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Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by SeaTrade(m): 9:37pm On Oct 02, 2022
tommy589:


Not disputing the op. Just saying what I observed from
men that have made flourishing career from it. I am not sure they see the ugliness or beauty in older women, since money is involved they don't show any sign of shame or discomfort in public outings
They wouldn't tell you ,but there is.
Everyone knows you're there for the gains obviously and you'd lose relevance amongst men.
The woman knows you're there for the money and will use it as leverage over you ,she'd guard her resources well because she knows the moment you make enough,you'd leave.
She'll most likely be rude,Bleep other men in your presence and you can't even complain.
You'll be wasting your youthful years you'd have been enjoying with a young woman you love and cherish and building a family together with a dilapidating woman that has nothing to offer you,she can barely conceive without spending N100m on fertility clinic and products,or most likely have had her children in the past.
To crown it all up,there's no substantial gain in it,you won't make good money from it asides basic upkeep money,stay in a good house she owns that you're just one disrespect away from being homeless,drive cars that she can withdraw whenever she pleases or you fail to please her,roll in her circle that don't rate you, etc...
You'd have been better off hustling on your own and growing at your pace.
See ,I love older women and I Bleep them a lot cos I love clean women that have money to take care of themselves so I don't perceive weird smells during sex,but the difference is I have all the leverage( I have the long end of the stick which is money), so I know what I'm telling you from an upclose angle.
They beg and will do anything to keep you as a man doing well,but you'd be a fool to shortchanged yourself over what you can give yourself in excess.
So it's best to focus on the sex and use person aunty take dey do acrobatics for bed and not perceive any single smell,unlike the broker younglings weh ordinary doggy you no fit breath again grin
Enough lessons for one night,ciao.

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Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by Solofresh2: 9:45pm On Oct 02, 2022
A lady is more likely to be affected at that age you mentioned.A man can get married at any time,bang enough pvssy at any time and impreginated a woman at any time
Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by OvertheTop(m): 10:02pm On Oct 02, 2022
FRONT PAGE!!
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Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by OvertheTop(m): 10:06pm On Oct 02, 2022
Wealthbrain22:
If you’re in your prime either as a man or a woman, getting all the attention and praises..I need you to know that your 30’s and 40’s will be different. You won’t look as young and fresh anymore and guess what? The attention will dry up and if you have not married as a woman , it’s only God that will now help you. Your beauty will fade, your body will sag, and you will look like a desperado with 100 body count searching for a “mugu” to settle down with. You may not be desperate but your appearance will look desperate, men will wonder why you’re above 30 and have no man in your life, they will fear that there’s something wrong with you. Please young girls, stop doing too much shakara, grab your youthful opportunities, TikTok won’t be there to save you.

As a man you will be lonely to stupor. No girl will desire you because you’re over 30 and you can’t get girls with “fineboy” anymore, it will be all about your value , your net worth and your place in society. Teenage girls won’t want you because you’re too old for them and you have nothing to offer them, girls your age won’t want you either because you will be perceived to be a “failure” not necessarily because you are but society will tag you as one.

My point is, when you’re looking young and fresh, everyone wants you..job opportunities, career opportunities, easy attention, sharp mind, free accommodation for those still living with their parents, make use of these opportunities and build your life.

Your later years will be brutal, 30’s and 40’s will break you if you don’t get your life together on time.

For men, money will save you , for women marriage will save you. Stop all these unnecessary shakara, it’s not worth it..age will humble you.

EDIT: men at 30 don’t look like failures at all, it’s only when you don’t have money that it may seem like that. With money your 30’s will be the sweetest part of your life. I guess I didn’t add this part.

1. The Bolded actually is Really for guys around the Ages of 38 upwards that have the intention to get married and do not have the money yet
Men that don't want to get married, have nothing to worry about.

2. Most men who intend to get married in Nigeria normally do so in their 30s not Not 20s. Men that don't want to get married, have nothing to worry about.

3. Therefore to settle in your 30s, if your financial status is not smiling (net worth of like 2 Million+), you will be worried. Men that don't want to get married, have nothing to worry about.


