I travelled for a few weeks and have been in the East since then.

I intentionally stopped calling or chatting all my girls.

I wanted to rate their level of interest in whatever relationship/ situationships we have.

Note: I left them to initiate the chats or calls themselves.


MY FINDINGS

80% of relationships/ friendships with women will die once the guy stops calling.


Many called in the first week.

One called till 4th week and hasn't called for 16 days now. She used to visit me weekly before.

Only one still kept in touch till date.

She billed me too but I avoided it to access her reaction. She kept her cool.

I have planned to reward her upon my return.



ASIDE: This reminds me of a girl I met at BRT going to Ikeja. She works at Computer villa.

I took her number. We chatted once in a while and I have sent her data and airtime on few occasions.

I intentionally stopped contacting her and she never did. I deleted her number 2 months after.

I suspect this might be happening because I don't reveal my identity to them because I always want things to flow organically and also to avoid raising high expectations of me.

Make i hear say woman load airtime call person.

Please forgive them na low airtime cause it

girls call when they miss you or when they're bored.as long as there's another nigga around her dude forget it she ain't calling..boss ya message is clear and understanding and i must say that I learnt something.

SerendipityHIGH:

I travelled for a few weeks and have been in the East since then.

I intentionally stopped calling or chatting all my girls.

I wanted to rate their level of interest in whatever relationship/ situationships we have.

Note: I left them to initiate the chats or calls themselves.


MY FINDINGS

80% of relationships/ friendships with women will die once the guy stops calling.


Many called in the first week.

One called till 4th week and hasn't called for 16 days now. She used to visit me weekly before.

Only one still kept in touch till date.

She billed me too but I avoided it to access her reaction. She kept her cool.

I have planned to reward her upon my return.



ASIDE: This reminds me of a girl I met at BRT going to Ikeja. She works at Computer villa.

I took her number. We chatted once in a while and I have sent her data and airtime on few occasions.

I intentionally stopped contacting her and she never did. I deleted her number 2 months after.

I suspect this might be happening because I don't reveal my identity to them because I always want things to flow organically and also to avoid raising high expectations of me.

I think it's an issue we have with our Nigerian or African ladies...

They natural believe its the man's job to take the wheel of the relationship... and when you stop doing whatever a man does... then the relationship hit the rocks...

I hav noticed everything you said here... tho I dint do mine on purpose... I was so busy with work...and I couldn't do the calling... after a week I realised the lady stop calling too... like automatic end of relationship...

All this things are just mentality... nothing more... they believe its men job to initiate calls and everythung that concerns the relationship at all times... truly not all African ladies are like this... but majority are...

So if you know, you value your relationship... just make sure you carry out your assignment well as a man or be ready to start looking for another babe

Na wa oh..........Las las,the bottom line is that when you're in a relationship as a guyman,you just have to put it in back of your mind that everything will be transactional........No big deal bro...... Imagine how it'd look like if you were in a sick bed..Na so those your bannies for still loose guard you?

We test people base on their capacity not base on our own capability.
Imagine you keeping like three ladies at the same time and you have the audacity to say you want to test them base on your capacity..
Surely surely it won't go well...
And what exactly are you rewarding the lady that is billing you because you did not respond she kept her cool for?
For respecting herself?
Oh no for considering you?
Probably for getting it elsewhere?
Ok I understand now for loving you overload

Only you 3 or more girls instead of focusing on just one and really show her how much you loved and want her?
You are testing mic.
You ll lose all the girls.

Sweetplum:
Only you 3 or more girls instead of focusing on just one and really show her how much you loved and want her?
You are testing mic.
You ll lose all the girls.

HE CAN NEVER LOSE ALL THE GIRLS...THE FIRST ONE CALLS AND ALONG THE WAY STOPS CALLING...LUCKY FOR HIM SHE WASN'T THE ONLY OPTION.

mespusinglez:
HE CAN NEVER LOSE ALL THE GIRLS...THE FIRST ONE CALLS AND ALONG THE WAY STOPS CALLING...LUCKY FOR HIM SHE WASN'T THE ONLY OPTION.

You dz boys can't eat your cake and have it. Ko possible!

If u dey expect Nigerian girls to call or text you with their airtime u dey waste ur time, there are few good ones though, but dem no reach 3% out of 100% .

Sweetplum:

You dz boys can't eat your cake and have it. Ko possible!

AND HE CAN EASILY RECONNECT WITH ALL OF THEM ONCE HE'S BACK,THAT'S IF HE'S STILL INTERESTED TO ROLL WITH THEM...YOU WOMEN ARE LIKE BLUETOOTHS

Kpele, examiner

It is what it is. Once the man stops making visible efforts to sustain the relationship, everything goes down.

mespusinglez:
AND HE CAN EASILY RECONNECT WITH ALL OF THEM ONCE HE'S BACK,THAT'S IF HE'S STILL INTERESTED TO ROLL WITH THEM...YOU WOMEN ARE LIKE BLUETOOTHS

very proud boy. Well done. Your reward is coming.

Medianna:
We test people base on their capacity not base on our own capability.
Imagine you keeping like three ladies at the same time and you have the audacity to say you want to test them base on your capacity..
Surely surely it won't go well...
And what exactly are you rewarding the lady that is billing you because you did not respond she kept her cool for?
For respecting herself?
Oh no for considering you?
Probably for getting it elsewhere?
Ok I understand now for loving you overload

For being sensitive, rational and reasonable. Above all for not placing so much value on money.

