Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by Nobody: 4:58am On Oct 12, 2022 |
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Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by VladimirPutiin(m): 6:56am On Oct 12, 2022 |
omaira:
I’m in my late 20s and yeah you’re right when you say I don’t understand the character of an average Nigerian girl because all my life I’ve never really known what relationship feels like. This was actually my first time of being in a relationship because I had to give my focus to studies and get a good job at the early stages of my life. I’m happy I’ve been able to pursue and achieve most of the things I dreamt of becoming in life and for this reason I decided to taste what relationship really is and boom!! I met this girl.
It’s quite a sad experience but I’m happy for the lessons learnt. I feel more knowledgeable on how to go about with the next girl that comes into my life.
But I still got this p*ssy for supper just for the weather. That’s good. You can only keep the hoe for sexual pleasures but play safe though. There are still good girls out there no doubt. Just look in a different direction. |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by EzegeNdiigbo: 7:32am On Oct 12, 2022 |
Mehn you're straight I like that Lalami3232: .... First question wey I wan ask this OP be say "how old are you? " See as you write epistle of rubbish and gibberish. Some of una no even deserve to dey wear trousers like us ooooo, una suppose dey wear skirt. See as you dey list very irrelevant things because you want validation from us wey no care a dime about you. Who cares if you sabi fvck? Who cares if you dey inherit her family problem? Who cares if you dey sort her bill? Who cares if you no get sense to know what's right and wrong? The answers to the aforementioned questions be say "NONE OF US CARE" atall. If at this your age you never get sense to know your right from your wrong, then I'm certain that the parable of a F00L at 40 maybe wrong because you may not get to that age before we go know say you join the category. Some of una go bring mumu matter come here when una already know wetin to do. Make I just give you one simple advise sha. As she dey stay with you so eeh, if she go do one hookup and something bad happens, na you na her family go hold responsible ooo, just have it in mind.
I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "Instead of person to born mumu as a child, it's better make the person born thief" Demigod22: After reading the low budget modelled English romance story, I smiled in order not to insult OP.
Either op invented this story to get reactions or OP is smoking the same weed with Potable and FFK.
How can a reasonable man cope with a cheating partner? She is poor, according to you, you decided to become her sidecock and when the main guy left the overused kpekus, you gladly inherited it like your birthright. Someone that serially cheated on her boyfriend with you is the same girl you want her to be faithful?
OP is even busy forgiving the community kpekus. OP, your girlfriend is democracy, kpekus by the boys, of the boys and for the boys.
The distance between this OP and sense is like Akwa Ibom to Sokoto, veeerrryyy faaaaaaarrr. Nwanne you geh bad mouth hmmm |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by omaira: 7:51am On Oct 12, 2022 |
VladimirPutiin:
That’s good. You can only keep the hoe for sexual pleasures but play safe though.
There are still good girls out there no doubt. Just look in a different direction. Yeah.. I strongly believe there are good girls out there.. I just have to watch out for their characters and not their beauty. |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by omaira: 7:51am On Oct 12, 2022 |
EzegeNdiigbo: Mehn you're straight I like that
Nwanne you geh bad mouth hmmm Lol... but they’re actually saying the truth. 1 Like |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by Hed0nist: 7:53am On Oct 12, 2022 |
omaira:
I’m in my late 20s and yeah you’re right when you say I don’t understand the character of an average Nigerian girl because all my life I’ve never really known what relationship feels like. This was actually my first time of being in a relationship because I had to give my focus to studies and get a good job at the early stages of my life. I’m happy I’ve been able to pursue and achieve most of the things I dreamt of becoming in life and for this reason I decided to taste what relationship really is and boom!! I met this girl.
It’s quite a sad experience but I’m happy for the lessons learnt. I feel more knowledgeable on how to go about with the next girl that comes into my life.
But I still got this p*ssy for supper just for the weather. Hope say you de use condom? Condom sef no de protect from herpes. There are a lot of things you can contract just by kissing her (herpes, hepatitis C and D). I’m not sure of HPV. Once a girl cheats on someone who is basically providing everything for her, there’s little else she can’t do. Learn to say no cheating partners, it doesn’t end well. It also stinks of neediness. |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by omaira: 7:53am On Oct 12, 2022 |
LawMan44: . Yeah, but we can avoid the night mare. All we just have to do is to avoid falling asleep deeply and be more cautious. Thanks for your words. |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by omaira: 7:55am On Oct 12, 2022 |
Hed0nist:
Hope say you de use condom? Condom sef no de protect from herpes. There are a lot of things you can contract just by kissing her (herpes, hepatitis C and D). I’m not sure of HPV.
