Godoverevery:
Only those who are married or have lived with a woman can relate.

A woman will put all her life expectations and expenses on you as man......she will blame you for everything and the society expect you to be a MAN.

I always advise men to live minimum 6month to 1yrs maximum with the woman you want to marry so you can understand what you are walking into with your eye open.

I can't blame the man because we are different and not all of us are mentally strong.......A woman frustration can actually make you do the unthinkable no matter how strong you are sometimes.

Example:
you mistakenly let her know you Earn 200k/Month, Most Wives will help you spend / Bill you to like 180k. (This is why it is very dangerous for her to know your income)

If you resist by saying: we need to save for the future (our own House, the kids, etc), You will hear: let's spend now GOD will take care of the Future. You end up Borrowing and spending more than You are Earning.
The Debts lead to Massive Frustration.

Suddenly, A JOB Loss happens....

Then YOU are Disowned by your Advising Wife,
Curses and Abuses will then Start....

The Same person that pushed you to spend it all will now ASK.....
You have NO savings How could you NOT Plan for OUR Future?

look at your Mate, they are doing this..........they are doing that....

The Verdict:
Always be in control of the Family finances
Never tell your total Month income to your Wife.
Never be Pushed to Spend More than you Earn
Don't be pushed to put your kids in school that is too expensive to keep up with your wife's friend's kids

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Source: https://punchng.com/newly-married-artisan-burns-self-blames-abusive-wife/

yoruba people self ehhhh

Desusi:

When the election is done,are you going to rule over the dead.In order words, is the life of the young man worthless of your campaign for election? Haba? You're wicked!

For your blessed information, I am not voting cos I don't have voter's card. But election is what majority of the youths out there are focusing now.
If one attention seeker decided to set himself ablaze few weeks after his marriage with the excuse that his wife is abusive, that can not be my headache. Note again... Few weeks after his marriage.
Was it the wife that attempted to kill him? Why did he go marry when he has no means of livelihood?
Now that he has attempted suicide because of physical and mental abuse from his wife as a result of his inability to provide for the family after few weeks of his marriage, well meaning Nigerians will pity his condition and people will donate to help him financially in his business. Obi Cubans might even send for him.
In a few week's time, we'll just see headline like "MAN WHO ATTEMPTED SUICIDE GETS MULTIMILLION NAIRA CONTRACT."

Leave matter abeg.

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Fearyourcreator:

Comment up their just dey make me laugh... Currently I am at the bank because I want to buy data... I only have money in my business account... Madam sub yesterday she no gree send me 500mb data... Data I dey give like water... I vex enter bank ...

She no gree share u data....(very stingy)
But when you Buy data now....You go still Sub for am too....

are you sure you are safe....
all the best man

Mad man. What pushed him into marriage when he saw that he could not afford it? Ask him if he paid the dowry and you will hear NO. He probably took the lady into his house and labeled her his wife.

E burn himself and now who suffer pass? The lady probably will leave him permanently.

He still have time to quite and move ahead

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Source: https://punchng.com/newly-married-artisan-burns-self-blames-abusive-wife/

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Justbehave:
Why won't you come and go when your oracle is already commanding you to drop the phone and go wash plates?Old man weh still dey wash him wife pant before she go give you Bleep.

haha you are accurate. Kai this kid is good ....

Shora fun obinrin.... At the same time love your self more than anything in this world... It's very important

wolesmile:

For your blessed information, I am not voting cos I don't have voter's card. But election is what majority of the youths out there are focusing now.
If one attention seeker decided to set himself ablaze few weeks after his marriage with the excuse that his wife is abusive, that can not be my headache. Note again... Few weeks after his marriage.
Was it the wife that attempted to kill him? Why did he go marry when he has no means of livelihood?
Now that he has attempted suicide because of physical and mental abuse from his wife as a result of his inability to provide for the family after few weeks of his marriage, well meaning Nigerians will pity his condition and people will donate to help him financially in his business. Obi Cubans might even send for him.
In a few week's time, we'll just see headline like "MAN WHO ATTEMPTED SUICIDE GETS MULTIMILLION NAIRA CONTRACT."

Leave matter abeg.

I salute baba.

Fearyourcreator:

Comment up their just dey make me laugh... Currently I am at the bank because I want to buy data... I only have money in my business account... Madam sub yesterday she no gree send me 500mb data... Data I dey give like water... I vex enter bank ...

Welcome to marriage, sir.

OvertheTop:


She no gree share u data....(very stingy)
But when you Buy data now....You go still Sub for am too....

are you sure you are safe....
all the best man

Lolzzzs....
Nothing dey happen ... Women can be frustrating sometimes... Most times they overlook things like men

OvertheTop:


She no gree share u data....(very stingy)
But when you Buy data now....You go still Sub for am too....

are you sure you are safe....
all the best man

Lolzzzs....
Nothing dey happen ... She no stingy ooo... Women can be frustrating sometimes... Most times they overlook things like men

mastermaestro:


Welcome to marriage, sir.

