned her husband to come close, then whispered her request into his ear, but no, she had to show herself.

If she could do that in front of her husband's younger sibling, then she could probably do that in front of a random guest.

When I was reading that, I was just smiling thinking about what my 2 immediate elder sisters would have done... Pitbulls would be really proud

Richy4:


When I was reading that, I was just smiling thinking about what my 2 immediate elder sisters would have done... Pitbulls would be really proud