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Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by Immanuelsnr: 6:27pm On Oct 05, 2022
Good evening sir /ma
I got into a relationship with a girl last year, we started online, everything was going fine, I came back from Benin where I stay to meet her, my parents lives in Akure, so after we met, we had sex and it leads to pregnancy, things was going on fine for me , I told her to keep the pregnancy, since I was almost done with my house, and I'm almost done with schooling, I didn't stay in Akure those period, she agree to keep the pregnancy, I told my parents after that, and I have to inform her parents myself because before we get to know about the preg, I visited her parents once, I came back a week to her delivery date, she gave birth, I went back to Benin when she gave birth , and during her period of pregnancy she stays with my parents, so I left after she gave birth to stay at my own place in Benin, I came back after a month to check on her , so the problem started when I came back I had some terrible dream , that signify backwardness in life , first I didn't take it serious, but the dream went on for 2 weeks, I do pray about it but , I don't know I have to go out to church, I was going out one day and I met a man who said I should pray, I want to give the man money I thought he was hungry, he rejected, I got home that day I didn't tell anyone, that week, I lost all my source of income, meanwhile the previous week before I lost my source, during that time I was forced to tell my mom what is going on with my life , she went out to church,I don't believe in pastors and prophet, she came back, she told me it is something spiritual, so I took a step, after 3months when I saw that things are not going on well with me , I told my baby mama to go to her mom's house, she took the boy along, so fast forward to some month later she asked for breakup ,and I was happy about it cause I noticed somethings when she left ,I gave her what she wants, and I requested for my son , that's where problem started , she has to call my aunt's, her brother and told them that when she left that I never send her anything nor took responsibility over the child, I was surprised when I heard that from my Aunt, my mom has to come in because I don't like to tell my parents what is going on in my life, my mom testified to the way I was sending her money, she has to let me know that it is over her died body that she is going to release the boy to me , I called her Mom, she didn't pick, I was force to use another number to call her before she picked up the call , and told me , that she doesn't owe me an explanation, she hang up , and my dad has to call her , she told my dad that I never took care of the boy, and which is totally a lie, I found out today that the boy she left with her mom , is no longer staying with her mom, the boy has been transferred to another person place which is not even related to them , and during those times that this girl said I never send money I borrowed 50k from my bank gave her 40k , send her money, all the time she asked , I can provide the transaction on my phone, now I'm requesting for the boy to be in my care , please I need advice on how to get him back, I was told if I took the matter to court I will have to wait till 6 years before I can do anything.
Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by marlow1962(m): 6:30pm On Oct 05, 2022
Nawa o
Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by Bluezy13(m): 6:32pm On Oct 05, 2022
You should have just performed a low-key legalized wedding ceremony. Only then would your demand be given a legal hearing.

Now, you can only try every means possible to reach an understanding with her and her family. Good luck with that.
Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by incogni2o: 6:34pm On Oct 05, 2022
What do you want?
Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by jogsman01(m): 6:34pm On Oct 05, 2022
Problem no dey finish angry
Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by Immanuelsnr: 6:35pm On Oct 05, 2022
incogni2o:


What do you want?
I need advice on how to get my son back
Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by H0didon(m): 6:38pm On Oct 05, 2022
You didn't pay any bride price on her head yet you wanna take the child away from her? .
Since you feel she's the reason behind your reckless failures in life, i also feel you shouldn't be part of the son born by the evil mother who you think is the reason for your spiritual problem. You met someone online who guys ain't even sure of her health status yet you Bleep without CD. Error 1!!!



You're just deceiving yourself grin. When you drop prick inside kpekus u no tell us, she born for you u no tell us, she even accomodated u after the delivery u no tell us, when u even pursued her out of your house stylishly u no tell us. It is now that she has decided to do what every reasonable woman will do, that u now decided to tell us....And u have the guts to come here and claim you're the father sad.

If she was the cause of your problem, after that sex, instantly your life will collapse but yet you were still traveling, visiting and spending.After several months, you're now saying she's your cause because you don't like her again but looking for a reason to push her away.



As our Ancestors would say "An unwise man will always find excuse and justify his failure and foolishness".

