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I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by balmingilead: 10:16am On Oct 12, 2022
Please I need advice. I and my husband had some issues and he asked me to leave. I left because my mum said we will settle the matter in her place that I should come. Some I packed my things and left with my children. When I got to mum place she called my husband but he refused to come. So I stayed with her for 3weeks and later went to my cousin place to stay. I pleade with my husband to take me and the children back but he refused.

Now when I left it wasn't up to 2weeks before he brought a lady to the house. The lady was staying with him.

After 4months with the help of God, his friends and some relatives he we settled the issues. And he brought us back to the house. But the problem now is he is insisting on marrying the girl. They are both serious on getting married. He even told me he brought me back because of my children that he is not my husband any more. That am only in his house because of the children.
I don't know what to do. We have been together since 2016. And I love
Him so much. He had treating to leave the house.
Now he complained of not having money, my 2 children have not resume school this term because of money. We don't have food in the house. But he is insisting on marrying that girl. The little money he have he will share with her. Am not happy because financially he is down and am ready to manage with him but he refused to leave this Hausa lady. He said he doesn't want to marry me any more. That am in his house because of the children. Please I need help. The lady in question live very close to our house.
Please advise me on what to do. I don't want my home to scatter
The lady said she must marry him.


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Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Abfinest007(m): 10:17am On Oct 12, 2022
What?
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Nobody: 10:18am On Oct 12, 2022
Damn!

It will be very insensitive of me to chook mouth base on ur own story..
Can u tell us what the issue u had with ur husband is all about, to the extent that ur mom called him and he refused...
Please God almighty, let it not be infidelity

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Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by silvoclaira: 10:18am On Oct 12, 2022


You are fictitious
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Olaoluwa112(m): 10:19am On Oct 12, 2022
The first mistake anyone could make in a relationship esp a woman is to choose to play a full role wife.

What's bad in you having your own job? What's bad in you being able to feed yourself and the kids?

Marriage doesn't stop you from being useful, imagine you talking in the house and your partner is telling you to stop talking simply because he is the one feeding your as$, let's stop this laziness type of marriage, it won't help you, he sees you as just a piece of shlt when obviously he put down everything you need for your living.

If you want to have a say in your marriage, please don't follow the gang of full house wife, get something doing, when the husband start misbehaving, you won't have to give a dam#, you will be able to do your things freely without anyone ordering you.

God will help you o, you done enter one chance if your story dey true.
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by redbull5: 10:23am On Oct 12, 2022
Madam, u 4got 2 tell us wot u did dat made him throw u out.

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Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by 2Radii: 10:23am On Oct 12, 2022
balmingilead:
Please I need advice. I and my husband had some issues and he asked me to leave. I left because my mum said we will settle the matter in her place that I should come. Some I packed my things and left with my children. When I got to mum place she called my husband but he refused to come. So I stayed with her for 3weeks and later went to my cousin place to stay. I pleade with my husband to take me and the children back but he refused.

Now when I left it wasn't up to 2weeks before he brought a lady to the house. The lady was staying with him.

After 4months with the help of God, his friends and some relatives he we settled the issues. And he brought us back to the house. But the problem now is he is insisting on marrying the girl. They are both serious on getting married. He even told me he brought me back because of my children that he is not my husband any more. That am only in his house because of the children.
I don't know what to do. We have been together since 2016. And I love
Him so much. He had treating to leave the house.
Now he complained of not having money, my 2 children have not resume school this term because of money. We don't have food in the house. But he is insisting on marrying that girl. The little money he have he will share with her. Am not happy because financially he is down and am ready to manage with him but he refused to leave this Hausa lady. He said he doesn't want to marry me any more. That am in his house because of the children. Please I need help. The lady in question live very close to our house.
Please advise me on what to do. I don't want my home to scatter
The lady said she must marry him.

What did you do to him Alaye??

