Good day naira landers and happy holiday. I am writing this base on the challenge am having in my marriage. Some of you might have known little about the issue i had previously cos i brought it to the forum.

It happened that my wife was having emotional affairs with another man which i knew through her chat.

Though family and pastor were involved and have tried everything to resolve the issue between us. I have decided to forgive and forget and also give her a second chance even though it was a difficult situation for me, I decided to let go cos of my two daughters and don't want them to share from a broken home.

Now the issue am still having is that my wife has promise to change and be a better person and also promise to cut any emotional tile with the man. But I wasn't confident with that, so i told her to block this guy on all social media and also delete his number so there wont be any communication between them cos i sense if they both keep in touch, they might go back to what they were doing before. She got angry when i told her this and she said she can't block the guy cos they have been friends for many years even before she got married to me.

She started dating the guy last year under my roof and her reason was that i pushed her to do such act cos i wasn't giving her enough attention and love which is totally a lie.

So house, pls just let me know if i did wrong by telling her to block the guy or i over did it. I just felt blocking him will be best for us cos i noticed my wife is not fully detached from this guy emotionally.

Pls if you are in my shoes, what will you do house. If you want to get more insight about what transpired, you can go to my details nairaland.

Pls mod, help me by doing the needful.

Be brave, real men act.


Send the bitch away or face what is to come

Since you're looking for what will help you end your marriage I will help with few tips.

1. Clone her social media account
2. Get a friend from the telecom sector to provide you with her monthly call details.

All the best.

There is nothing wrong with what u did.

If they are still in contact they will surely go back to their love page,try blocking the guy by taking her phone without her knowing

u didn't do wrong.
she just wants to have her way.
she has jeopardise your trust of her, but it's an issue she might not understand or want to accept
also, to be very sure, she change her number.
all her lines.
she must break them in your presence.


if she wants to stand with the guy, don't beg. allow her go.
but,
if she wants to stand with u , then u will know.
looks like she is torn BTW both of u.
clearly make your point to her but never beg .
a woman was created for a man and not vice versa.

Too many weak men these days.. someone is having an affair with your wife and all you can do is to tell her to block her joy giver and yet she told you no, with a flimsy excuse of knowing the bastard before you..
Oga that guy is more important than you and you shouldn't be surprised if He lay claim to your daughters because he was banging your wife before you knew and got married to her and is still banging your wife.
Ones a woman taste another prick and she cum, my brother just forget it.
Leave that wife ASAP so that we will not see obituary of a nairalander.
Ì know you won't listen because, your type na SIMP.

Honestly the things we read these days! See ehn, the reason why God had to discipline Adam in spite of his giving a reasonable escuse was because Adam was a weak man.

If I were you, I will send her packing immediately by throwing her things over my fence and notifying her people that their daughter is no longer with me, as she loves prostitution more than marriage.

That extreme action ehn will place every soul attached to her including herself on guard. She will not just delete all the social media accounts while on her knees (when we go to settle again in her father's house), but she will swear never to use social media again, willingly.
Ladies disrespect and hate weak men. Stand your guard and take charge.

Cease being the husband of a hoe that refuses to depart from whoredom!

Afodot0022:
Good day naira landers and happy holiday. I am writing this base on the challenge am having in my marriage. Some of you might have known little about the issue i had previously cos i brought it to the forum. It happened that my wife was having emotional affairs with another man which i knew through her chat. Though family and pastor were involved and have tried everything to resolve the issue between us. I have decided to forgive and forget and also give her a second chance even though it was a difficult situation for me, i decided to let go cos of my two daughters and dont want them to share from a broken home. Now the issue am still having is that my wife has promise to change and be a better person and also promise to cut any emotional tile with the man. But i wasnt confident with that, so i told her to block this guy on all social media and also delete his number so there wont be any communication between them cos i sense if they both keep in touch, they might go back to what they were doing before. She was got angry when i told her this and she said she cant block the guy cos they have been friends for many years even before she got married to me. She started dating the guy last year under my roof and her reason was that i pushed her to do such act cos i wasnt giving her enough attention and love which is totally a lie. So house, pls just let me know if i did wrong by telling her to block the guy or i over did it. I just felt blocking him will be best for us cos i noticed my wife is not fully detached from this guy emotionally. Pls if you are in my shoes, what will you do house. If you want to get more insight about what transpired, you can go to my details nairaland

Pls mod, help me by doing the needful

It's been ten years now that I got married to my ulomi babe though am from the middle belt.. Let me tell you pint blank that any woman that has the guts to cheat in marriage will cheat again and again.
As for me I cannot accept any cheating woman, no second chance reason been that she may claim to change, yet that change might be change in strategies on how to do it without your knowledge.
Send any woman that cheat away without the knowledge of her parents or your parents, this is because they will discourage you from doing so.

