Discountsempai:


First things first, ignore all those who say your wife is cheating. There are women who cheat and show zero warning signs.

Second, time to talk with your wife. Ask after her day, listen to her as she talks about the day. Gossip with her. Laugh with her and smile with her.

Third, help your wife. Clean the dishes after mealtimes. Help.clean the house. Buy her something.

Note that i have said that you should not talk about seggs and all that...yet.

Start communicating with your wife. The way i see it, you are not doing that. You are also far more interested in having madam meet your needs than you meet her needs.

Want to know why women cheat?. Women want to be listened to. Many men who snatch other men's women don't go into the woman's house and demand sex like that. They listen to the woman and make her feel like someone is hearing her. ( that's the short version of what two playboys told an interviewer about their wife catching strategy)Have you been listening to your wife.? Are you listening to her? Or is she just a erotic doll for you? Only one that walks and talks and can reason?

Go and listen to your wife. Ask after her work, her life, her friends, etc. Talk about the kids. Stop listening to the people who say.she is a cheat. Stop thinking too much about you.

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Brother, I won't be surprised if your wife rules the affairs in your house.
Young boys should learn to love their women & take care of them. They should never succumb to domestication.

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

prime minister of SIMP

Just because of pussy this simp is crying

Dirtyyansh:
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Brother, I won't be surprised if your wife rules the affairs in your house.
Young boys should learn to love their women & take care of them. They should never succumb to domestication.

The advice was not meant for you.

Good evening

@OP, you will soon die there cos that is the only way she can be with her lover without the society frowning.

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

How are you certain the kids are yours pls go and do DNA test cox if she can cheat on you now what's the probability she didn't before getting pregnant..pls my man go do DNA abeg..nor go train person pikin oh

How the fuxk u say u cry at your office.....
If I were you.........
I'd divorce her ass already......
Yeah get DNA done on your kids too...




She doesn't love u no more, nor got any feelings for ya...
Your the one in love...pity u would only but continue to suffer, depress, regret and u will only but keep begging her cuz she has u in her pussy already....


Your the wife at this stage....(cry, cook, care for kids, house chores, no sex lol)
Damn......your a maid

Marriage advice and we have up to Seven pages gone already.......
Check some comments here.......lols
Wisdom in marriage for a man is not in his powers and strength but in his ability to surprise his wife.....

OP....I guess you are just one kind of a person to her....
Atimes change it for her based on wisdom....

A man is a strategist in marriage......he sits down not to cry but to weigh in so many ideas on how to handle his marriage....

In all you said, I didn't see where you wrote that you say her down and talked to her........

It seems like you always like to equal yourself with her in issues.....No , is not good ....

Atimes, sit her down and talk to her......then tell her your mind if she fails to dress up her misbehaviours equally try to know your own wrongs as well as no one is perfect......

But of in all these, she still appears adamant, then invite the parents to talk to her or any body she listens to and respects ......

If that didn't work, then consider your kids and make her feel alright with a divorce......

Pls crying has never solved anything.....you have to man up and face what is before you.....

Don't try to beat her pls......your children are watching ....
You will lose once you beat her .......play a game of wisdom on her, that's why you are a man....

Discountsempai:


First things first, ignore all those who say your wife is cheating. There are women who cheat and show zero warning signs.

Second, time to talk with your wife. Ask after her day, listen to her as she talks about the day. Gossip with her. Laugh with her and smile with her.

Third, help your wife. Clean the dishes after mealtimes. Help.clean the house. Buy her something.

Note that i have said that you should not talk about seggs and all that...yet.

Start communicating with your wife. The way i see it, you are not doing that. You are also far more interested in having madam meet your needs than you meet her needs.

Want to know why women cheat?. Women want to be listened to. Many men who snatch other men's women don't go into the woman's house and demand sex like that. They listen to the woman and make her feel like someone is hearing her. ( that's the short version of what two playboys told an interviewer about their wife catching strategy)Have you been listening to your wife.? Are you listening to her? Or is she just a erotic doll for you? Only one that walks and talks and can reason?

Go and listen to your wife. Ask after her work, her life, her friends, etc. Talk about the kids. Stop listening to the people who say.she is a cheat. Stop thinking too much about you.

but she picks calls at odd hours,listen to video calls wth a man's voice dts whr d issue of cheating is bn traced out,if na to do domestic core alone or tiredness which can hapen 2 anyone thats wen one cnt say cheatg

Sheistoopretty:


I knew it I've always known that my gender was the reason behind your wailings and frustrations on every thread that concerns women on this forum I love your tears, won't u like to book space with your other moniker to lament more?

To that lady who broke your heart, may God bless her abundantly F**lish mis*rable broke Simp turned Redpiller wannabe

Fine girl afar.... Hope you nor be boy ohh

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

Men don't cry �� men go out and get side Baby period!!!!

If she stop having sex with you, then stop having sex with her too and if you suspect she's cheating on you then kick her out, AND STOP BEING A SIMP, ALL YOU MEN NEED TO WAKE UP BEFORE WOMEN TURN WE ALL MEN TO ENDANGERED SPECIE

I think you should be patient with her...women commonly have loss of libido after child birth some even have painful sex and only manage to give you sex....don't be quick to think she is cheating. But just be caring enough to wean her back to normal live.

Honestly if a woman is cheating behind you, she will still be giving you good sex and pick her calls behind you not with your knowledge.

