Zabiboy:

Lord? For what? For fooling himself?
These guys are just fooling themselves....
_{i'll just keep it short}
This same guy would go out today, approach someone, wont ask what she has going on for herself or ask questions to see if she can add value to him, but would ask for number.
isn't this fuckery?
When guys learn that they can socialize and vibe and still walk out without asking for number, they'll stop getting such messages..

Putting this into real life context, "You can't surround yourself with losers and complain about losing"

Tonnyray:
This is so very true. I wish there was time to extensively discuss this.

heartofcity12:

.. So yeah, lord! lord!. I’m happy for them, it’s a gradual process.. .

Zabiboy:

This is the main point and you dont seem to grab...
Be Realistic, how many of them at that age are truly interested in getting married?. You want to go the usual way of "convincing" and setting yourself up to be used .
I think( or rather what i understood from bashiru's post and i support) is that rather than "convincing" or playing the patriarchy to get the young ones hereby setting up yourself to be used, Go for the ones that dont need convincing BUT with high restrictions and low expectations ..
Like i said earlier, my own advice is to skip the whole process

geedot:
Then you keep searching till you find, it's as simple as that.
If we are to follow what you are suggesting, we should allow them ho.e around till they are in their 30s before getting married to them

geedot:
Then you keep searching till you find, it's as simple as that. Ladies don't care if the harsh economy is affecting men from being financially stable, they'd rather be single than marry broke men, so why should men be the only ones compromising.

If we are to follow what you are suggesting, we should allow them ho.e around till they are in their 30s before getting married to them because they must have been more matured now? Lol. Whatever rocks anyone's boat.
Didn't know hoe.ing around and maturity in ladies works hand in hand sir.

geedot:
Then you keep searching till you find, it's as simple as that. Ladies don't care if the harsh economy is affecting men from being financially stable, they'd rather be single than marry broke men, so why should men be the only ones compromising.

If we are to follow what you are suggesting, we should allow them ho.e around till they are in their 30s before getting married to them because they must have been more matured now? Lol. Whatever rocks anyone's boat.
Didn't know hoe.ing around and maturity in ladies works hand in hand sir.

heartofcity12:
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satandeterrible:

Very intelligent post.
Thank you for rebuffung those bluepilled vibes.

How can any same man think the best thing for him is to commit to used up, washed out cum depots?
So as a man after struggling to make it, you then decide to settle down for an old hen who has hit the wall after crossing her hoe phase?

They are advising men to settle for less, because they can't find anything better. Or because they think they atr not worth anything better.

That why they are advising men to commit to 30+ women, because those women won't have much options at that moment. How ridiculous!!

I cannot believe that on a redpill thread, a supposedly redpill preacher is advising men to settle down with women who have hit the wall, because they no longer have options at that stage.

What is the difference then between a redpill guy and a bluepilled simp?
Both ate committing to women who have been sexed severally by other men and have now retired.
Quite shameful.

BigBashiru:


What I recommend to guys is marry the 29 yo but don't play patriarchy i.e she has to fend for herself financially in the marriage....then be with ur younger hotter girlfriends....

BigBashiru:

You dont understand what we are trying to say... Pls just listen... a few modern inventions like social media has made many young girls have an even unrealistic view of themselves...unlike before when there was no social media making most young girls unwilling to settle down.... combine this with hypergamy (see my immediate last post)...

When you "marry" a 30 yo woman, you are not being exclusive to her na, you still hv your young girlfriends... shey na dem no wan marry? Ehen you go have them as your girlfriends na.. the 30 yo were wan marry, make she hold change for hand meaning - she should have her own moni to use and take care of herself in the marriage - its at this point they start threatening guys with bible and quran - aswear girls are smart sha...

satandeterrible:
TO THE YOUNG MEN HERE, YOU HAVE NO BUSINESS COMMITTING TO A POST-WALL, RETIRED HOE. Absolutely none.

If you believe you are worth it, you'll have no problem finding young, and even chaste ladies for marriage - if you are so inclined.

Please never make the mistake of committing to a serial sperm depot.

Women never change their standards, they'll rather stay single than compromising.

But a supposed redpill individual is telling men to make the biggest (and most foolish) compromise by commiting to a washed up, post-wall, retired prostitute.

Again, men please do not commit to an old layer. I beg you in the name of God. For your own good.

Do lot allow these women to eat their cake in their young age and still have it in their post-wall phase - courtesy of your immense stupidity.

Smartb0y:

You lost the argument when you said "marry the 29 years old and cheat on them .

Why marry if you're just going to end up cheating
Marriage has lost its idealism,what we have today is just legal partnership,when the iron gets hot there'll likely be a breach.

Use the 29 years old as baby mamas, that's the only use they have at that age.

Why are you getting married,what are the benefits in this modern age.... Questions like these are what you should ask yourself so you don't feel pressured to conform to societal standards.


If you have that understanding that relationship is all a game, you won't be discouraged to marry a young woman.

Every relationship comes with its pros and cons, that's why we say choose your poison wisely based on the benefits there is for you because the world today is narcissistic,both men and women will finish you just for their survival.

