NawtiKingRealer:


Nothing "like if he loves her", no dey throw that card abeg. She be dog or cat wey him go dey pet?! She be adult, she know what she really wants. Op, i repeat again, dump that stupid empty basket. You loved a wrong person

Lol I don't know if he loves her. Am just saying U know how ppl can be wen they love someone n won't let go no matter what they do. I just suggested wat he could do if that's the case U grab

Sometimes we want to feel special. There was a girl I was talking to, she normally call me pet names and give me so attention I was happy probably she is feeling me, until I found out she does it to every other guy I lost interest. Lol

NobleDeSage001:
Why not ask her about what moves her emotions?
Maybe she is expecting some other things. Find out and take up it from there.
Her response will tell you if she is worth your time and energy or not...

haa!
ask her what moves her emotions?
he will end up being enslaved.

BiggyB242:
Sometimes we want to feel special. There was a girl I was talking to, she normally call me pet names and give me so attention I felt so happy probably she is feeling me until I found out she does it to every other I lost interest. Lol

she was love bombing you!
na game !

baralatie:

she was love bombing you!
na game !

As a sharp warri guy I just code.

Gift, money or materialistic things isn't pushing her, I think you need to see that there is more than that. Maybe she is not feeling the spark.

...

Your responsibility isn't to make your woman, or anyone, happy; instead, your responsibility is to do what you know is always right, and expect nothing less plus appreciation from her - of course, you must always appreciate her good deed too. Failure to abide by this rule, you'll always use servility to sustain your relationship, and the result is whining and heartbreak. A woman who's genuine interest and intention on you'll always feel happy and contented provided that you do what's right, while the one who comes into your life to rip you off and ruin you won't always feel happy and contented, especially when the right thing you do didn't favor her. Walking on this lane entails that you must possess selflessness and grit - stay conscientious.

RightToReject:

Your responsibility isn't to make your woman, or anyone, happy; instead, your responsibility is to do what you know is right always, and expect nothing less plus appreciation from her - of course, you must always appreciate her good deed too. Failure to abide by this rule, you'll always use servility to sustain your relationship, and the result is whining and heartbreak. A woman who's genuine interest and intention on you'll always feel happy and contented provided that you do what's right, while the one comes into your life to rip you off and ruin you'll not always feel happy and contented, especially when the right thing you did didn't favor her. Two things you must possess to walk on this lane are selflessness and grit.

hmm

daifeanyi68844:
See enh, I just don't understand my babe o. I'd do anything to make her happy. I have helped a lot of times and stuff. I'm not financially buoyant but I'd go out of my way to make sure she is happy.
This night I asked her to choose from a set of nice watch I wanted to get for her. What she said really made me angry. She said tbh all the things I do for her doesn't move her at all that I would do the same thing for other people.
She gets angry when I help people. I just don't understand her sometimes.

Rule number 1 of alpha males.. Stop giving a fvck and act like she doesn't exist.. Women naturally hate nice guys

dukeprince50:
She's probably not the materialistic type, why not find what works for her.
Money and gifts won't make every lady happy, find out what makes her happy, some people only need ur attention more than anything else, some needs to have romantic relationship.

I think he spoilt her or something

daifeanyi68844:
See enh, I just don't understand my babe o. I'd do anything to make her happy. I have helped a lot of times and stuff. I'm not financially buoyant but I'd go out of my way to make sure she is happy.
This night I asked her to choose from a set of nice watch I wanted to get for her. What she said really made me angry. She said tbh all the things I do for her doesn't move her at all that I would do the same thing for other people.
She gets angry when I help people. I just don't understand her sometimes.

Cc iLegendd

Mrscarter:


Lol I don't know if he loves her. Am just saying U know how ppl can be wen they love someone n won't let go no matter what they do. I just suggested wat he could do if that's the case U grab

You dont know if he loves her? Which kind talk you dey vomit so? Even Jesus wey love him people reach, him discharge dem as dem reject and no appreciate him love. Is the op responsible for her stupid loveless character he's getting 4rm her despite showing her love? U come dey use victim logic wey no follow. Make she park one side jare! If you don born, teach and train your daughter well well, no wait and expect till her future guy go do the teaching, make she no waste the guy time and love like water wey dem pour for empty basket. Too many senseless and ill brought up girls everywhere.

Mrscarter:


Lol I don't know if he loves her. Am just saying U know how ppl can be wen they love someone n won't let go no matter what they do. I just suggested wat he could do if that's the case U grab

If married men stay faithful and young guys stay focus u would find out that its actually girls who need guys not the other way round

Ebuka78:
If only you had given that watch to your mum...

The kind of blessing that would be following you ehh plus tears of joy from mum.


Forget GF for now and focus on making money. They are just a distraction. At the end, you will not marry her, neither can she wait for you.



So, who is the fool here?

Who is the loser here?

Use your brain.

Fact.

Op can you send me just 2k, qoute me if you want to ask question

NawtiKingRealer:


You dont know if he loves her? Which kind talk you dey vomit so? Even Jesus wey love him people reach, him discharge dem as dem reject and no appreciate him love. Is the op responsible for her stupid loveless character he's getting 4rm her despite showing her love? U come dey use victim logic wey no follow. Make she park one side jare! If you don born, teach and train your daughter well well, no wait and expect till her future guy go do the teaching, make she no waste the guy time and love like water wey dem pour for empty basket. Too many senseless and ill brought up girls everywhere.

