LIVINGICONREBOR:


I can't count how many random sex i have had with no strings attached. Most of them we hit it off after gym sessions. You will hear "i don't usually do bloowjob" but let me just try it with you. The way her lips will gulp the dick, deep down you know say na pro be this. The rather cool gal becomes very "wild" in the bed.
Damn!!

richkal:
He was rolling in the mud as her girlfriend dumped him. Weak men everywhere you go. Thank God for blessing me with TRP

https://www.nairaland.com/7344068/young-man-wails-rolls-mud

ubunja:
No No masculinity IS NOT muscles. Masculinity is the total combination of characteristics that embody what being Male is all about (culturally and biologically) i.e being logical, ambitious, driven, calm under pressure, self-sacrificing, etc.

Also consider the fact that BOTH men and women have masculine properties in them but in different degrees. Just as both men and women have feminine properties also in different degrees: men have far more masculinity than women have and women have far more femininity than men have. But both contain both.

Men's masculinity and Women's femininity are always changing in degrees in response to socio-economic factors and romantic situations. For example, western society is using the media, law and politics to weaken men by emasculating them. Are they taking away men's muscles? No. Rather it's the core of what makes men men that is being targeted. Eg men are being pressured to be more emotional and less logical - which is them being feminized even as they continue pumping iron and getting more 6packs and abs.

Romantic situations also affect masculinity and femininity,, eg when a woman dates a weak man who's indecisive, timid, dumb, isn't a real leader, she'll find herself being the one taking the lead, making the decisions and controlling the relationship which is really her being more masculine as a natural reaction to her man's femininity. This will exhaust her in no time and make her resent her man cause she's being forced to dig deep and use tools she only must use in cases of emergency not in constant day to day life.

Same way when a man deals with an overbearing, controlling woman he'll find his masculinity going down and himself getting emasculated as a direct response to his woman's overt masculinity. Maybe you've seen how some men are sometimes strong with one woman only to be weak with the next woman. It's all ever-changing depending.

Socio-economic factors also affect masculinity and femininity:
When a woman has no man in her life and is forced to rely on herself for survival (eg widow), or when a girl has no father and she's forced to navigate life without her daddy, she'll become very masculine to compensate. Meaning she'll become direct, combative, logical, put on a shell and be aggressive. This is a woman becoming more masculine. Now , Does that mean widows and girl orphans develop muscles? Nope. They develop traditionally male characteristics for survival and self-sufficiency.All these characteristics are good on a man cause they make him a good provider and protector. And they're what masculinity is. However on a woman they make her very manly and undesirable as far as romance and relationships go.
That's why independent women - women who are self-sufficient - are hard to date and usually make horrible romantic partners until they date dependent, broke men who (by being dependent and not self-sufficient)are operating in their own feminine, which then jells and fits with the independent women who are themselves in their masculine.
Finally remember, gays do have muscles and yet come across as feminine. So muscles have nothing to do with masculinity. Yet muscles truly enhance masculinity. But a man can be perfectly masculine without muscles. Just as he can be feminine with muscles.

ubunja:
it's every girl. As long as a woman is in a committed relationship you can be assured she's living a lie as far as sex is concerned. Cause women will never be sexually free inside a relationship. This is because men use sex as a character test for women. Men will be disgusted by a woman who steals, lies and even kills. But if it turns out the woman is a virgin, everything will change and she won't appear as bad. Cause sex is really the mark of character as far as men are concerned. And women have noticed. So they are extremely careful to present as sexual prudes. Which gets men's trust. Which comes with men's resources. A woman's survival in marriage is really dependent on how she acts in the bedroom. A man will love a wife who cooks good and delicious meals. But let a woman give good and delicious sex and his alarm bells start ringing: Who taught her? How many men did she sleep with to be this good? This girl must have been a hoe before I met her!

So women have learnt to be mild and even boring in the bedroom: stick to 2 positions and tell the BF/Husband there's no secret fantasies. Cause to be honest will disgust him.

But because women want to realise their fantasy and do those bed-breaking positions they'll then find someone, preferably someone who's nonchalant about sex and who can screw without attachment, and spend time on his bed.
Women hate to do this, but they're forced to. They'd love for their BF to be same guy they bring their fantasy to, but men suffer from the Madonna/Whóré syndrome: Men love women they don't respect and respect women they don't love.
Basically, a man will risk his marriage to a respectable good woman by messing with a hoe he doesn't even respect. The wife has his respect but it's the hoe who ignites his lust.

