Medianna:
Omo... This is loud. Some ladies are trying oo.how they cope with someone they don't like?
I mean someone who calls daily didn't call for one day. Simple courtesy (not love) demands you call to Know if all is well.

Hahaha, you will not know the nature of human you are dealing with until girls do something weird.

I didn't call a whole week and she didn't bother to call me and when I eventually called, she gave the excuse that she doesn't want to disturb my rehearsal. As a true Comrade, I deleted her contact, activate my ladies man mode.

Some months later, she messaged me on Whatsapp, I didn't reply, then she called begging me to help her with her final year project, then I have graduated waiting for NYSC, I just told her that she is too dull for my liking and that was how it ended.

U are totally right. There is this girl who I was close to at my work place. When it comes to chatting, she will never chat u up first and if u ask her why she can't even say hi to u on message, she will tell u it is because she is shy. There was even a time I purposely didn't text or see her for a week at work and she couldn't even text or ask if I came to work. Sometimes u send her message and she won't reply for hours even when she is online.

Medianna:
Omo... This is loud. Some ladies are trying oo.how they cope with someone they don't like?
I mean someone who calls daily didn't call for one day. Simple courtesy (not love) demands you call to Know if all is well.

Shebi you dey see am now?

Even some of those ones that are showing you greenlight will still wait for you to initiate conversations

reading the comments here shows most Nigeria men are clueless ,by the time you accept the the truth that Nigeria girls don't give a FUQ about you and have multiple options you won't be stressing yourself, chat a girl if she no vibe you move ,only chat if it's business or sex related. apart from those two I don't know what you are looking for ,as their emotional intelligence is 0%, my piece of advice.

Angrygoat:
I only get bothered if we never fuc k. If I don fuc k u pass 500 times,if u like call me or not,jump infront of my car,I go clear you troway
Bich

Your Monika really fit you

Thank God you saw it on time
But a time will come when lady's man will truly tire you. But I just hope you don't meet another men's lady like that one

Demigod22:


Hahaha, you will not know the nature of human you are dealing with until girls do something weird.

I didn't call a whole week and she didn't bother to call me and when I eventually called, she gave the excuse that she doesn't want to disturb my rehearsal. As a true Comrade, I deleted her contact, activate my ladies man mode.

Some months later, she messaged me on Whatsapp, I didn't reply, then she called begging me to help her with her final year project, then I have graduated waiting for NYSC, I just told her that she is too dull for my liking and that was how it ended.

It's like this for most people tho but it's mostly painful when it coming from someone who claims to love you.

Thankfully, we still have people who are normal.

Demigod22:
I still remembered that year in school. I am the ladies man kind of guy in school and I wasn't proud of it, I grew up like that. After I met a coursemate who became my friend, a fellowship comrade, he advised me to get a girlfriend and stop playing around with girls.

I met this girl, everything was going nice and sweet and I started calling her everyday, we often see and all that. It was a topic like this thread that came up with my girls. I decided to join the challenge but I didn't put mind, but I was doing plenty rehearsals ( Theatre Arts student) so I couldn't call this girl, a girl I called everyday for some months didn't see my call for one week and she didn't call back.

I met my fellowship comrade and told him that relationship is not meant for me. When I have girls around me, they call me and even want to visit, but one girlfriend won't value the relationship.

Relationship is not meant for me and since then, I pushed relationship behind me.

We always have the worst of them over here in nigeria. There is no way you could be in a relationship with lady brought up in US or Europe, and she would not call you, when she didn't hear from you, for over a week. She most likely missed you, but her ego, will not let her

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kvngemmy123:
Girls of nowadays no dey miss person ooo..if you don't call they won't call u..

There is someone she must be missing

If you two are not in a relationship, I don’t see any reason she should be calling you or even billing you.

If you two are close friends that built a connection maybe from school or work that spanned years, then once in a while, talk go come. In the absence of that, I do not see the need to be calling men about. It is not like she is a customer support officer.

LOL, personally I like it when women don't get me gifts or do things for me because it will be a ground for them to expect something in return.

