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Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by ChizzyBuna(m): 6:52pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
Guys im so angry right now. I recently found out that my father has a habit of telling outsiders private and secret things discussed by the family. It starts when he goes out to visit his friends Soon as they start drinking , he will start opening mouth like tap. Telling everybody pur secret family issues without Shame. The worst part is that this is the man I have been telling some of my deep secrets. I call him on phone almost every week My sisters do communicate with him well Now im scared of coming back home this December cuz everybody now knows everything about me. 4 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by ChizzyBuna(m): 6:52pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
It was one of his friends son that chatted me on whatsapp and started telling me sorry for getting sacked from my job. I was so schoked that he knows about this Only me,my dad and mum know about this. The boy told me that he was around when my dad visited his dad. And as they were both drinking he was telling them lots of our family challenges and issue. Like wtf?? I'm so angry right now, because i know he has told many people about the things I told him. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by MufasaLion: 6:53pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
Damn! I always avoid parrots in human form. Well, he's your father and what he's doing is wrong. Since you've noticed this bad behavior, it's better you caution him. You should stop divulging important information about yourself to him. When you travel home in December, express your grievances and observe him afterwards. A man that can't keep his mouth shut while drinking or after sex is very dangerous! 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by Godada(m): 6:55pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
![]() I can't help you here, player. Just have another meeting with your dad and your siblings. Provide tangible proof of his indiscretions. Lets see if he would learn. Let him understand that he is the weak link. |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by Urheadmaster(m): 6:56pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
Try talk your dad out of alcohol Tell him alcohol is poison ![]() |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by iamyungkhalifa(m): 6:57pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
Go and fucking tell your father about his habit and dont disturb us . You wan day give us night cruise. Vawulence po biyi o |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by ChizzyBuna(m): 7:00pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
I need advice on what to do This man has been my confidant for some years. I tell him things other people don't tell their fathers. Am I wrong for trying to bond and communicate with my father? I just feel betrayed, and I don't even feel like talking to him or coming back for Xmas. I will just block him and speak to my mother only. |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by longetivity(m): 7:03pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
iamyungkhalifa:mtcheeewwww 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by othermen: 7:03pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
There are certain companies that can get one talking and with the aid of alcohol, the barriers of reason can be too upended. Also, some feel that a burden shared, relieves a little. You can feel terrible about it all. But you have to begin to recover. I think you should feel more terrible that you have lost a confidant, than you should feel terrible about how you will be perceived when you return home later. Now, the fellow your dad was speaking too, probably also tells your Dad about his private. The boy eavesdropping is however a case. Discuss with Dad, let him know how dissatisfied you are, that he cannot keep your conversation with him in confidence. Tell him about your experience. Hopefully, he can apologize and you both will be good again. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by baretalk: 7:05pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
MufasaLion:Is this Tunde ednut? |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by MufasaLion: 7:15pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna: Even your mother might be doing the same. I still don't understand how y'all tell your parents every goddamn thing about your life. |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by datola: 7:16pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna: Hmmm... @ the bolded. You referred to your father like that ![]() |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by decatalyst(m): 7:17pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
Your dad has an inner pain. It is psychological. He is feeling empty and full at the same time. Maybe your mother is not doing enough to be his all in all and he is not the type that cheats... So any opportunity to talk is a blessing to let loose of all that his eating him up. That man needs a soulmate and a listening and caring family. Have a crucial conversation with him where you will be able to tell him how you feel, also giving him the chance to tell you how he feels. From that conversation, you would know for certain, if alcohol is responsible for his act, or he is nursing some inner emptiness and pains or whatever it is. Have a physical and sincere conversation with him. |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by MufasaLion: 7:19pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
decatalyst: Imagine the nonsense you typed. Inner pain will make a grown up man like that to wash his dirty linen in public and put his family at risk? Stop giving excuses for bad behaviors. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by decatalyst(m): 7:21pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
