Kipaji:
Men, I wish you all the best
I hope we can all realize that there is higher value to this world than women
Please, focus on God/nature/ancestors/life/values and yourself.

From the bottom of my heart, I would like to thank every person that contributed to this forum. You built a highly valuable bank of knowledge for men all around the world.
I came to this forum to learn about life, society, men, women, relationships, and sex. Unfortunately, much of what is written here is pure misandry, degeneracy, delusion, and/or evil. But intelligent and wise people will be able to filter out the dirt and get the gold. It is what I did and I come out of this journey wiser, more mindful of intersexual and social dynamics, and better equipped to face and understand the world.

Now, I need to take women off my mind and focus on my ancestry, my family, my legacy, Africa my country, and myself. I will not log back in Nairaland for at least a year. Until then, I wish you all the very best.

Bye.

ubunja:
college and varsity is just a hoe phase for girls. that first time freedom to be by yourself and do whatever you want is why they're all looking forward to college and the further from home the better.
this side some girls are straight up living with men as they do college. like husband and wife. the guy wakes up goes to work the girl wakes up goes to school. evening they're come back home.
if you're a man and you want this it's not that hard to find a willing girl. a lot of these girls are from far away provinces and their families rarely visit them

heartofcity12:
“Real men” are trying

luvyaself95:


See You Then Bro

But Honestly speaking for the fact i love everything about this forum but it's base on women only.
Typing here for first time since like two weeks out.
Because i have this forum boring as it's base on women.

Karlifate:
He got 'served'

Karlifate:
Women marry up financially.
Men marry up morally.


The criteria for judging men and women are not the same;

• Men are judged by their financial success, their status, their future and their personalities.

• Women are judged by their appearance, ability to bear children, their body counts, their past relationships and their submissiveness.


Women and Men are not the same.

BigBashiru:


you forgot one important one on how women are judged which is character - what is the womans true character (different from the feigned character)...

ubunja:
you do realize there's many sections on this forum right? Like Politics, Religion, Crime etc? Or maybe you haven't noticed.

luvyaself95:
Of course i know about them but i never take time to check them out.
Maybe it time to be checking out now

BigBashiru:

So why exactly will I be giving the so called wife money?? The best I can do is put a roof over her head as the wife and feed her.... every other thing financial she has to cater for herself....

luvyaself95:

Because i have this forum boring as it's base on women.

ubunja:
usually a lot of videos on "HOW TO GET A GIRL IF YOU'RE BROKE" turn out to be just clickbait trash not offering any meaningful or usable information,, but this lady is on to something. I know some of my brothers in the Redpill are at that stage of their life where their finances are not yet in order, this video will be very helpful:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Otd2w1Ez5Y

BigBashiru:


If you marry 21yo you are in trouble because 98% want to explore and hv their fun....at that age they want to enjoy the attention they are receiving....

pansophist:
Yes, money is the cheapest thing anyone can have. Although a man should have money, it should not be the only thing. Character is one, virtue is another. Ambition also, to be ridiculously smart, intellectually vast, eloquent in speech, as in the content of your speech should just awe your listeners, and oh, be confident too, look good, I mean to be fit and look proportionally muscular.

have a goal that fuels you, be there for your family because she will notice it and knows what's in for her if you commit to her, be strong in your spirit and soul, and have the ability to be wicked. As in, being able to fork people up big time if they cross your redline, doesn't mean you are bad, it means you are a good person, otherwise, how can you protect yourself and her? Even Jesus that loves you will send you to hellfire if you mess up, how much more me, a human wey no fit love you like Jesus?

You see, none of the things above have to do with money, it takes investment in oneself to reach this height of personal sophistication. Also, women are way smarter than men give them credit for. Just like men will fork a foolish woman that is not virtuous, after all, what can she offer apart from sex? it's the same for women. A woman will chop a man's money if money is the only thing he can offer. But you see that strong man that has a good head on his shoulder, she will be loyal and be on her best behavior.

Men regulate women, and to make a woman (anyone actually) live uprightly and relate with you in truth, it must come from you first. Personally, I have never begged or forced a woman to treat me right, because when she sees how I conduct myself, she knows that I won't tolerate subpar treatment. A woman has to know that you chose, not settled for her, since it signifies your value. You must have options for women way better than her, so she knows the value of your commitment.

Treat her good, love her, make her feel safe and protected, respect her, provide for her, and be a man she can count on, but again, be capable of leaving her immediately she doesn't live up to her own responsibility. If she cheats, insults you, doesn't submit, argues with you like a lawyer, and just gives you the Kim Kardashian vibes, my guy, cut off. Unless she feeds you, then compromises. So be a good man, but refuse to be a pushover.

Charity begins at home, this is the true meaning of that statement. You a man are a leader, and if you lead well, women will follow. No one will follow a subpar leader, but a good one. So getting a good woman is actually an internal job, it starts first with you. Character is the main dish, but money is the topping. A man must have both.

geedot:
marry young girls with brains

satandeterrible:
The point here is to focus on what aspect of staying fit that works for you. If building muscles is the way to go, good enough. If you're not cut out for building muscles, try other exercises, football, basketball, running etc.
The goal is to stay fit. Sexual appeal comes from staying - and looking - fit, not necessarily from building muscles.

BigBashiru:
If you marry 21yo you are in trouble because 98% want to explore and hv their fun....at that age they want to enjoy the attention they are receiving....

heartofcity12:
Lord!..Naija guys are finally learning ..