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Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by Nobody: 6:42pm On Oct 05, 2022
You v to go and beg her family. The matter get kleg and one sided cos we v not heard from your baby mama.
Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by Immanuelsnr: 6:43pm On Oct 05, 2022
Sweetplum:
You v to go and beg her family. The matter get kleg and one sided cos we v not heard from your baby mama.
I can't beg her family, she said she is in a new relationship now, and yes I can post all of our chat
Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by Winnermindset(f): 7:02pm On Oct 05, 2022
I'm reading it now....
Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by Immanuelsnr: 7:18pm On Oct 05, 2022
H0didon:
You didn't pay any bride price on her head yet you wanna take the child away from her? .
Since you feel she's the reason behind your reckless failures in life, i also feel you shouldn't be part of the son born by the evil mother who you think is the reason for your spiritual problem. You met someone online who guys ain't even sure of her health status yet you Bleep without CD. Error 1!!!
Read well I never made mention of her been behind my issues �



You're just deceiving yourself grin. When you drop prick inside kpekus u no tell us, she born for you u no tell us, she even accomodated u after the delivery u no tell us, when u even pursued her out of your house stylishly u no tell us. It is now that she has decided to do what every reasonable woman will do, that u now decided to tell us....And u have the guts to come here and claim you're the father sad.

If she was the cause of your problem, after that sex, instantly your life will collapse but yet you were still traveling, visiting and spending.After several months, you're now saying she's your cause because you don't like her again but looking for a reason to push her away.



As our Ancestors would say "An unwise man will always find excuse and justify his failure and foolishness".
Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by Immanuelsnr: 7:24pm On Oct 05, 2022
H0didon:
You didn't pay any bride price on her head yet you wanna take the child away from her? .
Since you feel she's the reason behind your reckless failures in life, i also feel you shouldn't be part of the son born by the evil mother who you think is the reason for your spiritual problem. You met someone online who guys ain't even sure of her health status yet you Bleep without CD. Error 1!!!



You're just deceiving yourself grin. When you drop prick inside kpekus u no tell us, she born for you u no tell us, she even accomodated u after the delivery u no tell us, when u even pursued her out of your house stylishly u no tell us. It is now that she has decided to do what every reasonable woman will do, that u now decided to tell us....And u have the guts to come here and claim you're the father sad.

If she was the cause of your problem, after that sex, instantly your life will collapse but yet you were still traveling, visiting and spending.After several months, you're now saying she's your cause because you don't like her again but looking for a reason to push her away.



As our Ancestors would say "An unwise man will always find excuse and justify his failure and foolishness".
If you don't have any good thing to say will you just shut the Bleep up
Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by Candidlady: 7:28pm On Oct 05, 2022
God how many times did you come back undecided


Anyways matters on ground.. although idonot care for the kid cos he is a boy child I'd wish her mum could toss/throw her to you.. get rid of that disaster in making

Time bomb that would still bring tears to the family. .

How old is this thing sef that you want the custody... you and your mum want to chase the mum outta your life cos of some sorta spiritual beliefs ko undecided

if iwas the boy I'd sell the thing to you.. payment for my nine months struggle and suffering




••••too stoned to reason now•••

Prepping for man city's game
Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by Holybaddo: 7:29pm On Oct 05, 2022
Let them go
I repeat LET THEM GO
Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by Immanuelsnr: 7:41pm On Oct 05, 2022
Candidlady:
God how many times did you come back undecided


Anyways matters on ground.. although idonot care for the kid cos he is a boy child I'd wish her mum could toss/throw her to you.. get rid of that disaster in making

Time bomb that would still bring tears to the family. .

How old is this thing sef that you want the custody... you and your mum want to chase the mum outta your life cos of some sorta spiritual beliefs ko undecided

if iwas the boy I'd sell the thing to you.. payment for my nine months struggle and suffering




••••too stoned to reason now•••
I never allow my mom to make decisions in my life , I barely tell her what is going on in my life
Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by Candidlady: 7:46pm On Oct 05, 2022
Immanuelsnr:

I never allow my mom to make decisions in my life , I barely tell her what is going on in my life



during that time I was forced to tell my mom what is going on with my life , she went out to church,I don't believe in pastors and prophet, she came back, she told me it is something spiritual, so I took a step, after 3months when I saw that things are not going on well with me , I told my baby mama to go to her mom's house,