PEOPLE ARE ANGRY WITH YOU BECAUSE: YOU ARE SHAKING A VERY BIG TABLE THAT'S AFFECTING A LOT OF PEOPLE!! grin grin

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Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by emmanuelbrown26: 10:14pm On Oct 02, 2022
Wealthbrain22:


I think i failed to add all these only applies to those without money, with money all you said is fact
Guy man, u started very and ended stupidly.
Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by emmanuelbrown26: 10:16pm On Oct 02, 2022
Wealthbrain22:


I actually didn’t pass the full message properly, all I said only applies to someone who is over 30 and still living with their parents and have no dime or direction
U read too many motivational books, u know nothing about FACTS OF LIFE
Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by emmanuelbrown26: 10:19pm On Oct 02, 2022
Illegal1:


there's no rubbish here,the guy is ryt in all he said...

unless u are one of those peter obi supporters hoping on manner to fall frm heaven wen u are already 40yrs plus....
See dis one wey no no left from right. U suppose dey wash ur papa car if at all ur papa get one
Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by Albertone(m): 10:31pm On Oct 02, 2022
I didn't bother reading it to the end when he included men in that pseudo-sensible write up.

My grandpa is 78, he still gets the attention of young young girls.
1.Have money
2.Be good in bed
3.Have money
If women don't run after you irrespective of your age, you're destined to be gay.

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Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by MAIKON: 10:32pm On Oct 02, 2022
OvertheTop:


1. The Bolded actually is Really for guys around the Ages of 38 upwards that have the intention to get married and do not have the money yet
Men that don't want to get married, have nothing to worry about.

2. Most men who intend to get married in Nigeria normally do so in their 30s not Not 20s. Men that don't want to get married, have nothing to worry about.

3. Therefore to settle in your 30s, if your financial status is not smiling (net worth of like 2 Million+), you will be worried. Men that don't want to get married, have nothing to worry about.


PEOPLE ARE ANGRY WITH YOU BECAUSE: YOU ARE SHAKING A VERY BIG TABLE THAT'S AFFECTING A LOT OF PEOPLE!! grin grin

CONFIRM �

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Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by Slynation(m): 10:59pm On Oct 02, 2022
Pierocash:
I thought you were making sense until you said men in their 30s will be looking like failures. You need brain surgery.

Most sensible women prefer mature men in their 30s and 40s because they see them more attractive,more experienced,and feel more protected been with them.


I am currently dating a young damsel of 21, beautiful,and can die for me.
And I thought you are also making sense until you added the bolded word...

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Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by Tradepunter2: 11:03pm On Oct 02, 2022
Hahahah men in their 30s have more attention..... Just have something going for yourself....

I have friends in their 30s and they have ladies as Young as 26 that want to get married to them....
Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by SeaTrade(m): 11:16pm On Oct 02, 2022
Tradepunter2:
Hahahah men in their 30s have more attention..... Just have something going for yourself....

I have friends in their 30s and they have ladies as Young as 26 that want to get married to them....
26 Yr olds are nothing to celebrate for marriage purposes,
The real catch are 18-23,so you know you have a lot of her youth to bask in and can mould to your taste using her naivety and ignorance as your weapon.
She's still tender,little history,little appetite for luxury(she still think of little things as luxury,like 30k hair,iPhone,etc..),still teachable and will still have that masculine fear in them.
Women that have been single up till 26 don know everything under the sun and their appetite have grown to enormous heights due to over exposure.
I have a 26yr old girl that I use to prospect on that earns 150k tops from her job that is out almost every other night and she just buy used CLA.
They problem isn't the cost of the vehicle but the mind and appetite of the woman.
Clearly,an average guy will struggle with sustenance with a girl on such P.
All the luxury spots in town she know am and have been there.
Can you domesticate this person? undecided
Just casual fun,throw anything longterm outta the window or else,you'll die!!

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Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by Tradepunter2: 11:24pm On Oct 02, 2022
SeaTrade:
26 Yr olds are nothing to celebrate for marriage purposes,
The real catch are 18-23,so you know you have a lot of her youth to bask in and can mould to your taste using her naivety and ignorance as your weapon.
She's still tender,little history,little appetite for luxury(she still think of little things as luxury,like 30k hair,iPhone,etc..),still teachable and will still have that masculine fear in them.
Women that have been single up till 26 don know everything under the sun and their appetite have grown to enormous heights due to over exposure.
I have a 26yr old girl that I use to prospect on that earns 150k tops from her job that is out almost every other night and she just buy used CLA.
They problem isn't the cost of the vehicle but the mind and appetite of the woman.
Clearly,an average guy will struggle with sustenance with a girl on such P.
All the luxury spots in town she know am and have been there.
Can you domesticate this person? undecided
Just casual fun,throw anything longterm outta the window or else,you'll die!!