Lol calm down guy.
U know how sum ppl are. I can't help if he loves her or not. I'm just making a suggestion what he can do if he feels he does. Dnt blame me for wat stupid girls do or stupid decisions guys make for that matter lol. Nor for mothers who don't raise their kids Wella. I couldn't care less if he dump her ungrateful ass.
I mean if he didn't have any feelings for the girl he'd not come on NL asking advice. If he didn't love her he'd just dump her ass.
Idc either way.

ufotty2001:

If married men stay faithful and young guys stay focus u would find out that its actually girls who need guys not the other way round

I think they need each other.
Then again depends on the person n wat kinda person they are. Some ppl are more emotional n need a partner n some are happy to be on their own. Relationships n how they work are really different in alot of ways compared to other parts of the world. In Naija I think alot of girls tend to need men more financially. In other parts of the world things are more even in that aspect and more ppl are together out of love.
But I think it's natural they need each other. It's how God created us

Mrscarter:


Lol calm down guy.
U know how sum ppl are. I can't help if he loves her or not. I'm just making a suggestion what he can do if he feels he does. Dnt blame me for wat stupid girls do or stupid decisions guys make for that matter lol. Nor for mothers who don't raise their kids Wella. I couldn't care less if he dump her ungrateful ass.
I mean if he didn't have any feelings for the girl he'd not come on NL asking advice. If he didn't love her he'd just dump her ass.
Idc either way.

Madam lamba lamba. No wahala sha. How weekend dey go na? Food dey kitchen make i come chop?

If you've listened to the RedPillers Quotes, you wouldn't have this problem

You are wasting your time and your resources ...I hate Nonsense

2dice01:
Genesis of your problem @Bolded

Did your parent do everything to make you happy?

Did God make Jesus happy when Jesus said he wish the clock can pass over him?

Is Buhari making you Happy

What has she done to make you happy since you guys started dating?


Think about all i ask
Your answer is staring at you

you're one of the wisest men here on NL.

Sorry is ur NAME! This one never know 9ja girls.

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

Listen my brother.

That girl is not good for you.

Listen to the advice of the ones who advised you against her.

Don't fall among th fools.

See enh, I just don't understand my babe o. I'd do anything to make her happy. I have helped a lot of times and stuff. I'm not financially buoyant but I'd go out of my way to make sure she is happy.
This night I asked her to choose from a set of nice watch I wanted to get for her. What she said really made me angry. She said tbh all the things I do for her doesn't move her at all that I would do the same thing for other people.
She gets angry when I help people. I just don't understand her sometimes.

See enh, I just don't understand my babe o. I'd do anything to make her happy. I have helped a lot of times and stuff. I'm not financially buoyant but I'd go out of my way to make sure she is happy.
This night I asked her to choose from a set of nice watch I wanted to get for her. What she said really made me angry. She said tbh all the things I do for her doesn't move her at all that I would do the same thing for other people.
She gets angry when I help people. I just don't understand her sometimes.

You are too nice that's why she detest you stop helping her financially you are not her parents
See her when is necessary and find another side chick

obontami:


you're one of the wisest men here on NL.

Appreciate man

We learn everyday

See enh, I just don't understand my babe o. I'd do anything to make her happy. I have helped a lot of times and stuff. I'm not financially buoyant but I'd go out of my way to make sure she is happy.
This night I asked her to choose from a set of nice watch I wanted to get for her. What she said really made me angry. She said tbh all the things I do for her doesn't move her at all that I would do the same thing for other people.
She gets angry when I help people. I just don't understand her sometimes.

Bitter truth is that the girl no appreciate you. And you investing your time, effort and resources will lead to premium breakfast.

Receive brain and leave the relationship ASAP.
Relationship no suppose hard. Na wrong partner dey make am hard.

See enh, I just don't understand my babe o. I'd do anything to make her happy. I have helped a lot of times and stuff. I'm not financially buoyant but I'd go out of my way to make sure she is happy.
This night I asked her to choose from a set of nice watch I wanted to get for her. What she said really made me angry. She said tbh all the things I do for her doesn't move her at all that I would do the same thing for other people.
She gets angry when I help people. I just don't understand her sometimes.

Believe me bro, you've not even understood her reason for being dissatisfied with what you're offering to her. First thing first, that girl is not happy in the relationship that's why what you're offering to her doesn't move her. You just first find out what is missing in the relationship that makes her not to be happy.

Women are a very tender creature, that you must handle with Care. I repeat handle with Care!!!

You can message me privately and I'll be happy to talk you towards understanding her very well.

sniperr007:


Bitter truth is that the girl no appreciate you. And you investing your time, effort and resources will lead to premium breakfast.

Receive brain and leave the relationship ASAP.
Relationship no suppose hard. And wrong partner dey make am hard.

You don't just leave a relationship without trying to make it work. If what he just explained is enough reason to leave a relationship then you better remain single cos these are things that we find common in people's relationship we just have to figure out what has not yet been done or what has been wrongly done.

Remember the girl saw other guys but choose to date him in the first place. And they must have been happy in the initial times until something comes up. So bro, i'll advise you try to make it work before thinking otherwise.

Brunosamel:
You are too nice that's why she detest you stop helping her financially you are not her parents
See her when is necessary and find another side chick

These are manipulative measures that leads to a toxic relationship. If he likes her and she likes him too, there are better ways to handle this.

Savedday:
Sorry is ur NAME! This one never know 9ja girls.

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

You are very correct when you say girls don't love because of the society we're in today it is difficult for a girl uphold all the attributes that can quantify a genuine love. But a loyal girl will always RESPECT their man. And if she's truly his girl, she owes him some respect.

omaira:


These are manipulative measures that leads to a toxic relationship. If he likes her and she likes him too, there are better ways to handle this.

Nothing like toxic relationships it's all invented by the west toxic masculinity tell someone who's in toxic relationships to leave his or her partner and they will despise you a freeman should put himself first before anything else the only exception is his kids since they aren't married he should stop please his girlfriend instead it should be the other way round