The bible is clear about adultery and is the only condition for divorce.

Most of you behaves as if you have covenant with Toto.
How sure are you that the two kids are even yours?
The lady said she have been dating the guy before she marry you, yet you are arguing with her that it was last year.
Allow the olosho to sleep, remove her sim card or use razor blade to damage the sim through the lines in the sim card... or just drop some water in the phone and watch what happens next.


But to be honest, you just carry dick you are not a man.

Me,accept and still Bleep a who're under my roof.

Toktee:
It's been ten years now that I got married to my ulomi babe though am from the middle belt.. Let me tell you pint blank that any woman that has the guts to cheat in marriage will cheat again and again.
As for me I cannot accept any cheating woman, no second chance reason been that she may claim to change, yet that change might be change in strategies on how to do it without your knowledge.
Send any woman that cheat away without the knowledge of her parents or your parents, this is because they will discourage you from doing so.

The big league OS clear about adultery and is the only condition for divorce.

Most of you behaves as if you have covenant with Toto.
How sure are you that the two kids are even yours?
The lady said she have been dating the guy before she marry you, yet you are arguing with her that it was last year.
Allow the olosho to sleep, remove her sim card or use razor blade to damage the sim through the lines in the sim card... or just drop some water in the phone and watch what happens next.


But to be honest, you just carry dick you are not a man.

Me accept and still Bleep a who're under my roof.

This man is playing with his life. That woman can kill him to go be with that dick.

Why do some men stop giving their wives attention after they marry them?
One foolish one once typed "Do politicians still campaign after winning elections?"
That foolish comment got over 2k likes as at when I saw it.

Dear men (husbands), you need to do better.
Women (your wives) love attention and you owe them that attention.
You need to give them as much attention as they need, so that no other man would matter to them.
Not everything is achieved with force and order.
You all need to do better.

Afodot0022:
Good day naira landers and happy holiday. I am writing this base on the challenge am having in my marriage. Some of you might have known little about the issue i had previously cos i brought it to the forum. It happened that my wife was having emotional affairs with another man which i knew through her chat. Though family and pastor were involved and have tried everything to resolve the issue between us. I have decided to forgive and forget and also give her a second chance even though it was a difficult situation for me, i decided to let go cos of my two daughters and dont want them to share from a broken home. Now the issue am still having is that my wife has promise to change and be a better person and also promise to cut any emotional tile with the man. But i wasnt confident with that, so i told her to block this guy on all social media and also delete his number so there wont be any communication between them cos i sense if they both keep in touch, they might go back to what they were doing before. She was got angry when i told her this and she said she cant block the guy cos they have been friends for many years even before she got married to me. She started dating the guy last year under my roof and her reason was that i pushed her to do such act cos i wasnt giving her enough attention and love which is totally a lie. So house, pls just let me know if i did wrong by telling her to block the guy or i over did it. I just felt blocking him will be best for us cos i noticed my wife is not fully detached from this guy emotionally. Pls if you are in my shoes, what will you do house. If you want to get more insight about what transpired, you can go to my details nairaland

Pls mod, help me by doing the needful

let her not block the guy but start monitoring her conversation with the guy. You are free to hack her phone, once it crosses the line, send her packing

Reinamaria:
Why do some men stop giving their wives attention after they marry them?
One foolish one once typed "Do politicians still campaign after winning elections?"
That foolish comment got over 2k likes as at when I saw it.

Dear men (husbands), you need to do better.
Women (your wives) love attention and you owe them that attention.
You need to give them as much attention as they need, so that no other man would matter to them.
Not everything is achieved with force and order.
You all need to do better.

If you catch a thief, he/she will always have a reason for stealing. A cheat will always give a reason for cheating. Her husband clearly said her reasons were not valid. When they can’t find any, they easily blame it on the devil.

Newsflash; there is no justification for cheating! None!!!

LordIsaac:

This man is playing with his life. That woman can kill him to go be with that dick.

A woman that cheat will cheat again.

Reinamaria:
Why do some men stop giving their wives attention after they marry them?
One foolish one once typed "Do politicians still campaign after winning elections?"
That foolish comment got over 2k likes as at when I saw it.

Dear men (husbands), you need to do better.
Women (your wives) love attention and you owe them that attention.
You need to give them as much attention as they need, so that no other man would matter to them.
Not everything is achieved with force and order.
You all need to do better.

Any cheating woman can give any flimsy reason to justify her immoral acts.

There's no excuse for cheating in marriage.