In an ideal world yes that age 18 to 23, but come one man..... Will let your sister marry at that age
Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by SeaTrade(m): 11:44pm On Oct 02, 2022
Tradepunter2:


In an ideal world yes that age 18 to 23, but come one man..... Will let your sister marry at that age

I don't like to personalise things because realities differ.
But I know it's possible to achieve.
This is how.
Say you're 30,well spoken,good looking,respectful,well to do and you coming from a better family is an added bonus(status elevation for them via association).
What you do is you go just a step lower(just one step ooo) in the food chain to an average,hardworking value oriented family and pick their pretty daughter at that age,fresh out of school.
There'll be no bases for denial.
If they let you go ,chances of their daughter getting another you in her lifetime is infinitesimal.
They'll trust your leadership and feel safe that their daughter is in good hands,and can still achieve whatever she set out to do under you and will hand her over in good faith.
But you can't try this with a girl who is higher than you and your family in the food chain.
She'll have explore first (know every every),build career,build body count then be ready for settlement.
If you try this,90% chance that you're marrying another man!Opinions,stronghead,baggage and history go follow.
Then they now gaslight you for not being modern or too rigid.I no gree.
The only advantage here be say you go get support system,but of what use is support system when you don't need it,so much so that you exchange your leadership over it? undecided
The only group of people that can domesticate and put women in this category in their place in matrimony are the top 0.1%.(Sujimoto them,Ego salami,don jazzy and Co.. ).Niggas with bigger options and longer reach.

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Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by christianjoy(m): 11:46pm On Oct 02, 2022
Seems you don't know anything about yourself talk less of other people
Your assumptions are based in your reality not others because you know nothing about Life.
Wealthbrain22:
If you’re in your prime either as a man or a woman, getting all the attention and praises..I need you to know that your 30’s and 40’s will be different. You won’t look as young and fresh anymore and guess what? The attention will dry up and if you have not married as a woman , it’s only God that will now help you. Your beauty will fade, your body will sag, and you will look like a desperado with 100 body count searching for a “mugu” to settle down with. You may not be desperate but your appearance will look desperate, men will wonder why you’re above 30 and have no man in your life, they will fear that there’s something wrong with you. Please young girls, stop doing too much shakara, grab your youthful opportunities, TikTok won’t be there to save you.

As a man you will be lonely to stupor. No girl will desire you because you’re over 30 and you can’t get girls with “fineboy” anymore, it will be all about your value , your net worth and your place in society. Teenage girls won’t want you because you’re too old for them and you have nothing to offer them, girls your age won’t want you either because you will be perceived to be a “failure” not necessarily because you are but society will tag you as one.

My point is, when you’re looking young and fresh, everyone wants you..job opportunities, career opportunities, easy attention, sharp mind, free accommodation for those still living with their parents, make use of these opportunities and build your life.

Your later years will be brutal, 30’s and 40’s will break you if you don’t get your life together on time.

For men, money will save you , for women marriage will save you. Stop all these unnecessary shakara, it’s not worth it..age will humble you.

EDIT: men at 30 don’t look like failures at all, it’s only when you don’t have money that it may seem like that. With money your 30’s will be the sweetest part of your life. I guess I didn’t add this part.
Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by Tradepunter2: 12:46am On Oct 03, 2022
SeaTrade:
I don't like to personalise things because realities differ.
But I know it's possible to achieve.
This is how.
Say you're 30,well spoken,good looking,respectful,well to do and you coming from a better family is an added bonus(status elevation for them via association).
What you do is you go just a step lower(just one step ooo) in the food chain to an average,hardworking value oriented family and pick their pretty daughter at that age,fresh out of school.
There'll be no bases for denial.
If they let you go ,chances of their daughter getting another you in her lifetime is infinitesimal.
They'll trust your leadership and feel safe that their daughter is in good hands,and can still achieve whatever she set out to do under you and will hand her over in good faith.
But you can't try this with a girl who is higher than you and your family in the food chain.
She'll have explore first (know every every),build career,build body count then be ready for settlement.
If you try this,90% chance that you're marrying another man!Opinions,stronghead,baggage and history go follow.
Then they now gaslight you for not being modern or too rigid.I no gree.
The only advantage here be say you go get support system,but of what use is support system when you don't need it,so much so that you exchange your leadership over it? undecided
The only group of people that can domesticate and put women in this category in their place in matrimony are the top 0.1%.(Sujimoto them,Ego salami,don jazzy and Co.. ).Niggas with bigger options and longer reach.

