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I Need Advice On What To Do by Yemmie24: 1:38pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
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Re: I Need Advice On What To Do by EmiLoKanMyAss: 1:46pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
You MUST tell your cousin what you saw. The boy got nerve to tell on you and you should be ashamed of yourselves for not being able to open your mouth to explain what actually happened. You will leave their tomorrow or next and in a week or a month time, the girl will come visiting again. Anyways, weytin I know, its kuku a family thing. Cheers. Yemmie24: 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice On What To Do by fyzaila: 2:23pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
You should have videoed the scene for just 30sec before the tearing of slap. As for your reaction, i would have done much better. After giving him some good beating, he will be on punishment till his parents come back. When they ask what happened, i will as the boy to narrate it himself he dare not lie, i have evidence. Now, have a talk with your sister that is the boy's mother. Ask her if they have been careless about their intimate privacy. Which is certain since it a self contained. Most likely they sleep in same room with the boy. After that tell her what you saw and tell her to be more vigilant of the boy. The boy needs discipline i swear he don corrupt already. |
Re: I Need Advice On What To Do by Davidave(m): 2:27pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
Something you should just tell your cousin you brought it to social media! What's there to seek help from ppl? you better do d right thing. |
Re: I Need Advice On What To Do by NoToPile: 3:06pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
Tell your cousin oo, that boy has been watching things either on TV or live. Tell her. |
Re: I Need Advice On What To Do by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:00pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
send her a msg and tell her exactly what you saw... |
Re: I Need Advice On What To Do by virginprincess(f): 4:39pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
This is one of the disadvantages of a room self contain and children sleeping in their parents room, children usually pratice what they see,i'm sure that boy has seen his parent or two adults doing something like this,i think you should tell your cousin,so she can disciplind that child very well and she should know the way she and her husband copulate. |
Re: I Need Advice On What To Do by boxer022(m): 7:32pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
You have to inform her on what you saw and the action you took to correct it. She and her husband are to blame for what is happening to their son, I believe that he must have been peeping at them when they were making love and it has happened several times. They should take the necessary action. |
Re: I Need Advice On What To Do by Karleb(m): 7:53am On Oct 01, 2022 |
You did not handle the issues well. The boy is your relative and he's a kid but you are seeing him as a demon. How did slapping and shouting on him solve anything. You should have warned him but with love and even if you should beat him, you should tell him why you are beating him. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice On What To Do by emmanuelbrown26: 4:53pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
My guy, u no handle dis matter well. U for tell ur cousin sister na. Me, I dun handle dis kin ting before, though d boy and girl na almost same age btw 11-12 years. I just call their parents separately I used parable "madam if care is not taken u go soon become grand ma" they read d body language and thanked and they beat d hell outta of d kids. |
Re: I Need Advice On What To Do by satandeterrible: 11:20am On Oct 02, 2022 |
Oga stop seeing that boy as a devil. Don't be a sick bastard. The boy is still a kid. He is obviously suffering from bad upbringing and thbe negative influences around him. I'm sure those ideas have not been cemented in his head. He is just trying out what he is being influenced by. The best thing you could do was go sternly scold him. Talk to him about such misdemeanours and teach him that what he is doing is a very bad thing. But instead, you have taken the boy as a living devil and treating him like lucifer. You're probably trying to gain the applause of society by describing the boy as a demon. Of it were a girl on sure you would have advised her. But since it was a boy, instead of scolding and advising him, you took demonised him, assaulted him and took him as an enemy. Be ashamed of yourself. You're trying to please women and society by demonising your relative. Someone you should have scolded and advised. |
Re: I Need Advice On What To Do by Yemmie24: 7:05pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
satandeterrible:Ibo latun jasi yi You do know this is my family?? Ain’t nobody painting anyone as a devil I just feel he is quite manipulative and smart Because after I scolded him about what he did wrong He went to tell his mom that I beat him and he didn’t do anything No one is demonizing anyone I feel it is what he sees in movies and all he is replicating And if no one corrects him He will keep on doing it And you are the sick bastard I can’t believe this nonsense I am reading 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice On What To Do by satandeterrible: 7:19pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
Yemmie24:Oga you clearly demonised that boy from what you wrote. |
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