Once a girl cheats on someone who is basically providing everything for her, there’s little else she can’t do. Learn to say no cheating partners, it doesn’t end well. It also stinks of neediness. . Yeah. My brother a cheating woman is the worse thing that can ever happen to a man. They’ll deprive you of your peace, happiness, e.t.c. |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by omaira: 7:59am On Oct 12, 2022 |
kelspinall: relationship is not what it was painted to be..the white fooled us believing their damn telenovelas, it's all lies.. is hard to find a faithful gal and gals can never be satisfied,no!! no!! no!!...i wish the younger lads will hear this...
sorry man..your first mistake was accepting her back twice when you caught her cheating..gals has this mentality of"he will always forgive,even if i cheat again" ..break up with thaa #oe Lol... bro ur no! no! no! Gat me laughing. Accepting her back was not a mistake but being blind to her flaws and dieing in silence in the name of love would have earned me an award as the greatest fool of the year. And lastly, I ensured I had no feelings for her anymore before I made my decision so I don’t have to start being a whimp. 1 Like |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by VladimirPutiin(m): 8:05am On Oct 12, 2022 |
omaira:
Yeah.. I strongly believe there are good girls out there.. I just have to watch out for their characters and not their beauty. You are right. You see these beautiful girls with big Yansh and breasts have too much body counts. And it’s not good wifing such women. |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by omaira: 8:08am On Oct 12, 2022 |
VladimirPutiin:
You are right. You see these beautiful girls with big Yansh and breasts have too much body counts. And it’s not good wifing such women. . I actually thought I could make her be stable. Like why would a girl be following several man ?? Probably to meet up to her demands. My brother, I did meet up her demands but a hoe will always be a hoe. |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by VladimirPutiin(m): 8:10am On Oct 12, 2022 |
omaira: .
I actually thought I could make her be stable. Like why would a girl be following several man ?? Probably to meet up to her demands. My brother, I did meet up her demands but a hoe will always be a hoe. See what I told one of my guy this morning. |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by SenecaTheYonger: 8:13am On Oct 12, 2022 |
How come no one wants to talk about why this is happening? It’s a common theme nowadays omaira: Well, I feel very happy to have my own fair share of this day to day breakfast that’s served on relationship. But in this case, I wasn’t dumbed rather, I tried to make peace with her while I stopped loving her.
It all started 2 years ago when I met this girl, she was everything I had always admired in a woman, I talked to her and we started up as friends and after a period of about 4 months we started dating. Meanwhile she had a guy in her life oooooo but I didn’t even care as I just wanted to be in her life.
Initially, I had thought she was from a very wealthy home considering her beauty and looks, she always dress nice but when I started dating her, I automatically became the bread winner in the family. She was dead broke but I never mind, my likeness for her didn’t change a bit... I mean, I still liked her even more.
After 5 months of being in a relationship with her, she had an issue with her boyfriend and they broke up. The first lie she told me was that the boyfriend found out about me and this caused their break up. I hardly believe mere words so I didn’t believe her, I only noted those words she said with hopes of finding out the truth someday.
Now!! I ought to become the only man in her life right ?? oya come and see gobe!
After a while, she moved in with me and this was when I started to understand what the noun called “woman”. Relationship ought to be pure and sacred, but that’s not what it is now ooooo as the first red flag I saw in her where lies, Jesus!!! The girl tells lie at every glimpse, I started to trend with care.
One day I realized she was arranged for hookup, I swear, my head big that day... my girl friend that lives with me in my house wants to go have sex with a guy she has never seen nor does she know. Well, as a man who is eager to know, I confronted her but didn’t break up with her as I was curious to know what relationship really means.
Confronting her made me feel she’ll have a repentant mind set but guess what? The story just got more interesting. 3 months later she cheated on me, and yet again I caught her. She apologized and I forgave her almost immediately, I didn’t even show any sign of anger at all. As I felt she would this time have a repentant heart.
My dear nairalanders this girl has been cheating on me up and down, that I can’t even mention, I keep catching her and she keeps apologizing.
Please Note: I am financially doing very well as I am able to provide for all her needs, there is something I always brag about that there is nothing she ever asked from me that I didn’t provide.
Believe it or not, our sex life is perfect as I have seen a chat she had with a friend where she confessed nobody has ever had pleased her in bed like I do, I can stay in bed one hour and I’m a very romantic man.
She has never caught me cheating as I have always been faithful to her.
I’m saying all these to make the readers understand that the relationship actually lacks nothing. But still this girl finds it hard to close her legs.
Well, the last time I caught her having an affair with a married man, we quarreled and settled but believe me, the love is dead and buried.
So if you’re out there and you find a woman that’s manageable please adore her and make her feel special, the specie of a virtuous woman is going into extinction gradually but we’re yet to notice.