Except she cheats before you marry her sha

Zonefree:

He's SIMPly in love. A man in love is a foolish man. My last relationship with a Nigerian girl made me understand that it takes a man without brain to love a Nigerian girl.

Easy easy...bro.

OP is passing through that see finish stage..Where he allowed a lot get out of his control as the head.

It will cost him a lot to fix his problems.

I mean a married woman entertains calls at odd hours and even hides her chats from her acclaimed husband..smh

How it should go for offenders of love

HeadNigga:
She is cheating. You have one option which tis to throw her out(divorce). Her eyes go clear when the man deceiving her refuses to come take charge openly as her man.

Two bad options

Start getting sex elsewhere too but do it with protection so that when her madness stops you don't infect her with a disease you contracted while playing away matches. I hope the man is not digging her raw though coz in her case she will not only bring back a deadly disease but a bastard too.


The last option which is not an option is to endure coz you have endured enough from what I read. Endure cheating? Hell no. Man up

You sure say nor be the woman go carry infection from outside come give OP?

Bro she's fvcking someone else,she's always complaining of body pain and you kept quiet��...you no dey Bleep her yet she dey get body pain as if she dey hawk bread.

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

You are clearly a weakling and seem to be the WOMAN of the house. Continue to play that role please as that is what you are. You may however choose to REDEFINE yourself if you wish.
It is amazing HOW some came into the world with joysticks!

clydecarson:
Bro she's fvcking someone else,she's always complaining of body pain and you kept quiet��...you no dey Bleep her yet she dey get body pain as if she dey hawk bread.

Even those who hawk break de hammer well for their house to massage the body...

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

Cry no more and wipe your tears.

You see that is life for you. Prepare for war and you must use wisdom to fight it. Divert her calls or secretly set her phone to record while making calls . Get her phone and harvest all the recordings as an evidence .

Get the man's number and talk to him about it , if he calls your bluff record it and head to a court and institute criminal charges against him and many more.

Tell her mother and insist on doing a DNA for the children . Check her reaction and deny her access to certain privileges you have given her before.

Don't blink an eye and don't be fooled. Ensure you monitor her to get the facts so you won't look stupid when the matter is about to be settled. If she doesn't change send her a divorce letter before she kills you. They are somehow in thinking. Not until they self destroy their own marriage , their eyes doesn't come down.

Oga another man is shining that congo know this and have peace.

It's either you divorce her or you live to regret it.

Red flags:

Doesn't care about the kids

Doesn't cook for the family

Answer calls at odd hours

Listen to voice notes from a man

Doesn't want you to know the person she's always talking with

Avoids having sex with you

DrKinggi:
I think you should be patient with her...women commonly have loss of libido after child birth some even have painful sex and only manage to give you sex....don't be quick to think she is cheating. But just be caring enough to wean her back to normal live.

Honestly if a woman is cheating behind you, she will still be giving you good sex and pick her calls behind you not with your knowledge.

Except she cheats before you marry her sha

WTF is this?
You should be advising that sad excuse of a man ( who cries because of a woman) to go do a DNA test asap, not this balderish.
Spits on your forehead.

shineeye1:


Even those who hawk break de hammer well for their house to massage the body...

I dey tell you

ObamaMessi:
Women are all useless regardless of their origin.

Nawao!!
And u hv a mum.such a disregard to d women in ur family. Be careful of what u say online,bro. Some things are better left unsaid.
Being responsible pays.

wizod:
she is having an extra marital affair and wants d man to impregnate her so that she will have a baby that will make her to always remember d man she's currently dating.
Any day she takes in from d man, she will start sleeping with you.
Mark my words

you don use laugh break my ribs. Go into comedy bro

Nawao, this marriage of a thing don turn warfare o.

Like a matured and grown adult crying just because the wife is showing him shege and pepper in his own house.

God abeg o

If everything you said about your wife is true, then it may be she's truly cheating on you. I think there's a communication disconnect between you guys that's why things degenerated to that sorry state. You say you are not harsh and provide all your family need, but truth is, that's not enough to make a woman love you wholeheartedly and be loyal. Do you bang her well? Do you show her love sincerely? I think you should have a talk with her and know what's really the issue. Put these charges before her and tell her you have notice the changes in her since she started receiving strange calls at night and listen to VN from a man. if she does not change afterwards, then she can go Bleep herself.

Once a woman is having extramarital affair, provided the man is innocent and loyal. Divorce her straight.



Damn.

I hate women.

Zonefree:


That's good. I endorse your tears.

Weeping and sorrow are what makes a man amazingly SIMPle.

Hahaha, una go kill person with laugh for nairaland.com

ObamaMessi:
Women are all useless regardless of their origin.

Are u trying to say your mum is also useless?

my broda. We are in d same shoes. Patience is a virtue, just 4 the sake of ur kids,

Comrade, where be your work environment abeg?

Creamypie:
Me, though I still get atom of likeness for woman, but deep down, d only role I believe they are expected play in man life na to give birth to Una 2 kids. Only the absence of it go break my heart. Nothing. I repeat nothing and no part of my life dey for woman hand. P...sy plenty around my work environment wey I dey choose at will. Thank you

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

Truth is that she's cheating. Women don't know how to hide their emotions once they start cheating they hate sexx with u. That's exactly what my ex did until I found out. Yours is also glaring, she's cheating qed