Na wa oh. Bro you allow a cheating wife remain under your roof. RIP in advance

Lets hear from your wife too, there are always three sides to a story, the complaint, the accused and the truth. You can paint her all wrong from your write up but that doesn't mean you're faultless.
How many attention have you been giving her, how has been your love life after marriage, are you showering her with romatic words and gift? You said she is having emotional affair. Have you ever thought if she's been abused emotionally by you her husband? Imagine you said you almost hit her in one of your thread. How will a loving husband do such to his wife?

From what i have read, you need to work on your self as a husband. Be a loving and romantic husband, try and always keep fit. Take her outings often. If you're too busy to take her on a treat, you can bring the treat home. It shouldn't be quarrels or arguments all the time.

An emotionally abused wife is vulnerable and can easily be carried away by a guy who is good with romantic words.

Water don pass garri

I am surprised you both are still married to each other, going by your previous threads.

Afodot0022:
Good day naira landers and happy holiday. I am writing this base on the challenge am having in my marriage. Some of you might have known little about the issue i had previously cos i brought it to the forum. It happened that my wife was having emotional affairs with another man which i knew through her chat. Though family and pastor were involved and have tried everything to resolve the issue between us. I have decided to forgive and forget and also give her a second chance even though it was a difficult situation for me, i decided to let go cos of my two daughters and dont want them to share from a broken home. Now the issue am still having is that my wife has promise to change and be a better person and also promise to cut any emotional tile with the man. But i wasnt confident with that, so i told her to block this guy on all social media and also delete his number so there wont be any communication between them cos i sense if they both keep in touch, they might go back to what they were doing before. She was got angry when i told her this and she said she cant block the guy cos they have been friends for many years even before she got married to me. She started dating the guy last year under my roof and her reason was that i pushed her to do such act cos i wasnt giving her enough attention and love which is totally a lie. So house, pls just let me know if i did wrong by telling her to block the guy or i over did it. I just felt blocking him will be best for us cos i noticed my wife is not fully detached from this guy emotionally. Pls if you are in my shoes, what will you do house. If you want to get more insight about what transpired, you can go to my details nairaland

Pls mod, help me by doing the needful

so mumu man still dey this life chia!

This guy matter tire person. He should have divorced that woman long ago. A married woman that has the guts to tell her husband that she can't delete the number of her lover from her phone is a lost case. Let her go if you don't want to die young.

If she is truly repentant and values her home, she would be the one to block the guy in all forms. Ask her if she wants the marriage or the old friendship? Her response should guide you on the next thing to do. This is a choice question and do not accept any answer that suggests she is sitting on the fence.

That said, you shouldn't have given her such a suggestion. It doesn't portray your intentions to take back your home. Apparently, you have made it known you are willing to keep considering her no matter what happens for the sake of your girls.

It seems to me that those who intervened do not have the requisite skill to handle matters like this.

The first step would be to fully explore the reasons your wife started this affair. It's most likely that some unresolved childhood trauma was the cause. Unless the whole spectrum is explored and resolved, the incidence of infidelity would always be present in your relationship.

Considering the fact that you like to preserve your marriage, I advise you see a professional marriage counselor.

The task of a counsellor is to help you take a wiser decision, not necessarily to preserve your marriage at all costs.

You may choose to contact me for guidance on this.

Afodot0022:
Good day naira landers and happy holiday. I am writing this base on the challenge am having in my marriage. Some of you might have known little about the issue i had previously cos i brought it to the forum. It happened that my wife was having emotional affairs with another man which i knew through her chat. Though family and pastor were involved and have tried everything to resolve the issue between us. I have decided to forgive and forget and also give her a second chance even though it was a difficult situation for me, i decided to let go cos of my two daughters and dont want them to share from a broken home. Now the issue am still having is that my wife has promise to change and be a better person and also promise to cut any emotional tile with the man. But i wasnt confident with that, so i told her to block this guy on all social media and also delete his number so there wont be any communication between them cos i sense if they both keep in touch, they might go back to what they were doing before. She was got angry when i told her this and she said she cant block the guy cos they have been friends for many years even before she got married to me. She started dating the guy last year under my roof and her reason was that i pushed her to do such act cos i wasnt giving her enough attention and love which is totally a lie. So house, pls just let me know if i did wrong by telling her to block the guy or i over did it. I just felt blocking him will be best for us cos i noticed my wife is not fully detached from this guy emotionally. Pls if you are in my shoes, what will you do house. If you want to get more insight about what transpired, you can go to my details nairaland

Pls mod, help me by doing the needful

You are a weak and fool.ish simp. She is the husband while you are the wife.