After 7years

If you frustrate my life, I'll go and set myself ablaze nio. I don't have time for nonsense. That eediyut deserves not to be here

Nostring:
Nawa.. this is another level of simpness/madness... Newly married, she never frustrate u reach 2years u don dey give up

I wonder oh. Most marriages are usually turbulent during the first five years of marriage as couples are adjusting to their new status in life, which is expected as two people from two different backgrounds must have some of misunderstanding or the other, initially.
Thankfully, on the average, after the five years, most couples often mellow down about their differences and learn how to work out their misunderstandings in a very peaceful manner.

lozanni:


I wonder oh. Most marriages are usually turbulent during the first five years of marriage as couples are adjusting to their new status in life, which is expected as two people from two different backgrounds must have some of misunderstanding or the other, initially.
Thankfully, on the average, after the five years, most couples often mellow down about their differences and learn how to work out their misunderstandings in a very peaceful manner.

exactly sir.... You hit the nail on the head perfectly

Godoverevery:
Only those who are married or have lived with a woman can relate.

A woman will put all her life expectations and expenses on you as man......she will blame you for everything and the society expect you to be a MAN.

I always advise men to live minimum 6month to 1yrs maximum with the woman you want to marry so you can understand what you are walking into with your eye open.

I can't blame the man because we are different and not all of us are mentally strong.......A woman frustration can actually make you do the unthinkable no matter how strong you are sometimes.

Woman are a hell of a pain to live with

Redoil:
if your spouse is frustrating why not take a walk after marriage is also for worst for go

u think its easy to divorce when you're poor?

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Source: https://punchng.com/newly-married-artisan-burns-self-blames-abusive-wife/

fool

IamMobisola:


Lol, so you expect women to take “shit from Men before?”

Do you know how many mothers of the older century experienced Domestic violence and still remained because of society views? The mothers of old faced domestic violence, rape(because according to Africa; a man has a right to sleep with his wife whether she wants it or not and if she doesn’t, he can force his way), emotional abuse(from their husbands getting married to more than one wives and having children with other women, they got infected with STDs from those men sleeping around. They faced all these without complaint just because the African society Favors Men and doesn’t care about what the woman feels.

Now that women of this age don’t want to face the same experience, you people are complaining

Now people can see the bitterness you have in mind writing such and someone like you want to walk into marriage, please how will such work?
How can one spend his hard earned money to marry a biased mind? I have said it, it isn't worth it. Ladies should be encouraged to live solo too.

This is why I take my time to lecture younger men to STOP getting married.
I believe very soon, this our campaign will start making sense on deaf ears.
MEN should stop being coerced into this entity called marriage. U won't inherit HELL if you die a single Father or Bachelor! Life is short, please maximize its benefits before leaving.

Very soon my Articles will be out. We really have to discourage this Saturday Marriage Syndrome in Nigeria. MEN ought to travel out and see if other men rush into suicide missions like this.

Godoverevery:
Only those who are married or have lived with a woman can relate.

A woman will put all her life expectations and expenses on you as man......she will blame you for everything and the society expect you to be a MAN.

I always advise men to live minimum 6month to 1yrs maximum with the woman you want to marry so you can understand what you are walking into with your eye open.

I can't blame the man because we are different and not all of us are mentally strong.......A woman frustration can actually make you do the unthinkable no matter how strong you are sometimes.

I certainly agree with you sincerely.

However suicide is not an option.

I'm married and also face similar problems too.

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Source: https://punchng.com/newly-married-artisan-burns-self-blames-abusive-wife/

Now that u Av burn urself halfway, u r less attractive, u won’t be bringing home money n food anytime soon, u will always be at home to stare at the devil u married n she will make life more miserable.



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So for person to die again with him hand for this country Na crime

Desusi:

I salute baba.

You're welcome. Nigeria na cruise.

wolesmile:
It is either this He-diot has mental issues, or is looking to get cheap sympathy from people.
Why cry out loud so people will come to your rescue when the intention was to burn yourself alive? You no see sniper drink, you no see rope take hang, you come go nearby bush go set yourself partially ablaze so dem go come rescue you, abi.


Shift abeg. Election is coming. No be your marital issue be priority now.

you are worse than Buhari and his wife combined.

Don't always judge people easily when you don't know their ordeal.

A bad wife is worse than Satan.
She can make you kill yourself if you are not strong willed.
I wouldn't wish a disrespectful and frustrating wife on anybody.

Oh

This particular situation is what i can't wish for an enemy as i personally have been there but thank God she left my house on her own self while i was at the office working that faithful day.....killing yourself isn't the best because i personally can never kill myself because of a woman

Why shouting for people to come and rescue you? You would have done everything quitely and die in peace.