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Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Dreadshy: 6:46am On Oct 03, 2022 |
Ekun igbere, you better call a meeting with yourself and yourself by yourself before we see thread 'my child looks like my colleague' and then dna test begin with money wey u no get. Na so my ex been dey do with one guy wey she say na her village person, wan open office for my head i quietly waka go marry na that guy she still marry last last. To whom brain is given sense is expected. 38 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by DasaintHope(m): 6:50am On Oct 03, 2022 |
You're dating a 33+ with penile mileages and emotional baggages. How many times will we tell you to avoid 33+? SIMPle man 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Nobody: 6:58am On Oct 03, 2022 |
thegroomspa: You know what is happening but want us to convince you that you're wrong. At 34, the lady should know what she wants in life. This is the sort of behavior one would expect from a 19 - 23-year-old lady and not a 34-year-old. If you dare to break up with her, your guy would sex her (that's if he isn't already) and dump her, after which she'd return to you because you're the waste manager that loves trash. Your guy himself isn't respecting boundaries. Move far away from both of them. You too, learn to draw the line between friends, colleagues, and girlfriends. You shouldn't even introduce your woman to your friends anyhow not to talk of colleagues. Dump that hoe and then draw boundaries. 56 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by thegroomspa(m): 7:03am On Oct 03, 2022 |
general111: You wrote from a bank of sense... She's not emotionally matured truly like I told her. 17 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by thegroomspa(m): 7:10am On Oct 03, 2022 |
Shoodboi: Thanks you have spoken well... 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by jayworld15(m): 7:20am On Oct 03, 2022 |
thegroomspa: "I'll kill myself," "I can't do anything without you," and "I will hurt myself because of you if you leave me" are many girls or women's gimmick to strike well into the hearts of BETA and MUMUPUSSY guys. I could remember being told like that, but local man has no emotion to feel pity for them. 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by ruggedtimi(m): 7:29am On Oct 03, 2022 |
Gentlechika:34yrs old lady make him date her for 2yrs?? No be wickedness 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by obaaderemi: 7:39am On Oct 03, 2022 |
thegroomspa:Quit. Quit. Quit. If you value your future and peace of mind, quit. I know what I'm talking about. What if your friend was another man she met out there and not someone you knew, who would have stopped her from going the whole distance with him? At 34, no wonder men have been using and dumping her. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by emmeyen: 7:41am On Oct 03, 2022 |
My problem is with that person you call friend. How is he your friend please? You yourself are emotionally immature. You cannot meet a person for few weeks or months and start calling them names like "my best friend","my missing rib", "my betterhalf". You trust too much sir. And what is it with introducing your girl to your colleagues? Don't you have boundaries? By now, you should know its time to call it quits, withdraw yourself from that relationship. It's over already. 18 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Crampyblood(m): 7:45am On Oct 03, 2022 |
You met her at 34 You sef why you go punish yourself like this? 16 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Baronthecelebri: 7:50am On Oct 03, 2022 |
Sweetplum:mumu 13 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Clinghton: 7:52am On Oct 03, 2022 |
You should have left her to continue falling in love with your friend till you got the evidence needed |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by otis3(m): 7:52am On Oct 03, 2022 |
She's not FOCUS instead of you feeling bad, they say time will tell....just thank time that revealed how weak and gullible a lady she's to you. You have the right to do whatever u feel is good to you BUT listen, is not a good thing for a 34yrs old babe to loose guide so fast without Money and temptation from this lust world. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Baronthecelebri: 7:52am On Oct 03, 2022 |
Dump her sorry ass, she's a community property. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Sweetvie: 7:53am On Oct 03, 2022 |
For a starter, I don't like that your colleague he is an asshole... You better draw a btwn you and him, he is not a friend. Second, That your girl is not a wife material... To literally be flirting in front of you, 34? She just looking for someone to marry. Tho' you act to quick but that doesn't rule out the fact that she has a crush on that colleague... And you are so stupid to allow urself to be emotionally blackmail...she want to kill herself? She should go ahead. You love her? Go ahead an get marry don't just come here to open another thread " My wife is sleeping with my colleagues" or " my first child is not mine" Am sure that ur colleague doesn't even need to toast(woo) her b4 she will accept and that sex that you did not do he will continue for you. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by youngZee23: 7:57am On Oct 03, 2022 |