Copied from your post


Oya talk another lie
Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by Immanuelsnr: 7:51pm On Oct 05, 2022
Candidlady:




during that time I was forced to tell my mom what is going on with my life , she went out to church,I don't believe in pastors and prophet, she came back, she told me it is something spiritual, so I took a step, after 3months when I saw that things are not going on well with me , I told my baby mama to go to her mom's house,

Copied from your post


Oya talk another lie
But it has nothing to do with the girl
Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by Candidlady: 7:55pm On Oct 05, 2022
Immanuelsnr:

But it has nothing to do with the girl


Okay whatever

Who did they transfer the boy to? And how did you get this Intel that the boy has been transferred to another family.. undecided
Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by Immanuelsnr: 7:57pm On Oct 05, 2022
Candidlady:



Okay whatever

Who did they transfer the boy to? And how did you get this Intel that the boy has been transferred to another family.. undecided
A family friend
Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by incogni2o: 8:05pm On Oct 05, 2022
Immanuelsnr:

I need advice on how to get my son back

Are you joking?

You are aware she carried your Son for 9 months and mother's him

Don't be selfish, plan out a good resolution between you two and meet her like a Man.

You both have joint custody, unless she is an abusive mother or doesn't take care of him well.

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Re: Please Help On How To Get My Son Back by advanceDNA: 8:14pm On Oct 05, 2022
Immanuelsnr:
Good evening sir /ma
I got into a relationship with a girl last year, we started online, everything was going fine, I came back from Benin where I stay to meet her, my parents lives in Akure, so after we met, we had sex and it leads to pregnancy, things was going on fine for me , I told her to keep the pregnancy, since I was almost done with my house, and I'm almost done with schooling, I didn't stay in Akure those period, she agree to keep the pregnancy, I told my parents after that, and I have to inform her parents myself because before we get to know about the preg, I visited her parents once, I came back a week to her delivery date, she gave birth, I went back to Benin when she gave birth , and during her period of pregnancy she stays with my parents, so I left after she gave birth to stay at my own place in Benin, I came back after a month to check on her , so the problem started when I came back I had some terrible dream , that signify backwardness in life , first I didn't take it serious, but the dream went on for 2 weeks, I do pray about it but , I don't know I have to go out to church, I was going out one day and I met a man who said I should pray, I want to give the man money I thought he was hungry, he rejected, I got home that day I didn't tell anyone, that week, I lost all my source of income, meanwhile the previous week before I lost my source, during that time I was forced to tell my mom what is going on with my life , she went out to church,I don't believe in pastors and prophet, she came back, she told me it is something spiritual, so I took a step, after 3months when I saw that things are not going on well with me , I told my baby mama to go to her mom's house, she took the boy along, so fast forward to some month later she asked for breakup ,and I was happy about it cause I noticed somethings when she left ,I gave her what she wants, and I requested for my son , that's where problem started , she has to call my aunt's, her brother and told them that when she left that I never send her anything nor took responsibility over the child, I was surprised when I heard that from my Aunt, my mom has to come in because I don't like to tell my parents what is going on in my life, my mom testified to the way I was sending her money, she has to let me know that it is over her died body that she is going to release the boy to me , I called her Mom, she didn't pick, I was force to use another number to call her before she picked up the call , and told me , that she doesn't owe me an explanation, she hang up , and my dad has to call her , she told my dad that I never took care of the boy, and which is totally a lie, I found out today that the boy she left with her mom , is no longer staying with her mom, the boy has been transferred to another person place which is not even related to them , and during those times that this girl said I never send money I borrowed 50k from my bank gave her 40k , send her money, all the time she asked , I can provide the transaction on my phone, now I'm requesting for the boy to be in my care , please I need advice on how to get him back, I was told if I took the matter to court I will have to wait till 6 years before I can do anything.

Two things are involved:

One...the baby was never yours....she dumped it on your before ....now the real father is in the picture.....if u keep at it...she will play this card....

Two.... she has found another higher bidder that wants to marry her and doesnt eant you to disturb her parole.... she has probably told said u are not in the picture.....

because i see no reason why they wont let u see your son, claiming u ddnt send any money...
..its not like u dissapeared for years....its a fresh matter..

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