Don't paint him black before us, tell us wat u did

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Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Sunnymatey(m): 10:37am On Oct 12, 2022
Pls market your product in peace
You don't need tell us thus story of imaginary marital bruhaha.
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Nyenom: 10:40am On Oct 12, 2022
grin grin
In conclusion, the said hausa gerl enjoyed ya hubby's gboola rods bar, he must marry her becos she uses kayan-mata all From the said or afermentioned herbal advertised therapuetical company.. Chai bros, una head get suspension oil
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Sweetvie: 10:42am On Oct 12, 2022
We will talk after you tell us what really happened grin

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Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by 3verblazing(m): 11:18am On Oct 12, 2022
This marriage sounds like you just carry Belle for bros. And as a result started living together as husband an wife. Else your mum will not just ask you to leave your matrimonial home like that. What happened to her coming to see you pple in ur house .. or inviting your husband without you leaving the house?

I think you lost respect in the eyes of oga. And it would take a miracle for you to earn it back.

Oga seff no too wise, you no get money you wan marry another wife. Sounds like kayanmata to me. Again it would take another miracle to save him from that Arewa kitten.

May the forces be with you on ur quest to saving your marriage.
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Ehinjuola: 1:26pm On Oct 12, 2022
balmingilead:
Please I need advice. I and my husband had some issues and he asked me to leave. I left because my mum said we will settle the matter in her place that I should come. Some I packed my things and left with my children. When I got to mum place she called my husband but he refused to come. So I stayed with her for 3weeks and later went to my cousin place to stay. I pleade with my husband to take me and the children back but he refused.

Now when I left it wasn't up to 2weeks before he brought a lady to the house. The lady was staying with him.

After 4months with the help of God, his friends and some relatives he we settled the issues. And he brought us back to the house. But the problem now is he is insisting on marrying the girl. They are both serious on getting married. He even told me he brought me back because of my children that he is not my husband any more. That am only in his house because of the children.
I don't know what to do. We have been together since 2016. And I love
Him so much. He had treating to leave the house.
Now he complained of not having money, my 2 children have not resume school this term because of money. We don't have food in the house. But he is insisting on marrying that girl. The little money he have he will share with her. Am not happy because financially he is down and am ready to manage with him but he refused to leave this Hausa lady. He said he doesn't want to marry me any more. That am in his house because of the children. Please I need help. The lady in question live very close to our house.
Please advise me on what to do. I don't want my home to scatter
The lady said she must marry him.


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+2348050505666

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Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Tegabadguy(m): 1:39pm On Oct 12, 2022
balmingilead:
Please I need advice. I and my husband had some issues and he asked me to leave. I left because my mum said we will settle the matter in her place that I should come. Some I packed my things and left with my children. When I got to mum place she called my husband but he refused to come. So I stayed with her for 3weeks and later went to my cousin place to stay. I pleade with my husband to take me and the children back but he refused.

Now when I left it wasn't up to 2weeks before he brought a lady to the house. The lady was staying with him.

After 4months with the help of God, his friends and some relatives he we settled the issues. And he brought us back to the house. But the problem now is he is insisting on marrying the girl. They are both serious on getting married. He even told me he brought me back because of my children that he is not my husband any more. That am only in his house because of the children.
I don't know what to do. We have been together since 2016. And I love
Him so much. He had treating to leave the house.
Now he complained of not having money, my 2 children have not resume school this term because of money. We don't have food in the house. But he is insisting on marrying that girl. The little money he have he will share with her. Am not happy because financially he is down and am ready to manage with him but he refused to leave this Hausa lady. He said he doesn't want to marry me any more. That am in his house because of the children. Please I need help. The lady in question live very close to our house.
Please advise me on what to do. I don't want my home to scatter
The lady said she must marry him.


We wish all Naralander's a good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease.
if you want to live a good health and live long, you can contact Balm In Gilead Natural Therapy Center to get FREE consultation -
+2348055515629
+2348034875234
+2348050505666
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