Women at age 29 and single are most likely damaged. If you meet a virgin at 29, scrutinize her well, something is up
Note this: As a woman gets older,her propensity to likely be damaged increases due to earthly exposure.
She becomes extremely neurotic, narcissistic, delusional.

Saying you will willingly wife up a used up baggage that incinerators will refuse to burn is just mind boggling really.

Are you so insecure about wifing up a youthful woman that makes you want to settle for less than less.

That peace of mind you think you'll have marrying a used up woman is delusional.

Wake up my man

BigBashiru:


The mistake your are making is NAWALT....I am emphasizing to you that the young girls you are looking for for marriage the vast majority arent interested in marriage at a young age... the few that will agree wil be unstable in the marriage i.e. since they still get a lot of attention, they will always wonder if they had waited if they could hv potentially found a better guy....

Marry the 30 yo women but DO NOTT GIVE THEM YOUR MONEY OR SPEND YOUR HARD EARNED CASH ON THEM.... then while "married" hv as many hot young gfs as you want and blow all your money on them.... dont use and dump babes tho cos thats a sin - instead add them to your holy concubine.... its their fault cos its them that dont want to get married....

satandeterrible:


What then is the need for the marriage?

Men must change with the changing times.
When a man holds himself up to high level, these young 20-something women will want to quickly get married to you - as should be.

Men must set standards for themselves.
No sane man has any business committing to an old hag in the name of marriage.

satandeterrible:


What then is the need for the marriage?

Men must change with the changing times.
When a man holds himself up to high level, these young 20-something women will want to quickly get married to you - as should be.

Men must set standards for themselves.
No sane man has any business committing to an old hag in the name of marriage.

Zabiboy:


whatever you find and however long it takes, loyalty and faithfulness are still not assured..
I'll gladly pass.

What i suggested was to skip the whole process. you should know what that means

BigBashiru:


Your thoughts are good but are idealistic.... unfortunately marriage has evolved and some of its noble values eroded...

When a woman can put a picture on instagram and get 1000 likes and 5000 followers in the span of 2-3 weeks you are telling that same woman to have a husband? Why should she have a husband when her ig inbox is filled with guys looking to give her money?

What standard do you want to hold them to - standard is set by society - the partriachy is gone thats the reality.....stop trying to go back to the past...

My dear evolve with the times or sink...

geedot:
Then you keep searching till you find, it's as simple as that. Ladies don't care if the harsh economy is affecting men from being financially stable, they'd rather be single than marry broke men, so why should men be the only ones compromising.

If we are to follow what you are suggesting, we should allow them ho.e around till they are in their 30s before getting married to them because they must have been more matured now? Lol. Whatever rocks anyone's boat.
Didn't know hoe.ing around and maturity in ladies works hand in hand sir.

geedot:
Then you keep searching till you find, it's as simple as that. Ladies don't care if the harsh economy is affecting men from being financially stable, they'd rather be single than marry broke men, so why should men be the only ones compromising.

If we are to follow what you are suggesting, we should allow them ho.e around till they are in their 30s before getting married to them because they must have been more matured now? Lol. Whatever rocks anyone's boat.
Didn't know hoe.ing around and maturity in ladies works hand in hand sir.

satandeterrible:
TO THE YOUNG MEN HERE, YOU HAVE NO BUSINESS COMMITTING TO A POST-WALL, RETIRED HOE. Absolutely none.

If you believe you are worth it, you'll have no problem finding young, and even chaste ladies for marriage - if you are so inclined.

Please never make the mistake of committing to a serial sperm depot.

Women never change their standards, they'll rather stay single than compromising.

But a supposed redpill individual is telling men to make the biggest (and most foolish) compromise by commiting to a washed up, post-wall, retired prostitute.

Again, men please do not commit to an old layer. I beg you in the name of God. For your own good.

Do lot allow these women to eat their cake in their young age and still have it in their post-wall phase - courtesy of your immense stupidity.

Smartb0y:

You lost the argument when you said "marry the 29 years old and cheat on them .

Why marry if you're just going to end up cheating
The problem here is that you don't even have the basic understanding or should I say core understanding of what defines a marriage.
Marriage has lost its idealism,what we have today is just legal partnership,when the iron gets hot there'll likely be a breach.

Use the 29 years old as baby mamas, that's the only use they have at that age.

Why are you getting married,what are the benefits in this modern age.... Questions like these are what you should ask yourself so you don't feel pressured to conform to societal standards.


If you have that understanding that relationship is all a game, you won't be discouraged to marry a young woman.

Every relationship comes with its pros and cons, that's why we say choose your poison wisely based on the benefits there is for you because the world today is narcissistic,both men and women will finish you just for their survival.

Women at age 29 and single are most likely damaged. If you meet a virgin at 29, scrutinize her well, something is up
Note this: As a woman gets older,her propensity to likely be damaged increases due to earthly exposure.
She becomes extremely neurotic, narcissistic, delusional.

Saying you will willingly wife up a used up baggage that incinerators will refuse to burn is just mind boggling really.

Are you so insecure about wifing up a youthful woman that makes you want to settle for less than less.

That peace of mind you think you'll have marrying a used up woman is delusional.

Wake up my man

Itsceejay009:
Of course 31 years is the "right time"