SerendipityHIGH:


For being sensitive, rational and reasonable. Above all for not placing so much value on money.

Isoryt..
Honor should be given to whom it is due..
But only if she was aware of her rivals

BigDawsNet:


I think it's an issue we have with our Nigerian or African ladies...

They natural believe its the man's job to take the wheel of the relationship... and when you stop doing whatever a man does... then the relationship hit the rocks...

I hav noticed everything you said here... tho I dint do mine on purpose... I was so busy with work...and I couldn't do the calling... after a week I realised the lady stop calling too... like automatic end of relationship...

All this things are just mentality... nothing more... they believe its men job to initiate calls and everythung that concerns the relationship at all times... truly not all African ladies are like this... but majority are...

So if you know, you value your relationship... just make sure you carry out your assignment well as a man or be ready to start looking for another babe

it is a man's job to take the wheel of the relationship and direct where the relationship is going to

the only time when you can opt out of a relationship is if she is not reciprocating

BurgundyBlue:
forget that thing...woman wey like you go call you oooo....I dey experience ham nau....she go dey call you dey ask if you don chop or not, dey do you like say u be her son....I dey tell you....the ones wey no like you, no go send you if you no call them again ....

true talk.

Girls of nowadays no dey miss person ooo..if you don't call they won't call u..

Interesting...
But what exactly re u rewarding that "only one that remembered u" for?..
For remembering u like u remembered her or what?...or aren't friends talkmore of lovers meant to remember each other or aren't you worth remembering?
Which one exactly?
Cus I'm not getting it...

SerendipityHIGH:

I travelled for a few weeks and have been in the East since then.

I intentionally stopped calling or chatting all my girls.

I wanted to rate their level of interest in whatever relationship/ situationships we have.

Note: I left them to initiate the chats or calls themselves.


MY FINDINGS

80% of relationships/ friendships with women will die once the guy stops calling.


Many called in the first week.

One called till 4th week and hasn't called for 16 days now. She used to visit me weekly before.

Only one still kept in touch till date.

She billed me too but I avoided it to access her reaction. She kept her cool.

I have planned to reward her upon my return.



ASIDE: This reminds me of a girl I met at BRT going to Ikeja. She works at Computer villa.

I took her number. We chatted once in a while and I have sent her data and airtime on few occasions.

I intentionally stopped contacting her and she never did. I deleted her number 2 months after.

I suspect this might be happening because I don't reveal my identity to them because I always want things to flow organically and also to avoid raising high expectations of me.

Nice one bro, out of our female friends that we've indicated interest in, this test is a very solid one.

I for one, will never date a lady that hasn't reciprocated genuine interest after I've done my due diligence.

I only get bothered if we never fuc k. If I don fuc k u pass 500 times,if u like call me or not,jump infront of my car,I go clear you troway
Bich

Medianna:
We test people base on their capacity not base on our own capability.
Imagine you keeping like three ladies at the same time and you have the audacity to say you want to test them base on your capacity..
Surely surely it won't go well...
And what exactly are you rewarding the lady that is billing you because you did not respond she kept her cool for?
For respecting herself?
Oh no for considering you?
Probably for getting it elsewhere?
Ok I understand now for loving you overload

Chai! OVERLOAD O.. IF U SEE ONOME, TEL AM SAY SHE BE D 1N O.....

Sweetplum:
very proud boy. Well done. Your reward is coming.

Ehen ehen.. SHE DON SPEAK!

I hail Op you na minister of g
Women affairs and relationship.

I still remembered that year in school. I am the ladies man kind of guy in school and I wasn't proud of it, I grew up like that. After I met a coursemate who became my friend, a fellowship comrade, he advised me to get a girlfriend and stop playing around with girls.

I met this girl, everything was going nice and sweet and I started calling her everyday, we often see and all that. It was a topic like this thread that came up with my girls. I decided to join the challenge but I didn't put mind, but I was doing plenty rehearsals ( Theatre Arts student) so I couldn't call this girl, a girl I called everyday for some months didn't see my call for one week and she didn't call back.

I met my fellowship comrade and told him that relationship is not meant for me. When I have girls around me, they call me and even want to visit, but one girlfriend won't value the relationship.

Relationship is not meant for me and since then, I pushed relationship behind me.

Na their way, but normally women are naturally stingy, they don't call you, except they're in need

the attention you give a woman in relationship is her power over you. minimize it and truly know the woman who is interested in you.
Most of op babes are damaged women who have probably have tons of body count and have been in too many failed relationships. so they dont care about you(men) anymore, they are only loyal to their emotions.....

Omo... This is loud. Some ladies are trying oo.how they cope with someone they don't like?
I mean someone who calls daily didn't call for one day. Simple courtesy (not love) demands you call to Know if all is well.

Demigod22:
I still remembered that year in school. I am the ladies man kind of guy in school and I wasn't proud of it, I grew up like that. After I met a coursemate who became my friend, a fellowship comrade, he advised me to get a girlfriend and stop playing around with girls.

I met this girl, everything was going nice and sweet and I started calling her everyday, we often see and all that. It was a topic like this thread that came up with my girls. I decided to join the challenge but I didn't put mind, but I was doing plenty rehearsals ( Theatre Arts student) so I couldn't call this girl, a girl I called everyday for some months didn't see my call for one week and she didn't call back.

I met my fellowship comrade and told him that relationship is not meant for me. When I have girls around me, they call me and even want to visit, but one girlfriend won't value the relationship.

Relationship is not meant for me and since then, I pushed relationship behind me.