Kinda true Sha..... It just a crazy world..

But laslas women get short end of the stick, cuz at prime with teeming youthful age that want at least stable guy

Guys at that age are only focused on stabilizing themselves, by the time gus stabilize in their 30s and above...

Young women becomes more appealing to compensate for the years of tilling

I am quiet older than my lady, am in my 30s she's in her mid 20s.... And the connection is crazy, things she won't get away with guys at her age I just kinda overlook it...

She's kinda appreciative of that I am patient with her... Which kinda funny cuz its not a big deal and I see the honesty she puts in grin grin grin
Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by seanwilliam(m): 5:52am On Oct 03, 2022
Blupen:
You are letting age cage you, my brother time is nothing and u are not a looser at 40
the bitter truth is you are a failure as a woman if you’re yet to marry at 40, atleast judging by the type of society we are.. that’s the reality , but fortunately as a man, if you have the power and money , at 40 even 60, you will always have choices .. and if you’re miserable as a man in your 40, you will have little to no choice .

Although I think the best age for a man to enjoy na between 30-40 if you have money grin las las
Life is unfair ..
Make we just do our part and go when the most high call us,


B
Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by seanwilliam(m): 6:06am On Oct 03, 2022
SeaTrade:
They wouldn't tell you ,but there is.
Everyone knows you're there for the gains obviously and you'd lose relevance amongst men.
The woman knows you're there for the money and will use it as leverage over you ,she'd guard her resources well because she knows the moment you make enough,you'd leave.
She'll most likely be rude,Bleep other men in your presence and you can't even complain.
You'll be wasting your youthful years you'd have been enjoying with a young woman you love and cherish and building a family together with a dilapidating woman that has nothing to offer you,she can barely conceive without spending N100m on fertility clinic and products,or most likely have had her children in the past.
To crown it all up,there's no substantial gain in it,you won't make good money from it asides basic upkeep money,stay in a good house she owns that you're just one disrespect away from being homeless,drive cars that she can withdraw whenever she pleases or you fail to please her,roll in her circle that don't rate you, etc...
You'd have been better off hustling on your own and growing at your pace.
See ,I love older women and I Bleep them a lot cos I love clean women that have money to take care of themselves so I don't perceive weird smells during sex,but the difference is I have all the leverage( I have the long end of the stick which is money), so I know what I'm telling you from an upclose angle.
They beg and will do anything to keep you as a man doing well,but you'd be a fool to shortchanged yourself over what you can give yourself in excess.
So it's best to focus on the sex and use person aunty take dey do acrobatics for bed and not perceive any single smell,unlike the broker younglings weh ordinary doggy you no fit breath again grin
Enough lessons for one night,ciao.
chai.
Some time I will be going through your posts and be shaking my head grin
Walai , you’re so on point. I comot cap for u
Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by Blupen(m): 6:36am On Oct 03, 2022
seanwilliam:
the bitter truth is you are a failure as a woman if you’re yet to marry at 40, atleast judging by the type of society we are.. that’s the reality , but fortunately as a man, if you have the power and money , at 40 even 60, you will always have choices .. and if you’re miserable as a man in your 40, you will have little to no choice .

Although I think the best age for a man to enjoy na between 30-40 if you have money grin las las
Life is unfair ..
Make we just do our part and go when the most high call us,


B
Life is unfair my brother las las everybody way cum will go
Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by Nobody: 6:47am On Oct 03, 2022
What you said about women is true but I disagree with what you said about men . a girl sternly told me that she need men in their early 30s of 40s that I'm too young for her...
Secondly there's nothing like delay for men once there's money.
Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by SeaTrade(m): 6:51am On Oct 03, 2022
seanwilliam:
chai.
Some time I will be going through your posts and be shaking my head grin
Walai , you’re so on point. I comot cap for u
grin grin grin
Na as we see the world we take dey follow am ooo.
Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by jerryforgood: 7:11am On Oct 03, 2022
You people should stop using age to bash women. It's not easy for anybody in this Nigeria. No money how would women and men get married when they can't afford it. OP should stop this age shaming post, it doesn't make sense. Be realistic!

Those who are married are not better in anyway than those who are single. And saying that a lady is worn out or fading away at 30's is a big lie. I am a man, and I will tell you that there are good ladies in their 30's. The same economic issue is affecting everybody. People find it hard to feed. Is it marriage they can afford?

