Persephone1:
BTW why does it look like guys are seriously trying to convince ladies to "build" with them. Una no do "forget hoes chase the bag " anymore ni? Abi Buhari economy don bend una

Build yourself, get a woman that has built herself too, meet at a middle ground and get married. . Life no hard.

Tenrack:
realest G on the app. I for marry you but..

Rozross:
but what?

Tenrack:
so you wouldn't date a man with huge potentials, even if he has all the qualities you desire?

What is potentials?

Tenrack:
I neva get money na I wish you all the best things in life though. I admire your realness

Persephone1:
What is potentials?

Rozross:
May God bless you abundantly in no distant time. Keep working hard and play by the rules of life and Godly wealth.

virginprincess:
I will gladly settle down with anyone God gives to me,but i will kind of prefer an already made man because me i can't come and start struggling for survival in my husband house and i won't want my unborn children to be into a life of struggle,i want the best for them,and pls when i mean an already made man i don't mean he must be wealthy like dangote and the rest but at least he should have a good source of income that can comfortably take care of i and our unborn kids,but if i see a man with a very bright future that is a man with a purpose,a man with potential not yet made,a man with big dreams not yet achieved,i will gladly marry him and help him discover those potentials.

Persephone1:
I would build with 'myself' and marry a ready made man .


I no be Rob the builder

folake4u:
When I nor be Barbara the builder? Tor!

Tenrack:
lol. Haba. Let's say a guy working on his craft, already making a bit of money, but barely enough for his rent and feeding and sustenance. He has a huge dream and is making small small progress. Don't be mean please. I'm trying to understand you better.

jeromestarks:

Ready made man will have no reason to respect you. I hope you know that?

Read made man will cheat on you because there's nothing special about you that other girls he has met don't have. I hope you know that?


A ready made man might have ex he can't break free from ( there's always a woman who has struggled with a man at a certain point in his life). He might not be married to her but he will definitely value her more than you. I hope you know that?

GloriousGbola:


It's Bob the builder tho... unless you are talking about Rob the piper...

Persephone1:
If I find myself at this position i wouldn't date myself. Perhaps years ago when I was naive about how the world works.

I'm an advocate balance and I believe Relationship flourish when partners are equal or closely equal in what they have to offer. True Love and respect is borne when two individuals naturally come together without the 'need' to. Needs which may be materials and none material. You enjoy true companionship when both partners genuinely look out for one another and that can only come if you as an individual is satisfied and relaxed within you. If you are struggling with a demon within you, it's only a matter of time before your partner becomes your baseball stick. If you aren't satisfied with your achievement as a man it's only a matter of time before you see your partner as an hindrance to your progress. If a woman isn't accomplished within her, in years to come she would see her husband as an excuse for her failure. So what time do you have to achieve some things for yourselves if not when you are youthful and single?
Again, I do not believe in a relationship where I have to respect my man because my next meal ticket lies with him or where he would have to cope with me because I'm the least he could get. You dig?

That said, who is a ready made man? Does a ready made man have no potentials? Has he exhausted his potentials? Answer this and I would respond with my thoughts.,

folake4u:


It's now the broke man that respects woman and not cheat abi?

Keep deceiving yourself.

You dey mind them.

When in the real sense of things you only know a man's true nature when he is financially accomplished.

Persephone1:
You dey mind them.

When in the real sense of things you only know a man's true nature when he is financially accomplished.

Rozross:
I'll rather marry an already made man, i deserve a soft life because i don't know how to grind and i don't have power.May God bless me with a very soft life that i truly deserve. Though a broke or hustling man has never approached me all my life, it's an indication that i'll live a very soft life.

Stephen2324:
As a young lady, would you rather build with a man or marry an already made man?

Discuss and give your reasons.

Men are free to query you but do not insult any lady for her own opinion.

frozen70:


I will gladly build with a man from scratch to finish

My reason is for me to make impact into his life, my family and have a say in my marriage

That's all

Rozross:
I dont have problems playing my roles but i dont know how to grind,some men would want you to be out there making money like them and i dont have the power for such, God knows my weakness and will make up for me. The highest grind i can do is to get a very good FG job, i cant do more than that. Why are you trying to give another meaning to the word Dependent