If the wife tries to be act like the whóré her husband will be disgusted and even send her back to her parents house to learn to be a proper wife. But that same evening the husband will still go do that very thing he chased his wife away over, with his whóré. Freaky is only welcome from the Hoe that the man doesn't respect. From the wife that he respects it makes him vomit.

Women have realised this.

That's why they keep sex within relationships and marriages predictable and tame.

And really to make someone's GF/Wife cheat many times boils down to offering her a chance to be free to be what she wants in the bedroom. Cause definitely she's not free with her man.

Now, will every GF/Wife respond favourably to offers to be sexually free. Obviously not. It all depends on how morally strong a woman is and if she finds you atleast appetizing. But a great many GFs/Wives will eventually cave in, if you're persistent and you make it mouth-watering with as little emotional attachment as possible.

Lastly, remember Women dont date and marry for sex but for the finances. They know they can always get the sex elsewhere. It's all about becoming that "elsewhere" if you want to get these women.

ubunja:
in a perfect world the man a woman loves will be the man she shows her freaky slutty side to. so that he can enjoy that part of her. but the way men are wired, this can't work. instead of enjoying it the man will be disgusted and call her names.

sorry Fefe it won't work....

ubunja:
No No masculinity IS NOT muscles. Masculinity is the total combination of characteristics that embody what being Male is all about (culturally and biologically) i.e being logical, ambitious, driven, calm under pressure, self-sacrificing, etc.

Also consider the fact that BOTH men and women have masculine properties in them but in different degrees. Just as both men and women have feminine properties also in different degrees: men have far more masculinity than women have and women have far more femininity than men have. But both contain both.

Men's masculinity and Women's femininity are always changing in degrees in response to socio-economic factors and romantic situations. For example, western society is using the media, law and politics to weaken men by emasculating them. Are they taking away men's muscles? No. Rather it's the core of what makes men men that is being targeted. Eg men are being pressured to be more emotional and less logical - which is them being feminized even as they continue pumping iron and getting more 6packs and abs.

Romantic situations also affect masculinity and femininity,, eg when a woman dates a weak man who's indecisive, timid, dumb, isn't a real leader, she'll find herself being the one taking the lead, making the decisions and controlling the relationship which is really her being more masculine as a natural reaction to her man's femininity. This will exhaust her in no time and make her resent her man cause she's being forced to dig deep and use tools she only must use in cases of emergency not in constant day to day life.

Same way when a man deals with an overbearing, controlling woman he'll find his masculinity going down and himself getting emasculated as a direct response to his woman's overt masculinity. Maybe you've seen how some men are sometimes strong with one woman only to be weak with the next woman. It's all ever-changing depending.

Socio-economic factors also affect masculinity and femininity:
When a woman has no man in her life and is forced to rely on herself for survival (eg widow), or when a girl has no father and she's forced to navigate life without her daddy, she'll become very masculine to compensate. Meaning she'll become direct, combative, logical, put on a shell and be aggressive. This is a woman becoming more masculine. Now , Does that mean widows and girl orphans develop muscles? Nope. They develop traditionally male characteristics for survival and self-sufficiency.All these characteristics are good on a man cause they make him a good provider and protector. And they're what masculinity is. However on a woman they make her very manly and undesirable as far as romance and relationships go.
That's why independent women - women who are self-sufficient - are hard to date and usually make horrible romantic partners until they date dependent, broke men who (by being dependent and not self-sufficient)are operating in their own feminine, which then jells and fits with the independent women who are themselves in their masculine.
Finally remember, gays do have muscles and yet come across as feminine. So muscles have nothing to do with masculinity. Yet muscles truly enhance masculinity. But a man can be perfectly masculine without muscles. Just as he can be feminine with muscles.

Smartb0y:

He'll be alright after the girl shatters his heart,which will probably lead to him trying out some suicide techniques. If he's lucky enough to pass through that phase, he'll sort for reasons why the hell could he have simp so bad, which would then lead him to redpill 101.

I'm just rumbling here,I might be wrong too

Smartb0y:

And you think he'll listen to such advice. Lol

It's called oneitis for a reason, easily contagious.

Run or else

It's like aids taking over your immune system,in this case it's your mind playing tricks on you even if you know better, you'll still love to taste that bad apple.

