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Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Middleborn: 3:30pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: I'm not in support of men who are clueless and weak...they allow the woman be the man of the house, but i want to point out that there could be more to the story. I say this because i have seen different families and how they could differ due to the personalities of the couples involved. On this note, imagine if in this story, both husband (his elder brother) and wife are career people and they have 1 or 2 small kids and they don't have a house help. Maybe wife just got pregnant. Wife comes back from work, does her house-keeping and kitchen stuff...many wives in her circumstance need assistance. Maybe she cooking and wants to buy stuff from the provision shop, which is just a few steps from their house and the husband isnt doing anything at the time...she might have also asked politely...why can't he help out? i'm just telling you how it may have happened and how the OP may not have gotten all the details. I do also think that African civilized society has gotten past that point where the men heaps all the house work on the woman. Some assistance is needed. |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Nobody: 3:30pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: Leave their family matters alone. Did your brother complain to you ![]() |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by mrlarry: 3:30pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:. Hello, is your elder brother complaining? Please mind your business. Don't visit their home again. What God has joined together let no man put asunder. Bye! |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Josephkabila12: 3:30pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Romanoff:You mean disrespectful. So what do you call this " go check the provision woman" like errand boy 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Sammy101111(m): 3:30pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
My babe they cook she send me magi because magi done finish for house I rush go out go buy am come You do something for a reason Love get as he be I know some men that will do that and men that will not Please no violence Your advantages may be my own disadvantage 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Jerrick(m): 3:30pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Romanoff:Yes it’s their business and he should stay out of their business. But hey! If sending a man an errand like that is not disrespectful then you don’t know what respect is 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Owen247: 3:30pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Romanoff: 100% |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by lomprico(m): 3:30pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: When you marry your own do as you like, don't go and scatter your brother's marriage. Did he complain to you? |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Emily22(m): 3:31pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
RightToReject: God will bless you There are scenarios whereby I will want the buy something and seller won't be there, she can remind me later to check the seller. |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Nobody: 3:31pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: Na she marry your brother oh |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by zoedew: 3:31pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:You live in yesterday Sir. There is absolutely nothing wrong or sinister about that. What you see playing out in their relationship is love. It does not take away from the fact that the husband is the head of the wife. To run errands for your wife solidifies your position as head and earns the respect of all members of the family even more.If you cannot put up with their lifestyle it will be best for you to interact less with them for obvious reasons. |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by GUNITGuy: 3:32pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Go do deliverance for your brother it's not normal No man whether is the breqd winner or not would take such height of disrespect from any woman 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Tzar(m): 3:32pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Is it a mumu man with no guts that will complain of being maltreated by his wife? Somebody wey dem don collect Saturday fromnhim hand, come give am Sunday? Stay out of what?! All these evil woman turning men to weaklings and idiots. Is it until the brother’s destiny is ruined & he becomes a liability to the family that they will rescue him from the jezebel?[ Until you can pray for all the men in your family and your male kids to experience same in your presence, I think your advise is very vile and unhelpful! Good family members come to the aid of weak members even when they are too weak to ask for help. That mumu man needs help ASAP! quote author=Romanoff post=116866455] Stay out of their business. If your brother ever complains to you that his wife treats him badly and he's not happy, then you can give him advice. If not, stay out of married people's business. As long as she's not disrespectful to the man, stay out of their business. Them go soon settle their issue turn am for your head. [/quote] 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by easzypeaszy(m): 3:32pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Dis marriage na diff Character man fit see him sef end up dey dis play..All no be Simp Simp Am married but I do alot I bath my Son n carry him to school I get tomatoes and pepper I go grind it mysef I buy cooking gas mysef I go to market most times I buy tins.. I mean u can see me going out 20tims aday n somtims 5tims within 30mins I wash my clothes n kids own I provide 90% of the money in d house My wife cn Cook 3times fr me everyday Me naturally I lik waka But wen am in work dem go find way Me sha I no dey send person or want person do somtin fr me But if my wife mess up she collect even my mother inlaw sef dey collect steady wen dey wan try me I no gt shame lik dat Na just me 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by muykem: 3:32pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
What's your problem with somebody send his wife on errand. |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Otiv: 3:32pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Stay out if thier business , the guy said it right ! When you have your own wife , you can do whatever you like . Whatever goes on in thier house is none of your business!!! madridguy: |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Romanoff(f): 3:33pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Jerrick: Let me give you a gist about my own brother. When we were all.living together, my brother refused to do any house chores. He'd say he can't have sisters at home and be doing chores. Guess what? Mans got married and one day, my sisters went to visit him, they met my brother washing toilet. Shock catch them. They came home and gave us there gist. My mum and I rolled with laughter ehn. 5 Likes |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by sylve11: 3:33pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
mariahAngel: Seems you're the only woman here with her right senses commenting on this thread. ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by proff010: 3:33pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Wahala for that man madridguy: |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by sylve11: 3:34pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Romanoff(f): 3:34pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Josephkabila12: So it's not "disrespectful" if he's the one that sends the wife. Abi? See, you can't judge what respect is base on what you think it is. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by proff010: 3:34pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Na wa for you ooo Abfinest007: |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Nairanation2: 3:34pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Kwanu! This is why i find it difficult bringing personal issues here. U'll see ppl rationalizing pure senselessness. Ppl with irrational thoughts & awful character hide behind keyboard to dish out rabid nonsense. It's very improper & lack of proper upbringing for any wife to send her husband an errand in such a manner, more so, in d presence of her brother-in-law. Nothing can justify this. RightToReject: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by NaBanga: 3:35pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
You don't understand that you brother really isn't doing too well. His wife is the breadwinner in that house. If she was a stay at home wife who was being taken care of financially, your brother would not move his foot. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by seanwilliam(m): 3:35pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
pocohantas:100% tbh, at some points, a man might need to simp for his wife to make marriage work, e.g if she’s pregnant there are some things I will personally be responsible for just to ensure her comfort , but not that she’ll be rubbing it on my face in public |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Nobody: 3:35pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Sammy101111:So you can run errands very well � |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Wardstunna22(m): 3:35pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Future wife please we would run the errands together I no go run you around like mad you aren’t a slave…. 1 Like |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by zoedew: 3:36pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
GUNITGuy:That is not disrespectful Sir. That way you will live longer as a man, husband and father. Your legacy is sure to be great long after you are gone. Fact check the lives of men who lived well all round. |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by reddingtonblack: 3:36pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: when the unusual happens that is definitely no pokenose .... if you don't look out for your blood whu will. i don't give a fvck if my friend washes her wife pants outside, at worst i go end the friendship but for a family, blood is thicka than water, until you digest and understand that quote |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by maziude: 3:37pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: You have issues bro, real issues!!! What a perfect set of attributes men should have/not have. Keep at it, you are doing good. |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by DaSailor: 3:37pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
If that's how his marriage is working and he has peace of mind, leave him be oooo. No be everything for life we go dey form super commando all the time o. |
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