Chai....dem dey panelbeat your wife with 12 inches gbola

I feel your pain mehn....sorry

First of all you caught your wife cheating and you forgave and forgot about the issue and gave her a second chance to come back to your house and continue her infidelity under your roof

Secondly your major problem is her unwillingness to block the guy on social media while forgetting that she has not blocked him in person ,last time I checked,they don't have sex on social media,she can block him in your presence and book him in a hotel in your absence to continue receiving gbola

Finally I am shocked at the op who after all clear indications that the Delilah has refused to change,still wants to harbour her so she can ultimately call the Philistines to finish him after she has sapped his hair I mean his strength

If you no understand the parable,no vex but I am ashamed on your behalf ...spits!!

Afodot0022:
Good day naira landers and happy holiday. I am writing this base on the challenge am having in my marriage. Some of you might have known little about the issue i had previously cos i brought it to the forum. It happened that my wife was having emotional affairs with another man which i knew through her chat. Though family and pastor were involved and have tried everything to resolve the issue between us. I have decided to forgive and forget and also give her a second chance even though it was a difficult situation for me, i decided to let go cos of my two daughters and dont want them to share from a broken home. Now the issue am still having is that my wife has promise to change and be a better person and also promise to cut any emotional tile with the man. But i wasnt confident with that, so i told her to block this guy on all social media and also delete his number so there wont be any communication between them cos i sense if they both keep in touch, they might go back to what they were doing before. She was got angry when i told her this and she said she cant block the guy cos they have been friends for many years even before she got married to me. She started dating the guy last year under my roof and her reason was that i pushed her to do such act cos i wasnt giving her enough attention and love which is totally a lie. So house, pls just let me know if i did wrong by telling her to block the guy or i over did it. I just felt blocking him will be best for us cos i noticed my wife is not fully detached from this guy emotionally. Pls if you are in my shoes, what will you do house. If you want to get more insight about what transpired, you can go to my details nairaland

Pls mod, help me by doing the needful

This is simping on another level entirely.

What if I tell you those two daughters aren’t yours

Go carry out a DNA test, they are owned by the guy. Too many weak men walking around today.

LordIsaac:
Honestly the things we read these days! See ehn, the reason why God had to discipline Adam in spite of him giving a correct escuse was because Adam was a weak man.

If I were you, I will send her packing immediately by throwing her things over my fence and notifying her people that their daughter is no longer with me, as she loves prostitution more than marriage.

That extreme action ehn will place every soul attached to her including herself on guard. She will not just delete all the social media account on her knees (when we go to settle again in her father's house), but she will swear never to use social media again willingly.
Ladies disrespect and hate weak men. Stand your guard and take charge.

Cease being the husband of a hoe that refuses to depart from whoredom!

Ladies disrespect and hate weak men. Stand your guard and take charge.

Cease being the husband of a hoe that refuses to depart from whoredom!

You see that last statement of yours encompasses everything. Nigerians ladies adores tough men a lot.

Go and do DNA for your children first. Then you should act like a man. This question you are asking is making you look like a sissy.

Toktee:
It's been ten years now that I got married to my ulomi babe though am from the middle belt.. Let me tell you pint blank that any woman that has the guts to cheat in marriage will cheat again and again.
As for me I cannot accept any cheating woman, no second chance reason been that she may claim to change, yet that change might be change in strategies on how to do it without your knowledge.
Send any woman that cheat away without the knowledge of her parents or your parents, this is because they will discourage you from doing so.

The bible is clear about adultery and is the only condition for divorce.

Most of you behaves as if you have covenant with Toto.
How sure are you that the two kids are even yours?
The lady said she have been dating the guy before she marry you, yet you are arguing with her that it was last year.
Allow the olosho to sleep, remove her sim card or use razor blade to damage the sim through the lines in the sim card... or just drop some water in the phone and watch what happens next.


But to be honest, you just carry dick you are not a man.

Me,accept and still Bleep a who're under my roof.

Bros you deserve one crate of cold beer. Once a woman cheats on you with another man especially when they both had a mind blowing sex. Omo forget she go fvck That nigga again and again.

LordIsaac:

This man is playing with his life. That woman can kill him to go be with that dick.

It’s already evident she will never leave that guy.

Reinamaria:
Why do some men stop giving their wives attention after they marry them?
One foolish one once typed "Do politicians still campaign after winning elections?"
That foolish comment got over 2k likes as at when I saw it.

Dear men (husbands), you need to do better.
Women (your wives) love attention and you owe them that attention.
You need to give them as much attention as they need, so that no other man would matter to them.
Not everything is achieved with force and order.
You all need to do better.

Just look at this one defending nonsense because she’s a woman. I hope you will give this same advice if this were to be happening to your brother or some close male relative ??

Women are known to be very hypocritical when something isn’t happening to them directly. Even the ones they show all the love, care, good sex and all the attention still cheats.

No wonder Olamide sang Wonmado and that song is reality of women.