The truth is, this marriage of a thing is all about financial status nothing more.
Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by obaaderemi: 7:45am On Oct 03, 2022
Wealthbrain22:
If you’re in your prime either as a man or a woman, getting all the attention and praises..I need you to know that your 30’s and 40’s will be different. You won’t look as young and fresh anymore and guess what? The attention will dry up and if you have not married as a woman , it’s only God that will now help you. Your beauty will fade, your body will sag, and you will look like a desperado with 100 body count searching for a “mugu” to settle down with. You may not be desperate but your appearance will look desperate, men will wonder why you’re above 30 and have no man in your life, they will fear that there’s something wrong with you. Please young girls, stop doing too much shakara, grab your youthful opportunities, TikTok won’t be there to save you.

As a man you will be lonely to stupor. No girl will desire you because you’re over 30 and you can’t get girls with “fineboy” anymore, it will be all about your value , your net worth and your place in society. Teenage girls won’t want you because you’re too old for them and you have nothing to offer them, girls your age won’t want you either because you will be perceived to be a “failure” not necessarily because you are but society will tag you as one.

My point is, when you’re looking young and fresh, everyone wants you..job opportunities, career opportunities, easy attention, sharp mind, free accommodation for those still living with their parents, make use of these opportunities and build your life.

Your later years will be brutal, 30’s and 40’s will break you if you don’t get your life together on time.

For men, money will save you , for women marriage will save you. Stop all these unnecessary shakara, it’s not worth it..age will humble you.

EDIT: men at 30 don’t look like failures at all, it’s only when you don’t have money that it may seem like that. With money your 30’s will be the sweetest part of your life. I guess I didn’t add this part.
Go and see men in their 40s who are still very attractive, even without much money, with fine young women appreciating them. It's not the same for women though.
Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by obaaderemi: 7:52am On Oct 03, 2022
Tradepunter2:
Hahahah men in their 30s have more attention..... Just have something going for yourself....

I have friends in their 30s and they have ladies as Young as 26 that want to get married to them....
26 is even a bit old.
Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by Prettygirl200(f): 8:14am On Oct 03, 2022
All of u senseless men saying the guy is saying rubbish are high on marijuana, pls go back and read carefully he said when u are above 30s and 40s without money. Make una dey try read something well before una comment,bc the first commenter don talk he rubbish all of una wey dey bottom con dey follow am like Mugu. One mumu dey say men got time,make u no get money I go see the girl wey go reason una

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Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by Prettygirl200(f): 8:15am On Oct 03, 2022
phelonrays:
Your narrative on Men at 30s is skewed, wack, irrelevance, unrealistic and greatly unfortunate. undecided



undecided


Shut up oga, if u don't have money no woman go reason u both the young and advance

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Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by jeromestarks: 8:25am On Oct 03, 2022
chatinent:
Men at 30 looking like failures?

Omo, you need Peak milk. Sense is not in you.
He didn't know that men are like fine wine; the older, the better.

Na money be fine bobo.
The op stupid well well.
Girls don't even want to date guys who are less than 29.

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Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by Prettygirl200(f): 8:32am On Oct 03, 2022
Op u are very correct, don't mind those fools telling u that u posted rubbish, allow them to wallow in their foolishness let them keep consoling themselves with men start their prime at 30. Make money no dey I go see which woman wan reason them.
Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by phelonrays: 9:39am On Oct 03, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Shut up oga, if u don't have money no woman go reason u both the young and advance

It'll be silly going a pathway with person of your kind: a reprobate.


undecided
Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by Prettygirl200(f): 9:41am On Oct 03, 2022
phelonrays:


It'll be silly going a pathway with person of your kind: a reprobate.


undecided
Sorry I didn't call your name, kindly reboot!!!
Re: My Sincere Advice To The Under 20’s, Those Below 30 by Wealthbrain22(m): 4:33pm On Oct 07, 2022
Prettygirl200:
All of u senseless men saying the guy is saying rubbish are high on marijuana, pls go back and read carefully he said when u are above 30s and 40s without money. Make una dey try read something well before una comment,bc the first commenter don talk he rubbish all of una wey dey bottom con dey follow am like Mugu. One mumu dey say men got time,make u no get money I go see the girl wey go reason una

Bless you baby girl. Dem dey give themselves hope, without money na konji go kee dem

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