The truth is that she be oloso..she is just using u as a ticket to marriage cos time no they her side..if she were to be 20+ she won't even look at u.. 14 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by jeromestarks: 8:05am On Oct 03, 2022 |
thegroomspa:I stopped reading when I saw these. There's a reason she's unmarried at 34. There is a reason men avoided her until she clocks 34. You're a fool to think you've found the one. For this mistake you have done, may you never find peace in your life. 15 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Kingzy4pep(m): 8:11am On Oct 03, 2022 |
Michelle70:Farm animal? Lol.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Gentlechika(m): 8:15am On Oct 03, 2022 |
ruggedtimi:my point is, deciding to spend the rest of your life with a lady u met in just three months, is quite Hasty. This is supposed to be a once in a lifetime decision and one needs to be very careful not to get it wrong. And nobody is saying he should date her for 2yrs. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Slynation(m): 8:18am On Oct 03, 2022 |
It's well...if I talk now, they will say I'm bashing women, so I will rather mind my business. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Gentlechika(m): 8:24am On Oct 03, 2022 |
jayworld15:epitome of an alpha male. Any man that can control his emotions, can't be manipulated. Emotions makes us think with our heart not with our head. And, this is one of women's greatest weapon. God bless you baba. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Slynation(m): 8:29am On Oct 03, 2022 |
Sweetplum:calm down nobody is bashing any woman, but at 34 she still exhibits and possesses Olosho skills, Imagine not asking about my welfare and be bombarding me with questions about my friend, maybe they have a past together and wants to reunite... @Thegroomspa just call that your friend, tell him you want my woman right, she's available to you now, connect the both of them, atleast you will be doing both parties a great service to humanity... 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Slynation(m): 8:37am On Oct 03, 2022 |
Sweetvie:God bless you... You are among the few ladies on NL who say things as it is instead of taking side like some of your female counterparts all in a bid to justify their imaginary feministic narrative... 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Divay22(f): 8:42am On Oct 03, 2022 |
jeromestarks:It hasn't gotten to this na 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Sweetvie: 8:46am On Oct 03, 2022 |
Slynation:Amen. Thanks Why would I take side when I know it wrong. I talk/ type from my own view, even if the person is my closest friend sef I'll still you truth whether you're wrong or right coz I hate rubbish and I don't like when someone else accept rubbish too 16 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by duduade: 8:54am On Oct 03, 2022 |
thegroomspa: If you feel like quitting… then quit… You already made up your mind.. stop seekin Validation here |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Mom007(f): 9:02am On Oct 03, 2022 |
Its called love at first sight. Its magnetizim. You can't fight it... Just leave them. Its not something you fight her over. Just talk it out and tell her to pursue her heart. Your own too will come. Look, I've been happily married for almost 10yrs and I am fully convinced that there is one person created by God for everyone. She may have just stumbled on her person in that your friend. Let them be. Your own too will come and when it does, you see those sparks flying between them both? Your own too will come. Cheers. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Slynation(m): 9:13am On Oct 03, 2022 |
Sweetvie:If every lady is typing like this on NL, this platform would have been very peaceful for everybody... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by KingMack(m): 9:19am On Oct 03, 2022 |
I know how this feels.. sometimes you feel like blowing her brains out! I suggest you jus move on 2 Likes
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Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Nobody: 9:20am On Oct 03, 2022 |
Slynation:You gave the guy the wrong advise. You boys don't realise when they say you v to man up. Most women are emotional stronger than you this Slynation. The op should ask his fiancée those questions not her cos he's the one that's suspecting. Dey use your brain. |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Nobody: 9:21am On Oct 03, 2022 |
Baronthecelebri:Dull brain. 3 Likes
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Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by kaboninc(m): 9:27am On Oct 03, 2022 |
thegroomspa: Not supporting anything even her actions but you are not ready to marry or even have a serious relationship |
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