Lol, he'll be alright when she gives his heart suplex

ichidodo:
I just developed this system of lifting weights while coding, it is so insightful and impactful that I can't do without it....When I sit on my coding chair to start work, I start gyming. And i code for long hours,now imagine the height of my pectorals..

Tonnyray:
Bro finish the story na.

Smartb0y:


Ubunja!!!!, you'll give married men hypertension.

ubunja:
in a perfect world the man a woman loves will be the man she shows her freaky slutty side to. so that he can enjoy that part of her. but the way men are wired, this can't work. instead of enjoying it the man will be disgusted and call her names.

sorry Fefe it won't work....

Rozross:
You are so right on this

ubunja:
yes. And we're still waiting for your contributions on that witchcraft topic. Don't play hard to get. You're part of the thread now.

Ketapu:


It's good to be red-pilled. How do many men allow themselves to be treated this way? He was cheated on, gaslighted, manipulated, and what-have-you.

I know I will face many challenges in life but I will ensure that female problem will never be one of them, especially any lady not related to me by blood.

Walking away is one of the easiest thing for me now. Once I see any slight problem with any lady, she's history.

Abundance mentality is key. The guy had scarcity mentality which is why he fell so badly for a lady that had no good intention for him.

If there is anything I will always hammer into the ear of any guy I care for, it is to have abundance mentality.

No vagina will ever worth your happiness and peace of mind. Always be ready to walk away at the slightest sign of any issue that threaten your happiness.

Pukkalolo:


Brother...You are so so so freaking correct: Abundance mentality is key.

Infact, Abundance mentality is everything.

Scarcity metality always mess up a man's love life....

CaveAdullam:
DAY 164, REDPILL 2022

There can be no equality in any relationship, only mutual reciprocation of acts and will, each partner helping the other to ensure functionality for the good of the relationship.

If it gets to the extent that the costs outweigh the benefits and no longer yields progressive results, then, it has enter a stage of parasitism. And to protect your well-being and interests in the long run, you must desist from such parasitic relationships.

Authority: Avoid parasites.

Emmynator:

Boss man, I was one of those you encouraged to go into coding, I decided to go the data science / machine learning route.
Still learning and pushing myself to new boundaries, I know if I keep at it, the bag will follow.
Thanks.

Pukkalolo:


Brother...You are so so so freaking correct: Abundance mentality is key.

Infact, Abundance mentality is everything.

Scarcity metality always mess up a man's love life.

With Scarcity mentality, your mindset is "Please accept me! You're all I have"...You tends to be desperate and thirsty for woman's companionship, and you become easily emotionally attached to her.

I recently saw a guy wooing a lady... This is typical example of a guy with scarcity mentality. His interaction with the lady was like:

Guy: "we should exchange numbers and get to know each other better"

Lady: "sorry, I have a serious boyfriend, bla bla bla"

Guy: "your boyfriend is lucky to have someone like you."

Lady: [smiles] "thanks."

Guy: "I hope he's taking really good care of you."

Woman: "Yeah, he is taking care of me. Thank you."

Guy:" but can I still have your number"

Woman : "what for?"

Guy: I make friends everyday. We can just be friends and get to know each other. You don't know what the future holds for us.

Woman: "future holds for us in what way?....I told you I have someone I'm dating already."

Guy: " please, take it easy on me. Don't be harsh."

Woman: "It's like you don't have something important to talk about... I'm done with this conversation" [She walks away]

I felt really irritated and sorry for this guy.


With Abundance mentality, my mindset is "Who cares! There are many fishes in the river"......My interaction with that lady would have been something as simple as:

Pukkalolo: "we should exchange phone numbers and see how things goes."

Woman: "sorry, I have a serious boyfriend, bla bla bla"

Pukkalolo: (Walks away immediately & start looking for the next available chick even before she completes her statement.)


I don't waste a single second trying to convince a woman to accept me. NEVER. I don't joke with my TIME. I'm very selfish with my time

If my needs are not being met, I'm willing and ready to bounce away immediately. Why will I waste my time trying to convince you to accept me when I know there are other women out there who will interested in me.

There are many fishes in the river: Every guy needs to truly internalize that in their head.

LIVINGICONREBOR:


I can't count how many random sex i have had with no strings attached. Most of them we hit it off after gym sessions. You will hear "i don't usually do bloowjob" but let me just try it with you. The way her lips will gulp the dick, deep down you know say na pro be this. The rather cool gal becomes very "wild" in the bed.
Damn!!