Just feel like sharing my own experience and I’m curious to see the comments that will follow. |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by omaira: 8:32am On Oct 12, 2022 |
SenecaTheYonger: How come no one wants to talk about why this is happening? It’s a common theme nowadays
Yeah, that’ll be a good topic of discussion. Can we share our individual opinion as to why this is becoming a norm is our society today ? |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by omaira: 8:34am On Oct 12, 2022 |
VladimirPutiin:
See what I told one of my guy this morning. Almost 80% of the guys in their mid 20s that thinks they’re in a serious relationship are victims to this circumstances. Why ? Why ?? Why . I guess this your friend must have seen some of the signs. |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by omaira: 8:38am On Oct 12, 2022 |
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Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by BigIyanga: 8:39am On Oct 12, 2022 |
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Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by VladimirPutiin(m): 8:43am On Oct 12, 2022 |
omaira:
Almost 80% of the guys in their mid 20s that thinks they’re in a serious relationship are victims to this circumstances. Why ? Why ?? Why .
I guess this your friend must have seen some of the signs. Many weak men are being raised today. Many don’t even understand the Redpill |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by omaira: 8:46am On Oct 12, 2022 |
VladimirPutiin:
Many weak men are being raised today. Many don’t even understand the Redpill Please What’s the meaning of redpill?? Kindly explain. |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by VladimirPutiin(m): 8:54am On Oct 12, 2022 |
omaira:
Please What’s the meaning of redpill??
Kindly explain. https:///MenRedPillJoin the telegram group using that link and you will learn a whole lot. Simping is the worst thing to happen to a man in this 21st century. |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by sammycipher(m): 9:35am On Oct 12, 2022 |
Mille:
The guy is a fool. You were dating someone on the side when he know she has a boyfriend. You should have stayed on the side collecting your share of the community, you decided to fall in love with a community pussy.
A wise man would have expected that someone else would take his place on the side when he graduated to the main boyfriend.
Lol. Imagine wanting to monopolize a community pussy, not to talk about getting married to one. Why the insults, u just posted like a child |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by EzegeNdiigbo: 9:40am On Oct 12, 2022 |
Yap omaira:
Lol... but they’re actually saying the truth. |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by omaira: 9:58am On Oct 12, 2022 |
sammycipher:
Why the insults, u just posted like a child . Never mind... just take the sense in his words and leave the senseless words. |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by omaira: 9:59am On Oct 12, 2022 |
EzegeNdiigbo: Yap
But why women be like this Is there no answer to this ? |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by omaira: 9:59am On Oct 12, 2022 |
VladimirPutiin:
https:///MenRedPill
Join the telegram group using that link and you will learn a whole lot. Simping is the worst thing to happen to a man in this 21st century. . I tried but not working. |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by omaira: 10:03am On Oct 12, 2022 |
RedCentaur: You are doing well.
Take your lessons and enjoy your new found peace. Relationship lessons Na wetin school no go fit teach ooooo ... Money can’t buy me the lessons and knowledge. It feels good being able to have a control over once emotions. |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by EzegeNdiigbo: 10:04am On Oct 12, 2022 |
The answer is ; How ya treat them.. Is gon' determine how they behaves when with you on relationship. omaira:
But why women be like this
Is there no answer to this ? |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by omaira: 10:15am On Oct 12, 2022 |
EzegeNdiigbo: The answer is ; How ya treat them.. Is gon' determine how they behaves when with you on relationship.
I disagree with you bro... I think the friends they keep affects them more.. I’m talking from experience bro... cos no matter how nice you try to treat a woman what her friends has to say matters a lot. Most annoying thing is that most of these friends are faking their life oooooo but the mumu gf that u have won’t know. One of her friend has come to my hse twice when she wasn’t around to pass the night. One of the visits was very dramatic as the friend called her to know her where about and she told the friend she was at her father’s place mean while she was with me but she just didn’t want to see the friend that day. 20 minutes later boom!!! The friend was at my door step knocking. To be sincere, I can attest to the fact that some of her friends wish to have a guy like me but I don’t know why she can’t see that and behave well. See some girls are psychic. There was a night I took her out with her friends guy!!! I over heard the friends praising me to her that she’s a lucky girl. But then she has another set of friends that are just different. See friends dey affect well well 3 Likes |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by Nobody: 10:16am On Oct 12, 2022 |
begoniaa:
So this is the contextual origin of this phrase.
I never knew.
It could have other meaning though |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by ebudola53c: 10:19am On Oct 12, 2022 |
true talktrue talk... |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by waititi: 10:20am On Oct 12, 2022 |
op your level of stupidity N simpism amazes me.i truly hope you have received sense by force |
Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by omaira: 10:22am On Oct 12, 2022 |
waititi: op your level of stupidity N simpism amazes me.i truly hope you have received sense by force . Lol... una no go kill me with laugh ooooo.. yes I have received sense but how I come take supid na Shey u didn’t see where I said this was my first ever serious relationship that I’ve been ?? |