MufasaLion: You could have portrayed being sensible without the golden part. But alas! Seems you are more damaged! |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by Christiansimon: 7:22pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
when i keep things to my self all the time that is when i receive the name "secret boy" from my dad and everyone knows it. |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by phelonrays: 7:25pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
Unfortunately that's the only thing giving the old man joy. There's a miss somewhere. |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by MufasaLion: 7:25pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
decatalyst: Damaged? Hell no! You seem to be the damaged one since you run your mouth like a faulty tap to anyone just like his father! Goodbye! |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by decatalyst(m): 7:52pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
MufasaLion: You are senile! |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by hope4nigeria(m): 7:53pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna:Na your father you dey insult like this? That man need to go for DNA test because as I dey see you like this? You are a bastard |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by MufasaLion: 7:55pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
decatalyst: Seems you just learnt a new word. Unfortunately for you, this word doesn't apply to me. Go learn another one and come back. |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by decatalyst(m): 7:58pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
MufasaLion: Quite laughable and it suffice to pass time, albeit unfortunately. Biko, skedaddle from here into your hole. |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by alfredo1(m): 8:56pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
Your dad discuss his family issues with his friend(s) who is probably a confidant. You on the other discuss your family with the world ( nairaland forum. Sir, you're your dad pro max. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by alfredo1(m): 8:57pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
Your dad discuss his family issues with his friend(s) who is/are probably a confidant. You on the other discuss your family with the world ( nairaland forum. Sir, you're your dad pro max. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by Blue86(m): 8:59pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
Don't relay your secrets to him. Keep your life situations shut from him. People's lives had been wrecked because of the attitude your dad is displaying. Who knows , may be you got sacked because he talked to your enemy that you had a job? Now you know what manner of man he is, be careful of spilling your personal secrets to him. ChizzyBuna: 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by Solofresh2: 9:36pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
Stop telling him anything again and distance yourself a little from him 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by benqo01(m): 9:36pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna: OP i understand you trust me it is not good at all i hate that with all my life,whatever we discussed as family stays between us. So reduce the way you tell him some things you just have to try to do that,e get something's wey outsider no suppose dey hear we don't know who is who,bad belle too dey dis world 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by Enigma1510(m): 11:51pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna:Bro, we have only few sensible and matured people on here that would understand. Some of them don’t have a life outside Nairaland so you gotta ignore them. My advice is that sometimes we always feel we need to listen to others show us the right path in order not to make a mistake but anything you know you want badly, you have to sit down, think and not say a word to anyone about it. For some, it is their mother that doesn’t know how to keep family issues private…out of too much joy, they tend to even tell their enemies. I learnt in a hard way bro, its better you talk to someone that doesn’t even know much about you than those that can use words of the mouth to ruin your plans. And stop giving a f**k about what people say, the time you are wasting in doing it is not worth it!!! |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by spiralwedge(m): 12:12am On Oct 03, 2022 |
He wasn’t announcing it now. It’s normal for him to chip that in when having a chit-chat with his friends, especially if they have been friends for years and are now like family. The friend too must have been telling him things and they are able to both cruise this life knowing they both have challenges here and there. Maybe you are not okay with the type of friends he has. |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by LikeAking: 12:16am On Oct 03, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna: Die d mata. Him talk am to see if elp fit come from the society. |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by anochuko01(m): 2:27am On Oct 03, 2022 |
I'm currently learning to keep my things to myself nowadays. I've been telling my family too much about me, and it's giving them the opportunity to monitor my life. You may decide to take such approach too. My mom also has the habit of telling people about what's happening to her children, but I always warn her sternly whenever I tell her things. She's learning now though, she now sees that telling people your problem to get sympathy would only give them reasons to mock you. Who go help go still help. Start keeping your things to yourself, you're old enough to face your life. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Dad Talks Too Much, by MisterMan123456: 3:39am On Oct 03, 2022 |
Dem no dey talk secret with microphone, na with low voice. Your papa name na MIKE? |
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