Recently, they are becoming more caring and lovely, I think I know why but I don't want to assume/conclude hastily.

SerendipityHIGH:

I travelled for a few weeks and have been in the East since then.

I intentionally stopped calling or chatting all my girls.

I wanted to rate their level of interest in whatever relationship/ situationships we have.

Note: I left them to initiate the chats or calls themselves.


MY FINDINGS

80% of relationships/ friendships with women will die once the guy stops calling.


Many called in the first week.

One called till 4th week and hasn't called for 16 days now. She used to visit me weekly before.

Only one still kept in touch till date.

She billed me too but I avoided it to access her reaction. She kept her cool.

I have planned to reward her upon my return.



ASIDE: This reminds me of a girl I met at BRT going to Ikeja. She works at Computer villa.

I took her number. We chatted once in a while and I have sent her data and airtime on few occasions.

I intentionally stopped contacting her and she never did. I deleted her number 2 months after.

I suspect this might be happening because I don't reveal my identity to them because I always want things to flow organically and also to avoid raising high expectations of me.

Wetin be ya identity?

Shey na you be dat boy wey dey carry 5 million naira for im back pocket dey waka ni?

You registered today and made your first post today also made front page today, who are you really if not a Mod?

SerendipityHIGH:

I travelled for a few weeks and have been in the East since then.

I intentionally stopped calling or chatting all my girls.

I wanted to rate their level of interest in whatever relationship/ situationships we have.

Note: I left them to initiate the chats or calls themselves.


MY FINDINGS

80% of relationships/ friendships with women will die once the guy stops calling.


Many called in the first week.

One called till 4th week and hasn't called for 16 days now. She used to visit me weekly before.

Only one still kept in touch till date.

She billed me too but I avoided it to access her reaction. She kept her cool.

I have planned to reward her upon my return.



ASIDE: This reminds me of a girl I met at BRT going to Ikeja. She works at Computer villa.

I took her number. We chatted once in a while and I have sent her data and airtime on few occasions.

I intentionally stopped contacting her and she never did. I deleted her number 2 months after.

I suspect this might be happening because I don't reveal my identity to them because I always want things to flow organically and also to avoid raising high expectations of me.

They don't have fire in a relationship any more... They are after money.

bushjeph:
Make i hear say woman load airtime call person.

these girls get who them dey call and chat with steady. Unlucky if it isn't you.

SerendipityHIGH:

I travelled for a few weeks and have been in the East since then.

I intentionally stopped calling or chatting all my girls.

I wanted to rate their level of interest in whatever relationship/ situationships we have.

Note: I left them to initiate the chats or calls themselves.


MY FINDINGS

80% of relationships/ friendships with women will die once the guy stops calling.


Many called in the first week.

One called till 4th week and hasn't called for 16 days now. She used to visit me weekly before.

Only one still kept in touch till date.

She billed me too but I avoided it to access her reaction. She kept her cool.

I have planned to reward her upon my return.



ASIDE: This reminds me of a girl I met at BRT going to Ikeja. She works at Computer villa.

I took her number. We chatted once in a while and I have sent her data and airtime on few occasions.

I intentionally stopped contacting her and she never did. I deleted her number 2 months after.

I suspect this might be happening because I don't reveal my identity to them because I always want things to flow organically and also to avoid raising high expectations of me.

As jagaban that you are na. You're are keeping many girls and expect them to be calling you because they don't have job. The same way you keep many that's how they have many guys that checking up in them���

We're nothing but pencil in the hands of GIRLS.

Sweetplum:
Only you 3 or more girls instead of focusing on just one and really show her how much you loved and want her?
You are testing mic.
You ll lose all the girls.

