AllDModsAreMaad:


Who be this one?
Which prioritizing?
I can bet it, OP is not financially stable OR handsome pocket-wise, if not she won't treat him that way, na she go dey do all the ranting OP is doing concerning attention etc.

The guy only acted with his rod as his thinking system.
Normally, he should have gotten a side chick and satisfy himself. Even if he intend leaving the girl, he can do that coldly/silently afterwards without saying a word about it.

Na kid dey worry OP.

Bradford111:
I decided to break up with my girlfriend because she has been too busy of recent.

Not too long ago she started working for a firm so it consumes most of her time she is always busy from Monday to Saturday which she closes late..

I have tried talking to her to make sure she doesn’t misses out her Sundays with me as is the only day we can be seeing in respect to her work but for 4 weeks(Sunday’s) she couldn’t meet up to come with excuses here and there


I’m so tired of the relationship as we hardly see so decided to cut it off


What do y’all think I’m i right in doing so?

Persephone1:
Good riddance to bad rubbish .

The girl is a real MVP

abbey621:


Yes he could be more patient but in my experience this is just initial gra gra, he might just be looking for her reaction, now if she replies and say that she agrees to end the relationship, at least now he knows where he stand and can move on with his life. In this age and day, everybody should know where they stand in a relationship.

Persephone1:
I am Persephone1
The lady chose her work over op, that's prioritizing .
I believe it's an holiday in the fools' paradise today, hence the uncommon demonstration of fools talent (assumption) on this thread. Op never mentioned he is poor, why do you think its the best reason for his broken relationship?

If at all it is, what stopped him from getting busier and what offence has the lady committed by deciding to better her life in a legal and upright way?

NeckingNgulping:


Persephone, honestly, i have seen that you never ever try to see things from other people's point of view. You only care about yourself and how you feel and your likes.

It's clear that they've been dating before she got the job. I know that the new job will limit them from seeing each other as they usually do, but can't be completely busy Monday through Sunday.

His supposed girlfriend hasn't come to see him for weeks, he even said Months. He complained about it, and everyone is calling him names.

He wanted one day, just one day to spend with the one he loves.

NeckingNgulping:


Persephone, honestly, i have seen that you never ever try to see things from other people's point of view. You only care about yourself and how you feel and your likes.

It's clear that they've been dating before she got the job. I know that the new job will limit them from seeing each other as they usually do, but can't be completely busy Monday through Sunday.

His supposed girlfriend hasn't come to see him for weeks, he even said Months. He complained about it, and everyone is calling him names.

He wanted one day, just one day to spend with the one he loves.

You typed all this about me and still go on to try to convince me .
Very funny!

BTW Do i know you?

baralatie:

It is because op is without a job
It has nothing to do with prioritizing per SE
If the op had a job
Trust me
The lady will be the op on Thursday,Friday, Saturday,sunday

She could have made time, depended on Op like Nl materialistic Nigerian ladies but she didn't . She chose her work she broke free from unproductive circle. Cut her some slack!

Ehn Op should get a job nah!

peacefulhome:

If a guy send such nasty messages, God is my witness. That is the end of the relationship. And when I say it over it over. I don't go back to my vomit.
Let hope the lady knows her Worth . I no come understand the kind relationship wey people dey do this days? Like! Common . There are.more better reasons to walk out of a relationship, but not on such on ground.
Wonderful weekend.

Persephone1:
She could have made time, depended on Op like Nl materialistic Nigerian ladies but she didn't . She chose her work she broke free from unproductive circle. Cut her some slack!

Ehn Op should get a job nah!

Persephone1:
She could have made time, depended on Op like Nl materialistic Nigerian ladies but she didn't . She chose her work she broke free from unproductive circle. Cut her some slack!

Ehn Op should get a job nah!

pocohantas:


He should go get a job. That is the same advice they give women in this situation.

Abi? Very simple sturv

Nyenom:
Brother, don't be that mean n foolish with A sheepy brain.., better she's busy than flexing around.. Get Yourself Busy Too because it Pays 2be up and doing.. Abeg if u no like&love her pls send me her contact details so that we can keep each other Company

Persephone1:
I am Persephone1
The lady chose her work over op, that's prioritizing .
I believe it's an holiday in the fools' paradise today, hence the uncommon demonstration of fools talent (assumption) on this thread. Op never mentioned he is poor, why do you think its the best reason for his broken relationship?

If at all it is, what stopped him from getting busier and what offence has the lady committed by deciding to better her life in a legal and upright way?

Persephone1:
You typed all this about me and still go on to try to convince me .
Very funny!

BTW Do i know you?

RuddyFusion:
Some peps have said all sort. Of nonsense....but that's a valid reason.....if she's interested she will at least make the minimal of efforts in having face to face communications once In a while......

Forming too busy all the time is a red signal
I'm saying it from experience
No matter how busy you are, you will make out time for what you consider important

pocohantas:


If I am the girl, I won’t reply that message. He would send more until e go nearly craze.

Bradford111:
I decided to break up with my girlfriend because she has been too busy of recent.

Not too long ago she started working for a firm so it consumes most of her time she is always busy from Monday to Saturday which she closes late..

I have tried talking to her to make sure she doesn’t misses out her Sundays with me as is the only day we can be seeing in respect to her work but for 4 weeks(Sunday’s) she couldn’t meet up to come with excuses here and there


I’m so tired of the relationship as we hardly see so decided to cut it off


What do y’all think I’m i right in doing so?

abbey621:


You make time for the things you love, all that you wrote na excuses! All the guy asked for is little bit of attention, she could easily invite him over or choose a location very close by but to dismiss him for 4 weeks in a row something ain't right. E be like say you don watch too much romantic movies, secure better job for her you say? Comedy

RuddyFusion:
Some peps have said all sort. Of nonsense....but that's a valid reason.....if she's interested she will at least make the minimal of efforts in having face to face communications once In a while......

Forming too busy all the time is a red signal
I'm saying it from experience
No matter how busy you are, you will make out time for what you consider important

While claiming busy, someone else that's not even interested is been disturbed by this same person for attention.....