Exactly o. He's busy testing when they are busy with there main guy.

mespusinglez:
AND HE CAN EASILY RECONNECT WITH ALL OF THEM ONCE HE'S BACK,THAT'S IF HE'S STILL INTERESTED TO ROLL WITH THEM...YOU WOMEN ARE LIKE BLUETOOTHS

sure, i can relate

mespusinglez:
AND HE CAN EASILY RECONNECT WITH ALL OF THEM ONCE HE'S BACK,THAT'S IF HE'S STILL INTERESTED TO ROLL WITH THEM...YOU WOMEN ARE LIKE BLUETOOTHS

The closer the connection... But you go Sabi waste mark for wrong answer.
Why choose to ascribe Bluetooth when Infrared dey.


Women na InfraRed... Short wavelength. You must be closer for better result. Your resources must gum their body to react.

But there are still few good ones.

The two parties are both testing microphone.

As you have a plethora of ladies at your beck and call so do the ladies have a few of your likes " fighting for the jersey".

diggindeep:
We're nothing but pencil in the hands of GIRLS.

Oga Wale Adenuga production.
I hail o.

You are very correct brother. It's very truth they have those who they call always. And unfortunately those guys don't have their time, always do shakara to them.

BurgundyBlue:
forget that thing...woman wey like you go call you oooo....I dey experience ham nau....she go dey call you dey ask if you don chop or not, dey do you like say u be her son....I dey tell you....the ones wey no like you, no go send you if you no call them again ....


MEANWHILE CHECK MY SIGGY



HUNDRED PERCENT REAL!!!

Most times
The ones u nor carry for mind na them dey show more care
I get that experience wella

SerendipityHIGH:

I travelled for a few weeks and have been in the East since then.

I intentionally stopped calling or chatting all my girls.

I wanted to rate their level of interest in whatever relationship/ situationships we have.

Note: I left them to initiate the chats or calls themselves.


MY FINDINGS

80% of relationships/ friendships with women will die once the guy stops calling.


Many called in the first week.

One called till 4th week and hasn't called for 16 days now. She used to visit me weekly before.

Only one still kept in touch till date.

She billed me too but I avoided it to access her reaction. She kept her cool.

I have planned to reward her upon my return.



ASIDE: This reminds me of a girl I met at BRT going to Ikeja. She works at Computer villa.

I took her number. We chatted once in a while and I have sent her data and airtime on few occasions.

I intentionally stopped contacting her and she never did. I deleted her number 2 months after.

I suspect this might be happening because I don't reveal my identity to them because I always want things to flow organically and also to avoid raising high expectations of me.

mad fellow, you have them plenty and u want them to love you and keep checking on you. They know who u are and know they aren't supposed to take u serious.

Is this a Nairaland billionaire? This is a census set by the moderators, e sure me die. All the lowlives will crawl out of the woodwork to bash women in 3, 2, 1…

Medianna:
We test people base on their capacity not base on our own capability.
Imagine you keeping like three ladies at the same time and you have the audacity to say you want to test them base on your capacity..
Surely surely it won't go well...
And what exactly are you rewarding the lady that is billing you because you did not respond she kept her cool for?
For respecting herself?
Oh no for considering you?
Probably for getting it elsewhere?
Ok I understand now for loving you overload

You are a moving train and you live in Abuja?

Abeg no move go towards Kaduna o!

bushjeph:
Make i hear say woman load airtime call person.

Oh boi 4get oo. If woman dey into u as in like u deeply wey be say na she come meet u 1st, omo she go use call murder u in d guise wanting to disturb u.. Talking 4rm experience....

tuzle:
U are totally right. There is this girl who I was close to at my work place. When it comes to chatting, she will never chat u up first and if u ask are why she can't even say hi to u on message, she will tell u it is because she is shy. There was even a time I purposely didn't text or see her for a week at work and she couldn't even text or ask if I came to work. Sometimes u send her message and she won't reply for hours even when she is online.

You sef, person dey treat you like this, and you still dey follow her chat?

Give her space

If a girl is truly in love with u and wants to spend the rest of her life with, my brother she will always call to check up on you. It is only those ones who are out to devour you, chasing after your money and make ur life miserable, they will never call you even after sending airtime to them, u will still call them before they can say thank you. If you are in a relationship and your girl doesn't call u, when I say call u, like 15minutes u are still on call, run for ur life